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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Apologies to those who were expecting a 'how great are the single guys' thread.

No doubt you are all amazing in your own ways. I have a serious question to ask you though. If you joined fab as 'straight,' how many of you realised you were bisexual and how long before it became apparent?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I am straight and not bi

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

Straighter than this here straight thing!!

Not fab straight either!

I'm a fully fledged heterosexual!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I joined as Bi feeling 50/50 and still am but I am more 75/25 leaning towards Gay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm good question. A few years back I made a boys profile and said I was straight and I had loads of messages off other 'straight' guys asking to suck my penis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found it funny when a fb was showing me who has _iewed him and half the men on there were messaging me and when I ask the about _iewing him I got blocked lol

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I'm straight and I think I've known I was pretty much since the day I was born. I know I'll never sway from that.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold


"Apologies to those who were expecting a 'how great are the single guys' thread.

No doubt you are all amazing in your own ways. I have a serious question to ask you though. If you joined fab as 'straight,' how many of you realised you were bisexual and how long before it became apparent?

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I'm still waiting to become fab straight - and I think it'll be a long, long time before I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am straight and got no sin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're all bi apparently but just won't admit it. That's according to some fab regulars anyway

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I'm straight ...my boyfriend is gay though.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I'm straight ...my boyfriend is gay though.

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I'm straight but my horse is gay!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm good question. A few years back I made a boys profile and said I was straight and I had loads of messages off other 'straight' guys asking to suck my penis. "

I'd definitely suck your penis

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By *arlock69Man
over a year ago

Batley... (near Leeds)

Ironically it's guys who've put my bi side into remission...lol

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By *omez42Man
over a year ago

gloucester

I'm straight, but seem to get attention from bi men, sometimes offering me blowjobs!

I can't work out why, I don't think anything in my profile says that I may be interested in bi men. Or are the ones that contact me, the bi M equivalent of the guys that don't read a girls profile, and contact them anyway?

The only time contact the will have with men is when we are with a lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im straight too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Question to all the straight guys, if you've given someone a bj once. Can you still be straight?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Just never found a man I thought sexually attractive. Who knows I may find my bi bone, somehow I suspect I may die a virgin.

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By *auren001Woman
over a year ago

birmingham

I had a recent experience on here which made me question this. Had been messaging a guy for a couple of weeks or so, all looking good. Randomly messaged me the other day saying he was off work, feeling horny and had "seiously considered taking a guy up on his offer to give him a bj just cos he wanted to be sucked" then proceeded to tell me it was OK as he had resisted. Still not sure what to make of that one lol

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Although no longer single i'm of an age that partied before the interweb really got going & partied a fair bit and although i'm happy in the proximity of other men's bits I have never been drawn to "try them out" so it's straight straight from me..

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be sure to let you know...

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Straight as something that's straight.

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East

Vaginatarian here..

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm neither straight, gay or bi, I'm just an androphic cross dresser!

When I first joined, I stated myself as bi- curious, because that's what I was.Curious as to what it was like to suck cock. I did it, wasn't too sure whether I enjoyed it.

If i'd have stopped then, i could have classified myself as ' straight, tried it once, not for me' But a couple of weeks later, i decided to try again, to see if it was any better.Think at that point I became fab-straight!

Then I began dressing, something I'd dabbled in years before.Put some pictures up, and got lots of compliments and a few fabs from straight guys too.Realised it gave me a thrill;even though I was feeling no sexual attraction to men, I was connecting on a different level.As I mentioned earlier, I've been androphobic since an incident in my late teens, and have always shied away from men, so the thought of sexual interaction with men was always far from my mind.However, I found that some men spoke to me in a different way when dressed as a woman, and I was able to converse without feeling threatened.Obviously there's still a percentage of knuckle draggers but I feel more comfortable in myself when being 'Clare'

So am I straight? Most people would say definitely not but I'm not sure.As a male, I am turned off by men, if anything some of the things I've seen on here and messages I've had have put me off them even more, particularly leaking cock pics .Yuck!

Am I bi-curious? No, because I've crossed the curiousity line

So am I bi-sexual ? No, because what my male side wants and what Clare wants are disparate things, I'm more likely schizo!

Am I gay? No...By virtue of who I am, a gay man should be no more interested in me than a straight man should, because they're not into women!

So am I Fab-straight? No, because I don't deny who I am.

My sexual preference is for women, but I'll entertain the right sort of man, for my own reasons.

Sorry for the length of this post but I'm attempting to explain what makes me who I am, and maybe others will identify with it, or they may just find me utterly confounding

So who am I ? Just a CD called Clare xx

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Tried bi in my 20's and it wasn't for me..

Don't really like hairy arses.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the interesting answers. The question arose from my own experience. I have always considered myself to be straight however fab offers the opportunity for otherwise unavailable experiences. Try but dont buy, perhaps? It is possible to experiment without being labelled and yes, I agree with the poster who said sexuality is fluent, not fixed.

There seem to be so many bi or bicurious people here.

Thanks to all the straighter than the straightest straight thing guys too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined Fab as straight, having had a couple of bi encounters as a teenager and a student and dismissed them as opportunistic curiosity and raging hormones. I then found my curiosity being stirred again and had another encounter. It was ok but didn't really do it for me, so back to thinking I'm basically straight. Then I came on the forums and gradually realised I was no longer straight but had a much more fluid sexuality than that. I realised there were guys I actually fancied however I don't act on it, in the same way I don't act on my attraction to some of the women either. I'm now effectively celibate but bisexual or even pansexual in orientation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been interested in other men in the slightest.

Only ever found women sexually attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its weird cause ive never touched/sucked another dick but ive left a few men suck mine.. i dont class it as gay i just close my eyes and enjoy the feeling hahaha

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