FabSwingers.com forum: Too much stimulation

By *hattyman80 OP Man
over a year ago

stockport

Do you think it's possible to be around too much sex? My work involves me being around sex daily and I'm finding fab less appealing now. I'm trying to decide if my work has lessened the enjoyment from fab or whether or not I've become jaded after being in fab for many years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be around anything too much and the fun fades.

Work in a chocolate factory - the appeal of chocolate will diminish.

It's part of the reason why I only have rare Fab meets, I don't want it to become routine and samey - it's about keeping it fresh I guess!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes I do think it's possible. Familiarity breeds contemput

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

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Or even contempt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm assuming you're an MP or similar...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want your job

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By *hattyman80 OP Man
over a year ago

stockport

I'm a professional blogger. I interview Porn stars and review adult products, DVDs, services etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People really get paid for that? !

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By *hattyman80 OP Man
over a year ago

stockport

You only get paid for it if you know what you're doing. Luckily I knew a few people in the industry and now I interview the biggest names in porn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over exposure to anything will leave you desensitized. Quite often I think this leads the push towards fetish in some people. Trying to push the boundaries and find more excitement. Maybe you need to explore your boundaries a bit more.

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By *hattyman80 OP Man
over a year ago

stockport

I'm pretty well explored in the world of kink. I've been on a well known fetish website for many years and been pushing my limits for years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm pretty well explored in the world of kink. I've been on a well known fetish website for many years and been pushing my limits for years.

Then focus on your work and let it be.

Usually these things resolve themselves with distraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm assuming you're an MP or similar...

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By *hattyman80 OP Man
over a year ago

stockport

Yeah focusing on the work should probably be the way to go

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"I'm a professional blogger. I interview Porn stars and review adult products, DVDs, services etc "

Oooh interesting

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By *hattyman80 OP Man
over a year ago

stockport

Yeah it's an interesting job, not always as glamourous as you'd imagine lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You see for me, the more I get the more I want but then in my every day life sex is the furthest thing from my mind, so I suppose my play time is a outlet from my stressful life which is why I crave more and more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having worked in adult shops for the last 15 years I can say for sure it does, looking at porn, talking to customers about sex, looking at web sites of toys and porn when buying new stock really does dull the senses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think it's possible to be around too much sex? My work involves me being around sex daily and I'm finding fab less appealing now. I'm trying to decide if my work has lessened the enjoyment from fab or whether or not I've become jaded after being in fab for many years

Feel free to comment and give opinions "

Yes! I think personally I would become quite disillusioned. It's really good to have a life and hobbies outside the bedroom ones. I find even using fab too much can give me a skewed view mankind which is not healthy.

I suppose it depends on if you are able to not take your work home. Investing your emotional energy in work can bleed into your home life too.

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