FabSwingers.com forum: Deleting my profile!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys!

Due to the malicious minority who think they have the 'moral responsibility' to publicly 'out' swingers I'm having to delete my profile!

Obviously I find this very hurtful and upsetting. Like the majority of you, my philosophy is simply to enjoy life and hurt others as little as possible along the way!

I'll be back but keeping a lower profile! I think you're all bloody ace and would miss you too much to leave permanently! All I'd ask, please, for obvious reasons, is that if you recognise my new profile when it comes up (not straight away - I think I need a short break!) then please PM me and ask rather than displaying my 'old' user name on here!

Huge hugs to you all,

Signed

A rather miffed Peachy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that PP. Hope you're ok x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

all the very best

sorry to read this

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

That's horrible,some people are just wankers and not in a good way. Hope you're ok!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Sounds horrible - and a job for Super Admin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear it Peachy. Hope it all subsides again soon. I know it's not the first time it has happened to you and wish you well!

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Sorry to hear it and it's sad that pathetic people have to spoil things.

Good luck though and hope you come back soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't this the second time now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that. Love to you peachy. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys!

I'll be back! The unpleasant people are just accessing my profile and sharing info from it so no option but to delete!

Thanks for the concern and see you all soon! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've never chatted but sorry to hear you're having hassles

Take care xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Did you not do this before.

Surely by publicly saying this and that you will return will give the outer knowledge that you will return and they will be able to know when youve reappeared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

. This should be classed as bad as blackmail. It's emotionally abuse. It shouldn't be the victim that feels bad. It should be the bullying that's highlighted and those people should be outed as such.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Ffs, why can't people mind their own fcking business..female or male Peachy?

Come back soon, i'll miss looking at your bod

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Thanks guys!

I'll be back! The unpleasant people are just accessing my profile and sharing info from it so no option but to delete!

Thanks for the concern and see you all soon! Xx"

What a serious waste of energy! Don't let them get to you and pm me on your return. Enjoy your break

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that. It happened to us several years ago, so know how you feel. Hope things work out.

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester

Ah peachy, hopefully you'll see this at some point, so just want to say, get back here quick

Mrs blue eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i remember last time it was personal for her, not sure if it is this time?

glad i've got my profile hidden.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's a shame that you need to do this but I hope you'll be back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck and see you with the new profile soon!

Of course everyone should be free to express themselves on here in safety in an ideal world. But it's not an ideal world so whilst it shouldn't be necessary to have to say it, if you're concerned about privacy then please do consider ensuring your face is hidden in public galleries. I don't know you and have never met. But I'd recognise you if I saw you.

Sadly, some people will also troll, stick their oar in where not required, and go out of their way to be malicious. Don't give them the rope to hang you with!

Good luck PP! See you soon

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

That's really bad news, there's some real scumbag people about, good luck, and make sure you report them to whoever can deal with them - police or whatever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to read this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

take care Peachy, we never chatted but you seemed a lovely positive lady

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Sorry to hear this. Happened to us some years ago too, which is why we don't show any face pics, that's how we got caught out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry to hear this PP. take care x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good luck and see you with the new profile soon!

Sadly, some people will also troll, stick their oar in where not required, and go out of their way to be malicious. Don't give them the rope to hang you with!

Good luck PP! See you soon

Good point, well made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we had this with a guy last year who said to me (mrs) that if I don't meet him he will out me to my works and family ...some really fucked up folk on here

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

That's a terrible thing to happen..

My friends list is missing one

have fun whatever you're doing

....hope to see you again peach..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good luck and see you with the new profile soon!

Sadly, some people will also troll, stick their oar in where not required, and go out of their way to be malicious. Don't give them the rope to hang you with!

Good luck PP! See you soon

Good point, well made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear this PP, people really can be arseholes. Good luck.

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

"i remember last time it was personal for her, not sure if it is this time?

glad i've got my profile hidden."

All well & good hiding your profie, but your avatar is still on display with a full face pic showing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i remember last time it was personal for her, not sure if it is this time?

glad i've got my profile hidden.

All well & good hiding your profie, but your avatar is still on display with a full face pic showing"

it's just a face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh no! Very sorry to read this.

Nell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you're ok peach x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I don't get it.

Surely a swinger has to 'out' themselves first.

Even if they didn't , who could someone 'out' a swinger to unless the 'swinger' gave them a hell of a lot of private details.

Maybe it's just my li'l ole uncomplicated life.

What ever happens O.P. Good luck and speedy secret squirrel return xx

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Going to miss you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are evil! sorry to see you leave Peach but enjoy your break lovely xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't this the second time now? "

I was thinking that

She posted the exact same thing last time she left in her old profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry that you've had to leave PP, always enjoyed your witty comments and sexy pictures.

Don't let them get to you and look forward to your return.

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't this the second time now?

I was thinking that

She posted the exact same thing last time she left in her old profile

How awful to have it happen once. ..let alone more than once. Someone must really have it in for her.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

People can only out you if you give too much personal information out.

From the sites point of _iew if someone threatens anyone on the site with outing them, always report as Admin take a dim _iew

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By *ong legs n LingeireWoman
over a year ago

it up to me neck. :-)

"Isn't this the second time now? "

Yes I think it is .Such a shame, she seems so lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get it.

Surely a swinger has to 'out' themselves first.

Even if they didn't , who could someone 'out' a swinger to unless the 'swinger' gave them a hell of a lot of private details.

Maybe it's just my li'l ole uncomplicated life.

What ever happens O.P. Good luck and speedy secret squirrel return xx "

That's what everybody says, but we never went round giving out personal details etc

So yes it's complicated, but depends on how much you know about trolls/sock puppets/doxxing etc

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

"I don't get it.

Surely a swinger has to 'out' themselves first.

Even if they didn't , who could someone 'out' a swinger to unless the 'swinger' gave them a hell of a lot of private details.

Maybe it's just my li'l ole uncomplicated life.

What ever happens O.P. Good luck and speedy secret squirrel return xx "

If it was Peach Perfect/ion then she was unfortunately splashed all over the scum with Swingfields photos. She was very, very identifiable & I'm surprised she didn't go sooner or change her profile/remove face pics etc..

JG xx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I don't get it.

Surely a swinger has to 'out' themselves first.

Even if they didn't , who could someone 'out' a swinger to unless the 'swinger' gave them a hell of a lot of private details.

Maybe it's just my li'l ole uncomplicated life.

What ever happens O.P. Good luck and speedy secret squirrel return xx

JG xx"

That is a shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get it.

Surely a swinger has to 'out' themselves first.

Even if they didn't , who could someone 'out' a swinger to unless the 'swinger' gave them a hell of a lot of private details.

Maybe it's just my li'l ole uncomplicated life.

What ever happens O.P. Good luck and speedy secret squirrel return xx

JG xx"

Oh that's awful

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

arse

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Fucking hell. Sorry to see you go hopefully you'll be back soon

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Damn, she was ruddy lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh!!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

hugs peachy, come back your gorgeous bubbly self xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get it.

Surely a swinger has to 'out' themselves first.

Even if they didn't , who could someone 'out' a swinger to unless the 'swinger' gave them a hell of a lot of private details.

Maybe it's just my li'l ole uncomplicated life.

What ever happens O.P. Good luck and speedy secret squirrel return xx

JG xx"

From what I gather the fall out from that happened a while ago, this seemed to be a different issue

I'm not sure what's happened a no amount of wringing of hands will change things. I guess she's done what she needed to for her

Beard

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Having been stalked online and in person and been threatened out my sexuality in the past I have every sympathy with whatever has happened now and the face pics from swingfields was disgusting.

However I have to say posting naughty/naked/revealing pics that include your face/clear identity on your profile (and for the OP that are regularly in hot pics) - if you have an issue being outed its completely irresponsible and opening yourself up to trouble imho.

Being threatened or outed isn't right in any way whatsoever but have some common sense and take care of yourself online!

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

" she was unfortunately splashed all over the scum with Swingfields photos. She was very, very identifiable & I'm surprised she didn't go sooner or change her profile/remove face pics etc..

JG xx"

All the best PP, come back soon

Mr ddc

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Damn, she was ruddy lovely

She still is!

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

" she was unfortunately splashed all over the scum with Swingfields photos. She was very, very identifiable & I'm surprised she didn't go sooner or change her profile/remove face pics etc..

JG xx

All the best PP, come back soon

Mr ddc"

There have been other issues since what is mentioned above, but if she hasn't wanted to tell everyone then I am certainly not about to blab it.

She has not left lightly though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully you'll be back soon, don't let the ass hole get you down.

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

This makes me so mad that is even happened, especially to someone as lovely as Peach. *rage*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will miss you, come back soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it that some people see the need to live in other people's lives? What sad guts they must be - I didn't know peachy but it must be agonising to be outed as she has been and for what reason? Some cheap peer trip thrill?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a shame.

Speak soon PP.

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