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By *irtyGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Why would you join a swingers site and then state:

"but not into swinging, parties or clubs"

This place still manages to surprise me!

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Cross stitch, crochet?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I know what they mean though

I joined the lurpak butter forum but I can't stand the stuff

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Is it 42?

It is isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

swinging can be done in so many ways, I meet cpls who dont really like the whole scene, i turn up have a drink a laugh then we shag....done and thats that(and sometimes i get to go back), hardly call a 3some a party!!!

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By *irtyGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"swinging can be done in so many ways, I meet cpls who dont really like the whole scene, i turn up have a drink a laugh then we shag....done and thats that(and sometimes i get to go back), hardly call a 3some a party!!!"

Course it can but to specifically state that you're not into swinging, on a swinging site just made me giggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably just a typo, would take it meaning they're not into parties or clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you join a swingers site and then state:

"but not into swinging, parties or clubs"

This place still manages to surprise me!

"

Na me neither im just a pic collecting "Sydney university" browsing pervert really xx

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Why would you join a swingers site and then state:

"but not into swinging, parties or clubs"

This place still manages to surprise me!

"

I am sure there are plenty more surprises to come.... it's just a matter of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not sure mabye they aint to open about it or just to dull to enjoy a club

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By *irtyGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I am sure there are plenty more surprises to come.... it's just a matter of time."

Yes... I'm sure you're right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"swinging can be done in so many ways, I meet cpls who dont really like the whole scene, i turn up have a drink a laugh then we shag....done and thats that(and sometimes i get to go back), hardly call a 3some a party!!!

Course it can but to specifically state that you're not into swinging, on a swinging site just made me giggle.

"

lol yeah i know sounds bizarre, but there are some who VERY rarely use the site VERY rarely meet, they really dont class themselves as swingers, I might get a call from them in a few months and they say theyhavent met anyone, dont want verified dont leave verifies...altho i sometiime get the pics or vids of the action lol

again its my famous word of the day VARIABLE, so many likes dislikes and reasons people are here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To some people, swinging means swapping partners, and they don't see threesomes as swinging.

Perhaps this is what they mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Im not a swinger.........im just greedy

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By *irtyGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"To some people, swinging means swapping partners, and they don't see threesomes as swinging.

Perhaps this is what they mean? "

That's a very good point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im not a swinger.........im just greedy "

U better be greedy!!!!-as when am ma travels am glugging 10 viagra....hope its a weeklong stay btw lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you join a swingers site and then state:

"but not into swinging, parties or clubs"

This place still manages to surprise me!

"

It is an age old question but i suppose the answer may be down to them being voyeurs or exhibitionists. There are also some Bullshitters as well who don't actually meet anyone and have the odd verification going back to the ark about a long lost phone call. However aren't swingers supposed to be open minded , liberated or welcoming? Well maybe i exaggerate on the last 3 assumptions.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Dirty if you who I think you are.....

You should not be surprised really lol....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"However aren't swingers supposed to be open minded , liberated or welcoming? Well maybe i exaggerate on the last 3 assumptions."

I don't think the OP was demonstrating that she wasn't any of those things. She was just commenting in a tongue in cheek way on something that surprised her. Nor was anyone else being unpleasant about it.

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

This also came up in general chatroom a couple of days ago.....a woman said she wasn't a swinger/doesn't swing and someone else (another woman) asked why then had she chosen to join a swinging site. Never did get an answer. Must say I do find it a bit strange.....but hey ho....room for everyone I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I respect everyones choices, and I'm not holding certain types of swingers above eachother...but here goes:-

dont believe all u read in a persons profile, their wants likes and needs sometimes change, whether its the self confessed chatter to the ppl who dont like playing on cam/watching playing.the swinger who will only meet for coffee like a date, those who dont meet smokers...the list goes on.

Ive sat with the friends I've met and discussed(some of us do like a natter no matter how short lol)-but discussed this meeting for coffee..like a first date....Can only say I've never met for coffee, and I have pretty much "swung" on the first meet...I dont know if this comes from normally being seen on cam,understanding the verification systems plus points, networking with eachother or the ppl i've met are just rampant swingers and say fuck it, lets shag lol

Oh and I for one seem to appear to be going to less and less of the social events...I like a house party(one where u can bring yer own drink-or sponge lol)of course I still like the clubs as u really have a mixed bag of new people to meet.

refraining from using the variable word today...DOH!!!-BEhappywhateveryawannado.com/shag_paddy

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Maybe they just like chatting on adult sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you join a swingers site and then state:

"but not into swinging, parties or clubs"

This place still manages to surprise me!

"

I guess some people just treat Fab as free porn (a bit like the Readers' Wives section LOL).

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Why would you join a swingers site and then state:

"but not into swinging, parties or clubs"

This place still manages to surprise me!

I guess some people just treat Fab as free porn (a bit like the Readers' Wives section LOL)."

I never quite get that, theres loads of 'real' free porn sites out there, er, I'm told so why spend so much effort collecting grainy little pictures taken in a mirror with a phone camera?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they just like chatting on adult sites "

well surely if that was the case Ruggers they would find and Adult Chatting Site.

I was the woman Chezza is referring to in the post above (no not the one who doesnt swing, my arse has well and truely been abused lol). I did find it bizarre that the woman when being asked to meet said she didnt swing. I mean I think she meant it in the way that she didnt meet full stop in any shape or form. So yes I am puzzled as to why someone would join a swinging site not to swing. Its a bit like HPC joining the Lurpack forum with her distaste for butter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you join a swingers site and then state:

"but not into swinging, parties or clubs"

This place still manages to surprise me!

I guess some people just treat Fab as free porn (a bit like the Readers' Wives section LOL).

I never quite get that, theres loads of 'real' free porn sites out there, er, I'm told so why spend so much effort collecting grainy little pictures taken in a mirror with a phone camera? "

Excuse me, my pics were never taken in a mirror with a phone, that angle shows my cellulite

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Maybe they just like chatting on adult sites

well surely if that was the case Ruggers they would find and Adult Chatting Site.

"

I don't know, I was just making a suggestion

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By *oDownEasyMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Maybe there was just an extra comma, so instead of

"but not into swinging, parties or clubs"

it was meant to read

"but not into swinging parties or clubs"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are very into swinging, just clubs and parties (partys?) are not our thing, each to their own, we just prefer the intimate nature of meeting couples in private. Does that mean we are not swingers??

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By *irtyGirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Nope... there's no right or wrong way... it just made me giggle. Perhaps a missing comma is the answer.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Possibly they want to cam ,i know a couple who do the most amazing outdoor flashing pics,and she will be naughty on webcam,but they tried a meet once and hated it.

i agree tho DG , it does sound funny!

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