FabSwingers.com forum: What makes an awesome meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right then peeps the awesome meet thrend what makes this happen is it the banter and chase leading up to the meet the chemistry the highly charged sexual atmosphere.

What's your experience of this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just the right person. I don't think there's any better way to explain it than that.

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

It's always really great if someone turns up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually meeting after battling through timewasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Them turning up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's just the right person. I don't think there's any better way to explain it than that."
that's very true but what makes one meet stand out from the rest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Them turning up"
thi's helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When everything goes right from start to finish and you come away thinking "Hell yeah, I'd do that again!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the right person and the chemistry you have together that makes it good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet to find out unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the right person and the chemistry you have together that makes it good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you read some verification's there is always oe that seems to be awesome so what made that different

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When everything goes right from start to finish and you come away thinking "Hell yeah, I'd do that again!""
yes.that's the ones I'm thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you read some verification's there is always oe that seems to be awesome so what made that different

Your connection with them. You get them, they get you. Then the fireworks happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the anticipation just as much as the actual act ....great chemistry is key , for me that's either trembling in the s/d or a lot of laughter.....one or the other will do it for me with the right person x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prosecco and peanut M&M's

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Just the connection with the right person

To me its that simple, the easiness of it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

an attraction, some flirting and lots of kissing

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Some of our ingredients...

Chilled out and relaxed, just happy to indicate what they enjoy and willing to explore with you too.

Honest and open with their wants, needs and desires.

Genuine reactions to play and happy to let themselves enjoy the experience to the full.

Loves to kiss.

Loves oral and happy to give as much as recieve.

Loves all things sexual without to many rules and regulations.

No jealousy or paranoia about what their partner may be doing if it's a couple.

Just looking to play for simple sexy, hot fun.

Not shit faced.

Some confidence is very sexy but a littke coy though willing to be lead happily down a path of hot debauchery is hot as sometimes too.

Respects everyone else involved fully and equally.

No one gets left on the sidelines unless they request to sit back and watch.

Find those all together and you've pretty much cracked it

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

It's good when they are super hot

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Prosecco and peanut M&M's"

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

What makes a good meet?

When the neighbours complain of the noise through the wall......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some of our ingredients...

Chilled out and relaxed, just happy to indicate what they enjoy and willing to explore with you too.

Honest and open with their wants, needs and desires.

Genuine reactions to play and happy to let themselves enjoy the experience to the full.

Loves to kiss.

Loves oral and happy to give as much as recieve.

Loves all things sexual without to many rules and regulations.

No jealousy or paranoia about what their partner may be doing if it's a couple.

Just looking to play for simple sexy, hot fun.

Not shit faced.

Some confidence is very sexy but a littke coy though willing to be lead happily down a path of hot debauchery is hot as sometimes too.

Respects everyone else involved fully and equally.

No one gets left on the sidelines unless they request to sit back and watch.

Find those all together and you've pretty much cracked it

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yeah this one rings some bells

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By *leur de lisWoman
over a year ago

Buxton

If it starts with a friendly manner and a big smile it rarely goes wrong.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

someone who is laid back, easy going, not too serious, not pushy or manipulative, doesnt outstay their welcome. someone who enjoys the same type of things as i do, no farting about straight upstairs and takes his clothes off, not someone who says what shall we do. not someone who asks silly questions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If it starts with a friendly manner and a big smile it rarely goes wrong. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"someone who is laid back, easy going, not too serious, not pushy or manipulative, doesnt outstay their welcome. someone who enjoys the same type of things as i do, no farting about straight upstairs and takes his clothes off, not someone who says what shall we do. not someone who asks silly questions. "
yes I'm more inclined to prefer this type of meet you both know why your there and the pleasure is what it is about the laughter can continue in the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree the right people for us would be respectful non pushy & pleasant do you know any ?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

All kinds of variables - not sure you can capture it quite so easily.

* Person

* Expectations

* Situation/setting/circumstances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, it's a lot of things.

The first message that gets replied to in a positive manner.

The 'getting to know you' chat online.

Getting the invite to meet up.

The tingling in your tummy, nerves, excitement, anticipation.

Meeting them face to face and thinking 'Mmmm, you are damn attractive !'

The chat, finding things in common, realising that you've been chatting for ages and it seems like only 5 minutes.

Flirting. Oh my God, the flirting! Eye contact, the first touch....

The signal - verbal or non verbal - that they want to play now.

The fun of teasing, exploring, tasting, kissing, hearing and feeling them cum, fucking, cumming, chatting, maybe doing it all over again...

Leaving with a big daft smile on your face and pumping heart, a new friend made and plans to meet again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they turn up usually helps too

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"If it starts with a friendly manner and a big smile it rarely goes wrong.

A friendly manner will do, if someone turns up looking miserable it makes you wonder why they bothered to come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's just the right person. I don't think there's any better way to explain it than that."

100%

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Gaffer tape, rohypnol and a little blue pill...

If that fails, a connection, great chat and banter leading up to the meet and hours of great sex when the meet takes place.

Better still when they want one meet again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other person turns up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An after work lemonade?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The other person turns up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best meets for me are when you have that elusive connection, when you can read each other and know how to react. When you almost instinctively know what the other person wants

Beard

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some awesome replies you lovely fabulous people please keep them coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the time I meet someone I know we click and have chemistry, so awesome meets generally come from good prep work! I don't want to fuck anyone I can't have a laugh with in the moments we're not doing it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The best meets for me are when you have that elusive connection, when you can read each other and know how to react. When you almost instinctively know what the other person wants

Beard"
these don't happen that offten on a first meet but there are those when the seal atmosphere is so intense that it just gels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My presence.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seal not seal grrr auto carrot be damned

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"My presence.

Is it Xmas already?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My presence.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Santa comes once a year and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's just the right person. I don't think there's any better way to explain it than that."

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An after work lemonade?

I like lemonade

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting that far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An after work lemonade?

I like lemonade

Such a shame you're so far away in the NW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or experiencing bondage for the first time.....just ask Kim K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The best meets for me are when you have that elusive connection, when you can read each other and know how to react. When you almost instinctively know what the other person wants

Beardthese don't happen that offten on a first meet but there are those when the seal atmosphere is so intense that it just gels

True, but when it does it's amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or experiencing bondage for the first time.....just ask Kim K"

Haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all to do with the build up to the meet, the connection with that person- some people just know what makes you tick, so much so that you know instantly what's going to happen even if it's not your initial plan on that evening. That's a awesome meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's all to do with the build up to the meet, the connection with that person- some people just know what makes you tick, so much so that you know instantly what's going to happen even if it's not your initial plan on that evening. That's a awesome meet "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we turn up

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

When a woman replies to an email, but then the next she still remembers who you are.... That's is rare but totally awesome !!

To then go on and get a meet would be bad ass mother f*cking awesome..

Pardon my French..

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

"Prosecco and peanut M&M's"

We love peanut M&M's

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