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Which do you prefer Muscle Bond or Average Guy ????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I prefer the average kind of guy, who eager to please, or more than worried bout, how he looks ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average guy, i aint sharing my mirror with anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Muscles do nowt for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

slim but toned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how would you picture 6.5, 17 stonne?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don't care, he doesn't have to be even breathing for me. Anyone got a blow up man doll

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By *ertnbeckyCouple
over a year ago

oldham

is muscle bond james's brother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes it is, he is the average one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer the average kind of guy, who eager to please, or more than worried bout, how he looks ????"

In fairness, just because someone enjoys the gym of keeps fit for work, doesn't mean they can't pass a mirror without looking in it.

And just because they don't, doesn't mean they are "eager to please" because they feel they have to make up for something.

Why the stereotypes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love me a lot...Mwah X to Me

Sausage!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Looks are not unimportant but of secondary importance to me - a "Chippendale" (I can just see the comments coming ... , well a Chippendale (to use the cliche) without a personality or brain is nothing more than an animated dildo except some communication so there I would be better off with the dildo..

So in conclusion : A relatively normal, unconventional guy with a huge smile, sense of humour and imagination... anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s with these popular misconceptions on here that only average men can have a nice personality?

I'll take a chippendale over Chris Evans any day of the week

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"What’s with these popular misconceptions on here that only average men can have a nice personality?

I'll take a chippendale over Chris Evans any day of the week "

Not at all... it would be a bit like saying attractive women cant be intelligent or fun. I only meant to say that personality would be more important to me ..but if they have both.. well thats awesome.

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By *nkednkinky_bbwWoman
over a year ago

cannock

I like a guy somewhere in between the two......some muscles but not meathead type muscles

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By *igco51Man
over a year ago

lockerbie

any like my body hehe

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

hmmmmmmmm wonder if there is any hope for a greying ex athlete with a bit of a party 7

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"hmmmmmmmm wonder if there is any hope for a greying ex athlete with a bit of a party 7 "

You re through to the finals

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"hmmmmmmmm wonder if there is any hope for a greying ex athlete with a bit of a party 7

You re through to the finals "

awwwww thank you xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mr and mrs average works for us after all were no super models either lol

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London


"I prefer the average kind of guy, who eager to please, or more than worried bout, how he looks ????

In fairness, just because someone enjoys the gym of keeps fit for work, doesn't mean they can't pass a mirror without looking in it.

And just because they don't, doesn't mean they are "eager to please" because they feel they have to make up for something.

Why the stereotypes?"

I agree! - not that I'm muscle bound exactly, but I do enjoy keeping in shape and it doesn't make me shallow or vain. I hope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mr and mrs average works for us after all were no super models either lol"

I find comments like this strange. You lower your sights because you don't think you're worthy?!!

I'm fat and don't find fat men sexually attractive. By your thinking I should as I'm no supermodel.

I can pick, choose and refuse who I play with. The day I "settle" will be the day before I dump my toy trunk and head off to join the Sisters of Mercy singing Eiderwies (sp)!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"mr and mrs average works for us after all were no super models either lol

I find comments like this strange. You lower your sights because you don't think you're worthy?!!

I'm fat and don't find fat men sexually attractive. By your thinking I should as I'm no supermodel.

I can pick, choose and refuse who I play with. The day I "settle" will be the day before I dump my toy trunk and head off to join the Sisters of Mercy singing Eiderwies (sp)! "

Actually I quite agree with that statement - had not thought about it in this way. It seems to be more about how one sees oneself... as worthy or less worthy... hence the expectation of matching one's own perceived attractiveness.. To me it is not about that at all, its about being comfy within your own skin. So seconded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A toned ripped body is always nice. I look after myself and like guys who do the same. I like a guy who has the stamina to keep up and who doesn't drip sweat all over the place after 2 minutes exertion.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I was waiting on the "stereotype" arguement to come along... because i thought i was living in bizarro world the other weak when the people with "six packs" were complaining about not getting meets....

if that is what people have to solely rely on... i.e i have a six pack therefore I am owed... then they are no different and should be given the same scorn as people who think just because they are black they should get a meet.... or just because they have a big cock they should get a meet...

people have been guilty of stereotyping thru the thread on both sides.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer the average kind of guy, who eager to please, or more than worried bout, how he looks ????"

Mr average or Mr slightly toned looks after himself

Although great to look at

Quite often found muscle ripped men to be to small in the right department

Although happy to be proved wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was waiting on the "stereotype" arguement to come along... because i thought i was living in bizarro world the other weak when the people with "six packs" were complaining about not getting meets....

if that is what people have to solely rely on... i.e i have a six pack therefore I am owed... then they are no different and should be given the same scorn as people who think just because they are black they should get a meet.... or just because they have a big cock they should get a meet...

people have been guilty of stereotyping thru the thread on both sides.....

"

True but you like what you like

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"I prefer the average kind of guy, who eager to please, or more than worried bout, how he looks ????

Mr average or Mr slightly toned looks after himself

Although great to look at

Quite often found muscle ripped men to be to small in the right department

Although happy to be proved wrong

"

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

I go to the gym, hate mirrors with a vengeance. It should be down to personalities, and chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i stopped being shallow when i hit 17. i care about the person...if there was a type then he would be a big bugger

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"i stopped being shallow when i hit 17. i care about the person...if there was a type then he would be a big bugger"

Can we dance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i stopped being shallow when i hit 17. i care about the person...if there was a type then he would be a big bugger

Can we dance? "

if you promise not to tread on my toes

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over a year ago

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"i stopped being shallow when i hit 17. i care about the person...if there was a type then he would be a big bugger

Can we dance?

if you promise not to tread on my toes "

My word is my bond

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i stopped being shallow when i hit 17. i care about the person...if there was a type then he would be a big bugger

Can we dance?

if you promise not to tread on my toes

My word is my bond "

...you didn't give it

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Ive played with some guys that have had really fit bodies and ive played with guys that have been just average

Each of them has been gorgeous in my eyes

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Ive played with some guys that have had really fit bodies and ive played with guys that have been just average

Each of them has been gorgeous in my eyes "

thats the point... but what you get now in this thread are people with six packs promoting themselves on the fact they have a six pack....

oh the irony... and thanks for proving my point lads....

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"i stopped being shallow when i hit 17. i care about the person...if there was a type then he would be a big bugger

Can we dance?

if you promise not to tread on my toes

My word is my bond

...you didn't give it"

No toes will be trod on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a guy who has the stamina to keep up and who doesn't drip sweat all over the place after 2 minutes exertion. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive played with some guys that have had really fit bodies and ive played with guys that have been just average

Each of them has been gorgeous in my eyes

thats the point... but what you get now in this thread are people with six packs promoting themselves on the fact they have a six pack....

oh the irony... and thanks for proving my point lads...."

Don't forget the folk that think none-gym fit bodies = no stamina + sweaty sex

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I like a guy who has the stamina to keep up and who doesn't drip sweat all over the place after 2 minutes exertion. "

I am close to getting my "rant" head on.... stuff like that doesn't help the mindset....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

OH NOOOOO! not the rant head!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a guy who has the stamina to keep up and who doesn't drip sweat all over the place after 2 minutes exertion.

I am close to getting my "rant" head on.... stuff like that doesn't help the mindset...."

It dose nothing for a woman under it either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....what happened to personal preference?!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


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Don't forget the folk that think none-gym fit bodies = no stamina + sweaty sex "

that says a lot more about the the people writing those sort of generalisations... me... can't be arsed....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm no 6-pack Adonis but I'd like to think I hold my own, in a non-metaphoric sense!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Don't forget the folk that think none-gym fit bodies = no stamina + sweaty sex "

fit people also sweat as the body is attempting to cool itself down sweat in itself doesn't prove someone is unfit. everyone needs to look from every angle before making sweeping statements....this isn't aimed at anyone in particular...peace out

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


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It dose nothing for a woman under it either. "

okay then.... here is an example that was given earlier on by a bloke and it was ignored by either one.... the one who was 6ft 5 and 17 stone...

okay... look at it like this... would you call the england rugby union team "gym fit".....

i am guessing that besides the 9 and 10... scrum and fly half.... everyone else on that team would be considered to be overweight or obese...

so 13 of the 15...

how about basketball... other than ya point guard... everyone would be overweight...

4 of the 5.....

rugby league.... fatties...

american football..... fatties....

feel a theme coming on here....

I am all for personal preference... but never confuse being toned for being fit... because when one of these "overweight" people beat you in something, whats ya excuse then????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Don't forget the folk that think none-gym fit bodies = no stamina + sweaty sex

fit people also sweat as the body is attempting to cool itself down sweat in itself doesn't prove someone is unfit. everyone needs to look from every angle before making sweeping statements....this isn't aimed at anyone in particular...peace out "

totally agree...i work with a girl who's a size 4 and she sweats a good 'un and stinks a honk....said with peace also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God some of you are so touchy! Its a fact fat people sweat more and so do unfit people. Larger volume to surface area, fat to insulate organs! Its a fact but tuck into your burger and chips and tell your self its not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Don't forget the folk that think none-gym fit bodies = no stamina + sweaty sex

fit people also sweat as the body is attempting to cool itself down sweat in itself doesn't prove someone is unfit. everyone needs to look from every angle before making sweeping statements....this isn't aimed at anyone in particular...peace out

totally agree...i work with a girl who's a size 4 and she sweats a good 'un and stinks a honk....said with peace also"

glad someone's got my back! most people have opinions based on experience, so it's unfair for anyone to judge people on their views as they are justified by what they have seen. but doen't make these opinions right. the sweat thing is pure biology baby!! i personally like women with a bit of meat on them....everyone has their preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

plus i have a cousin who is gym mad....fit as a fiddle and buff as u like.....he sweats more than me! lol anyway....if someone is sweating during a meet....doesnt that mean they are putting their all into it lol god...you lot are so critical haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Don't forget the folk that think none-gym fit bodies = no stamina + sweaty sex

fit people also sweat as the body is attempting to cool itself down sweat in itself doesn't prove someone is unfit. everyone needs to look from every angle before making sweeping statements....this isn't aimed at anyone in particular...peace out "

That's exactly why I pointed out the sweeping statement. Jeez, one of my ex's sweated profusely during sex and he was gym fit... my hubby is not gym fit but rarely sweats during rampant sex.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"God some of you are so touchy! Its a fact fat people sweat more and so do unfit people. Larger volume to surface area, fat to insulate organs! Its a fact but tuck into your burger and chips and tell your self its not. "

wow.... thanks for answering the points and questions I put to you.... highly enlightening....

signed....

sean.....

former county rugby league and union player..

former county basketball player..

former great britain and NFL europe american football player.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Don't forget the folk that think none-gym fit bodies = no stamina + sweaty sex

fit people also sweat as the body is attempting to cool itself down sweat in itself doesn't prove someone is unfit. everyone needs to look from every angle before making sweeping statements....this isn't aimed at anyone in particular...peace out

That's exactly why I pointed out the sweeping statement. Jeez, one of my ex's sweated profusely during sex and he was gym fit... my hubby is not gym fit but rarely sweats during rampant sex. "

oh, i am so sorry lol i was just backing your opinions....JEEEEZ!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God some of you are so touchy! Its a fact fat people sweat more and so do unfit people. Larger volume to surface area, fat to insulate organs! Its a fact but tuck into your burger and chips and tell your self its not.

wow.... thanks for answering the points and questions I put to you.... highly enlightening....

signed....

sean.....

former county rugby league and union player..

former county basketball player..

former great britain and NFL europe american football player.....

"

Elvis was a 'former' in his burger & chips twilight years, he was a former hunk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive played with some guys that have had really fit bodies and ive played with guys that have been just average

Each of them has been gorgeous in my eyes

thats the point... but what you get now in this thread are people with six packs promoting themselves on the fact they have a six pack....

oh the irony... and thanks for proving my point lads...."

who cares if they have a 6 pack or not, surely its the person that matters

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


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Elvis was a 'former' in his burger & chips twilight years, he was a former hunk! "

oooh... i feel some sort of challenge coming on.... but thanks for still not answering the questions...

lets keep going.... rowers.. oooh they would be considered obese...

ice hockey players are fatties

football players... fatters..

in fact the only people with any resmeblance of a six pack would be runners.... but then the sprinters would normally be considered mass wise thick (fat) or long distance runners... and they would probably be considered skinny....

I can keep going... most sportmen would be consider to be overweight if you were going by bmi or height/weight ratio

so like i said.. and at least i can back it up with evidence... never confuse being gym fit.. for being fit....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Elvis was a 'former' in his burger & chips twilight years, he was a former hunk!

oooh... i feel some sort of challenge coming on.... but thanks for still not answering the questions...

lets keep going.... rowers.. oooh they would be considered obese...

ice hockey players are fatties

football players... fatters..

in fact the only people with any resmeblance of a six pack would be runners.... but then the sprinters would normally be considered mass wise thick (fat) or long distance runners... and they would probably be considered skinny....

I can keep going... most sportmen would be consider to be overweight if you were going by bmi or height/weight ratio

so like i said.. and at least i can back it up with evidence... never confuse being gym fit.. for being fit...."

Hun i don't do sports so less of the still waiting thing its a bit childish. But no most sportsmen aren't overweight, footballers, track athletes and many others aren't. Pop your ipod on i think you are in need of an Elvis classic. Try 'Are you lonesome tonight' xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Don't forget the folk that think none-gym fit bodies = no stamina + sweaty sex

fit people also sweat as the body is attempting to cool itself down sweat in itself doesn't prove someone is unfit. everyone needs to look from every angle before making sweeping statements....this isn't aimed at anyone in particular...peace out

That's exactly why I pointed out the sweeping statement. Jeez, one of my ex's sweated profusely during sex and he was gym fit... my hubby is not gym fit but rarely sweats during rampant sex.

oh, i am so sorry lol i was just backing your opinions....JEEEEZ! "

JEEEEZ lol! I saw that pmsl... I was giving your post extra backbone... how funny x

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"God some of you are so touchy! Its a fact fat people sweat more and so do unfit people. Larger volume to surface area, fat to insulate organs! Its a fact but tuck into your burger and chips and tell your self its not.

wow.... thanks for answering the points and questions I put to you.... highly enlightening....

signed....

sean.....

former county rugby league and union player..

former county basketball player..

former great britain and NFL europe american football player.....

"

you forgot very sexy with it fabs, i never mind making u sweat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God some of you are so touchy! Its a fact fat people sweat more and so do unfit people. Larger volume to surface area, fat to insulate organs! Its a fact but tuck into your burger and chips and tell your self its not. "

What a load of rubbish, I work with some of the fittest people in my job and they sweat buckets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

James

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Don't forget the folk that think none-gym fit bodies = no stamina + sweaty sex

fit people also sweat as the body is attempting to cool itself down sweat in itself doesn't prove someone is unfit. everyone needs to look from every angle before making sweeping statements....this isn't aimed at anyone in particular...peace out

That's exactly why I pointed out the sweeping statement. Jeez, one of my ex's sweated profusely during sex and he was gym fit... my hubby is not gym fit but rarely sweats during rampant sex.

oh, i am so sorry lol i was just backing your opinions....JEEEEZ!

JEEEEZ lol! I saw that pmsl... I was giving your post extra backbone... how funny x"

ohhhhhhhhh, righhhhht.....i see that now. i suppose i owe you an apology....u aint getting it, but i should have x x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

mm What about a mussel 6 pack women are they a turn on??

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