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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm fairly new to fab, but I have already noticed one thing, there does seem to be a big difference in the whole fab experience for its two main user groups. For women and couples it's a vehicle to live out your fantasies, however for single fellas (or attached guys whose partner is not involved), it's a good day if one of your messages gets read. Don't get me wrong though, I don't begrudge anyone fulfilling their fantasies and having fun, after all that is why I'm here too. Oh okay maybe I am a little jealous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's definitely loads easier for women and couples who can pick and choose... most guys just take what opportunities arise, if any! Lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I don't compare my experience to females and couples, I always just did my thing. I came on with a realistic expectation and it exceeded that. It is an add on to an existing sex life off site.

Too many join thinking swinging is mass orgies 24/7 and they are going to be balls deep by lunchtime. That not wrong in their thinking but it is going to hit hard when they are not.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

That's*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fab experience is what you make it its definitely not a sex site nor sometimes even adult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest OP, it's a numbers game and it always will be. I live in a town that has a population of 60 thousand, give or take. There's probably 3 single women, maybe 1 of who is meeting, between 20 & 30 couples and around 200 single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh. Not all couples and single ladies are having non stop orgies and fantasies fulfilled. People exaggerate. Grass is greener on the other side etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The numbers game is a massive factor, you're right. It makes me wish I was a woman sometimes, but then having said that there's probably a whole different set of problems for couples and single ladies, and that's sorting through the hundreds of boasting, untactful, boring and offensive messages that they get, whilst looking for that elusive gem.

Also yeah, I can imagine there is a lot of over exaggeration about people's exploits on here too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest OP, it's a numbers game and it always will be. I live in a town that has a population of 60 thousand, give or take. There's probably 3 single women, maybe 1 of who is meeting, between 20 & 30 couples and around 200 single men."

I don't like my odds then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a single account, this one.

I have a couples account somewhere with the gf too.

Why do guys think being on a couples profile suddenly makes it easier to meet on here.

I find getting meets infinately easier on my singles account...

Single men...quit feeling so hard done by, the grass is rarely greener on the other side.

This site is great for us men if you go at it with the right attitude

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"The numbers game is a massive factor, you're right. It makes me wish I was a woman sometimes, but then having said that there's probably a whole different set of problems for couples and single ladies, and that's sorting through the hundreds of boasting, untactful, boring and offensive messages that they get, whilst looking for that elusive gem.

Also yeah, I can imagine there is a lot of over exaggeration about people's exploits on here too."

Yup, finding people who fit the bill is hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have been lucky enough to get what i wanted when i wanted it.

had some crap meets too though if that's any consolation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a single account, this one.

I have a couples account somewhere with the gf too.

Why do guys think being on a couples profile suddenly makes it easier to meet on here.

I find getting meets infinately easier on my singles account...

Single men...quit feeling so hard done by, the grass is rarely greener on the other side.

This site is great for us men if you go at it with the right attitude

"

I know loads of guys on here who do well for themselves especially forum guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not all great for single ladies, attached ladies, or any women on here either sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can imagine if you're a very well endowed, and a very fit looking guy you'd probably do okay. Normal looking/sized guys seem to struggle though, they/we have to try harder to stand out from the crowd by using there intelligence.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"The numbers game is a massive factor, you're right. It makes me wish I was a woman sometimes, but then having said that there's probably a whole different set of problems for couples and single ladies, and that's sorting through the hundreds of boasting, untactful, boring and offensive messages that they get, whilst looking for that elusive gem.

Also yeah, I can imagine there is a lot of over exaggeration about people's exploits on here too."

I've never wished I was a woman on here, too fond of my cock to wish it away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can imagine if you're a very well endowed, and a very fit looking guy you'd probably do okay. Normal looking/sized guys seem to struggle though, they/we have to try harder to stand out from the crowd by using there intelligence."

I much prefer someone with some intelligence and able to hold a decent conversation to a big cock and boring as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP. We've contacted two single guys who we want to meet recently.

The ones we generally ignore are those that are negative and comment that they never get lucky, nice easy filter for us!

Just saying, be light, keep it upbeat and have a good profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah (breakfast can wait), conversely, intelligence and good conversation from a woman works better for me than big tits and tales of giving the best head etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a single account, this one.

I have a couples account somewhere with the gf too.

Why do guys think being on a couples profile suddenly makes it easier to meet on here.

I find getting meets infinately easier on my singles account...

Single men...quit feeling so hard done by, the grass is rarely greener on the other side.

This site is great for us men if you go at it with the right attitude

"

It's all about attitude at the end of the day,if you are one of those who go round acting like your shit doesn't stink then you will just rub people up the wrong way. And that is true whether you are single,married,male or female.

Lose the attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can imagine if you're a very well endowed, and a very fit looking guy you'd probably do okay. Normal looking/sized guys seem to struggle though, they/we have to try harder to stand out from the crowd by using there intelligence."

Hmmmm I think that visuals do play a part but it's not everything. I'm decidedly average and in my previous incarnation I was, in my opinion, very successful. You get out what you put in, it requires effort and a consistent approach but it can pay dividends if you want it to.

In terms of easier for ladies and couples it is to a degree but it brings its own problems, Redhead on her singles profile has so many messages that she can't keep up and on our couples profile the majority of people don't even read our profile. Don't get me wrong, I'm not moaning I'm just saying that every sex has its own issues

Beard

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"I'm fairly new to fab, but I have already noticed one thing, there does seem to be a big difference in the whole fab experience for its two main user groups. For women and couples it's a vehicle to live out your fantasies, however for single fellas (or attached guys whose partner is not involved), it's a good day if one of your messages gets read. Don't get me wrong though, I don't begrudge anyone fulfilling their fantasies and having fun, after all that is why I'm here too. Oh okay maybe I am a little jealous."
why dont you get your wife involved then. .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm fairly new to fab, but I have already noticed one thing, there does seem to be a big difference in the whole fab experience for its two main user groups. For women and couples it's a vehicle to live out your fantasies, however for single fellas (or attached guys whose partner is not involved), it's a good day if one of your messages gets read. Don't get me wrong though, I don't begrudge anyone fulfilling their fantasies and having fun, after all that is why I'm here too. Oh okay maybe I am a little jealous. why dont you get your wife involved then. ."

Wife's sex drive has completely gone. Have tried most things but gone is gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have already fullfiled one of my fantasys, but it was from another site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op. I think everyone is experiencing Fab differently. Even the forum changes to something that somebody might like/not like.

Some are here to not meet at all. Some are here for an hour, some have been here for years. Some enjoy and some don't enjoy it.

Now I'm waffling on. What I'm trying to say is. Does it matter?

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