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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's hard to be positive on here when so many idiots exist on it.. then there is them who don't even give you a chance.. so I say what us the point on here???

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Fookin'ell dude, you've been here 2 weeks and you're moaning already! Nice one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fookin'ell dude, you've been here 2 weeks and you're moaning already! Nice one "

You telling me you don't see it yourself?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Fookin'ell dude, you've been here 2 weeks and you're moaning already! Nice one

You telling me you don't see it yourself?"

Depends what you mean by idiots? Just ignore them and concentrate on what you want from this site

I've been on here for 10 yrs now, but it took me over 7 months before I got my first meet. Us guys heavily outnumber the ladies on here so you have to have patience

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

Fill out your profile, tell people about yourself, what you like, what you can offer.

Try going to a club or two and see if people will verify you...

There are plenty of threads with advice on filling out profiles, look them up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's hard to be positive on here when so many idiots exist on it.. then there is them who don't even give you a chance.. so I say what us the point on here???"

To be fair OP, you've been on here for two weeks. It takes time for a single man to get a meet on here. You need patience and perseverance. I would point out though, given the the high ratio of men to women on this site, you are not giving yourself a fair crack of the whip. Your profile pic is a mere shadow, therefore does not stand out at all. I know that you have friend's pics, but perhaps put up a proper avatar? One with no identifiable characteristics if you are worried about being discovered. Many do, and they tend to be far more successful than a person with no public profile pics. Women tend to avoid replying to a shadow.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff


"It's hard to be positive on here when so many idiots exist on it.. then there is them who don't even give you a chance.. so I say what us the point on here???

To be fair OP, you've been on here for two weeks. It takes time for a single man to get a meet on here. You need patience and perseverance. I would point out though, given the the high ratio of men to women on this site, you are not giving yourself a fair crack of the whip. Your profile pic is a mere shadow, therefore does not stand out at all. I know that you have friend's pics, but perhaps put up a proper avatar? One with no identifiable characteristics if you are worried about being discovered. Many do, and they tend to be far more successful than a person with no public profile pics. Women tend to avoid replying to a shadow. "

The woman speaketh sense .

I'm afraid you've completely misjudged this place, like almost all of us guys when you joined. All these women - wow!

Yeah, all these women who get inundated with messages from guys and can't possibly reply to all of them.

You've got to be patient and build a presence on here. Men outnumber women enormously.

You'll get nowhere without a profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you see no point being on here then why are you still here? I'm not saying leave but with no effort being made on your part, profile wise, you will just spend your days making the same statements. Then later move on to why can't I get any meets etc.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"It's hard to be positive on here when so many idiots exist on it.. then there is them who don't even give you a chance.. so I say what us the point on here???

To be fair OP, you've been on here for two weeks. It takes time for a single man to get a meet on here. You need patience and perseverance. I would point out though, given the the high ratio of men to women on this site, you are not giving yourself a fair crack of the whip. Your profile pic is a mere shadow, therefore does not stand out at all. I know that you have friend's pics, but perhaps put up a proper avatar? One with no identifiable characteristics if you are worried about being discovered. Many do, and they tend to be far more successful than a person with no public profile pics. Women tend to avoid replying to a shadow. "

A lot of the above s true OP but this site does work I've been back on here using my profile for around two months now I have had a few socials in that time been invited to a few last minute meets by couples that have been let down .which I've had to decline because I don't meet at the last minute for obvious reasons .

I have no idea why my experience of site life is so different from yours .I also do not trawl profiles asking for meets OP I just respond to status updates and forum posts .

I feel for my fellow men on here that do not get any attention come there way but I will say this OP one reaps what one sows by that I mean one must have a reasonable interesting profile one must have a clear idea of what one is offering and what one wants followed by a few interesting pictures followed by giving freely of ones thoughts in the forum.

All those things will help you stand out from the crowd and really OP because of the numbers game that is something you really need to do as a guy on here .

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You be been here 2 weeks, OP, and seen the result of minimal effort. Your call.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to ppl properly gentleman an noto (wana fuck) chat get to know people joint in in chat room introduce urself then give it 12 month see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eeyore," said Owl, "Christopher Robin is giving a party."

"Very interesting," said Eeyore. "I suppose they will be sending me down the odd bits which got trodden on. Kind and Thoughtful. Not at all, don't mention it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to build a rapport with the ladies skip in a few compliments don't push for a meet and if you can get to a social or club go and meet people but patience my young padwa is key it took me 2 months before I got my first meet and that was 3 profiles ago 3 yrs ago and now I have a small nucleus of ladies I regularly chat and meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's hard to be positive on here when so many idiots exist on it.. then there is them who don't even give you a chance.. so I say what us the point on here???

To be fair OP, you've been on here for two weeks. It takes time for a single man to get a meet on here. You need patience and perseverance. I would point out though, given the the high ratio

of men to women on this site, you are not giving yourself a fair crack of the whip. Your profile pic is a mere shadow, therefore does not stand out at all. I know that you have friend's pics, but perhaps put up a proper avatar? One with no identifiable characteristics if you are worried about being discovered. Many do, and they tend to be far more successful than a person with no public profile pics. Women tend to avoid replying to a shadow. "

OK I get it.. I did have profile picture and pictures up for people to see but all I got was men liking them and sending me msgs.. it put me off and I have also notice the ladies don't really look at my profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need to build a rapport with the ladies skip in a few compliments don't push for a meet and if you can get to a social or club go and meet people but patience my young padwa is key it took me 2 months before I got my first meet and that was 3 profiles ago 3 yrs ago and now I have a small nucleus of ladies I regularly chat and meet "

OK

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It's hard to be positive on here when so many idiots exist on it.. then there is them who don't even give you a chance.. so I say what us the point on here???

To be fair OP, you've been on here for two weeks. It takes time for a single man to get a meet on here. You need patience and perseverance. I would point out though, given the the high ratio

of men to women on this site, you are not giving yourself a fair crack of the whip. Your profile pic is a mere shadow, therefore does not stand out at all. I know that you have friend's pics, but perhaps put up a proper avatar? One with no identifiable characteristics if you are worried about being discovered. Many do, and they tend to be far more successful than a person with no public profile pics. Women tend to avoid replying to a shadow.

OK I get it.. I did have profile picture and pictures up for people to see but all I got was men liking them and sending me msgs.. it put me off and I have also notice the ladies don't really look at my profile."

If you don't like men liking your photo, don't look to see who fabbed them then you won't know. Or have them as unfabbable. You can block men from messaging. Basically, make the site work for you and be proactive not reactive. You don't know who has looked. I, for example, looked but I don't show up on your 'whose looked at me list'.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

Aye, just block men if it bothers you.

Women absolutely do look at profiles . They might see a photo or a post first, but the profile is the vital next step if those pique their interest.

Loads of women look in stealth mode, so it's pointless trying to establish how many have looked.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.


"It's hard to be positive on here when so many idiots exist on it.. then there is them who don't even give you a chance.. so I say what us the point on here???

To be fair OP, you've been on here for two weeks. It takes time for a single man to get a meet on here. You need patience and perseverance. I would point out though, given the the high ratio

of men to women on this site, you are not giving yourself a fair crack of the whip. Your profile pic is a mere shadow, therefore does not stand out at all. I know that you have friend's pics, but perhaps put up a proper avatar? One with no identifiable characteristics if you are worried about being discovered. Many do, and they tend to be far more successful than a person with no public profile pics. Women tend to avoid replying to a shadow.

OK I get it.. I did have profile picture and pictures up for people to see but all I got was men liking them and sending me msgs.. it put me off and I have also notice the ladies don't really look at my profile."

Remember you can your profile so it doesn't show up on the "who looked at me" list.

So 200 women may have looked at you and you would never know...

Try finding a local social meet, a good way to get to know people...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been here over 3 months and still no meet. Hey ho

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