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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do some people insist on a face pic being attached along with a first message to them yet don't even have any public pictures on their profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because maybe, if they reply, they'll send photos in return?

Why message someone if you can't see their photos?

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

If it bothers you then don't send a message to those whose profile you don't like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because maybe, if they reply, they'll send photos in return?

Why message someone if you can't see their photos? "

I don't and certainly wouldn't send my face pic on first contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because when they message people first they attach a face pic?

If someone is interested in me enough to make initial contact I expect a face pic, and I do the same when I message first.

I've been getting more and more messages lately from people who don't send face pics telling me to send back a face pic and they'll let us know if they are interested. Fuck that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they can. Bastards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because maybe, if they reply, they'll send photos in return?

Why message someone if you can't see their photos?

I don't and certainly wouldn't send my face pic on first contact. "

So why complain? Move onto a more suitable profile.

Run your profile the way you want, let others do the same with theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another reason is because of their jobs they can't risk being seen on here.

Some professions strictly prohibit their staff being on any form of media.

For others, its just I dont want to be recognised thing. Which I normally think this is funny, as if the person who seen them is on here as well. Then they can't very well judge them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So someone who doesn't have one public picture would send a face pic as their first one......to someone they know very little about?

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Because maybe, if they reply, they'll send photos in return?

Why message someone if you can't see their photos? "

Because I feel it foolish to assume that someone not displaying a pic is automatically not suitable for me ? I feel it wise to give a picless but we'll written seductive profile an opportunity to discover if we are compatible ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because maybe, if they reply, they'll send photos in return?

Why message someone if you can't see their photos?

I don't and certainly wouldn't send my face pic on first contact.

So why complain? Move onto a more suitable profile.

Run your profile the way you want, let others do the same with theirs "

I wasn't complaining just found it odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So someone who doesn't have one public picture would send a face pic as their first one......to someone they know very little about? "

We don't message many people first, but when we like someone enough to message we attach face pics in the first message, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So someone who doesn't have one public picture would send a face pic as their first one......to someone they know very little about?

We don't message many people first, but when we like someone enough to message we attach face pics in the first message, yes."

I didn't read properly....we have public pics but not public face pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never dwell on something I don't like or that puts me off of a profile for a nano second more than I need to, I just move on to finding profiles that attract. People do this because they can, you don't have to comply.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I don't insist on a face pic in the first message but i do expect one within a couple of messages and i will send mine too.

If i don't get a face pic in the first message and there is nothing to really catch my attention on the profile or in the message i delete it.

What's the point in sending multiple messages back and forth if you don't know what each other looks like and whether or not there is an attraction? I would rather not waste either of our time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a profile has no pics on it then I don't message them. Simples.

Unless the message me first and attach a face pic in their message of course.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Why do some people insist on a face pic being attached along with a first message to them yet don't even have any public pictures on their profile? "

I know! I know! The answer is because they know what they look like but don't know what you look like!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got my face pics on public... I like knowing who I'm talking too..

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

People ask for a face pic as they like to see who they are communicating with and will be able to recognise you should they arrange to meet you. It's not like everyone walks around with their tits or dick hanging out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because maybe, if they reply, they'll send photos in return?

Why message someone if you can't see their photos?

I don't and certainly wouldn't send my face pic on first contact.

So why complain? Move onto a more suitable profile.

Run your profile the way you want, let others do the same with theirs "

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

My current face works a treat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have face pics on my profile but always attatch one with first message and like to see one by return so I know who I am talking to. If the attraction isnt there then there is no point in pursuing things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've got my face pics on public... I like knowing who I'm talking too.. "

Fair comment, if someone is more than happy to show a face picture in their public pictures and asks for one then I would of course send one it's the ones that don't have any public pictures yet insist on a face one in order to chat that I think is odd as in " you know nothing of what I look like but I want to see your face"

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