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I prefer to fuck sober

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you ?

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

D*unken sex has never been great imo. So yes sober all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind of depends how d*unk. A few drinks and tipsy sex is good, but room spinning, about to chunder isn't so hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, not keen on d*unken sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, by miles. D*unken sex leaves me feeling out of control and I really hate that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definately sober, last time i had sex d*unk i fell off the bed and bashed my head on the bedside cabinet

Mark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sober is best

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

D*unk deccan be great just depends on the person you do it with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like a drink at clubs or on meets but I'm the most horny the morning after the night before! Hangover sex is amazing for me, followed by a nap lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely. Ones ok, but if I have too many I can't cum and it turns into 2 hours of boring hammer and tong fucking like a man possessed.

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

2 or 3 drinks

Not to the point of tipsy, but to loosen my initial shyness.

Have refused to play with people in clubs who are clearly d*unk. I don't think they are capable of consenting.

Red x

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

I don't cum if I've been drinking so I definitely prefer not to. Always have hangover horn though!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

D*unken sex to me just says "Dutch courage" & an easy out in the morning with "I'm sorry, it shouldn't have happened" type scenario.

So no not for me & we wouldn't go with someone who was three sheets either..

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I like to be in control of my faculties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"D*unken sex to me just says "Dutch courage" & an easy out in the morning with "I'm sorry, it shouldn't have happened" type scenario.

So no not for me & we wouldn't go with someone who was three sheets either..

S"

Same for me, if someone has been drinking i won't find sex with them appealing at all, huge turn off.

I also don't drink so sober sex for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D*unk men have the habit of falling asleep mid fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both is good with the right person. I never used to get d*unk just one or 2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Likewise. But my partners tend to need to be d*unk* to want to sleep with me

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(* disclaimer for the hard of understanding - but obviously still capable of making and informed decision of consent! )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beer goggles gets me laid.

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

If too wasted I go numb where it counts! I kid you not (Mrs) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like d*unken sex because both parties loosen up a little and just have fun but I can never cum after a few drinks... which has it's up and down sides.

Hangover sex is better IMO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a few to eliminate the shyness/ nervousness but definitely not sloshed!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sober sex all the way

Although d*unken sex takes a bit longer as there is alot of giggling inbetween the fucking and licking out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really get d*unk often. When I do I tend to fall asleep. So I think sober sex is the only way for me

If I like someone I have no problem relaxing without drinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aye deffo

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Not d*unk but a double definitely loosens me up so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Weve all fucked pissed before with hilarious consequences and some disasters.

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey


"Weve all fucked pissed before with hilarious consequences and some disasters."

Agree! Gotta experience a d*unken nibble at some time in your life

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Have to say, we like to have a drink before, during and after a nice little session. Not a fall over, head swimming drink but a nice relaxing, warm glow kind of drink.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you ?"
yup... wont play with people that are d*unk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't drink so I'm always sober though I do like the guy I'm with to get very d*unk so I can erm look after him

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

I very rarely drink,and tbh I prefer a soft drink if out,yes I do like an occasional drink,last time I did have something I can't actually remember lol.

But no to needing too much alcohol,and yes been d*unk twice in my life and did not like the after effects,but I do get all touchy feely it seems and giggly

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Have to say, we like to have a drink before, during and after a nice little session. Not a fall over, head swimming drink but a nice relaxing, warm glow kind of drink.

X"

Exactly, I would not like to get staggering d*unk, but I love to share some wine (or JD) get a bit of a buzz and have even more of a laugh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time I was pissed was 21/06/2004, my 21st birthday and I ended up in a&e after doing something, think it was some attempt at breakdancing to run dmc, it's like that. Broken nose, a sprained wrist and a very bruised bum bone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very rarely drink so it's sober sex for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't even remember the last time I was d*unk

About 15 years ago

I have the odd drink but that's all, the problem is because I rarely drink I get d*unk really easy, two sniffs of a wine gum and I'm anybody's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't even remember the last time I was d*unk

About 15 years ago

I have the odd drink but that's all, the problem is because I rarely drink I get d*unk really easy, two sniffs of a wine gum and I'm anybody's "

Really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sober sex is so much better, can last longer & am more creative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to fuck men

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I hate d*unken anything. Alcohol tends to make me feel ill anyway, which is why I generally don't drink.

Plus, being with a woman in an intimate situation is always a great honour for me. I want to savour the moment and fully enjoy it. I want to be fully in control of my senses. I can't do that if I'm not sober.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sober is better by far. I'm a bit wilder if I'm tipsy but quite numb 'down there'. I can never orgasm after a drink.

Nell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like d*unken sex - well maybe not d*unk but say 2 drinks where you are at that tipsy excited point, it lets my inhibitions down and helps me relax and not be body concious.

I enjoy sobar sex too but feel more nervous with new people then

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Do you ?"

I need a couple of bottles just to get into the mood. Then a couple of drinks during and a few later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No love for a boozy fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did a user name search on Sober and decided, no, I don't.

Happy Swinging

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We don't drink so we definitely prefer sober sex

Apart from the informed consent thingy I wouldn't like to think that someone needed to get tipsy before they had sex with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer sober sex tbh. D*unk sex just makes me feel ill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prefer sober sex tbh. D*unk sex just makes me feel ill."

Well of course so much physical movement during sex can't be good when you've got a belly full of alcohol lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you ?"

I can never remember...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prefer sober sex tbh. D*unk sex just makes me feel ill."

Good job we d*unk coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely better when it's sober! I would only have sex with someone I trusted if I'd had a drink!

Red xx

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I find People who are d*unk during play a big turn off. And if they feel the need to drink for 'courage' before play maybe the shouldn't be playing .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dated an alcoholic for 2+ years.... no thanks; a few drinks maybe; but as the night progresses... being squiffy is fun but only when you have had some carnal delights to laugh about...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both. ...d*unken sex only happens with hubby as I rarely drink on meets.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I was given advice that I shouldn't play under the influence of anything as I am a single woman and need to be aware of my own safety. I'm usually driving anyway so drinking is rarely an option.

I'll have a drink if I'm playing with people I know well but only because I trust them and the environment I'm in. Even then it will be in moderation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being d*unk and swinging together don't mix well

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

God yeah ... one or two drinks at the most (but no way essential) to take the edge off (slightly) any nerves, but nowhere near d*unk or even tipsy. Quite apart from the fact I really hate to feel out of control, I tend to feel sick more than anything if I drink too much and the propensity therefore for throwing up due to jiggling about, unusual contortions or - ahem - having the back of your throat tickled, is far from appealing or sexy

Plus I quite like to remember what I've been up to ....

Ms G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't drink myself, I don't mind the person I'm with having one or two to relax, but d*unk is very off putting and usually not enjoyable at all.

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"Don't drink myself, I don't mind the person I'm with having one or two to relax, but d*unk is very off putting and usually not enjoyable at all. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a magical 4 pint stage where I'm better at quite a few things including karaoke, pool and talking Spanish. After that 4th pint my abilities in all departments quickly diminish below that of sober me. In terms of sex and meets, I find that a couple of pints can relax the evening and lubricate the conversation whilst keeping "the Wolf from the door". But much more and my performance is not to the standards I set myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to have a few drinks to make me feel like I'm a sex godess

But like everyone else not too many!

I definitely prefer hangover sex - spending a lazy morning in bed fucking, talking eating and blocking out the world.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

The more beer I have, the more I want to be your friend, chat shit and listen to music. After about 4 pints I've usually lost interest in sex. I much prefer sex both in the daytime and sober, I reckon 2 beers max.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It's much better when both parties are sober and experiencing everything. Alcohol dulls the senses.

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