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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I always feel bad when someone sends through their pictures and they just aren't my type. Is there any nice way to say thanks but no thanks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think "thanks, but no thanks" is perfectly polite.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Thanks but you're not my type" is more than adequate.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Thanks but no thanks then block

What's good for the gander is good for the goose.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually

Unfortunately your not my/our type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is the nice way, say pretty much that.

There's no point sugar coating it, or dressing it up to be something it's not. Keep it short n sweet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but you remind me of an ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great pic but not my type sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just got blocked by a woman. Maybe thats the easy way to say no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice picture, but you're not my type, unfortunately. I hope you have fun on the site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice picture, but you're not my type, unfortunately. I hope you have fun on the site. "

That's nearly always what I say, but still feel bad saying it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll let you know when it happens.

Things usually just fizzle out if I've been messaging someone I'm not attracted to.

I prefer to get a handle on their personality before I make a decision solely on looks.

I've changed my mind about people based on that.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Yes, sympathy shag

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Nice picture, but you're not my type, unfortunately. I hope you have fun on the site.

That's nearly always what I say, but still feel bad saying it."

What is it you feel bad about - hurting their feelings, you having the right to say no or have preferences?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice picture, but you're not my type, unfortunately. I hope you have fun on the site.

That's nearly always what I say, but still feel bad saying it.

What is it you feel bad about - hurting their feelings, you having the right to say no or have preferences?"

I guess I'm a bit of a softie

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.


"Nice picture, but you're not my type, unfortunately. I hope you have fun on the site.

That's nearly always what I say, but still feel bad saying it.

What is it you feel bad about - hurting their feelings, you having the right to say no or have preferences?

I guess I'm a bit of a softie "
You shouldn't say you are a softie on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always feel bad when someone sends through their pictures and they just aren't my type. Is there any nice way to say thanks but no thanks?"

No there isn't really.

I just delete it.

There is no point talking if there is absolutely no attraction at all.

Attraction isn't everything (to me) but it HAS to be there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but you remind me of an ex "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always feel bad when someone sends through their pictures and they just aren't my type. Is there any nice way to say thanks but no thanks?"

Say yes. You might not get another chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always feel bad when someone sends through their pictures and they just aren't my type. Is there any nice way to say thanks but no thanks?

No there isn't really.

I just delete it.

There is no point talking if there is absolutely no attraction at all.

Attraction isn't everything (to me) but it HAS to be there. "

It's harsh but true. I know women have said it on here before but replying invites conversation and it's kind of awkward when someone asks specifically why you aren't interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need to feel bad, not everyone is attracted to the same people, if we all were, we'd all look the same!

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always feel bad when someone sends through their pictures and they just aren't my type. Is there any nice way to say thanks but no thanks?

No there isn't really.

I just delete it.

There is no point talking if there is absolutely no attraction at all.

Attraction isn't everything (to me) but it HAS to be there.

It's harsh but true. I know women have said it on here before but replying invites conversation and it's kind of awkward when someone asks specifically why you aren't interest. "

*interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice picture, but you're not my type, unfortunately. I hope you have fun on the site.

That's nearly always what I say, but still feel bad saying it.

What is it you feel bad about - hurting their feelings, you having the right to say no or have preferences?

I guess I'm a bit of a softie "

You shouldn't feel bad about it. You are putting it in a polite way, and they'll find someone who is their type. Better to be polite but honest up front, than drag it out. Nobody wants a pity chat, best that they move on to someone who wants to chat to them OP

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

I don't mind being brutal and deleting a message without replying.

It's a big pond here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always feel bad when someone sends through their pictures and they just aren't my type. Is there any nice way to say thanks but no thanks?

No there isn't really.

I just delete it.

There is no point talking if there is absolutely no attraction at all.

Attraction isn't everything (to me) but it HAS to be there.

It's harsh but true. I know women have said it on here before but replying invites conversation and it's kind of awkward when someone asks specifically why you aren't interest.

*interested"

I know what you mean't mate.

...but yeah..I'd agree with all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would always thank them for their message and say they weren't what I was looking for. Unless they were rude. Then I'd delete and block.

Nell

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I find saying not my type is a bit meh. Prefer to say 'sorry, we're not a match'.

Providing they've sent a nice message and not a vat of cock pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh my god! I know you!" Then block.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice picture, but you're not my type, unfortunately. I hope you have fun on the site.

That's nearly always what I say, but still feel bad saying it.

What is it you feel bad about - hurting their feelings, you having the right to say no or have preferences?

I guess I'm a bit of a softie You shouldn't say you are a softie on here. "

Lol, I think that may qualify as a definite Forum faux pas!

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