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Whats is with being called Babes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

does any else find this a turn off

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Yes petal, I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hate being called babe.babe was a pig in a film

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Not my favourite thing but the worst for me is 'Dear'...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol I have ones i canna call hun.

I have ones i canna call babe.

I have ones i canna call love.

So what do ya do fa the best? lol

Sometimes ya needs a term of endearment ta make mail etc less formal.

Personally couldn't give a monkeys what folk call me lol and boy they do sometimes xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It' an instant turn off for the missus also darling

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Pet names do nothing for me. Babe and hun in particular make me shudder.

Occasionally I'll refer to people as chick or lovely but I'd rather people didn't call me anything. DG is fine.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"Pet names do nothing for me. Babe and hun in particular make me shudder.

Occasionally I'll refer to people as chick or lovely but I'd rather people didn't call me anything. DG is fine. "

DG, can I call you PANTY lover xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate hate hate it from strangers. It's only ever appropriate in a relationship, whether friends or partners.

Anyone on here who calls me hun or babe in a message will be blanked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i absolutely hate being called babe, especially, from people who dont know me, and have never met me. Anytime, we get mail and they call me this, it gets deleted.

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By *orders-cplCouple
over a year ago

middx cpl

Rather hear suck it bitch than suck it babe. im no ones babe but i am a bitch.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Pet names do nothing for me. Babe and hun in particular make me shudder.

Occasionally I'll refer to people as chick or lovely but I'd rather people didn't call me anything. DG is fine.

DG, can I call you PANTY lover xx"

What ever you say my little swamp duck. xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hate hate hate it from strangers. It's only ever appropriate in a relationship, whether friends or partners.

Anyone on here who calls me hun or babe in a message will be blanked. "

Good to hear i'm not the only one, not sure why but it really puts me off people

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Pet names do nothing for me. Babe and hun in particular make me shudder.

Occasionally I'll refer to people as chick or lovely but I'd rather people didn't call me anything. DG is fine.

DG, can I call you PANTY lover xx"

Fuck off! No you can't! Bint!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just depends who ur with, I call some of my fem friends slut, and thats the affectionate term. I do think some people, and of course its mainly women who get pet name annoyances, really should ease up a bit instead of sounding angry when they are called babe,darling,hun(Rangers girls hate that lol) etc...pretty easy enough just to ask not to be called it. Remember people have been saying "Babe" before it came out as a film lol

p.s women are allowed to call eachother babe n hun more than men I've noticed.....

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

There are worse things you van be called to be fair. Only the other day I got a message off some guy calling me a fat cunt

So in the grand scheme of things babes ain't that bad

Oh and just so you know - fat cunt =instant turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"really should ease up a bit instead of sounding angry when they are called babe,darling,hun(Rangers girls hate that lol) etc...pretty easy enough just to ask not to be called it. Remember people have been saying "Babe" before it came out as a film lol

"

Why should we ease up? Pretty much all the women on this thread so far have said they hate it. Does that not tell you something?

I have it on my profile not to address me as such and STILL they do it. So clearly, politely asking makes no difference.

And single men on here wonder why they struggle to get meets...

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

It depends on the context,in a patronising way then no but for me they're just friendly terms of endearment and don't bother me at all,I use some myself and yes I agree Eve there are far worse things you can be called but again in the right setting and context they're also a turn on

Not fat cunt of course!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

[Removed by poster at 03/05/11 10:35:17]

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I hate being referred to as a 'fem' also... we're women/females/girls/chicks...

*shudders some more*

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

If people are trying to get into my knickers by thinking calling me babe/hun etc in a first mail, it wouldn't work as it is an instant turn off.

They only have to say " can I get into your knickers" instead and I will give them a straight answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are worse things you van be called to be fair. Only the other day I got a message off some guy calling me a fat cunt

So in the grand scheme of things babes ain't that bad

Oh and just so you know - fat cunt =instant turn off "

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands

Just my OP but I consider that informality; whether you like it or otherwie as wholly inapproprate untill you have built up a relationship and people are comfortable at allowing one another to be less formal and use terms of endearment

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I had someone call me 'my dear' in a message today - and they were about 10 years younger than me! Grr!

I don't mind babe/ hun from people I know (usually tongue in cheek style) (note, 'don't mind' as opposed to something more positive such as 'quite like') However, I do find them irritating in messages from random strangers. It won't get them an instant 'no', but it does earn them a big black mark, especially if they're younger than me. I really, really don't like bitch/ whore/ slut or anything of that nature, though - instant total turn off, whatever the situation

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"

And single men on here wonder why they struggle to get meets... "

Only some of them babe.

ooops!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I'll hold my hands up...

Chick... chuck... flower... petal.... I have probably used all of those...

nothing in it.... it's just me

so shoot me!!!!

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"I'll hold my hands up...

Chick... chuck... flower... petal.... I have probably used all of those...

nothing in it.... it's just me

so shoot me!!!! "

gun cocked and aimed!!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"I'll hold my hands up...

Chick... chuck... flower... petal.... I have probably used all of those...

nothing in it.... it's just me

so shoot me!!!!

gun cocked and aimed!! "

Don't shoot the dude/pal/matey/bro!!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I'll hold my hands up...

Chick... chuck... flower... petal.... I have probably used all of those...

nothing in it.... it's just me

so shoot me!!!! "

For me they're better than babe/hun. For one thing, I'm not a babe. I'd never class myself as such and it just makes me cringe a bit.

As has been said, I don't really like pet names from anyone but especially not strangers... it's over familiar and unnecessary. From someone I know and if its specific it can actually make me warm slightly inside.

~author is contrary~

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Babe, hun, chick, pet, m'duck.... whatever, I'm not that fussed, it's only people trying to be friendly.

I am not uptight enough to let people trying to be friendly annoy me with a word.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I'll hold my hands up...

Chick... chuck... flower... petal.... I have probably used all of those...

nothing in it.... it's just me

so shoot me!!!!

For me they're better than babe/hun. For one thing, I'm not a babe. I'd never class myself as such and it just makes me cringe a bit.

As has been said, I don't really like pet names from anyone but especially not strangers... it's over familiar and unnecessary. From someone I know and if its specific it can actually make me warm slightly inside.

~author is contrary~ "

That you are babe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"really should ease up a bit instead of sounding angry when they are called babe,darling,hun(Rangers girls hate that lol) etc...pretty easy enough just to ask not to be called it. Remember people have been saying "Babe" before it came out as a film lol

Why should we ease up? Pretty much all the women on this thread so far have said they hate it. Does that not tell you something?

I have it on my profile not to address me as such and STILL they do it. So clearly, politely asking makes no difference.

And single men on here wonder why they struggle to get meets... "

Ohh! we just cant say anything right can we...I'd be more concerned if I sent fuckmenow messages or Im 11inches wanna meet......what next, lets ban the words gorgeous or sexy when mailing or posting???-and I would really not entirely find the forums as being reflective of what all women think(site wise or unsite wise), its all about taking the way people talk and act variably, and not jumping down the throat!-fair enough if u have said on your profile about ur preferences to one mans(or womans) probably pretty genuinely thinking compliment not being read.As said before theres worse messages incoming as we speak I imagine!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Rather hear suck it bitch than suck it babe. im no ones babe but i am a bitch."

Beautiful

individual

that

caues

hardon-ons

yeah i'd prefer that, at least in the right place

I'm fine with a lot of terms it's just BABE just i don't why it buggs me so much

I do know it's not meant in offense

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"really should ease up a bit instead of sounding angry when they are called babe,darling,hun(Rangers girls hate that lol) etc...pretty easy enough just to ask not to be called it. Remember people have been saying "Babe" before it came out as a film lol

Why should we ease up? Pretty much all the women on this thread so far have said they hate it. Does that not tell you something?

I have it on my profile not to address me as such and STILL they do it. So clearly, politely asking makes no difference.

And single men on here wonder why they struggle to get meets...

Ohh! we just cant say anything right can we...I'd be more concerned if I sent fuckmenow messages or Im 11inches wanna meet......what next, lets ban the words gorgeous or sexy when mailing or posting???-and I would really not entirely find the forums as being reflective of what all women think(site wise or unsite wise), its all about taking the way people talk and act variably, and not jumping down the throat!-fair enough if u have said on your profile about ur preferences to one mans(or womans) probably pretty genuinely thinking compliment not being read.As said before theres worse messages incoming as we speak I imagine!!"

All I asked if it was just me that didn't like it

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I'll hold my hands up...

Chick... chuck... flower... petal.... I have probably used all of those...

nothing in it.... it's just me

so shoot me!!!!

For me they're better than babe/hun. For one thing, I'm not a babe. I'd never class myself as such and it just makes me cringe a bit.

As has been said, I don't really like pet names from anyone but especially not strangers... it's over familiar and unnecessary. From someone I know and if its specific it can actually make me warm slightly inside.

~author is contrary~

That you are babe x"

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I've got a regular lady who calls me babe. Doesn't phase me but it's not a term I use myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

All I asked if it was just me that didn't like it "

The comment(s) made where in specific response to the other posts, I know what ur post was, i dont center on people, but I dont agree with much of the forum ppls opinions, I wont just sit and agree with the smartest person who posts, or listen to in MY opinion crappy comments about single guys not getting meets for calling women babe etc lol so with regards ...er...woman person, i like u!-just dont want to label u with a complimenary pet name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a rule I don't call anyone babes.

Some women do call men babes. I've been called it and I don't mind if she's being friendly and it just her way of getting into my pants.

In answer to your question BG: I don't find it a turn off.

I do think some people need to chill-out a little around here though.

Some of the rants are more revealing than some of the profiles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind being called babe or hun, I hate being called sexy or gorgeous though by someone who has never met me especially in a first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had someone call me 'my dear' in a message today - and they were about 10 years younger than me! Grr!"

I've had two men in the past fortnight call me "young lady" and both of them were only a couple of years older than me! The context was entirely inappropriate - nothing to do with paying me a compliment but just coming over as really patronising. One of them started "now them young lady..."

Yuk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for the last 30yrs I've been called "Oy"

I prefer to address ladies by their names rather than pet names, it's something I've always done, but then, I'm a Gentleman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for the last 30yrs I've been called "Oy"

I prefer to address ladies by their names rather than pet names, it's something I've always done, but then, I'm a Gentleman "

Im waiting fa the punchline Jack xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind the only thing I hate is being called duck whats that all about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont mind the only thing I hate is being called duck whats that all about"

sorry shaz i meant fuck, easy keyboard error!!!!! hehehehe

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By *edhotminxWoman
over a year ago

Turn left at the Singing Ringing Tree

Being called 'babe' has me looking behind me for a pram and as for 'hun', well I go looking for my german helmet ....

*opens up notebook to record all the helmet references/jokes that will surely now follow*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

duck, duckey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being called 'babe' has me looking behind me for a pram and as for 'hun', well I go looking for my german helmet ....

*opens up notebook to record all the helmet references/jokes that will surely now follow*"

removes the spike....now its ready n wont hurt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my partner call each other babe,

but when someone else does it it reminds me of a creep lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is it with being called babes.....does anyone else find this a turn off?

I do find it a turn off when he has me lubed up doing me anal and asks me to..... squeal like a piggy babe...... a huge turn off, knocks me right off my rhythm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with being called babes.....does anyone else find this a turn off?

I do find it a turn off when he has me lubed up doing me anal and asks me to..... squeal like a piggy babe...... a huge turn off, knocks me right off my rhythm."
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with being called babes.....does anyone else find this a turn off?

I do find it a turn off when he has me lubed up doing me anal and asks me to..... squeal like a piggy babe...... a huge turn off, knocks me right off my rhythm."

now imagine he or she said, let me slide this between ur bacon rashers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol I have ones i canna call hun.

I have ones i canna call babe.

I have ones i canna call love.

So what do ya do fa the best? lol

Sometimes ya needs a term of endearment ta make mail etc less formal.

Personally couldn't give a monkeys what folk call me lol and boy they do sometimes xx "

But STILL you do it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with being called babes.....does anyone else find this a turn off?

I do find it a turn off when he has me lubed up doing me anal and asks me to..... squeal like a piggy babe...... a huge turn off, knocks me right off my rhythm.

now imagine he or she said, let me slide this between ur bacon rashers!"

....think I'd tell him to take his man sausage and pork orf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By calling them babes.....

It saves embarrassment by forgetting their names

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I'll (martin) hold my hand up and admit I use "hun" quite a bit, especially in the chatrooms. Many of the replies I get contain it too. I call all the guys "dude", and many others say "m8".

With ladies I know well I use allsorts, especially when taking the piss lol (hunni, sweetie, sugar knckers etc) but not babe, just not my style.

Considering what we are on here for, a little informality isnt such a bad thing, surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to call a lot of my friends (and my family) babe, it's just a term of endearment to me and comes out of my mouth without me even realising. Lynne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll (martin) hold my hand up and admit I use "hun" quite a bit, especially in the chatrooms. Many of the replies I get contain it too. I call all the guys "dude", and many others say "m8".

With ladies I know well I use allsorts, especially when taking the piss lol (hunni, sweetie, sugar knckers etc) but not babe, just not my style.

Considering what we are on here for, a little informality isnt such a bad thing, surely?"

Would rather be called babes than "allsorts"

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I'll (martin) hold my hand up and admit I use "hun" quite a bit, especially in the chatrooms. Many of the replies I get contain it too. I call all the guys "dude", and many others say "m8".

With ladies I know well I use allsorts, especially when taking the piss lol (hunni, sweetie, sugar knckers etc) but not babe, just not my style.

Considering what we are on here for, a little informality isnt such a bad thing, surely?

Would rather be called babes than "allsorts" "

See I'd rather have allsorts!

Contrary Mary will do though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello allsorts

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Hello allsorts "

Wotcha babes!

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By *igco51Man
over a year ago

lockerbie

lol i was wondering why my msgs were gettin deleted without a reply haha have to stop calling gals babe and hun then?

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

in scotland we get called "pet" am nobodys pet

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By *igco51Man
over a year ago

lockerbie

_usty i dnt call anyone pet lol xim from scotland

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"in scotland we get called "pet" am nobodys pet"

can't say I've ever been called pet, usually bint!!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"in scotland we get called "pet" am nobodys pet

can't say I've ever been called pet, usually bint!! "

Actually it's mad bint.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"in scotland we get called "pet" am nobodys pet

can't say I've ever been called pet, usually bint!!

Actually it's mad bint. "

thaanks for that Tadpole!!!!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"in scotland we get called "pet" am nobodys pet

can't say I've ever been called pet, usually bint!!

Actually it's mad bint.

thaanks for that Tadpole!!!!"

@~

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does any else find this a turn off"

oh my god.. It annoys the hell out of me.. Baby, babes, darling, princess I even had the other day.. it pretty much always means block..

Master calls me as he likes but I like it when Master does it. but I am his Babe.

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must annoy alot of people then because i call everyone hun

oooppss!!

kat x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't much like love - it's usually accompanied by some patronising comment as a bloke tries to reason with an unreasonable woman e.g. "look, love..."

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By *ideboyMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"I don't much like love - it's usually accompanied by some patronising comment as a bloke tries to reason with an unreasonable woman e.g. "look, love...""

Or it is reminiscent of Bruce Forsyth.

"n-n-n-n-n-n-n alright my love?"

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By *ideboyMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"

As has been said, I don't really like pet names from anyone but especially not strangers..

"

Glad I finally know this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the term of enderment i think is there so the guy can call his wife and bit on the side the same without using the wrong name in heated moments , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't much like love - it's usually accompanied by some patronising comment as a bloke tries to reason with an unreasonable woman e.g. "look, love..."

Or it is reminiscent of Bruce Forsyth.

"n-n-n-n-n-n-n alright my love?""

I hadn't thought of that but....good point!

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle

Well I apologise because to me, you're all darlinks and sweeties and hunny buns and loves and ahhhhhhhhh, but woe betide any of you that call me mate!!!! ha ha ha, hugz, xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont mind the only thing I hate is being called duck whats that all about"

don't take any notice they are quackers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol I have ones i canna call hun.

I have ones i canna call babe.

I have ones i canna call love.

So what do ya do fa the best? lol

Sometimes ya needs a term of endearment ta make mail etc less formal.

Personally couldn't give a monkeys what folk call me lol and boy they do sometimes xx "

I know what you hate being called, don't I duck? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

see, there's one now. xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"By calling them babes.....

It saves embarrassment by forgetting their names "

yep i think that why i've grown to hate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone who frequents those awful Chatrooms on this site (an unforgivable sin of course) I think the use of 'hun' 'babe(s)' etc by people on first conversation is really quite patronising and is normally a cack handed attempt at a fast s**g.

Clearly when you know someone very well you will find your own 'terms of endearment' for each other but when its "Hi hun / babes / sexy fancy a PM?" its just crap basically. The users are normally of a high opinion of themselves and can't understand why a woman won't just part her legs immediatel...

Having said that I do have to be very carefulk because I am from the West Country where 'moi luvver' or 'my lovely' are pretty common and used between blokes as well as between different sexes. And this can be misconstrued. So its not used unless I know the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does any else find this a turn off"

i dont mind its darling i hate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tuppence, I like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and i piss guys off when i tell them in a message, one guy said okay and havent spoken to him since then plenty more fish in the sea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As someone who frequents those awful Chatrooms on this site (an unforgivable sin of course) I think the use of 'hun' 'babe(s)' etc by people on first conversation is really quite patronising and is normally a cack handed attempt at a fast s**g.

Clearly when you know someone very well you will find your own 'terms of endearment' for each other but when its "Hi hun / babes / sexy fancy a PM?" its just crap basically. The users are normally of a high opinion of themselves and can't understand why a woman won't just part her legs immediatel...

Having said that I do have to be very carefulk because I am from the West Country where 'moi luvver' or 'my lovely' are pretty common and used between blokes as well as between different sexes. And this can be misconstrued. So its not used unless I know the person."

Term of endearment, exactly right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Babe, Love, Darlin', Honey, Poppet, Cherub, Chick, Angel, Sweetheart.

Can't see the big deal, after all they're only harmless terms of endearment.

I'm sure people get called a lot worse,no doubt I have been.

I sometimes think people are too reactionary over things of little consequence. T

XXX

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Got to agree as don't like being called babe either but find hun even more annoying.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"I tend to call a lot of my friends (and my family) babe, it's just a term of endearment to me and comes out of my mouth without me even realising. Lynne"

we are exactly the same. People are just being friendly. We are not that easy to offend. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Babe, Love, Darlin', Honey, Poppet, Cherub, Chick, Angel, Sweetheart.

Can't see the big deal, after all they're only harmless terms of endearment.

I'm sure people get called a lot worse,no doubt I have been.

I sometimes think people are too reactionary over things of little consequence. T

XXX"

But is it not a bit too presumptuous?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Babe, Love, Darlin', Honey, Poppet, Cherub, Chick, Angel, Sweetheart.

Can't see the big deal, after all they're only harmless terms of endearment.

I'm sure people get called a lot worse,no doubt I have been.

I sometimes think people are too reactionary over things of little consequence. T

XXX

But is it not a bit too presumptuous?"

Just as long as they presume that I'm a friendly person,who doesn't get offended by light hearted banter,then I can't see a problem.

As I said,life's too short to let friendly terms,that mean as little to the user as they do to recipient,offend me. T

XXX

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Calm down dears, babes, huns, ducks etc

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i have just decided I am going to be an equal oppotunity offender in future..

I am just going to call everyone "OI"

there......problem solved!!!!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"

Calm down dears, babes, huns, ducks etc"

Oy!! (Thanks Fabio! Good tip

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By *ideboyMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"

I am just going to call everyone "OI"

"

Nothings changed then?

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

it doesnt bother me one bit

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"it doesnt bother me one bit"

It would seriously bother me in the world of work as it is demeaning and disrespectful to working women ... on here it is not my preferred way of being spoken to but it is ok. Better than some namesI have heard lol

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

don't call me hun,

don't call me love

don't call me babe,

don't call me dear,

don't call me,etc etc,(they hate that most)lol

then yous are out one day,she hears a guy saying to his wife/girlfriend.

your looking great hun.

she gives you that look,and says,

why don't you ever say anything like that to me.

ffs give us a friggin chance.

its like walking through a minefield,whilst yous throw grenades at us.

guys are much easier,yous can call us anything,yous like.

as long as yous get your laughing gear,

round our knobs.

.

signed

ex swinger tom.

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

personally I can't stick being called Babes, or Hun. On the last one, I don't have any immediately traceable German ancestry, so it's wholly inappropriate!

lol

Wolf

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"don't call me hun,

don't call me love

don't call me babe,

don't call me dear,

don't call me,etc etc,(they hate that most)lol

then yous are out one day,she hears a guy saying to his wife/girlfriend.

your looking great hun.

she gives you that look,and says,

why don't you ever say anything like that to me.

ffs give us a friggin chance.

its like walking through a minefield,whilst yous throw grenades at us.

guys are much easier,yous can call us anything,yous like.

as long as yous get your laughing gear,

round our knobs.

.

signed

ex swinger tom. "

Please dont resign xx

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"don't call me hun,

don't call me love

don't call me babe,

don't call me dear,

don't call me,etc etc,(they hate that most)lol

then yous are out one day,she hears a guy saying to his wife/girlfriend.

your looking great hun.

she gives you that look,and says,

why don't you ever say anything like that to me.

ffs give us a friggin chance.

its like walking through a minefield,whilst yous throw grenades at us.

guys are much easier,yous can call us anything,yous like.

as long as yous get your laughing gear,

round our knobs.

.

signed

ex swinger tom.

Please dont resign xx"

lol

thanks hun,oops.

that post may have been my resignation letter,for some.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"don't call me hun,

don't call me love

don't call me babe,

don't call me dear,

don't call me,etc etc,(they hate that most)lol

then yous are out one day,she hears a guy saying to his wife/girlfriend.

your looking great hun.

she gives you that look,and says,

why don't you ever say anything like that to me.

ffs give us a friggin chance.

its like walking through a minefield,whilst yous throw grenades at us.

guys are much easier,yous can call us anything,yous like.

as long as yous get your laughing gear,

round our knobs.

.

signed

ex swinger tom.

Please dont resign xx

lol

thanks hun,oops.

that post may have been my resignation letter,for some. "

I ll employ you again ther very second not even a second of garden leave for you

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

lol

when do i start.

i'm an early riser(in more ways than one xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok we have pet names that might be sweet and stomachchurnerly, I can be found in chat alot chatting and perving etc, i say "yaride","yashag","tastyfuck"....yet to be blocked lol....so gettin to my point,we all have our acceptable levels depending on how well we know or want to know a person...I just think anyone deserves a 2nd chance unless they were a total fud in the 1st message lol

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool


"it doesnt bother me one bit

It would seriously bother me in the world of work as it is demeaning and disrespectful to working women ... on here it is not my preferred way of being spoken to but it is ok. Better than some namesI have heard lol"

i can see where ur coming from but i use the terms myself so i cant really say anything! hehe

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