FabSwingers.com forum: Picky ladies and weird guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can some of u ladies be toooo picky?

Has this stop u meeting some great guys u wouldn't usually go for?

Any of u guys get weird msgs off other guys?

Just general thoughts please no negative comments. Cheers

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

i have been picky because i wasnt picky enough at one time and met people i shouldnt of had. Im not that picky compared to some regarding looks or size i am more interested in how clean, how nice and do we like the same things. You can get a feeling about someone by the way they look though.

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

I'm really picky. I got bored one night and agreed to meet a guy I never would've gone for but he sent me a message that amused me.

I met him for a social and wasn't that interested but agreed to a second one as he was just looking for friends locally really.

One thing lead to another and he's my best Fab meet and it was an ongoing thing until we moved away (for an unrelated reason I might add!).

However most of the time I've given people the benefit of the doubt, and should have trusted my judgement initially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i pick who i want to get near to - simple as that -

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Picky and proud here

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Any weird message I get from male female or otherwise, gets a block from me. Boom! Problem solved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think there's such a thing as too picky on a swinging site. If I am going to have sex with someone, it's going to be with someone I fancy like crazy, and like as a person. I can't compromise on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm too picky. Been single over 7 years because of it and I'm not getting younger, looks fading, body getting more and more out of shape because I substitute the love of a good man with love of a take away or a kg bar of galaxy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think I'm selective lol

I've met four guys but only progressed things with one fella ....I know I'm very very pi kyle but I know what I like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not that picky. I ask for stuff that should be obvious like cleanliness etc. It's my availability that is a shitter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People should be picky. Not everybody likes the same things or are attracted to the same type of people. People also have to feel comfortable with who they talk to and meet, and from reading some of the threads on here, feel safe. Regardless of this being a swinging site it's still a big thing to invite a pretty much complete stranger into intimate acts.

I know I'm not everybody's cup of tea, that's just the way it is. I may never get picked, that's fine, it's just the way it is.

I've had messages off other men, no harm in being polite. I just say politely that I'm not looking for other men. Have had decent conversations afterwards. Of course there is the ability to block certain groups messaging using the filters.

Just have some fun and then you never know...

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I wouldn't say we're picky as such but we'll only meet those that we're attracted too.

Any weird messages from anyone, we just delete them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's partly the internet effect. The ratio of men to women here is so high that they can afford to be picky. As they should. However, online is not a good way to meet and judge someone so inevitably someone they might have liked, had they met face to face in a pub for instance, will get binned as they didn't come across well on here. Tough breaks but there you go. I find it relatively easy to meet women when out socially but here is very difficult. Makes me wonder why I came back........?

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

I'm picky, I can get laid in the vanilla world, I can't get kinky sex tho hence why I'm here. If I wanted shit sex with average people Id go into town and pull. Hence most of my meets are repeat meets and I keep a handful of hotties for this.

Quality over quantity any day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm too picky. Been single over 7 years because of it and I'm not getting younger, looks fading, body getting more and more out of shape because I substitute the love of a good man with love of a take away or a kg bar of galaxy. "

Try being my age

. I don't mind being picky to be honest, as I haven't the time for all and sundry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some very fare comments for those who elaborated thanks guys much appreciated just know am not here to judge or make anyone feel like they have to explain there self's so please dont take offence just want thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Selective rather than picky?

The latter implies a degree of bias.

Just saying.

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

I am also very selective as its not all about a quick fuck for me

I like a guy I'm attracted to and has all the qualities I like

It's a personal choice for me as I'm happy with what I have at home so it's not desperation

To be invited into our happy marriage is an honour so it's nice when guys respect that

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yes, my pickiness is an art and science that I've developed for good reason. Ignoring my experience and judgement os just stupidity.

When you can't get what you want, deal with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though it says im straight in my profile ( which i am) i have had weird messages from a guy tonight. Grrrrr

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its not about being picky its about finding some you are compatable . Yes i base a small part of my selection on looks but the rest comes from other stuff.

Never had a no show, bad meet or crap shag while ive been here

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Not picky in term of looks, don't have a type. It's more about the initial approach. As a single woman here, you have to wade through a lot of "hey how are you", "nice pics" and copy n paste drivel before you find the gold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are not picky!

Just very selective in whom we would have a social with and more so with a meet. It has to be right!

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