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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What is so wrong with Asian men? I accept its a preference and a personal choice etc.

What is about Asian men that is to like and dislike (much more often)?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

2 people have met you and liked you....

Think positive

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"2 people have met you and liked you....

Think positive

Thank you for that feedback.

But it's hard for guys in General but bloody tough for Asian men.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"2 people have met you and liked you....

Think positive

Thank you for that feedback.

But it's hard for guys in General but bloody tough for Asian men."

Good luck

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Asking the 2 people what attracted them to you will give you actual, rather than hypotheticals from strangers

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"What is so wrong with Asian men? I accept its a preference and a personal choice etc.

What is about Asian men that is to like and dislike (much more often)?"

The one's I have met have been dis respectful towards women and are often cheating on their wives, so not a good experience, but I'm sure they're not all the same......

good luck in your quest!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What is so wrong with Asian men? I accept its a preference and a personal choice etc.

What is about Asian men that is to like and dislike (much more often)?

The one's I have met have been dis respectful towards women and are often cheating on their wives, so not a good experience, but I'm sure they're not all the same......

good luck in your quest!"

Those people are real idiots deserve to be blocked and banned and are in a every race. They ruin it for the rest of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like them cause their men and I'm not gay

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"What is so wrong with Asian men? I accept its a preference and a personal choice etc.

What is about Asian men that is to like and dislike (much more often)?

The one's I have met have been dis respectful towards women and are often cheating on their wives, so not a good experience, but I'm sure they're not all the same......

good luck in your quest!

Those people are real idiots deserve to be blocked and banned and are in a every race. They ruin it for the rest of us.

I have to agree with you there!

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

"What is so wrong with Asian men? I accept its a preference and a personal choice etc.

What is about Asian men that is to like and dislike (much more often)?"

Some Asian guys are hot xx

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Search the forum. There are lots and lots of threads with lots and lots of different reasons.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I've met three from here, two were marvelous, third was an utter prick. Currently casually seeing another from a different site.

I don't judge on race, I judge on people's ability to be cool or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've met three from here, two were marvelous, third was an utter prick. Currently casually seeing another from a different site.

I don't judge on race, I judge on people's ability to be cool or not. "

66% good is not bad going. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps you can tell us why there are so few (if any) Asian women on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In general I'm instantly turned of by anyone who messages with Hi I'm Asian/black/vwe/girthy etc. I wouldn't message anyone introducing myself as overweight and purple, I would use my name!

Put on a nice picture of your best assets and a respectful profile and let people come to their own conclusions of whether they find what they see attractive.

Personally for me it's a hairy body thing. I think dark complexions are hot but very often this comes with a lot of dark body hair which doesn't do it for me, which is why everyone has to be judged on their individual look not pigeonholed into a type/colour/race... that and not being an asshat!

*disclaimer* this is just general advice I give to anyone about profiles, I'm not saying that OP does or has any of these things as I haven't looked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2 people have met you and liked you....

Think positive

Thank you for that feedback.

But it's hard for guys in General but bloody tough for Asian men."

Is it really that much tougher for Asisn men? Or is it just that it's easier to blame why you are struggling on what you can;t influence?

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By *av big oneMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"2 people have met you and liked you....

Think positive

Thank you for that feedback.

But it's hard for guys in General but bloody tough for Asian men."

Dude I totally agree with you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Perhaps you can tell us why there are so few (if any) Asian women on here?"

Haven't the foggiest idea why Asian women are missing from Fab. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They cant drive

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They cant drive

that's so true lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello Joe!

((I hope you are better than the last Joe we had on here.... terrible chap))

Firstly welcome to the forums, no officially I am not the official that welcomes you to the forums, but I am saying welcome and well that's that.... (click)

Its not about being Asian Joe; its about being a single guy; we all have the people that would like to meet us and those that don't and the problem is theres more of "us" than there is of them... so their choice is almost limitless... don't create barriers for people to use chap, you are a single guy, it doesn't matter from which ethnic background you hail, you are one of many fishes.. some peeps don't like skinny guys, portly guys, bald guys, bearded guys, black guys, white guys, all guys, toni and guys.

..so pull up a pew, say how d'ya do.. and enjoy...

((I guess what I am saying is that patience works for me))

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

A guys a guy makes no odds to me what colour or race he is i either like him or not.

I know one british guy whose of asian heratidge that doesnt struggle at all

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

All men should assume it's hard and then follow the intelligent strategy, rather than one that's less likely to pay off. Look for the hot to and not the why not that other people have, as it's just wasted effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is so wrong with Asian men? I accept its a preference and a personal choice etc.

What is about Asian men that is to like and dislike (much more often)?

The one's I have met have been dis respectful towards women and are often cheating on their wives, so not a good experience, but I'm sure they're not all the same......

good luck in your quest!"

Considering this site is made up pf mostly white males, the likelyhood of coming across a disrespectfull Caucasian male is more likely.

I find a good majority of caucadian males on this site to be pushy, pervy and rude! Hency why i chamged my age restriction to 40+ to try and filter all that out.

And im a mix race female. I would defintly say its harder for the asian males. Im one of very few woman i know that like asian males. It all comes down to prefence hun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They cant drive

Very poor comment/joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same as is wrong with black men , white men, tall men , short men ,bald men to be honest pretty much all men. There's thousands of them on here competing for a meet. You have to stand out from the rest and also understand people have choices as to who they meet yes there will be people who turn you down because your Asian just as we get turned down because I'm bald but not everytime you get turned down will it be because of your race there will be other reasons. Just accept it and move on one persons junk is another persons treasure

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

Colour/race/ethnicity isn't one of my filters. I need to be attracted to you end of.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We met a guy who had a very, very impressive profile and still doing very well, nowhere on his profile is there the mention of him being Asian and none of his verifications mention it either. Turns out this guy is very respectful, socially skilled and yeah, a great meet, lol. Point being if you conduct yourself in a certain manner the majority here as far as we've noticed won't even associate your race in their decision making. You'll always have those types who won't meet a certain race regardless and rule everyone out on that basis, forget them, not worth stressing over and concentrate your efforts on how you present yourself, do it well and you'll have your meets, regardless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But the majority of women judge by a profile on this site. You can only know if your attracted to someone by meeting them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They cant drive

Very poor comment/joke "
why is it? I drive for a living and 90% of the incidents I see are young Asian men on the phone. Its not said in a racist way before that bull shit starts its my experience on the road.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"We met a guy who had a very, very impressive profile and still doing very well, nowhere on his profile is there the mention of him being Asian and none of his verifications mention it either. Turns out this guy is very respectful, socially skilled and yeah, a great meet, lol. Point being if you conduct yourself in a certain manner the majority here as far as we've noticed won't even associate your race in their decision making. You'll always have those types who won't meet a certain race regardless and rule everyone out on that basis, forget them, not worth stressing over and concentrate your efforts on how you present yourself, do it well and you'll have your meets, regardless. "

I agree with this. People who don't want to meet you won't no matter what. Concentrate on those that do.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

There was a thread exactly the same last week.

It really is about personal preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is so wrong with Asian men? I accept its a preference and a personal choice etc.

What is about Asian men that is to like and dislike (much more often)?

The one's I have met have been dis respectful towards women and are often cheating on their wives, so not a good experience, but I'm sure they're not all the same......

good luck in your quest!

Those people are real idiots deserve to be blocked and banned and are in a every race. They ruin it for the rest of us.

I disagree.....I wish the vast majority of single male profiles were disrespectful and cheats - less competition!

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