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By *ophieslut OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Central

As we know - recent posts and others - some guys have some sexual contact with others. And some of them don't find men attractive.

If you don't find them attractive, does it matter how they look?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As we know - recent posts and others - some guys have some sexual contact with others. And some of them don't find men attractive.

If you don't find them attractive, does it matter how they look? "

Eh?

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By *rKinkedKuntMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"As we know - recent posts and others - some guys have some sexual contact with others. And some of them don't find men attractive.

If you don't find them attractive, does it matter how they look? "

Awkward one. I don't very often do it but when I do my only condition is I dont have to hold a gut up and no hair.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Men as is straight or gay

Is this adressed to men or women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no it doesn't, seeing as i'm not a man...

but i've experimented with women and seeing as i don't fancy them but just enjoyed trying things it didn't really matter to me as i wouldn't find them attractive no matter what they looked like. no offence to the people i've experimented with.

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By *ophieslut OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Eh?

Some guys say they have bi sex with men, situationally or otherwise. But despite having sex with guys, they insist that they don't find men attractive in the slightest.

As they say they don't fancy guys, I'm curious whether it doesn't matter what the other guy looks like. Whether he has film star looks or the opposite end of the looks spectrum. (Assuming his personality is reasonable).

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By *ophieslut OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Men as is straight or gay

Is this adressed to men or women "

It doesn't matter - my mind was fixated on men but as the lovely feir has shown with her answer - it's relevant to any gender.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely whatever the sexes combination you need to at least fancy them a bit if you're gonna 'get on down'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eh?

Some guys say they have bi sex with men, situationally or otherwise. But despite having sex with guys, they insist that they don't find men attractive in the slightest.

As they say they don't fancy guys, I'm curious whether it doesn't matter what the other guy looks like. Whether he has film star looks or the opposite end of the looks spectrum. (Assuming his personality is reasonable). "

Oh, I see.

Personally, I won't have sex with someone I don't fancy but I can't speak for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely whatever the sexes combination you need to at least fancy them a bit if you're gonna 'get on down'? "

might be true that women need more mental stimulation?

the scenario can be more of a turn on for me than the people in it. obviously if they're a douche or something then i won't fancy doing anything with them but otherwise i enjoy trying some new things if the opportunity arises.

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By *ophieslut OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Surely whatever the sexes combination you need to at least fancy them a bit if you're gonna 'get on down'? "

One would assume so but I've seen a number of posts where guys state they don't find men themselves attractive. We know many bi guys do find men and women attractive (imagine Joe saying he'll not just go with fifties, for example).

I guess we won't get many publicly owning up to bi sex, when they're claiming the straight identity - and saying they'll shag anything.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"As we know - recent posts and others - some guys have some sexual contact with others. And some of them don't find men attractive.

If you don't find them attractive, does it matter how they look? "

I'm openly bisexual. No big deal...*looks down*.....definitely no big deal...but I don't have sex with many men. Very rarely in fact. Looks and personality is what counts for me and although one would think for pure nsa sex, looks would come out on top, if the ultra good looking guy has the personality of a dead slug, he won't get near me. The two are balanced with personality tipping their cock towards me.

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By *rKinkedKuntMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Surely whatever the sexes combination you need to at least fancy them a bit if you're gonna 'get on down'?

One would assume so but I've seen a number of posts where guys state they don't find men themselves attractive. We know many bi guys do find men and women attractive (imagine Joe saying he'll not just go with fifties, for example).

I guess we won't get many publicly owning up to bi sex, when they're claiming the straight identity - and saying they'll shag anything. "

Believe I did but as not part of the clique I guess it got ignored eh.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Surely whatever the sexes combination you need to at least fancy them a bit if you're gonna 'get on down'?

One would assume so but I've seen a number of posts where guys state they don't find men themselves attractive. We know many bi guys do find men and women attractive (imagine Joe saying he'll not just go with fifties, for example).

I guess we won't get many publicly owning up to bi sex, when they're claiming the straight identity - and saying they'll shag anything.

Believe I did but as not part of the clique I guess it got ignored eh. "

B....b....b.....but you're straight!!!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"As we know - recent posts and others - some guys have some sexual contact with others. And some of them don't find men attractive.

If you don't find them attractive, does it matter how they look?

Awkward one. I don't very often do it but when I do my only condition is I dont have to hold a gut up and no hair. "

That description is making me feel queasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I class myself as pansexual - which is what I think you're trying to get at (unfortunately fab only has bi, bi-curious or straight as sexual orientations)

Being pan I am attracted to a person or personality as apposed to a gender.

Therefore you can be male, female, trans, TV, ze and everything in-between.

If there's a click that is ultimately all that matters. I think think this is more so the case for a lot of people nowadays x

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By *rKinkedKuntMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Surely whatever the sexes combination you need to at least fancy them a bit if you're gonna 'get on down'?

One would assume so but I've seen a number of posts where guys state they don't find men themselves attractive. We know many bi guys do find men and women attractive (imagine Joe saying he'll not just go with fifties, for example).

I guess we won't get many publicly owning up to bi sex, when they're claiming the straight identity - and saying they'll shag anything.

Believe I did but as not part of the clique I guess it got ignored eh.

B....b....b.....but you're straight!!!!

"

I am one of the plastic lot yes. Don't seek it but don't dismiss it if the mood is right.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Surely whatever the sexes combination you need to at least fancy them a bit if you're gonna 'get on down'?

One would assume so but I've seen a number of posts where guys state they don't find men themselves attractive. We know many bi guys do find men and women attractive (imagine Joe saying he'll not just go with fifties, for example).

I guess we won't get many publicly owning up to bi sex, when they're claiming the straight identity - and saying they'll shag anything.

Believe I did but as not part of the clique I guess it got ignored eh.

B....b....b.....but you're straight!!!!

I am one of the plastic lot yes. Don't seek it but don't dismiss it if the mood is right."

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eh?

Some guys say they have bi sex with men, situationally or otherwise. But despite having sex with guys, they insist that they don't find men attractive in the slightest.

As they say they don't fancy guys, I'm curious whether it doesn't matter what the other guy looks like. Whether he has film star looks or the opposite end of the looks spectrum. (Assuming his personality is reasonable). "

I've had my fair share of bi-sexual activities. Hand on heart, I haven't found any of them attractive.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Kissed a guy once... and I liked it

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

I sometimes see a guy and think he's fit or that's a nice bum or cock or sometimes I can have a chat with a man I don't know and get on really well with him not because of looks but they were just very nice to chat to and if they invited me back for a coffee I probably would have gone as they were pleasant company so no it's not always down to looks.

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By *ophieslut OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"I sometimes see a guy and think he's fit or that's a nice bum or cock or sometimes I can have a chat with a man I don't know and get on really well with him not because of looks but they were just very nice to chat to and if they invited me back for a coffee I probably would have gone as they were pleasant company so no it's not always down to looks."

And the coffee would have been a euphemism and you'd be open to physical activity?

Fab has a mixed bunch. Many of us can be turned on - and off! - by personality. I've also heard from men who have had a cock fixation - but not finding anything else about a male to be a turn on. Men who don't feel much attraction but will have sex with someone who isn't comparably attractive to them - so they feel more secure.

And then possibly lurking somewhere - noones said it - the old fab chestnut: Any holes a goal.

Drink loosens inhibitions - what's left once inebriated, just goggle eyed lust for any sex, with anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me there has to be an attraction. Be it a female, male or TV.

XX

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Not had full on sex with many men, usually it's just sucking each other, but I do kiss ma neighbour as well

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By *ophieslut OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Surely whatever the sexes combination you need to at least fancy them a bit if you're gonna 'get on down'?

One would assume so but I've seen a number of posts where guys state they don't find men themselves attractive. We know many bi guys do find men and women attractive (imagine Joe saying he'll not just go with fifties, for example).

I guess we won't get many publicly owning up to bi sex, when they're claiming the straight identity - and saying they'll shag anything.

Believe I did but as not part of the clique I guess it got ignored eh. "

No - I didn't ignore you, hence my use of 'most',

as an assumption. I'm still learning and find human sexual behaviour very interesting.

Thanks everyone for your thoughts as well as the replies in private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never not once ever in my life have I been attracted to any guy in the slightest.... But I've played with plenty. I suppose I'm saying that as long as they don't come across as an asshole then it doesn't matter how they look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any hole's a goal for some ....

Be it male female or hopefully an inanimate object and not something more sinister!

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