FabSwingers.com forum: Do you like feedback?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When you've had a meet do you like feedback about what you did that they liked? Or is it enough that they just want another meet with you?

Possibly more applicable to people that meet more than once, but question open to everyone.

For example something specific like "I loved watching you ride my cock", and not just a generic "I had fun" type comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I like to get some feedback afterwards, although I like to think I'm quite good at reading their bodies during the meet. That's not always easy with one offs though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to yes, but not fussed if I don't get any as I'd rather not have them say something just make me feel good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I like a bit of feedback. I have form that I send out afterwards. Just a small multiple choice questionnaire, see how I can improve and there's a small section for additional comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I like a bit of feedback. I have form that I send out afterwards. Just a small multiple choice questionnaire, see how I can improve and there's a small section for additional comments. "

Do all completed surveys go into a draw to win an iPad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually find the fact that they are taking notes is feedback enough...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I like a bit of feedback. I have form that I send out afterwards. Just a small multiple choice questionnaire, see how I can improve and there's a small section for additional comments.

Do all completed surveys go into a draw to win an iPad?

No they go into a draw to win a special edition hatter mug.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feedback doesn't interest me.

As long as I've shot my load and wiped my cock on her upholstery that's all I'm bothered about !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use survey monkey.. as it can be done anonymously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do they say? Rejection often offends? I'd be crushed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I like a bit of feedback. I have form that I send out afterwards. Just a small multiple choice questionnaire, see how I can improve and there's a small section for additional comments.

Do all completed surveys go into a draw to win an iPad?

No they go into a draw to win a special edition hatter mug."

Even better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I like a bit of feedback. I have form that I send out afterwards. Just a small multiple choice questionnaire, see how I can improve and there's a small section for additional comments. "

Do you use Survey Monkey?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person, with the majority we are just happy if they want another meet.

I have a couple of men I see of a very regular basis and with them it's more open and we discuss what was good, what we want to try next etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yeah, it's lovely to remember and re-live the best bits.....sets the tone for the next meet too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like knowing what people like. I don't think I'd want feedback per se, but I would like to know what they would like to try next time. Exploration, what gets them going, that type of thing.

It depends on the person, though. With some people it all just flows and with others it's more descriptive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I like a bit of feedback. I have form that I send out afterwards. Just a small multiple choice questionnaire, see how I can improve and there's a small section for additional comments.

Do you use Survey Monkey?"

I don't actually. I don't want them to be anonymous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, simple score card's work better. Veri's should have a 1-10 rating system with the % being automatically displayed. Sort the chaff from the wheat!

(Sorry Dan

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I think it's enough just for someone to want a second meet,I don't need feedback suppose it would be nice though

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Not worried about feedback after,

Normally a "fuck off you nutjob" is all the feedback I need.

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"Not worried about feedback after,

Normally a "fuck off you nutjob" is all the feedback I need.

Such a romantic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I like a bit of feedback. I have form that I send out afterwards. Just a small multiple choice questionnaire, see how I can improve and there's a small section for additional comments.

Do you use Survey Monkey?

I don't actually. I don't want them to be anonymous "

There's a sneaky way you can use survey monkey to make people think their responses are anonymous when in fact they're not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah second meets I like to hear some feedback from the first meet. I like hearing any stories about myself actually. I like it when friends say oh remember that time when (my name) was kicking off in Marbella cos they charged her 4 euros for a magnet, or remember that time when that woman did this and (my name) did that, or remember that time where (my name) fell down a man hole, I like hearing their version of how things went down!

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

yes its good to know what they liked so we can do the same again, if we both liked it. trouble is if you leave a verification saying how good at something someone was it doesnt look very nice if you dont say the same thing about someone else who wasnt as good at something, so its easier to say we had fun.

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Oswestry

I think you know when they're enjoying it or not With me it's more asking about fantasies if it's a regular FB cause I love dress up and open to new things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I like it; don't expect it but it's nice to receive

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I have a pro-forma.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"How's my shagging?

Call 0800 XXX XXX"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No feedback required other than it was nice to meet you let's do it again/aren't one offs great,have a nice life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, otherwise I'll expect a shagging policy and procedure to be written.

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

After every meet boo has a bath and i pamper her, during it we discuss the night. Take away the pros and cons from it and think on ways we can make the next time more fun.

Normally we exchange a few messages after with the person and see what we can get from their perspective too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the idea when they block me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another meet (or not) is good enough feedback for me.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Would be nice as we don't look for one offs, As said if they say "Next month" & get their diaries out, it's all good, leaving a veri on here before you finished fucking maybe not so good

Stopped playing with wood for a cup of tea..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they tell me what they like at the time I don't mind what they say after. Even if it's to tell me I gave a shit blow job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you've had a meet do you like feedback about what you did that they liked? Or is it enough that they just want another meet with you?

Possibly more applicable to people that meet more than once, but question open to everyone.

For example something specific like "I loved watching you ride my cock", and not just a generic "I had fun" type comment. "

Afternoon

I like hearing feedback concerning their opinion of me after meeting in person. Whether that includes our sexual time together or just a social. What I don't like is them writing a verification full of details concerning our sexual antics.

If I sleep with someone, I like keeping it between the two of us. It's not the whole world of fabs business. Plus what I like with one person, I may not like with the next.

Verifying someone based on them as a person is much more effective in my opinion. I like to know a guy looks like his pics and is comfortable as well safe to spend time alone with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you've had a meet do you like feedback about what you did that they liked? Or is it enough that they just want another meet with you?

Possibly more applicable to people that meet more than once, but question open to everyone.

For example something specific like "I loved watching you ride my cock", and not just a generic "I had fun" type comment.

Afternoon

If I sleep with someone, I like keeping it between the two of us. It's not the whole world of fabs business. Plus what I like with one person, I may not like with the next.

Verifying someone based on them as a person is much more effective in my opinion. I like to know a guy looks like his pics and is comfortable as well safe to spend time alone with. "

You need a feedback form.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not necessarily feedback, but yes it's good to know if we were pushing the right buttons,especially as I have difficulty reading people.

Plus I do like a few naughty comments about the Mrs from guys she's been with

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I do with one guy but that's more about reliving the best bits and getting horny all over again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had 70 feedbacks on an online review site telling people how unbelievably awesome I am.

Now they're gone I'm still as awesome. It's just that no one knows except me.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

If they meet us again, that's usually a good sign that they thought we were alright.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, it's lovely to remember and re-live the best bits.....sets the tone for the next meet too.

Yes this!

Start with are we meeting again and then not to much get feedback but relive the highlights and then can know what you want more of the next time

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