FabSwingers.com forum: What's the most important part for YOU leading up to sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello everyone

Just wanted to know everyone's opinions on this subject as we all like DIFFERENT things in the bedroom (or outside if your into that??)

What's the most important part for you leading up to sex?

Mine would be passionately kissing whilst playing with each other's hair, I also love looking deep into the persons eyes for a short while before the kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding a partner who is willing.

Otherwise it is the hood, ropes and handcuffs again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Capture my imagination and let me try and capture yours. Before even meeting.

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"Capture my imagination and let me try and capture yours. Before even meeting."

100 %this

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sliding my hand down to their wrist to check for a pulse, if all is good then the lips get busy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Capture my imagination and let me try and capture yours. Before even meeting."

Yeah, that works.

You do that by sending a cock pic and asking for a fuck, right?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Definately passionate kissing to get the juices going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definately passionate kissing to get the juices going

... And cock pics, obviously.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Knowing how much he wants me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Knowing how much he wants me.

A cock pic would help with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definately passionate kissing to get the juices going

We second that

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Knowing how much he wants me.

A cock pic would help with that

Yeah, a crescendo of them leading up to the big day!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Passionate sexy kissing to get us a little riled up, then wandering hands slipping into pants for a hint of what lies ahead...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello everyone

Just wanted to know everyone's opinions on this subject as we all like DIFFERENT things in the bedroom (or outside if your into that??)

What's the most important part for you leading up to sex?

Mine would be passionately kissing whilst playing with each other's hair, I also love looking deep into the persons eyes for a short while before the kiss "

Kissing and touching together preferably with talking too

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I like to tease and go slow. When we finally touch intimately, I want her to be achingly wanting and almost dragging my tongue onto her wetness.

Or, if she brings gin...

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

when he gets undressed in my bedroom, stands at the side of my bed and i touch his cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting over the disbelief that anyone would want to get jiggy - once finally through that barrier then definitely love a bit of touching, stroking, cuddling, nibbling, licking and kissing etc.. very much a foreplay person.

Gently nibble my ear or breathe heavily into it and I'm a goner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Undressing him, or watching him undress.

Although, I did have someone lay naked on the bed, blindfolded. I came in and stood at the end of the bed looking his body over, before kissing him gently on the mouth. He hadn't seen me in person, prior to this.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"Undressing him, or watching him undress.

My favourite type of meet. Roles reversed of course. You can see their body tremble with even my breath against their skin. The air crackles with tension and that is exquusite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Undressing him, or watching him undress.

My favourite type of meet. Roles reversed of course. You can see their body tremble with even my breath against their skin. The air crackles with tension and that is exquusite.

I'm doing it all wrong

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"Undressing him, or watching him undress.

My favourite type of meet. Roles reversed of course. You can see their body tremble with even my breath against their skin. The air crackles with tension and that is exquusite.

I'm doing it all wrong

We both know that isn't true mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Undressing him, or watching him undress.

My favourite type of meet. Roles reversed of course. You can see their body tremble with even my breath against their skin. The air crackles with tension and that is exquusite.

I'm doing it all wrong

We both know that isn't true mate

Ha, I like the idea of a blindfold meet though, sounds awesome!

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I have had quite a few and they are amazing. I am a bit of a control freak on first meets though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing, stroking on the inner wrist and scratching gives me a instant turn on. Stroking my hair wouldn't do it for me, grabbing it however - yup that works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Passionate kissing is a bonus.Nibbling my neck or kissing it sends me wild. But kissing is top of the list

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

The anticipation of what is going to happen. The first kiss can change what you had planned to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The connection between me and whom I am meeting before anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be kissing for me, how somebody kisses can make or break what happens next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The anticipation and tension does it for me, the erotic texts, emails. It's important, as if someone doesn't get me excited like that then I'm not into them enough to want to sleep with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shaving my bits so they can find their way in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The anticipation of the meet. The kissing and then the roaming of hands amd then the peeling off of each others clothes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Undressing him, or watching him undress.

My favourite type of meet. Roles reversed of course. You can see their body tremble with even my breath against their skin. The air crackles with tension and that is exquusite.

The sexual tension is overpowering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the most important part for YOU leading up to sex"

Kissing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laughing together and then eyes meeting and you know there's a connection, after that everything else just flows!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Condoms "

Whilst I do fuck protected...

Isn't the putting on a condom literally the LEAST sexy part.

I straight up can lose a boner over it.

Especially if the damn thing doesn't fit and I have to squeeze the fucker on.

Because I've got such an ENORMOUS cock!!

**holy shit I sound like another poster**

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fun, laughter, caressing bare skin and naughty little whispers...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fun, laughter, caressing bare skin and naughty little whispers..."

I dont care. I just love your pics.

You have a fab body. Sexy guy xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laughing, eye contact, innuendo, a hot body against my back and naughty whispers in my ear.

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

"Capture my imagination and let me try and capture yours. Before even meeting."

That works for the pair of us too. M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's the kiss and the teasing touches xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's best when the chemistry is there n you both just physically click.

Passionate,strong kisses n grabbing her ass cheeks n forcibly pulling her body into a heated clinch with my own as we entwine n linger awhile tasting n smelling each other like wild animals in heat!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Licking her bewbies

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

How they hold you and how they kiss

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By *odestyB007Woman
over a year ago

Winchester

Really lust filled eyes and passionate kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really lust filled eyes and passionate kissing

Yep this

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Making each other giggle, laugh.

Always a good precursor to sex for me.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

Getting my juices going is a good precursor. .... Who wants to bang a dry pussy. Xxxxxx Suzi

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

The interplay between two sexual minds the teasing of ones imagination and the teasing of another's imagination by my imagination .

Such play when done right can made even the briefest touch electric .such mental play in a public place with the odd fleeting teasing touch can make the kissing touching and sex that follows electric .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kiss her from neck all the way down her slowly untill your between her legs. As long as i get to eat that p**sy and she has good timethen all is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

revealing myself in the nicest possible way. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flirting over a drink , chatting and laughing , the first touch , watching her smile as I undress , seeing her look down at my manhood as I take off my shorts before kissing her passionately.

Yes basically everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The interplay between two sexual minds the teasing of ones imagination and the teasing of another's imagination by my imagination .

The anticipation and spark and the head fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sliding my hand down to their wrist to check for a pulse, if all is good then the lips get busy."

A potential meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"revealing myself in the nicest possible way. .."

Unless you appear in a previously empty glass box with a bengal tiger wearing a sequinned dress, I wouldn't be happy.

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By *ife adventurerMan
over a year ago

North Essex

A connection and mutual desire ...everything else then just falls into place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Passionate kissing . Gets me all the time . Close enough for lips to touch feeling the breathe between u getting hotter that's so sexy to me . Hands running up n down their body nails slightly scratching . Hot under the collar now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without a doubt , the initial eye contact , the look of lust and the first passionate kiss .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without a doubt , the initial eye contact , the look of lust and the first passionate kiss .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eye contact kissing

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

The building of anticipation, slowly ratcheting it up...

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By *tevie1Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

A good spanking !!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Eye contact kissing "

And smothering each other in peanut butter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a chat in a pub or hotel lounge before going to bed. Watching someone animated and knowing I'm going to be naked with them later is erotic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Condoms

Whilst I do fuck protected...

Isn't the putting on a condom literally the LEAST sexy part.

I straight up can lose a boner over it.

Especially if the damn thing doesn't fit and I have to squeeze the fucker on.

Because I've got such an ENORMOUS cock!!

**holy shit I sound like another poster**

Making sure I got condoms silly, 'tis the most important

Once that's sorted then foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hair removal treatment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Checking the use by date on the chlorophorm bottle

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