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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guys how would you react if your partner walked in one day with the man/women that you had cheated with. The person has confessed all to your partner.what would you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Own up. Xxx

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

End of the day if you cheat then you need to be able to accept the consequences

No point in lying about it...busted, learn that cheating can be costly and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonder who the fuck they were! Not much point being a couple that swing and cheating as well!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Lie; they must be experts of that by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tell the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't get in that situation. The only decent thing to do is act like an adult and fess up. If you're prepared to cheat you should be prepared to take responsibility for your actions.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Sit casually whistling or put ones fingers in ones ears and go la la I can't hear you..

maybe..

OP why do you ask, did it happen to a 'friend'?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"End of the day if you cheat then you need to be able to accept the consequences

No point in lying about it...busted, learn that cheating can be costly and move on"

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

Deny everything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What more could you do other than fess up

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Make a cup of coffee and have a chat a long chat. No point lying now its in the open if your going to cheat you should be able to face the consequences of your actions. If not your a cunt

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I wouldn't cheat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys how would you react if your partner walked in one day with the man/women that you had cheated with. The person has confessed all to your partner.what would you do?"

Never have, never will, never going to be a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't cheat "

I wouldn't get caught

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Sit casually whistling or put ones fingers in ones ears and go la la I can't hear you..

maybe..

OP why do you ask, did it happen to a 'friend'?"

We all know the OP never revisits her own threads

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I wouldn't cheat

I wouldn't get caught "

Famous last words.....

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By *OOM696969Man
over a year ago

BRIDLINGTON

Cheats dont prosper..well that's what she said and managed to do it often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't cheat

I wouldn't get caught

Famous last words..... "

Meh, I'm single, I have many a word in me yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would never happen ...

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

I'm single so not much chance of cheating , when I was with the ball and chain I didn't cheat and never would , that was her job

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

ok serious answer if confronted with such a scenario, do a face and look at the corner of the ceiling behind the others shout 'fuckin ell look at the size of that spider'..

when they look quickly eat your phone and plead ignorance..

maybe

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd do a Kim Philby. Deny, deny and deny again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't happen. I never cheat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been unfaithful in my life so can't see me being in that position OP, but purely hypothetically I'd probably ask the third party to leave while I have a conversation with my (soon to be ex!) partner and tell them anything they want to know

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I'd do a Kim Philby. Deny, deny and deny again "

and afterwards, live in Moscow?

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

What ended my second marriage, not me though the Mrs, party, pissed, passed out, woke up on my bed at home (a mate took me). Knock on the door & the girlfriend of one of the wifes workmates (at the party) says "Your wife is currently in bed with my boyfriend, what shall we do?"

So we drove to his house, Confronted them & I ended it there & then, left with the girlfriend after she got some clothes & took her to her friends house. Who funnily enough later asked the gf for my number & we became fwb's for a good few months..

Turned out my wife had mental issues of self worth, undiagnosed bipolar (a shit gp, despite my saying she had issues) and only felt good about herself if she was able to take a man from another woman.

She is now heavily medicated, still with the same guy & married and on speaking terms with me, I even go riding with him on occasion.

The problem was the illness not the person & the only person I blame for it all is the GP.

But everything happens for a reason & i'm now with H with our two beautiful children and none of that would ever have happened

S

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'd do a Kim Philby. Deny, deny and deny again

and afterwards, live in Moscow?"

I'd probably have to

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I'd do a Kim Philby. Deny, deny and deny again

and afterwards, live in Moscow?

I'd probably have to "

suppose the fur coats would make up for it a little..

disclaimer, not from living things..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"What ended my second marriage, not me though the Mrs, party, pissed, passed out, woke up on my bed at home (a mate took me). Knock on the door & the girlfriend of one of the wifes workmates (at the party) says "Your wife is currently in bed with my boyfriend, what shall we do?"

So we drove to his house, Confronted them & I ended it there & then, left with the girlfriend after she got some clothes & took her to her friends house. Who funnily enough later asked the gf for my number & we became fwb's for a good few months..

Turned out my wife had mental issues of self worth, undiagnosed bipolar (a shit gp, despite my saying she had issues) and only felt good about herself if she was able to take a man from another woman.

She is now heavily medicated, still with the same guy & married and on speaking terms with me, I even go riding with him on occasion.

The problem was the illness not the person & the only person I blame for it all is the GP.

But everything happens for a reason & i'm now with H with our two beautiful children and none of that would ever have happened

S

"
my ex husband left me because of my illness and ive never blamed him in the slightest, glad your ex wife is sorted now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys how would you react if your partner walked in one day with the man/women that you had cheated with. The person has confessed all to your partner.what would you do?"
.....suggest a threesome?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Own up. Accept the consequences and learn from it.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"What ended my second marriage, not me though the Mrs, party, pissed, passed out, woke up on my bed at home (a mate took me). Knock on the door & the girlfriend of one of the wifes workmates (at the party) says "Your wife is currently in bed with my boyfriend, what shall we do?"

So we drove to his house, Confronted them & I ended it there & then, left with the girlfriend after she got some clothes & took her to her friends house. Who funnily enough later asked the gf for my number & we became fwb's for a good few months..

Turned out my wife had mental issues of self worth, undiagnosed bipolar (a shit gp, despite my saying she had issues) and only felt good about herself if she was able to take a man from another woman.

She is now heavily medicated, still with the same guy & married and on speaking terms with me, I even go riding with him on occasion.

The problem was the illness not the person & the only person I blame for it all is the GP.

But everything happens for a reason & i'm now with H with our two beautiful children and none of that would ever have happened

S

my ex husband left me because of my illness and ive never blamed him in the slightest, glad your ex wife is sorted now"

Thank you

xx

S

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

That wouldn't happen so I don't know.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Sit casually whistling or put ones fingers in ones ears and go la la I can't hear you..

maybe..

OP why do you ask, did it happen to a 'friend'?

We all know the OP never revisits her own threads "

Yeah wonder why that is?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sit casually whistling or put ones fingers in ones ears and go la la I can't hear you..

maybe..

OP why do you ask, did it happen to a 'friend'?"
me sadly ?

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"I'd do a Kim Philby. Deny, deny and deny again

and afterwards, live in Moscow?"

With Burgess and that scots sounding bloke?

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By *r havin a laughMan
over a year ago

Innerleithen

Shit myself and leg it, because my ex was a fruit cake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Silly question....there are obviously no cheats on here....how would anyone know the answer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn around and walk back out again.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Sit casually whistling or put ones fingers in ones ears and go la la I can't hear you..

maybe..

OP why do you ask, did it happen to a 'friend'?me sadly ? "

and what happened?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Sit casually whistling or put ones fingers in ones ears and go la la I can't hear you..

maybe..

OP why do you ask, did it happen to a 'friend'?me sadly ? "

sad would be one way of describing it yes..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suggest a 3some?

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By *uddlybear2015Man
over a year ago

BEDFORD


"I'd do a Kim Philby. Deny, deny and deny again

and afterwards, live in Moscow?

I'd probably have to

suppose the fur coats would make up for it a little..

disclaimer, not from living things.."

No,fur tends to come from dead things....dead dead dead dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell the truth.

Fess up, get it off your chest and deal with the consequences.

Good luck OP

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