FabSwingers.com forum: Importance of Fab meets to you?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Realised t'other day that it's been about 6 months or so since I last met anyone from Fab (blimey, where has the year gone!?).

Partly through choice, partly due to other commitments and partly because no other bugger wants to meet me!

But to be honest, I can't say I've been all that bothered in hindsight. Don't get me wrong it's always really nice to meet people from here and have a good time but it's not the end of the world if I don't as real life gets in the way.

Anyway - when was your last Fab meet and does it bother you if it's been a while since the last one?

Do you get twitchy if you regularly meet but go through a little quiet patch?

Or is Fab just another avenue to meet on top of lots of others (going to clubs etc)?

Lots of people on here don't want to meet and just use the site for the forums or keeping in touch with friends. How important are meets from here to you?

(Just being nosey really ..

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

They are of little, to no importance for me, I use a club, sauna and another site to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Urm yesterday for a play meet

Currently we are meeting a lot, but prior to August we were not meeting and apart from group social events we didn't meet for about 2 years.

We go through fits and starts. At the moment it's me personally meeting more than Paul as I have a couple of men that I meet regularly. so at the moment it's important to us, but in a month or so's time we will probably ease off again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last meet was last week, although I've gone through stages where I might not have had one for over 6 months (I have deleted my profile and returned)

I don't get twitchy, I think when people don't meet for a while it's usually lots of things combined, such as life getting in the way, and not finding anyone that tickles your fancy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not important to meet from here, I have regular partners off site.

However, finding the right men on here is important to me. It's time I spend I could be washing my floors, or wallpapering my bedroom. So, the sex had better be good.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

It's been about 3 months since my last meet and doesn't bother me in the slightest I can't say I've been looking for one and my profile is presently hidden. When I can be bothered to meet I will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't expect to find a new man every month. Having no expectations helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not important to me, but I don't complain when it happens

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ok, my lifestyle is i like to have recreational and s variety of sex with different people.

Thats how my brain works. It doesnt mean i have to do it everyday of the week.

I have a steady stream of people, soms i might see twice a year some once s month but its constant but i also know if i dont want to meet for six months they will still be there. When in meeting someone new i take my tine and then through them in the mix with the others.

At the moment ive had so much going of ive not even thought about a meet but next week i will start sorting stuff out again.

Its a very easy lifestyle for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more we're on the site, the less we use it for meets. We generally go to clubs now and meet people we've already met in the past. Sometimes we will get an invite to a club here on fab where a group of people will be going, and those have been great - but they still center of the club as the primary focus.

Fab is primarily useful to me for meeting single guys, but I've been having a hard time of that lately. I don't know if its because we moved to York or just that I'm not in the right mindset, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really that bothered to be honest, I tend not to go looking for one anymore but if one should come my way, great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

July.

I have someone off site anyway so I'm not bothered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last new Fab man was in July and I occasionally meet another fab man, who is local, but life is extremely busy for me and I don't like squeezing people into limited spare time.

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By *av big oneMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Last meet was only a few days ago but only a social meet still waiting on a meet that involves sex lol wonder when that will happen, don't think anyone wants to meet the asain lad

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

More important that Ouija boards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was important to me I'd try a bit harder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well for me I've been on and off this site for over a year and never met anyone.

Been on here as a couple but now i'm single so testing the water again.

Spoken to some people but rarely gets anywhere apart from a bit of teasing (usually me being teased)

But meh i'm not everyone's cup of tea and that's fine.

I do think a lot of blokes ruin it for the good ones though, but all in all i'm not that bothered.

It'll either happen or it won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials was early sep for sex was June or July.

I cba tbh atm.

xxx

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Last meet through here was in July but I have been meeting people at clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes an awful lot of planning for me to have a play meet and they are arranged well in advance ..

My last one was last week and my next will be next month .. it's always good to have something (and someone) to look forward to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

September (2015)

was my last meet but life's hectic at the minute and I'm very rarely able to meet. Id like to have time to meet more but that's just life

but I don't cry myself to sleep over it, fab isn't very high on my list of priorities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is not important for me and its been years. I mostly just use it for the forum, it is comedy gold. I am on another site for meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last December, for a proper play meet.

The intervening 10 months have been an emotional rollercoaster, so I havent bothered trying to meet anyone.

Now I'm in a much happier place - smiles are more frequent and confidence has grown (along with a few friendships), so I've started actively looking again.

It doesnt matter if there aren't many sex meets - I'm still happy to socialise and make new friends.

Fun is found in many forms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is third in the league table when it comes to meets for me.

So meets happen as and when for me so doesn't bother me if they come or not from here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last meet for sex was 2 weeks ago and I had a social with someone new on Friday. I go through peaks and troughs. I'm in a meeting mood at the moment, both with new and existing people and have a few things lined up I am really looking forward to. But I didn't meet anyone or arrange anything for six months earlier in the year. This site (or people I've already met from it) is the only avenue I use for arranging meets.

I think 'important' is the wrong word. If I didn't like it and enjoy it, I wouldn't bother doing it, but if I never met anyone ever again my life would still be content.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of no importance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to meet from here regularly but been in a Fab based relationship last 8 months so just use it for forums and event info nowadays.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

"It's not important to meet from here, I have regular partners off site.

However, finding the right men on here is important to me. It's time I spend I could be washing my floors, or wallpapering my bedroom. So, the sex had better be good. "

Agree with you 100%. I will always stay extremely picky off this site, even more so than in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really that important. We meet up every weekend anyway and our play is very intense. We are looking for specific people to play with and so that search can take a while

Kinky

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

my last meet was yesterday, i didnt meet much at all in the summer so im making up for it now, it is important to me but i still try and make sure i choose the right man or men.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I think we all go through a period where we can't be bothered to meet or life gets in the way.......I think I've become more fussy as I've got use to the site and find it harder to meet someone I like enough to have sex with. It doesn't bother me if I don't meet new people but the social side I love

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It's not too important to me, it's just a bit of fun. I have a couple of guys I see fairly regularly. My last fab meet was yesterday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last Fab meet a few weeks ago. Haven't found anyone else I wanted to meet. Don't really care if I meet people off Fab though as real life is more fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5th of August was my last sex meet, was with a guy I'd met a few times but didn't really fancy him the last time we met, I go off people as quickly as I can fancy them.

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By *inglenfreeMan
over a year ago

london

"I don't expect to find a new man every month. Having no expectations helps. "
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Why do you block single men. I would love to meet you. Always enjoy your forum replies.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"Realised t'other day that it's been about 6 months or so since I last met anyone from Fab (blimey, where has the year gone!?).

Partly through choice, partly due to other commitments and partly because no other bugger wants to meet me!

Anyway - when was your last Fab meet and does it bother you if it's been a while since the last one?

Do you get twitchy if you regularly meet but go through a little quiet patch?

Or is Fab just another avenue to meet on top of lots of others (going to clubs etc)?

Lots of people on here don't want to meet and just use the site for the forums or keeping in touch with friends. How important are meets from here to you?

(Just being nosey really ..

Doesn't bother me at all. I dont use Fab as my sole source for sex.

Six months though Daniel, really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I needed the confidence boost this place (and it's lovely ladies) gave me a couple of years ago.

Now its no more than a welcome distraction from real life and work, or while on a train for hours at a time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Realised t'other day that it's been about 6 months or so since I last met anyone from Fab (blimey, where has the year gone!?).

Partly through choice, partly due to other commitments and partly because no other bugger wants to meet me!

Anyway - when was your last Fab meet and does it bother you if it's been a while since the last one?

Do you get twitchy if you regularly meet but go through a little quiet patch?

Or is Fab just another avenue to meet on top of lots of others (going to clubs etc)?

Lots of people on here don't want to meet and just use the site for the forums or keeping in touch with friends. How important are meets from here to you?

(Just being nosey really ..

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Doesn't bother me at all. I dont use Fab as my sole source for sex.

Six months though Daniel, really

I know, I'm incredibly unpopular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last meet was March

They're usually aggro to arrange so I'd rather just do clubs and parties and use other apps and sites for meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only tend to meet at parties we hold as have other stuff that takes up much of our time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really bothered at the moment, i have my hands full for now (and no, not with cock) so happy to play it by ear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Important? Not in the grand scheme of things. But we wouldn't be on here if we weren't looking to meet.

Clubs aren't necessarily the magic solution for us everybody else thinks they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last meet was in January, MrWho's was last November with me. We have no interest in meeting anyone else at all at the moment.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like fab. It works well for me. I've met and chatted to some interesting people that in 'real' life, I wouldn't have had the opportunity so all good from here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not in a position to be that proactive meet wise, if I was then I think this site gives me tools to do so & I'd be out all the time.

I tend to meet sporadically so last meet was about a month ago and I have 2 in the pipeline for oct / nov, all with people I have met previously.

I'm also still in touch with a guy I've been meeting for years.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Nearly a year. I got a little jaded and now am in a relationship.

So it's forums for me.

The excitement was great, but I don't miss it. Variety is the "spice of life" but only for a period.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last sex meet was in July. I've been to clubs since and have a couples profile too. I've not met anyone for a while, I was poorly and then summer holidays and so on. Just life got in the way.

I'm open to a new potential meet but nothing planned with anyone right now

I go through stages where im on here a lot, then nothing for ages. It doesn't take over my life tho

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

I haven't used Fab to arrange a meet in years, not bothered at the mo as my mojo has well and truly fucked off. The last time I had a play meet was back in Feb.

I find it easier and so much less of a hassle to meet in clubs. Many men talk a good game but bottle it at the last minute, go quiet or just disappear on here. Not really worth the effort.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Realised t'other day that it's been about 6 months or so since I last met anyone from Fab (blimey, where has the year gone!?).

Partly through choice, partly due to other commitments and partly because no other bugger wants to meet me!

Anyway - when was your last Fab meet and does it bother you if it's been a while since the last one?

Do you get twitchy if you regularly meet but go through a little quiet patch?

Or is Fab just another avenue to meet on top of lots of others (going to clubs etc)?

Lots of people on here don't want to meet and just use the site for the forums or keeping in touch with friends. How important are meets from here to you?

(Just being nosey really ..

I wish I could say I care OP but I don't I have a couple of regular play partners .

I'm sure that fact makes me a harder lay than I should be for the simple reason who wants fizzy water when you have champagne on order .

I'm open to socials but as for meets and fucks boy would someone have to be something to tempt me into that .

I prefer the slow approach as it has always work for me in the past so I feel no need to change it.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Not too important at the moment, we like the forums at the mo. Not had a meet for a year now but that's not as we'd like it, health comes first. Will be meeting again when it's OK to do so and looking forward to the social we're attending in November, the break has given us plenty to ponder, it may become important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't had any meets, not for the want of trying though but alas it seems not to be. Although did have to politely refuse a meet recently because the requested scenario by young couple wasn't for me. So, venting my frustrations by working longer, not quite the same but hey oh what's a man to do?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the responses so far everyone. The general consensus seems to be that most people are content with what they have and how the site is working for them which is good to hear

For those where it's not working so well keep on it and I'm sure the good times will roll!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last meet was with a couple on Friday/Saturday.

I have a lot of friends that have left Fab but keep in touch and I meet them from time to time.

Sex makes me feel good and in using this site, I can pretty much get it whenever I like! However, I now prefer to get to know people, build up a friendship that may last ~ a good connection so to speak. I've totally gone off one-off's and quickies and much prefer long sessions. Since I joined Fab, I have gone through phases of quite a few meets to taking weeks off and not meeting.

Sex is very important to me and at this stage in my life, I'm not prepared to stifle my libido. I can settle down later when it's settled down! I don't have sex for sex sake....I have sex because I absolutely flipping love it

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By *igmatt82Man
over a year ago

birmingham

My last meet was 2 weeks ago. It would be good to meet on a more regular basis but it ain't the end of the world. I've still had laughs and jokes with loads of people on here so it's all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is a lifestyle choice for us. It's one of the things in our life that we do, so we make time for it along side our other interests, hobbies, and vanilla friends. We like to play approximately once a month, and the reality is that as well. Sometimes it's a bit more, but we do get withdrawal symptoms if more than a month goes by without any play. However we don't meet very often. Reason being is that we prefer parties and if we do have private meet, it's more likely to be with someone we've met before.

Mrs

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

My last meet was a couple of weeks ago but I don't really use the site to find meets anymore. If someone wants to meet me then great but I'm not actively looking. I grew tired of it all. There was just too much disappointment to retain my interest. Too many times it had me feeling like crap about myself. I came to the conclusion that I didn't need that in my life.

I've realised that my real, everyday life was where it was it at. My own personal development and things outside of Fab are what now hold my interest and where I must focus my attention.

I now just use Fab to chat on the forums and to chat to friends and to post the odd photo or two. My door's still open to meet, it's just I feel I'm now in control of things and I no longer get the disappointment and feelings of dejection.

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