FabSwingers.com forum: Profile schisms...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not looking to offend or criticise anyone on here, apologies if I do, I'm just a little confused. I read a lot of ladies profiles that state they don't want a relationship or to meet lots of different guys, they just want that one guy who they like as a person who can make them laugh and excites their mind, to be their regular FB. Well is that not boyfriend??. Okay, so they are looking for a guy for regular meets but to have no relationship type ties with. Okay I'm there, but.....this is where I'm confused, many often state they don't want their new FB to be married. Well if they want the comfort of sleeping with the same guy they know and trust but not have the emotional ties and demands put on them by having an official relationship, then surely a married guy IS what they are looking for ????

This really is rant Thursday isn't it lol.

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By *pices69Couple
over a year ago

Gravesend

If i was a single guy, looking for a fb, then theres a choice about whether u have one who is a single, a gf, or married. Each has complications of its own.

So i dont have any issues with a lady stating what they like, its their choice. And if theres a grey line somewhere, you can always try to explain it to them, but in my experience, strong women know what they want, and if you tick the right boxes not necessarily all the boxes, then you will have fun and make a new friend.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

No it wouldn't be easier for me to look for a married man as they usually can't meet how or when I want to meet because they obviously have other obligations and their time is limited

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Not looking to offend or criticise anyone on here, apologies if I do, I'm just a little confused. I read a lot of ladies profiles that state they don't want a relationship or to meet lots of different guys, they just want that one guy who they like as a person who can make them laugh and excites their mind, to be their regular FB. Well is that not boyfriend??. Okay, so they are looking for a guy for regular meets but to have no relationship type ties with. Okay I'm there, but.....this is where I'm confused, many often state they don't want their new FB to be married. Well if they want the comfort of sleeping with the same guy they know and trust but not have the emotional ties and demands put on them by having an official relationship, then surely a married guy IS what they are looking for ????

This really is rant Thursday isn't it lol."

Not necessarily at all - some will not like the thought of deception, some will want much more time and attention and maybe emotion than any attached man will be able to give, some will be possessive or jealous, and some just want to have their cake and eat it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This really is rant Thursday isn't it lol."

Let me guess - you're married?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah you guessed it lib...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The deception and time restraints reasoning does make sense guys, I have to admit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do want a boyfriend so obviously an attached guy wouldn't be what I was looking for.

It doesn't really have to be a boyfriend but how could I get a guy to only want to have sex with me and nobody else, one that will eat his own cum out of me and watch documentaries and films with me. That's a boyfriend isn't it, so I want a boyfriend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe it would be helpful if the site had an option to 'check' "will not meet married guys". So often I read a profile, all is really good, I think "yeah I'll send a message" then right at the end they say "will not meet married men". Grrr so frustrating lol...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm would have thought there'd be plenty of fellas looking for what you are, Annie.??

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

Hmmm

Married with their spouses confirmable consent or married and cheating.

A very good friend of mine ended up on the end of a smear campaign when the unwitting spouse found out about their husbands infidelity. Her family and her children were notified about her lifestyle.

Not something I would knowingly risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm would have thought there'd be plenty of fellas looking for what you are, Annie.??"

There's not though, guys on here want casual, I like cum inside me so need just one person that will only sleep with me until we part ways. Can't get that here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If I was closer Annie. And I fitted what you were looking for, I'd be that fella for you. So there's at least one on here, and if there's one there's bound to be more. You'll find it I'm sure of that.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Maybe it would be helpful if the site had an option to 'check' "will not meet married guys". So often I read a profile, all is really good, I think "yeah I'll send a message" then right at the end they say "will not meet married men". Grrr so frustrating lol..."

Ditto for women who don't want to meet them - I must admit if I see a half decent profile I skip to the bottom to see if they are married sooner. Your confession is more than half way up!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would it be better if I put "I'm married" higher up in my profile?? Frisky???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Schism is quite a dramatic word for what you are describing.

My favourite schism is the Hicksite/Conservative Quaker Schism of the early 19th century. A real page turner

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Probably is a bit of a dramatic title. Might check out that Quaker schism, I like a good historic read..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wanted very regular sex, but with a few guys and maybe mingle them together for group stuff, 3sums and that.

i also didn't want to be a part of something deceptive (so no married, and even married with permission is a turn off).

anyway, although i've had fun on here to a degree i kind of get this lifestyle is not really for but it got me through a hard time and helped me sort out my sex addiction pretty well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally fbs that swap is like having ya cake and eating it then eating someone else's... so I dissspoint them

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