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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok I have been chatting to a lass on here for a couple of days she was telling me how she had no money for gas and electric so after chatting for a couple of days she still never got her money sorted so I offered to lend her some money and straightaway it was when can you come and drop it off and I really want you to lick my pussy and all of that blah blah so anyway I got there I got through the front door the house is a bomb site looked like a Drug Den I was thinking Get Me Out of Here she asked me for the money before I change my mind I give her £10 so she could get some food I really felt sorry for her she said she had a small boy so anyway we went upstairs for not having no electric and gas the telly was playing away to itself the house felt warm I sat on the bed it seems like she was trying to delay things well I heard the front door opening I had only been in the house 5 minutes if that it was her boyfriend but she said she never had one screaming who is that you have brought in here it was obviously a setup I told Fab admin about it they deleted her account but I have just seen yesterday she has set up a new account I know this as shes is saying add me to kik and is the same name she give me so please everybody watch out I don't want to put her name on here as I have told Fab admin and sent 5 messages since yesterday that she has set up a new account and they have done nothing about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And... breathe.

Basically, if anyone I chatted to here started asking me for money they would be blocked immediately

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

Why the fuck would you give a stranger off here money!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would have but I'm a big softy and felt sorry for her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think with the brain in your head not the brain in your pants. If anyone asks for money tell them to go and whistle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

........"so I offered to lend her some money"

and that is where the story fell apart chap.. still lesson learned eh?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Scammers wouldn't be able to scam unless people like you fell for it, which you did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah don't be parting with money again OP. Just report the profile and block it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I normally would have but I felt really sorry for her I have kids to and I would really really hate not to be able to feed them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If house was like a Bomb site why did it progress to going upstairs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The phrase 'streetwise' comes to mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You fucked up by agreeing to go meet her to give her some money.

Live and learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have but I'm a big softy and felt sorry for her"

she sees you as an easy target now. don't be soft and block her every time, report as well i guess.

it's nice to be nice but you have to look after yourself as well, that's very important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If house was like a Bomb site why did it progress to going upstairs "

Have you never had sex under fire? It's AWESOME!

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Mate, she had you hook line and sinker.

People like this will always exploit those if they can.

Ultimately its tantamount to prostitution, pay cash for sexual favours.

If she was that strapped for cash, why was she on here and not doing something about it?

Admin do need to stamp down on the con artists, timewasters and like....but whilst there are people who are tricked into the scams then the scammers will keep coming back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

£10 - you got off lightly!

As others say - lesson learned and report to admin if you have concerns about a profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you have written this if she'd had sex with you?

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Ok I have been chatting to a lass on here for a couple of days she was telling me how she had no money for gas and electric so after chatting for a couple of days she still never got her money sorted so I offered to lend her some money and straightaway it was when can you come and drop it off and I really want you to lick my pussy and all of that blah blah so anyway I got there I got through the front door the house is a bomb site looked like a Drug Den I was thinking Get Me Out of Here she asked me for the money before I change my mind I give her £10 so she could get some food I really felt sorry for her she said she had a small boy so anyway we went upstairs for not having no electric and gas the telly was playing away to itself the house felt warm I sat on the bed it seems like she was trying to delay things well I heard the front door opening I had only been in the house 5 minutes if that it was her boyfriend but she said she never had one screaming who is that you have brought in here it was obviously a setup I told Fab admin about it they deleted her account but I have just seen yesterday she has set up a new account I know this as shes is saying add me to kik and is the same name she give me so please everybody watch out I don't want to put her name on here as I have told Fab admin and sent 5 messages since yesterday that she has set up a new account and they have done nothing about it"

Was she related to a negerian Prince by any chance.. ..

Seriously fella you need give your head a wobble..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If house was like a Bomb site why did it progress to going upstairs "

Sooo many questions with this story...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have reported it five times but fab I've done nothing about it they deleted her account She scammed me on but she has set up the new one just want to put the message out there in case anyone else falls for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I normally would have but I felt really sorry for her I have kids to and I would really really hate not to be able to feed them"

Please dont knock this guy...he was trying to be kind hearted...he did get scammed ok...and obviously he leant her money for a reason...but deep down i think the OP has feelings for people...good luck OP....and dont let one person affect how you view other people

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Anyone asking for money, a lift to the airport, come and fix my washing machine.. No actually, washing machine repair is ok.. Basis of nearly every 70's porn film, just need to flares and a moustache.. Apart from the washing machine, that's am instant block.

Anyone that is offering sex for provision of a service.. Well come on..

And asking for money, just thank your lucky stars you didn't end up getting the shit kicked out of you by a couple of blokes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did you know she had a small boy ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If house was like a Bomb site why did it progress to going upstairs

Have you never had sex under fire? It's AWESOME! "
in front of a log fire I have that was hot in more ways than one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Because I'm soft and I didn't want to hurt her feelings she said she was in the middle of decorating I was trying to think of an excuse to get out I had only been in the house 5 and it is not a story it's a warning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I have been chatting to a lass on here for a couple of days she was telling me how she had no money for gas and electric so after chatting for a couple of days she still never got her money sorted so I offered to lend her some money and straightaway it was when can you come and drop it off and I really want you to lick my pussy and all of that blah blah so anyway I got there I got through the front door the house is a bomb site looked like a Drug Den I was thinking Get Me Out of Here she asked me for the money before I change my mind I give her £10 so she could get some food I really felt sorry for her she said she had a small boy so anyway we went upstairs for not having no electric and gas the telly was playing away to itself the house felt warm I sat on the bed it seems like she was trying to delay things well I heard the front door opening I had only been in the house 5 minutes if that it was her boyfriend but she said she never had one screaming who is that you have brought in here it was obviously a setup I told Fab admin about it they deleted her account but I have just seen yesterday she has set up a new account I know this as shes is saying add me to kik and is the same name she give me so please everybody watch out I don't want to put her name on here as I have told Fab admin and sent 5 messages since yesterday that she has set up a new account and they have done nothing about it"

Sounds as if you booked a £10 prozzie and didnt even know it! You're so moneysupermarket!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I normally would have but I felt really sorry for her I have kids to and I would really really hate not to be able to feed them

Please dont knock this guy...he was trying to be kind hearted...he did get scammed ok...and obviously he leant her money for a reason...but deep down i think the OP has feelings for people...good luck OP....and dont let one person affect how you view other people "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"........"so I offered to lend her some money"

and that is where the story fell apart chap.. still lesson learned eh?"

I don't think the Op will be doing this again on a hurry.

Sorry op. But you learnt the hard way. Deep breath. Move on.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Is this for real?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I normally would have but I felt really sorry for her I have kids to and I would really really hate not to be able to feed them

Please dont knock this guy...he was trying to be kind hearted...he did get scammed ok...and obviously he leant her money for a reason...but deep down i think the OP has feelings for people...good luck OP....and dont let one person affect how you view other people "

I hear what you are saying but the connotations of "money" and "swinging"... it's just too.... well obvious; sure if you have known a fabster for a while, and are friends outside the scene and in, then yes, helping someone out of a sticky spot (STOP IT!) is a kind thing to do... but some random? Okay so they chatted, but they hadn't met or anything...

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By *aystay66Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Why the fuck would you give a stranger off here money!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this for real?"

Tes it happens on here i for one know !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Coz she told me she had

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"And... breathe.

Basically, if anyone I chatted to here started asking me for money they would be blocked immediately "

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why the fuck would you give a stranger off here money! "
Oh i'd definitely go a tenner if those pants were lower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this for real?"
a tenner ? That's a bargain . I usually charge 15

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, at least you got a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I no now but i fell for it plain and simple but never will again I thought I was doing a good turn and trying to help someone out

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Is this for real? a tenner ? That's a bargain . I usually charge 15 "

I thought he was going to say £110 ar first . You charge £15 I'll be round in ten,clear your rubbish up though!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

is all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you I will next time

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By *ait88Man
over a year ago

Plymouth


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Please dont knock this guy...he was trying to be kind hearted...he did get scammed ok...and obviously he leant her money for a reason...but deep down i think the OP has feelings for people...good luck OP....and dont let one person affect how you view other people "

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I no now but i fell for it plain and simple but never will again I thought I was doing a good turn and trying to help someone out"

Sometimes we learn the hard way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this for real? a tenner ? That's a bargain . I usually charge 15

I thought he was going to say £110 ar first . You charge £15 I'll be round in ten,clear your rubbish up though!"
if I have too clean up you better make it 4 or 5 hours x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men, eh?

We can all be so vulnerable when it comes to damsels in distress. Many a girl has had me wrapped around her finger (I feel a song coming on!)

I will never stop being nice just because every so often someone takes advantage of me and you shouldn't either.

We just need to be a little streetwise occasionally. The money's not important but your safety is!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Is this for real? a tenner ? That's a bargain . I usually charge 15

I thought he was going to say £110 ar first . You charge £15 I'll be round in ten,clear your rubbish up though! if I have too clean up you better make it 4 or 5 hours x"

Mucky bugger!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She asked me £40 but I said I only had 10 pound she said thank you for your kindness I will buy some food for me and my child with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this for real? a tenner ? That's a bargain . I usually charge 15

I thought he was going to say £110 ar first . You charge £15 I'll be round in ten,clear your rubbish up though! if I have too clean up you better make it 4 or 5 hours x

Mucky bugger!"
What do you expect for 15 quid . Yer get what yer pay for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have reported it five times but fab I've done nothing about it they deleted her account She scammed me on but she has set up the new one just want to put the message out there in case anyone else falls for it "

Send her my way. I'd have fucked her first with every excuse in the book. Then when she's ranting about why I'm not back from the cashpoint already, I'd be back home drinking tea and laughing at her messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't meet at theirs, meet somewhere public and drink tap water, it's free.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Is this for real? a tenner ? That's a bargain . I usually charge 15

I thought he was going to say £110 ar first . You charge £15 I'll be round in ten,clear your rubbish up though! if I have too clean up you better make it 4 or 5 hours x

Mucky bugger! What do you expect for 15 quid . Yer get what yer pay for "

I'll pay you £20,get it sorted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gave a homeless guy a fiver for food once. He went straight into the bookies he was sat outside of. Maybe they had a vending machine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She asked me £40 but I said I only had 10 pound she said thank you for your kindness I will buy some food for me and my child with it"
oh that old chestnut . To be quite honest though op . I would of probably gave her it too . ( and the tenner )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you I don't think I will meet anyone at their house again it was a really scary moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this for real? a tenner ? That's a bargain . I usually charge 15

I thought he was going to say £110 ar first . You charge £15 I'll be round in ten,clear your rubbish up though! if I have too clean up you better make it 4 or 5 hours x

Mucky bugger! What do you expect for 15 quid . Yer get what yer pay for

I'll pay you £20,get it sorted! "
Make it £30 then I can afford to get someone in . I need to save all my strength

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you I don't think I will meet anyone at their house again it was a really scary moment"
Nah meet in a hotel it only costs £70

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I normally would have but I felt really sorry for her I have kids to and I would really really hate not to be able to feed them

Please dont knock this guy...he was trying to be kind hearted...he did get scammed ok...and obviously he leant her money for a reason...but deep down i think the OP has feelings for people...good luck OP....and dont let one person affect how you view other people "

Well said.

I'm sorry op you fell for this I too would of done along time ago. Don't be too hard on yourself it sounds to me like your a nice kind hearted man. Just keep your eyes open next time. We ain't all cold hearted bitches. Xxx

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I'm not sure I'd describe it as a scam.. she told a sob story , guy thought he'd be a good Samaritan (and get to lick her pussy) and 'lend' her the money..

It's a lot of things ...but a scam ..nah.

Can't wait to read the verification.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Thank you I don't think I will meet anyone at their house again it was a really scary moment"

Don't let it put you off,just ignore those that are mentioning money problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I have been chatting to a lass on here for a couple of days she was telling me how she had no money for gas and electric so after chatting for a couple of days she still never got her money sorted so I offered to lend her some money and straightaway it was when can you come and drop it off and I really want you to lick my pussy and all of that blah blah so anyway I got there I got through the front door the house is a bomb site looked like a Drug Den I was thinking Get Me Out of Here she asked me for the money before I change my mind I give her £10 so she could get some food I really felt sorry for her she said she had a small boy so anyway we went upstairs for not having no electric and gas the telly was playing away to itself the house felt warm I sat on the bed it seems like she was trying to delay things well I heard the front door opening I had only been in the house 5 minutes if that it was her boyfriend but she said she never had one screaming who is that you have brought in here it was obviously a setup I told Fab admin about it they deleted her account but I have just seen yesterday she has set up a new account I know this as shes is saying add me to kik and is the same name she give me so please everybody watch out I don't want to put her name on here as I have told Fab admin and sent 5 messages since yesterday that she has set up a new account and they have done nothing about it"

SUCKER!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you I don't think I will meet anyone at their house again it was a really scary moment

Don't let it put you off,just ignore those that are mentioning money problems "
go for the loaded ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I normally would have but I felt really sorry for her I have kids to and I would really really hate not to be able to feed them"

Played like a violin...

Families get tax credits and other benefits.

Dont be so stupid next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok how about this scam that happened on here to me...

Now i live in Grimsby...the girl i was talking to both on the phone and on Skype for 3 weeks prior to this happening lives in or said she did in Swindon... which is about a 3hr drive away from me.

So ok one Saturday i get a phone call from her...saying how about you come down tonight and stay...we can have some food and wine...a night of watching movies and a little bit of fun afterwards...i thought yeah why not..i've been talking and Skyping her so i know shes real...any to cut a long story short...i got within 10 mins of her "house"...she rang me saying could i call to the ATM...and get some money out as the food had arrived and the guy was going nuts as he had been waiting...and we can go to the ATM so she could withdraw some cash once i'd got there and we had eaten...sounded plausible to me,

OK i arrive at her "house"...there's some guy sat outside in a battered Vauxhall...looks very much like the average takeaway drivers car lol.

I gave him the cash he was effing and blinding about he will never deliver and to her after the wait he has had...and that shes got the food...ok fine....

I rang her number and it went drrrrrrrrrrr lol....knocked on the door of the address she had given me...guess what...a little old lady answered it....no one of that name lives here....the penny dropped lol...so i ended up having maccies on the service and getting home at 1am after a 6 or 7 hour drive lol....so yes there are scammers on her...in all forms not those that just ask for cash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op whilst it's a sad world we live in when people do things like this, I can't help but think that there is a part of you which was actually trying to exploit the situation for sex and your own gain. Had you been in Tesco and you were given the same sob story would you have so readily got your money out and felt sorry for her or was it a leg over on offer which pulled on the heart strings ?

By the way I have some magic beans and snake oil for sale if you would like to make me a offer ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you have written this if she'd had sex with you?"

Exactly this...

Being concerned about someones welfare means offering something with no expectation of anything in return OP.

It's a lesson learned but i find it hard to feel sympathy for you to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you I don't think I will meet anyone at their house again it was a really scary moment Nah meet in a hotel it only costs £70 "

Premier inn isn't. It's cheaper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So asking for money didn't ring alarm bells?

And despite thinking 'get me out of here' you still went upstairs?

Some people make it easier to be scammed than others

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Give Admin a chance to read the report.

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