FabSwingers.com forum: Grey hair !! Yes or no

By *gentloveday OP Woman
over a year ago

Tranmere

Hi am just wondering wwyd so I have spent since New Years growing out my hair so now it's a grey and red brown I went on a meet yesterday and he has basically said he wants me to dye my hair I wouldn't mind but it's not like I'm in a relationship or anything !!

Anyway would you be attracted to someone with grey hair ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely hair can't make a difference but then I have none so not really sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like men with grey hair, I'm not so keen on it on myself so I dye mine. I wouldn't be okay with someone else telling me to do so though. People are allowed to find different things attractive or not, but I don't really like them asking others to change themselves to fit that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she's playing with my stinckle it's a "yes" .

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By *ogerNesszonesMan
over a year ago

Northern England

It's a big yes from me - especially considering I'm a "silver fox" myself.

Did you tell him to sling his proverbial hook?

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By *tockingsnsuspenders1960Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in south yorks

I hope so mine is totally grey and I started to go grey at 25 better than being bald.

From hubby Paul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't imagine asking someone to change something just to keep me happy

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By *tockingsnsuspenders1960Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in south yorks

"I like men with grey hair, I'm not so keen on it on myself so I dye mine. I wouldn't be okay with someone else telling me to do so though. People are allowed to find different things attractive or not, but I don't really like them asking others to change themselves to fit that."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope so mine is totally grey and I started to go grey at 25 better than being bald.

From hubby Paul

Awe c'mon bald is not that bad surely

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By *tockingsnsuspenders1960Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in south yorks

"It's a big yes from me - especially considering I'm a "silver fox" myself.

Did you tell him to sling his proverbial hook?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I don't have a preference but I'd never tell someone to dye their hair that's up to the individual.

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By *gentloveday OP Woman
over a year ago

Tranmere

Thanks that's what I was peed of about of course I refused I worked hard on a accepting myself I'm certainly not going to change for someone like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im silver/grey all over some will like it some wont

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By *ogerNesszonesMan
over a year ago

Northern England

"Thanks that's what I was peed of about of course I refused I worked hard on a accepting myself I'm certainly not going to change for someone like that

Absolutely. You're great exactly the way you are. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I went on a meet yesterday and he has basically said he wants me to dye my hair"

Cheeky bastard!

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By *ogerNesszonesMan
over a year ago

Northern England

I used to work with a bloke that had a "Ronnie Reagan rinse" - not a good look in my opinion.

Still, I'm sure sales of "Just for Men" are still buoyant, so I guess it's a case of each to their own. Not for me though.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I like grey hair on a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big up for the Silver fox's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Big up for the Silver fox's

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

I would never ask a lady to change her appearance for me:

I do love grey hair on a lady; the sexiest freind I have has lovely grey hair ( she actually uses the purple shampoo that makes it whiter)

If it's styled well grey hair looks stunning.

Embrace your grey, ladies!

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

Definitely better grey than bold

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By *gentloveday OP Woman
over a year ago

Tranmere

"I would never ask a lady to change her appearance for me:

I do love grey hair on a lady; the sexiest freind I have has lovely grey hair ( she actually uses the purple shampoo that makes it whiter)

If it's styled well grey hair looks stunning.

Embrace your grey, ladies!

Thank you ?? restored my faith x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would never ask a lady to change her appearance for me:

I do love grey hair on a lady; the sexiest freind I have has lovely grey hair ( she actually uses the purple shampoo that makes it whiter)

If it's styled well grey hair looks stunning.

Embrace your grey, ladies!

There is a lady at work with short grey hair she is so sexy it looks amazing

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By *gentloveday OP Woman
over a year ago

Tranmere

I must admit I do appreciate a bald man too xx

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By *tockingsnsuspenders1960Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in south yorks

"I hope so mine is totally grey and I started to go grey at 25 better than being bald.

From hubby Paul

Awe c'mon bald is not that bad surely "

sorry lol!!

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By *tockingsnsuspenders1960Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in south yorks

"I like grey hair on a guy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yea! When I don't shave I end up looking like a black santa

que the bic!

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

Love grey hair on a male

female freind of mine has grey hair and she laughs as she gets discounts in some places

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Happy enough here having grey hair but I do shave far more than I ever did in the past!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Really? He said that?!! Seriously if anyone told me to do that they would be binned straight away. Fucking cheek

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Really? He said that?!! Seriously if anyone told me to do that they would be binned straight away. Fucking cheek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hell what a cheeky b*stard!!

I've changed my hair colour recently to encompass the grey as opposed to fighting it, will see how it grows out.

If I change it back it will be because I want too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Big up for the Silver fox's

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

"Big up for the Silver fox's

Yep we Silver Foxes love our Silver Vixens..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Big up for the Silver fox's

Yep we Silver Foxes love our Silver Vixens..

Silver Vixen, that's a pretty good user name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi am just wondering wwyd so I have spent since New Years growing out my hair so now it's a grey and red brown I went on a meet yesterday and he has basically said he wants me to dye my hair I wouldn't mind but it's not like I'm in a relationship or anything !!

Anyway would you be attracted to someone with grey hair ? "

He's a cheeky twat and should be grateful you even met him.

A lady I know has her silver grey hair cut to a quite short length, about a number 3 I think. It is quite thick hair and she looks stunning with it like that. She said at her age ( same as me)she just wants to defy convention and not wear knitted cardies and have straggly hair. Hence the short cut hair and an abhorrence of ladies clothes from M&S and similar shops. She loves to shop for clothes in small independent clothes shops/boutiques.

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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough

Since I turned 40 I've found myself wanting some grey in my hair. All I can muster is about 10 grey hairs in total at the moment. (I know, first world problems)

I definitely want to go grey before I go bald though.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I/we would be telling the meet to buggar off!

I don't like my own hair to be grey, so I dye it. On some people, I have found it attractive.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

I'm rocking the Pep Guardiola look

Except I don't quite have the dark eyes to go with it

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By *offee and Cream 2Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Loughborough

His behavior in asking you to dye your hair is controlling and wholly unacceptable.

Run away now, run away!

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Men with grey hair .... hell yes ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've paid a fortune to get my hair grey

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"I like grey hair on a guy"

and wrinkles at the corner of the eyes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck yesssss

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Anyway would you be attracted to someone with grey hair ? "

Men yes. On a woman grey hair can look great if it's well cut and in top condition but I think it can be aging if it isn't cared for, mind you any colour hair can look rubbish if it isn't looked after.

The man had a flaming cheek wanting you to dye it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a silver fox!

Just tell him grey hair is better than no hair, although I have tried the bald look and it saves a fortune in shampoo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grey hair on men yes! Please stop using hair dye guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember when I was first dating Marc 10 years ago and I said I would never dye my hair and he said he wouldn't stay with me if I had grey hair

Now I have grey hair and he says he doesn't care if I dye it and I'm the one who can't stand it!

Anyway....I'm not a huge fan of grey hair on men or women but it can look good on the right person.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I dye mine since I am not ready to embrace my silver. But if someone asked me to I would tell them in no uncertain terms to fuck right off. Just like I would if someone asked me to go blonde or red or cut it. My hair, my choice. Same goes for my pubes or usual lack of.

On other people I don't care. I like silver on some people; it suits them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

"Definitely better grey than bold "

I'm grey and bold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grey hair or white hair can look amazing if styled well.

I wouldn't let a meet tell me what to do with my hair, that's over stepping the mark in my opinion, but I don't know the rapport you have with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grey is fine.. Adds character

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I didn't have grey hair yet but I'm far too lazy to dye it - maintenance isn't my thing.

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By *johnson7188Man
over a year ago

newcastle

I have grey hair well a mix really some people say the salt and pepper look, women like it and alot of women dye there hair blonde almost grey anyways.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"I would never ask a lady to change her appearance for me:

I do love grey hair on a lady; the sexiest freind I have has lovely grey hair ( she actually uses the purple shampoo that makes it whiter)

If it's styled well grey hair looks stunning.

Embrace your grey, ladies!

Sorry I just look like crazy cat lady so it's staying red

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By *he tunnelsCouple
over a year ago

newport

Mines not grey it's artic blonde

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

I think that with a really good cut and style it can be amazing

Like anything it's about the attitude that goes with it that could make people view a person as young and classy or old and frumpy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish I didn't have grey hair yet but I'm far too lazy to dye it - maintenance isn't my thing."

Yum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mines not grey it's artic blonde

Hahaha, luvre it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To use a colloquialism, you should have told him to go and take his face for a shite. No one, even in a relationship should be dictating like that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Big up for the Silver fox's

Yep we Silver Foxes love our Silver Vixens..

Silver Vixen, that's a pretty good user name

Someone did have that name on here and I met her a few times socially. I personally think it is more about the way it is cut. Long grey hair can be a bit 'witch lady' I think. Styled, it can be stunning. As for men, well, greying at the temples is good, like me

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Kind of like my grey hair, it's me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grey hair sounds boring as fuck... luckily I'm a silver fox according to her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a silver fox, me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway would you be attracted to someone with grey hair ? "

We both like gray hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hell yeah grey hair ??

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Anyway would you be attracted to someone with grey hair ? "

The question is why have you let someone of no consequence get under your skin?

We will never have universal appeal. Some will like us others won't, but it starts with us liking ourselves.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

I like grey hair on a man but I'm not sure how I'd feel about it on myself.

I see women embracing their grey hair though, stylishly dressed and otherwise coiffed, and I think "bloody good for you, you look great!".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am very happy with my silver highlights, it takes the hairdressers ages to make it look so natural

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im proud of my grey hair. Its a case of having to be really. I went grey in my 20s

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By *gentloveday OP Woman
over a year ago

Tranmere

Anyway would you be attracted to someone with grey hair ?

The question is why have you let someone of no consequence get under your skin?

We will never have universal appeal. Some will like us others won't, but it starts with us liking ourselves. "

To be honest I had said no way I like it if you don't tough but then it's grated on me and now I'm just angry ?? that he felt he could dictate something so personal and I was so surprised it made me doubt my decision to grow it out but now I think I'm a grown ass woman who is in charge !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am from a family of people who went grey from an early age so now all the men have white hair ..

Whilst I'm not a fan of people with grey hair.. men or women.. i wouldn't ask anyone to change their appearance for me...

I just wouldn't meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a silver fox so I'm biased

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway would you be attracted to someone with grey hair ? "

Nothing wrong with grey hair op and im hoping you told the meet to go fuk himself and carry on fuking himself until he turns inside out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone you met yesterday wants you to dye your hair? Sorry I don't mean to offend, but tell him to fuck off!

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"I like grey hair on a guy"

Shame we are not closer.

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"I dye mine since I am not ready to embrace my silver. But if someone asked me to I would tell them in no uncertain terms to fuck right off. Just like I would if someone asked me to go blonde or red or cut it. My hair, my choice. Same goes for my pubes or usual lack of.

On other people I don't care. I like silver on some people; it suits them."

Sits in the corner admiring my silver highlights in the mirror opposite waiting for the lovely ladies to notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love grey hair - damn sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love grey hair on a man. On a woman however it depends on the shade, it can be really aging if the grey is not forgiving. I like the violet grey shades that people are going for though

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm almost 56 and I have dreadlocks. I thought I'd be rocking grey dreads by now but no, I'm still a brunette. I want hey locs!

Seriously OP, if a meet of mine told me what to do with my body, he'd be out of there. He is a visitor to your body and should behave accordingly.

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By *nemichaelMan
over a year ago

kings lynn

Colour would bother me, grey or not. But style is important.

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By *haunMan
over a year ago

Halton

Anyway would you be attracted to someone with grey hair ? "

Speaking from personal experience, as I have had the pleasure of meeting you several times.

Your hair colour does not change the person you are.

You are a lovely, gorgeous sexy lady.

And for me, the colour of your hair suits you.

With it generally being grey, I personally think it is different.

For a lady it is a bold statement, as convention dictates that men can go grey but not as common for a lady.

If you did dye it, then it would need maintaining and I think that looks worse.. Grey roots etc.

Ignore him, he is being superficial.

What's it too do with him.

Many people out there and in the club who appreciate you for the person you are.

I like you for who you are.

But I do actually also like the grey.

And knowing you now, I think it is you.

Can't imagine you with dark hair (unless dressed up in fancy dress)

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm embracing my grey, I didn't like the fact a few grey hairs were poking through a couple of years ago, but now I'm getting more it looks good (I think!).

Big hello to all the ladies who love a silver fox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what i can see you look lovely. And telling someone to dye there hair like that is just plain rude x

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By *gentloveday OP Woman
over a year ago

Tranmere

Anyway would you be attracted to someone with grey hair ?

Speaking from personal experience, as I have had the pleasure of meeting you several times.

Your hair colour does not change the person you are.

You are a lovely, gorgeous sexy lady.

And for me, the colour of your hair suits you.

With it generally being grey, I personally think it is different.

For a lady it is a bold statement, as convention dictates that men can go grey but not as common for a lady.

If you did dye it, then it would need maintaining and I think that looks worse.. Grey roots etc.

Ignore him, he is being superficial.

What's it too do with him.

Many people out there and in the club who appreciate you for the person you are.

I like you for who you are.

But I do actually also like the grey.

And knowing you now, I think it is you.

Can't imagine you with dark hair (unless dressed up in fancy dress)

xxx"

And that sir is why your amazing ?? Just a few words and you make me feel specs again xxxxxx

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By *haunMan
over a year ago

Halton

I like you for who you are.

But I do actually also like the grey.

And knowing you now, I think it is you.

Can't imagine you with dark hair (unless dressed up in fancy dress)

xxx

And that sir is why your amazing ?? Just a few words and you make me feel specs again xxxxxx

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Thank you.

And always remember that you are always a gorgeous and special lady.

Yes, being reminded about that does help and is nice.

But it is YOU that makes YOU special, not the words or opinions of someone else.

Just continue being who you are and never change for anyone.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The colour of a guys hair isn't an issue with me though i hate grey hair on myself

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By *haunMan
over a year ago

Halton

"The colour of a guys hair isn't an issue with me though i hate grey hair on myself"

I can appreciate where you are coming from. But don't 'hate' it.

Ultimately it's what you feel comfortable and confident with.

I do like the colour of your hair and some of the red highlights in the front of your hair. (Gorgeous photos BTW)

But doing something that will make you feel less confident is never a good thing.

It's like anything in life (apologies if I am trivializing everything)

If you feel comfortable and confident then you will be happier.

A lady going Grey, is a bold statement.

And a difficult transition, as again more acceptable that a man starts to go grey bit by bit.

I am sure you would look fine but if you are also happy with your current colour?

Then stick to what makes you happy.

As ultimately that is all that matters.

xxx

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

I'm sure others have already said it, but if YOU want to dye your hair go for it and if not I'm sure there's plenty that will find you attractive as you are xx

If someone is that shallow they're not worth bothering with xx

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"The colour of a guys hair isn't an issue with me though i hate grey hair on myself

I can appreciate where you are coming from. But don't 'hate' it.

Ultimately it's what you feel comfortable and confident with.

I do like the colour of your hair and some of the red highlights in the front of your hair. (Gorgeous photos BTW)

But doing something that will make you feel less confident is never a good thing.

It's like anything in life (apologies if I am trivializing everything)

If you feel comfortable and confident then you will be happier.

A lady going Grey, is a bold statement.

And a difficult transition, as again more acceptable that a man starts to go grey bit by bit.

I am sure you would look fine but if you are also happy with your current colour?

Then stick to what makes you happy.

As ultimately that is all that matters.

xxx"

It's not a difficult transition or a bold statement, it's just grey hair!

Dye it or not, the decision is for the owner, not for others to dictate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The colour of a guys hair isn't an issue with me though i hate grey hair on myself

I can appreciate where you are coming from. But don't 'hate' it.

Ultimately it's what you feel comfortable and confident with.

I do like the colour of your hair and some of the red highlights in the front of your hair. (Gorgeous photos BTW)

But doing something that will make you feel less confident is never a good thing.

It's like anything in life (apologies if I am trivializing everything)

If you feel comfortable and confident then you will be happier.

A lady going Grey, is a bold statement.

And a difficult transition, as again more acceptable that a man starts to go grey bit by bit.

I am sure you would look fine but if you are also happy with your current colour?

Then stick to what makes you happy.

As ultimately that is all that matters.

xxx"

thanks i was born a redhead but as ive got older i need the help of a bottle though i dye it a darker red then my natural colour as i prefer it x x

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

"The colour of a guys hair isn't an issue with me though i hate grey hair on myself

I can appreciate where you are coming from. But don't 'hate' it.

Ultimately it's what you feel comfortable and confident with.

I do like the colour of your hair and some of the red highlights in the front of your hair. (Gorgeous photos BTW)

But doing something that will make you feel less confident is never a good thing.

It's like anything in life (apologies if I am trivializing everything)

If you feel comfortable and confident then you will be happier.

A lady going Grey, is a bold statement.

And a difficult transition, as again more acceptable that a man starts to go grey bit by bit.

I am sure you would look fine but if you are also happy with your current colour?

Then stick to what makes you happy.

As ultimately that is all that matters.

xxx

It's not a difficult transition or a bold statement, it's just grey hair!

Dye it or not, the decision is for the owner, not for others to dictate. "

But a lot of ladies feel the need to hide it; due to social pressure that makes them feel that women must always look young;

Of course, it's your hair, ladies, do as you wish;

But I am a great promoter of the attractiveness that comes with age; and that women should not feel socially pressurized to " follow" the "norm".

So if you like it; flaunt it; use it.... You don't have to hide it. And lots of us blokes love it.

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over a year ago

"The colour of a guys hair isn't an issue with me though i hate grey hair on myself

I can appreciate where you are coming from. But don't 'hate' it.

Ultimately it's what you feel comfortable and confident with.

I do like the colour of your hair and some of the red highlights in the front of your hair. (Gorgeous photos BTW)

But doing something that will make you feel less confident is never a good thing.

It's like anything in life (apologies if I am trivializing everything)

If you feel comfortable and confident then you will be happier.

A lady going Grey, is a bold statement.

And a difficult transition, as again more acceptable that a man starts to go grey bit by bit.

I am sure you would look fine but if you are also happy with your current colour?

Then stick to what makes you happy.

As ultimately that is all that matters.

xxx

It's not a difficult transition or a bold statement, it's just grey hair!

Dye it or not, the decision is for the owner, not for others to dictate.

But a lot of ladies feel the need to hide it; due to social pressure that makes them feel that women must always look young;

Of course, it's your hair, ladies, do as you wish;

But I am a great promoter of the attractiveness that comes with age; and that women should not feel socially pressurized to " follow" the "norm".

So if you like it; flaunt it; use it.... You don't have to hide it. And lots of us blokes love it."

fair point though i dont dye mine to stay young i just dnt like grey hair on me

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over a year ago

The guy was out of line!

I found my first grey hair at 35 and booked in to have it dyed 30 mins later.

However I stopped dying it when I was pregnant (38) and now I don't really notice it. Probably because I have so many different tones in my hair.

It's way more accepted for men to be grey than women though imo

Vanessa x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently my hair is "50 shades of grey".....according to hairdresser. Think she was just flirting tho....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distinguished gent here, never contemplated dying it, feel free to rub your hands through it ladies

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

I started to go grey in my 20's. Never thought of dying it. Take me as you find me.....or not lol

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

"The colour of a guys hair isn't an issue with me though i hate grey hair on myself

I can appreciate where you are coming from. But don't 'hate' it.

Ultimately it's what you feel comfortable and confident with.

I do like the colour of your hair and some of the red highlights in the front of your hair. (Gorgeous photos BTW)

But doing something that will make you feel less confident is never a good thing.

It's like anything in life (apologies if I am trivializing everything)

If you feel comfortable and confident then you will be happier.

A lady going Grey, is a bold statement.

And a difficult transition, as again more acceptable that a man starts to go grey bit by bit.

I am sure you would look fine but if you are also happy with your current colour?

Then stick to what makes you happy.

As ultimately that is all that matters.

xxx

It's not a difficult transition or a bold statement, it's just grey hair!

Dye it or not, the decision is for the owner, not for others to dictate.

But a lot of ladies feel the need to hide it; due to social pressure that makes them feel that women must always look young;

Of course, it's your hair, ladies, do as you wish;

But I am a great promoter of the attractiveness that comes with age; and that women should not feel socially pressurized to " follow" the "norm".

So if you like it; flaunt it; use it.... You don't have to hide it. And lots of us blokes love it.

fair point though i dont dye mine to stay young i just dnt like grey hair on me"

And that's fine; I just try to point out that there is a social pressure on women to " stay forever young" when they don't have to.

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over a year ago

I guess my tastes are a bit odd. I'm not really into men to that degree, but I do like grey hair and wrinkles. The older a man looks the more I like it. Yes I'm shallow.

With women there's more to attraction than hair colour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway would you be attracted to someone with grey hair ? "

I'd tell him to politely do one. It's your hair , surly your hair colour shouldn't define you as a person or at least whether or not it makes any difference on a swinging site.

Do what you feel is right.

But yes I find grey hair on a map rather sexy the silver fox look.

I'd never dream of asking a guy to dye his hair for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id never dye my hair for anyone,no matter how gorgeous x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"id never dye my hair for anyone,no matter how gorgeous x"

^^this

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"The colour of a guys hair isn't an issue with me though i hate grey hair on myself

I can appreciate where you are coming from. But don't 'hate' it.

Ultimately it's what you feel comfortable and confident with.

I do like the colour of your hair and some of the red highlights in the front of your hair. (Gorgeous photos BTW)

But doing something that will make you feel less confident is never a good thing.

It's like anything in life (apologies if I am trivializing everything)

If you feel comfortable and confident then you will be happier.

A lady going Grey, is a bold statement.

And a difficult transition, as again more acceptable that a man starts to go grey bit by bit.

I am sure you would look fine but if you are also happy with your current colour?

Then stick to what makes you happy.

As ultimately that is all that matters.

xxx

It's not a difficult transition or a bold statement, it's just grey hair!

Dye it or not, the decision is for the owner, not for others to dictate.

But a lot of ladies feel the need to hide it; due to social pressure that makes them feel that women must always look young;

Of course, it's your hair, ladies, do as you wish;

But I am a great promoter of the attractiveness that comes with age; and that women should not feel socially pressurized to " follow" the "norm".

So if you like it; flaunt it; use it.... You don't have to hide it. And lots of us blokes love it."

...and him saying it is difficult or bold perpetuates that awful assumption that beauty is only for the young and that signs of ageing is simply not beautiful. I'm sick and tired of hearing I have a great figure/boobs/hair 'for my age' because that also assumes that not having those at a young age makes us ugly.

Women need to stop seeking validation form others in order to feel positive about themselves and if someone is negative, tell them to fuck right off.

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