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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

met a guy i hav known for a wee while now off another site (i introduced him to this site now) and had an afternoon of fun on thursday just gone, we did everything but hav full sex!!!

then friday talking to him on a social network site, found out he had met a friend of a friend and only went a fucked her??

ok, so how could he hav fucked her and not me?? hmmmm

i felt slighted and hurt as well

was i wrong to feel like that i wonder???

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

You feel how you feel for a reason and that's not wrong, we can't help how we feel, just how we deal with those feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

by slighted,do you mean jealous as thats how i read it...did you let the guy know you wanted full sex with him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"by slighted,do you mean jealous as thats how i read it...did you let the guy know you wanted full sex with him."

yes he knew i wanted full sex with him, and as for jelous, hmm ppossibly who knows x he was apologetic, but his excuse for it was, he had flirted with her for a while and it was a family friend and it just happened, hmmm dont think so x

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Well he may find out how you feel now

The person you should be asking is him, not the forums

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Erm... this is a swinging site. If you feel 'slighted' that someone you met has met someone else and had sex with them then are you absolutely sure that you're in the right place?

*scratches head*

Whilst I totally agree with what has been said about being unable to help the way you feel, I think you probably need to look at what you're looking for here. Was there a specific reason you didn't fuck with said bloke?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well he may find out how you feel now

The person you should be asking is him, not the forums"

no i am asking a question!!! simple as, am asking would you feel slighted if it happened to you!!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


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no i am asking a question!!! simple as, am asking would you feel slighted if it happened to you!!"

Erm... no, in answer to that question, I wouldn't. I'd have quite liked to have watched though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people will brush you off.

just one of them things you have to put up with.

but let me tell you there is nothing wrong with you at all.

so do not thing its you.

its not. your fine x

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Not at all, this is a swinging site

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Dont take it personal - it happens to most people at some point in the scnee that they dont get somebody they fancy. It is a swing site and meant to be uncomplicated fun.. your fine.. it is not you, it is the scene and it is best to get used to that so it does not make you feel slightet in future xx.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP sounds like he likes you as a friend after meeting you through a purely social site. If he doesn't fancy you sexually in a swinging sense, enjoy his friendship and find yourself a shag on this site not the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....just to add...No I wouldn't feel slighted. Even on a swinging site there are those you can have a laugh a mess around and socialise with but not want sex with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP sounds like he likes you as a friend after meeting you through a purely social site. If he doesn't fancy you sexually in a swinging sense, enjoy his friendship and find yourself a shag on this site not the other. "

yeha i hav known him for a long time now off another site, over a yr at least, and i intorduced him to this site, as for finding a shag on here, hav found plenty to be honest, and still am, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP sounds like he likes you as a friend after meeting you through a purely social site. If he doesn't fancy you sexually in a swinging sense, enjoy his friendship and find yourself a shag on this site not the other.

yeha i hav known him for a long time now off another site, over a yr at least, and i intorduced him to this site, as for finding a shag on here, hav found plenty to be honest, and still am, x "

There you go, shags are plentiful here for single ladies...long term friends are harder to find. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP sounds like he likes you as a friend after meeting you through a purely social site. If he doesn't fancy you sexually in a swinging sense, enjoy his friendship and find yourself a shag on this site not the other.

yeha i hav known him for a long time now off another site, over a yr at least, and i intorduced him to this site, as for finding a shag on here, hav found plenty to be honest, and still am, x

There you go, shags are plentiful here for single ladies...long term friends are harder to find. x"

verytrue of course xx

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"met a guy i hav known for a wee while now off another site (i introduced him to this site now) and had an afternoon of fun on thursday just gone, we did everything but hav full sex!!!

then friday talking to him on a social network site, found out he had met a friend of a friend and only went a fucked her??

ok, so how could he hav fucked her and not me?? hmmmm

i felt slighted and hurt as well

was i wrong to feel like that i wonder??? "

i wouldn't read anything into it tbh ,maybe he enjoyed the afternoon of fun with you and a quicky with the other one ,guys aren't robots who perform the same way every time nor "despite the contrary view" are they predictable..

Maybe next time you'll get the quicky low foreplay shag and she will get the

long afternoon of doing everything but .

the point being every situation is different and thank god it is eh otherwise we die of terminal boredom

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


" "despite the contrary view" are they predictable..

"

I so agree with you here... you guys are

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


" "despite the contrary view" are they predictable..

I so agree with you here... you guys are"

stop hijacking threads you ....you didn't see that coming

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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I can think of a few guys who I have met and had a great sexual evening with, that I could happily meet and chat and laugh with on other occassions.

Don't take it to heart. Friends are hard to find and keep.

Sexual encounters for a single lady such as yourself, if you want them are much easier to come by

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


" "despite the contrary view" are they predictable..

I so agree with you here... you guys are

stop hijacking threads you ....you didn't see that coming "

Step outside.... NOW !!!

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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" "despite the contrary view" are they predictable..

I so agree with you here... you guys are

stop hijacking threads you ....you didn't see that coming

Step outside.... NOW !!!"

Now, now children, behave

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


" "despite the contrary view" are they predictable..

I so agree with you here... you guys are

stop hijacking threads you ....you didn't see that coming

Step outside.... NOW !!!

Now, now children, behave

"

does anyone want a gummy bear?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


" "despite the contrary view" are they predictable..

I so agree with you here... you guys are

stop hijacking threads you ....you didn't see that coming

Step outside.... NOW !!!

Now, now children, behave

"

He needs reprimanding today!!

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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" "despite the contrary view" are they predictable..

I so agree with you here... you guys are

stop hijacking threads you ....you didn't see that coming

Step outside.... NOW !!!

Now, now children, behave

does anyone want a gummy bear? "

Me please and promise I'll behave

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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" "despite the contrary view" are they predictable..

I so agree with you here... you guys are

stop hijacking threads you ....you didn't see that coming

Step outside.... NOW !!!

Now, now children, behave

He needs reprimanding today!! "

Need a hand?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

[Removed by poster at 01/05/11 22:19:31]

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


" "despite the contrary view" are they predictable..

I so agree with you here... you guys are

stop hijacking threads you ....you didn't see that coming

Step outside.... NOW !!!

Now, now children, behave

does anyone want a gummy bear? "
Got the Grisley - can I just have the gummy ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have gave him the idea that you are a swinger(different methods of swinging of course)-He has no allegience to you, nor do you to him...unless you wanted a swinging partner, he has as much right as you to go meet anyone he chooses.No indications that he has lied or anything to you on the post?-I think you should really be careful you dont lose a friend for forgetting that you are indeed a fewllow swinger now, and like the pringles advert goes....once you pop,you just cant stop!lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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no i am asking a question!!! simple as, am asking would you feel slighted if it happened to you!!

Erm... no, in answer to that question, I wouldn't. I'd have quite liked to have watched though! "

me too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP not being funny but you seem to always be struggling with some emotional attachment or another. Is this site really what you want?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

did he say why he didnt have full sex with you? is it that you are too close now?

have to say i am very confused that you introduced him to a swingers site and now get upset that he has sex with other women

do you want him to be more than a friend?

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands


" "despite the contrary view" are they predictable..

I so agree with you here... you guys are

stop hijacking threads you ....you didn't see that coming

Step outside.... NOW !!!

Now, now children, behave

does anyone want a gummy bear?

Me please and promise I'll behave"

O Pentillante you are so much not fun, I think I'll go flirt and shag your friend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been 7 timed by some women at gangbangs....made me feel low as I never got ion first or was chosen last lol

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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" "despite the contrary view" are they predictable..

I so agree with you here... you guys are

stop hijacking threads you ....you didn't see that coming

Step outside.... NOW !!!

Now, now children, behave

does anyone want a gummy bear?

Me please and promise I'll behave

O Pentillante you are so much not fun, I think I'll go flirt and shag your friend! "

Ah but I'm bad when I'm good

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Ive been 7 timed by some women at gangbangs....made me feel low as I never got ion first or was chosen last lol"

hahahaha love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"met a guy i hav known for a wee while now off another site (i introduced him to this site now) and had an afternoon of fun on thursday just gone, we did everything but hav full sex!!!

then friday talking to him on a social network site, found out he had met a friend of a friend and only went a fucked her??

ok, so how could he hav fucked her and not me?? hmmmm

i felt slighted and hurt as well

was i wrong to feel like that i wonder??? "

i have met people and not fully played or had sex with and i have met people on a whim( spontaganious) and fucked them senseless

sometimes it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" ...ok, so how could he hav fucked her and not me?? hmmmm

i felt slighted and hurt as well

was i wrong to feel like that i wonder??? "

I remember being new to swinging, and I remember how much it hurt when my favourite playmate exercised his right to have sex with other women.

You're not wrong to hurt (we feel what we feel, regardless of whether it's logical or not). But try not to feel 'slighted' - it's no reflection on you, it's just the way the scene works.

There are all kinds of swinging relationships ... from totally emotionless gangbangs to good friends 'with benefits', and if you prefer the latter (as indeed I do), you just have to learn to be glad when your good friends get some naughty fun elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP not being funny but you seem to always be struggling with some emotional attachment or another. Is this site really what you want?"

i agree perhaps this site isn't for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cheers guys,

believe me when i say i am takng what u say to mind ok and am listening xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"met a guy i hav known for a wee while now off another site (i introduced him to this site now) and had an afternoon of fun on thursday just gone, we did everything but hav full sex!!!

then friday talking to him on a social network site, found out he had met a friend of a friend and only went a fucked her??

ok, so how could he hav fucked her and not me?? hmmmm

i felt slighted and hurt as well

was i wrong to feel like that i wonder??? "

ermm and you are discussing a memebr on forum...don't you think he or the other woman would read this ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cheers guys,

believe me when i say i am takng what u say to mind ok and am listening xx "

Thanks for listening to us, its appreciated...but stay on the site and shag as much as u want....cant wait till ya get around to me lol!-just dont expect me to stop ma tarting about in a hurry hehehehe x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"met a guy i hav known for a wee while now off another site (i introduced him to this site now) and had an afternoon of fun on thursday just gone, we did everything but hav full sex!!!

then friday talking to him on a social network site, found out he had met a friend of a friend and only went a fucked her??

ok, so how could he hav fucked her and not me?? hmmmm

i felt slighted and hurt as well

was i wrong to feel like that i wonder???

ermm and you are discussing a memebr on forum...don't you think he or the other woman would read this ? "

he can read it anytime he wants, and no names are mentioned, x

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle

Chin up hun, tell him your feelings, you will feel better it's off your chest, and his reaction will probably determine whether he was actually a friend, or just another hanger on, move on, plenty more friends in the sea, hugzzies, Ruby, xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"cheers guys,

believe me when i say i am takng what u say to mind ok and am listening xx

Thanks for listening to us, its appreciated...but stay on the site and shag as much as u want....cant wait till ya get around to me lol!-just dont expect me to stop ma tarting about in a hurry hehehehe x"

and lol, then thnk u best get to gateshead in a hurry then lol and no dont worry, lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Chin up hun, tell him your feelings, you will feel better it's off your chest, and his reaction will probably determine whether he was actually a friend, or just another hanger on, move on, plenty more friends in the sea, hugzzies, Ruby, xxx "

hi ruby xx

amd thinking he knows now anyway, we were txting and well think he got the drift lol xx

he is a good guy x honest

just ppl think i met him on here, where as i didnt, i hav known him for a long time lol, and well as for me introducing him to this site?? was trying to cover up how i relaly felt lol xx not good as u now see x

so guys, i take on bord what ur saying ok, but welll,.............

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I only got a few posts down this thread and had to stop reading it... for fear I would piss myself laughing if I carried on.

I should have been doing this....

but couldn't stop doing this....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only got a few posts down this thread and had to stop reading it... for fear I would piss myself laughing if I carried on.

I should have been doing this....

but couldn't stop doing this.... "

just remember if you pss your pants someone on ebay or here would want to buy them i bet

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I feel slightly...is that the same thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only got a few posts down this thread and had to stop reading it... for fear I would piss myself laughing if I carried on.

I should have been doing this....

but couldn't stop doing this.... "

I swear it get's more like eHarmony on here each passing day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only got a few posts down this thread and had to stop reading it... for fear I would piss myself laughing if I carried on.

I should have been doing this....

but couldn't stop doing this....

I swear it get's more like eHarmony on here each passing day! "

Geee the lassie a break, she asked for our thoughts and views, and appears to have taken on board most of what we have said, some of us have been supportive,cold and having a laugh at the post.Typically its normally the same snide lot posting witty come backs, have pleasure in saying something thats just pretty rude to what sounds like a genuine person seeking help or advicesome of you forum lot make me sick with your keyboard warrior attitudes.Oh, and I'm a happy non-disgruntled type, just tend not to jump down peoples throats so easily thinking.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


" Geee the lassie a break, she asked for our thoughts and views, ...."

And that's what she got.... whether it makes you sick or not.

Sometimes the most supportive thing is not to be supportive and give the person a cold wake-up call... not that I could be arsed to be supportive in this instance.

Someone wants to shag a guy, they introduce him to a swinging site, he fucks someone else and as a result get upset at their pussy being rejected.... oh pleeeeeeeeeeeeease

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Someone wants to shag a guy, they introduce him to a swinging site, he fucks someone else and as a result get upset at their pussy being rejected.... oh pleeeeeeeeeeeeease

"

Yeah original she got that and ended up being ridiculed and still came back to thank people no matter what. Not every1 deserves your brand of knowing it all support...and trust me I know about giving support and when to not give it professionally, but belittling comments wouldnt be tolerated in my feild, like they shouldnt really be anywhere.AND it really doesnt help them at the end of it, but of course ur helping urselves to have a happier day knowing u can make someone feel stupid or low.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


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Someone wants to shag a guy, they introduce him to a swinging site, he fucks someone else and as a result get upset at their pussy being rejected.... oh pleeeeeeeeeeeeease

Yeah original she got that and ended up being ridiculed and still came back to thank people no matter what. Not every1 deserves your brand of knowing it all support...and trust me I know about giving support and when to not give it professionally, but belittling comments wouldnt be tolerated in my feild, like they shouldnt really be anywhere.AND it really doesnt help them at the end of it, but of course ur helping urselves to have a happier day knowing u can make someone feel stupid or low."

Is it because she has tits?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Is it because she has tits?"

lol maybe she does have tits, i havent looked, im concentrating on whts closer most times.I just like reading all the forum pishdrivel from a few of ya, but great retort, as OBVIOUSLY I have to want to shag someone to give them a bit of support without being an arse about it!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Is it touchy Tuesday again already?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it touchy Tuesday again already? "

nahhh just my tired of forum pish day.....havin fun with it tho, voicing what a few think...and waiting for well crafted responses like the previous lol

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