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Is this site a “50 Shades of Grey” substitute

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So many people on here, both male and female, moan that people don’t turn up to meets. Is this site for a great many people, (not all), a place merely to live out fantasy’s but never actually act on them.

Just like 50 Shades of Grey, (the whole world seemed to read it), it certainly tapped into some latent sexual urges of many many people, but only a small percentage actually took the next step and made their fantasies reality.

So, like 50 Shades of Grey, is this site just an escapism for most people on it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is for me. I'd like to be Mr Grey.

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We have had our fair share of timewasters since being here.

We have only had to cancel one meet so far due to some serious personal issues.

We now have made changes to our personal arrangements so if a meet doesnt show, we report and move on to plan B

If people would rather sit and home and wank then its up to them

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"So many people on here, both male and female, moan that people don’t turn up to meets. Is this site for a great many people, (not all), a place merely to live out fantasy’s but never actually act on them.

Just like 50 Shades of Grey, (the whole world seemed to read it), it certainly tapped into some latent sexual urges of many many people, but only a small percentage actually took the next step and made their fantasies reality.

So, like 50 Shades of Grey, is this site just an escapism for most people on it?"

Never read it and like to think I do alright in the round...

But. I like the question.

You can stay, OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because that book is shit! I'd rather read Jilly frigging Cooper.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, for some it's a place to find something to wank over or to have men tell them how beautiful they are, even with photoshopped pics.

For others it's somewhere to look for people to have sex with, which may take a day or two of talking, or a few months.

For others, sadly, it's a place for earning a bob or two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people would rather sit and home and wank then its up to them"

Perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to sit at home and wank but l failed to turn up for a session and blocked myself as a tinewaster!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I do meet, however I find it hard to find men I am attacted to and who can stimulate my mind as well as my body.

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By *dsindyTV/TS
over a year ago

East Lancashire


"No because that book is shit! I'd rather read Jilly frigging Cooper."

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to sit at home and wank but l failed to turn up for a session and blocked myself as a tinewaster!"

bloody men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never read it. I prefer the old Nexus books.

And not really into BDSM either as there is a fine line between being dominant and being a dick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The question isn't really about the quality of the book but why the majority of people are on here - for fun and fantasy only to spice up their lives or to find people to actually meet and have sex with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many people on here, both male and female, moan that people don’t turn up to meets. Is this site for a great many people, (not all), a place merely to live out fantasy’s but never actually act on them.

Just like 50 Shades of Grey, (the whole world seemed to read it), it certainly tapped into some latent sexual urges of many many people, but only a small percentage actually took the next step and made their fantasies reality.

So, like 50 Shades of Grey, is this site just an escapism for most people on it?"

I wouldn't know, I never read the books or saw the film, but judging from the amount of muppets on here who call themselves 'mrgrey' you would think so, wouldn't you

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I do meet, however I find it hard to find men I am attacted to and who can stimulate my mind as well as my body."

Also you could most definitely improve your chances if you look closer to home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs read the books to see what all the fuss was about. I'd rather poke my eyes out.

And yes, we meet, but certain aspects of 'traditional' swinging don't interest us.

People do come to this with unrealistic expectations, but we're honest with ourselves about what we do and don't like.

If that means we don't meet often, so be it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, for some it's a place to find something to wank over or to have men tell them how beautiful they are, even with photoshopped pics.

For others it's somewhere to look for people to have sex with, which may take a day or two of talking, or a few months.

For others, sadly, it's a place for earning a bob or two. "

Earning a bob or two ??? You mean prostitution?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely though this site will suffer some fall out, the biggest impact of the 50 shades books would be on actual BDSM sites?

As for meeting, no I am not interested in meeting, or wanking material, but when we were on here as a couple, there were plenty of people willing to meet.

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham


"I do meet, however I find it hard to find men I am attacted to and who can stimulate my mind as well as my body."

Cocaine madam ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot here are just fantasists but that's why group socials and clubs are a important source for meeting people, we are lucky as we have met some great people over the years

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