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"Why do my messages get deleted when I give a woman a compliment ... Is it because they get so many that they don't think its sincere " Possibly! Or it could be the way it's delivered. Who knows. Most likely they get a lot of compliments so it's important to make your message stand out from the rest  | |||
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"Reverse psychology... -D ont say she looks nice..tell her the wallpaper in her bedroom looks like the cheap stuff in a wetherdpoons shitter.... Birds love that kinda banter "I'll try that and see how that goes lol | |||
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"I probably wouldn't reply to a message that was only a compliment. I'm not rude, but I need more than that to get my attention. I'd look at the profile tho and make my decision to reply on that too "What kinda things get your attention | |||
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"I probably wouldn't reply to a message that was only a compliment. I'm not rude, but I need more than that to get my attention. I'd look at the profile tho and make my decision to reply on that too
What kinda things get your attention "Someone that's obviously has read my profile and just chats to me rather than just firing a load of compliments at me. A lot of my meets have been through the forum too, where personality shows through | |||
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That's more likely to get ya a message back than drooling saying shit like Omg you iz gawjus innit Sis | |||
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"I probably wouldn't reply to a message that was only a compliment. I'm not rude, but I need more than that to get my attention. I'd look at the profile tho and make my decision to reply on that too
What kinda things get your attention
Someone that's obviously has read my profile and just chats to me rather than just firing a load of compliments at me.
A lot of my meets have been through the forum too, where personality shows through "I do understand what you mean x I do try not just giving all compliments x I do try and make conversation with the person and never just hey fancy a fuck lol , I do try and do my homework with the profile , see what could give my something to say to get a reply x | |||
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"OP, it may also be that they are simply reading your profile. Not wanting to be harsh but you need to write something positive! If you can't be nice about yourself then no one else will be! Beard" Hey thanks x I was just trying to be truthful with that lol x was due a profile update myself x gotta bug myself up abit I think | |||
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"Depends what the compliment is about whose said it" To the single women or the female half of a couple . I try and invole both people when messaging couples | |||
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"I do it to give the woman credit .... If they have sexy gorgeous pics in their public profile I send them a message to say that ... Not in a way to expect to get a meet . " And then we reply with 'Thanks ' and then comes the Meet? Fuck? Sit on my face? reply so it's easier to ignore than answer. | |||
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"Why do my messages get deleted when I give a woman a compliment ... Is it because they get so many that they don't think its sincere " Sadly yes, especially if they say something like 'you're stunning' when your face is not showing, and particularly because the best way to avoid a petulant comeback to a rejection is to delete first messages. But if someone gives me what sounds like a genuine compliment based on my profile I always try and thank them even if they are not what I am looking for. And sometimes if they are totally OTT I do too, just in case lol!  | |||
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"I do it to give the woman credit .... If they have sexy gorgeous pics in their public profile I send them a message to say that ... Not in a way to expect to get a meet . And then we reply with 'Thanks ' and then comes the Meet? Fuck? Sit on my face? reply so it's easier to ignore than answer."Lol well I've never done that lol x does that actually work for some men ? | |||
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"Why do my messages get deleted when I give a woman a compliment ... Is it because they get so many that they don't think its sincere Sadly yes, especially if they say something like 'you're stunning' when your face is not showing, and particularly because the best way to avoid a petulant comeback to a rejection is to delete first messages. But if someone gives me what sounds like a genuine compliment based on my profile I always try and thank them even if they are not what I am looking for. And sometimes if they are totally OTT I do too, just in case lol! "Lol good on ya x ..... That's all I'm kinda after in return just a thanks really x if the conversation carries on from that even better x | |||
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"I do it to give the woman credit .... If they have sexy gorgeous pics in their public profile I send them a message to say that ... Not in a way to expect to get a meet . And then we reply with 'Thanks ' and then comes the Meet? Fuck? Sit on my face? reply so it's easier to ignore than answer.
Lol well I've never done that lol x does that actually work for some men ?"Then you're in a minority...At least in our experience. Only if we like the look of them and their profile in which case we would send a decent message back and take it from there. | |||
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"I do it to give the woman credit .... If they have sexy gorgeous pics in their public profile I send them a message to say that ... Not in a way to expect to get a meet . " If you're not expecting anything, why are you whinging that they're not replying? | |||
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"I don't need to be given credit by a random stranger who knows nothing of me ..that's how I see it I guess we are all different" Nice tits.... | |||
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"How many compliments have any of you received today" A lot. But I take it all with a pinch of salt, as I imagine they send similar or sometimes even the same message to every woman they contact. | |||
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"I do it to give the woman credit .... If they have sexy gorgeous pics in their public profile I send them a message to say that ... Not in a way to expect to get a meet . If you're not expecting anything, why are you whinging that they're not replying?" | |||
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"I do it to give the woman credit .... If they have sexy gorgeous pics in their public profile I send them a message to say that ... Not in a way to expect to get a meet . If you're not expecting anything, why are you whinging that they're not replying?" Meaning in not expecting a meet everytime I compliment someone but a civil reply would be nice seeing I go out of the way to read profiles , fab the pics , give out a compliment and aint rude | |||
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"I don't need to be given credit by a random stranger who knows nothing of me ..that's how I see it I guess we are all different Nice tits.... "nice small cock | |||
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"I do it to give the woman credit .... If they have sexy gorgeous pics in their public profile I send them a message to say that ... Not in a way to expect to get a meet . If you're not expecting anything, why are you whinging that they're not replying? Meaning in not expecting a meet everytime I compliment someone but a civil reply would be nice seeing I go out of the way to read profiles , fab the pics , give out a compliment and aint rude " Why do you feel entitled to a reply? | |||
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"How many compliments have any of you received today" Lots. I will look at the profile before I respond and if it says can't accommodate without a reason that's OK with me ie the man is attached, I'll delete the message without responding. Maybe that's the reason you weren't getting replies? | |||
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"This is fab... if the lady in question has been here for more than a week which compliment about her physical attributes do you think she hasn't read? If I messaged first (don't as I fear rejection) I would probably send a simple first message that made reference to the woman's profile text; go deeper dear boy... go deeper!! " Oh I know they must get complimented dozens of times a day , but they must also get the fancy a fuck kinda message dozens of times a day too , | |||
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"I do it to give the woman credit .... If they have sexy gorgeous pics in their public profile I send them a message to say that ... Not in a way to expect to get a meet . If you're not expecting anything, why are you whinging that they're not replying? Meaning in not expecting a meet everytime I compliment someone but a civil reply would be nice seeing I go out of the way to read profiles , fab the pics , give out a compliment and aint rude Why do you feel entitled to a reply?" Do you know how many messages we get OP? If we spent our time replying to every message that gave us a compliment, we wouldn't get the chance to actually chat to the ones we replied to. Read the fab guidelines. Not respnding is not classed as rude, its a way to tell you the person isn't interested. Aren't we allowed some fun on here? Or are we just supposed to be admin? | |||
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"This is fab... if the lady in question has been here for more than a week which compliment about her physical attributes do you think she hasn't read? If I messaged first (don't as I fear rejection) I would probably send a simple first message that made reference to the woman's profile text; go deeper dear boy... go deeper!! Oh I know they must get complimented dozens of times a day , but they must also get the fancy a fuck kinda message dozens of times a day too , " How many messages do you think single woman get on a day to day basis; if they are online and have pics to fab? What makes your compliment different from the 100's they get each week? How much effort should they put into replying. Chap... manage your expectations and fab works... don't and be prepared for disappointment... you will not get a reply to 99% of the things you do... George Orwell (paraphrased) said without acceptance there is no happiness... it's a good rule to live by.... | |||
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"Lol point taken ( hides in the corner)" Wasn't having a pop chap... just you know... fab isn't as friendly as fb when you compliment someone you won't get a "you rock" meme Too many single guys try to plough the same furrow  | |||
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"Lol point taken ( hides in the corner) Wasn't having a pop chap... just you know... fab isn't as friendly as fb when you compliment someone you won't get a "you rock" meme Too many single guys try to plough the same furrow "Yeah I do understand that just when you try and be nice you get tarred with the same brush as the d...heads | |||
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"Lol point taken ( hides in the corner) Wasn't having a pop chap... just you know... fab isn't as friendly as fb when you compliment someone you won't get a "you rock" meme Too many single guys try to plough the same furrow
Yeah I do understand that just when you try and be nice you get tarred with the same brush as the d...heads"Actually I am one of the dickheads but yeah, there are a lot of us! | |||
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"Lol point taken ( hides in the corner) Wasn't having a pop chap... just you know... fab isn't as friendly as fb when you compliment someone you won't get a "you rock" meme Too many single guys try to plough the same furrow
Yeah I do understand that just when you try and be nice you get tarred with the same brush as the d...heads
Actually I am one of the dickheads but yeah, there are a lot of us! "Maybe I should become one lol | |||
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"Lol point taken ( hides in the corner) Wasn't having a pop chap... just you know... fab isn't as friendly as fb when you compliment someone you won't get a "you rock" meme Too many single guys try to plough the same furrow
Yeah I do understand that just when you try and be nice you get tarred with the same brush as the d...heads
Actually I am one of the dickheads but yeah, there are a lot of us!
Maybe I should become one lol"Nope you carry on being a "gent"... ((someone needs to stop me giving out advice)) being a dickhead does not work... where do you live? If it's within 60 miles of me... carry on being a gent | |||
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"Lol point taken ( hides in the corner) Wasn't having a pop chap... just you know... fab isn't as friendly as fb when you compliment someone you won't get a "you rock" meme Too many single guys try to plough the same furrow
Yeah I do understand that just when you try and be nice you get tarred with the same brush as the d...heads"To be fair though, the women don't know you OP. Some are going to assume you are trying to charm your way into their knickers, rather than be blatant about it. | |||
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"How many compliments have any of you received today" None, on here. That's fine and dandy as most compliments given on here are insincere anyway.
I've had 2 in 'real life' today that made me smile and I appreciated. | |||
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"Why do my messages get deleted when I give a woman a compliment ... Is it because they get so many that they don't think its sincere " They deleted it because they read it. Or ignored it. They get many becuase men think they deserve a compliment. Your s clever lad, think about it. Everyone within 50 miles or so have sent a message to her. "I think your gorgeous love!" Why is yours any different. | |||
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"I do it to give the woman credit .... If they have sexy gorgeous pics in their public profile I send them a message to say that ... Not in a way to expect to get a meet . And then we reply with 'Thanks ' and then comes the Meet? Fuck? Sit on my face? reply so it's easier to ignore than answer."Yes we agree with this when we receive a compliment on our profile,they really mean our pics as they clearly haven't read our profile,we say thanks then between us guess how it will be before the fancy a meet message | |||
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"I do it to give the woman credit .... If they have sexy gorgeous pics in their public profile I send them a message to say that ... Not in a way to expect to get a meet . If you're not expecting anything, why are you whinging that they're not replying? Meaning in not expecting a meet everytime I compliment someone but a civil reply would be nice seeing I go out of the way to read profiles , fab the pics , give out a compliment and aint rude Why do you feel entitled to a reply?" | |||
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"I don't reply to them as if I do saying thanks but not meeting then I get the "I wasn't saying we should" but if I just say thank you then it has been presumed that I'm interested and want to chat more with them, when I don't. " So true | |||
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"I go out of the way to read profiles , fab the pics , give out a compliment and aint rude " You go out of your way? You make it sound like browsing fabs profiles is hard work Not being rude should be a basic requirement, not something that deserves reward.
When I get compliments on my pics or physical attributes alone I visit the sender's profile and fab their pics if I see something I like, if I read something that resonates I might right back to thank them and/or comment on what I've seen/read. If I don't see anything that appeals or amuses me I just delete. I may appreciate you telling me my ass/tits/webbed toes look great but it really does not make a good conversation opener by itself. | |||
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