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Sex with Lights on or Off and Why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On for me, i love to see the pleasure on the face.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I know i have had sex once in the last 10 years in the dark

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

On, I like to always know where the door is......

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

If the lights are off and I'm with someone in bed, or wherever, then I'll leave them off. Otherwise it's on or it's daylight anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On. I enjoy the sight as much as the other sensations.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Off. Dont need lights to see expressions if a lady is enjoying herself

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I had sex under the covers as well that night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Candle light if possible, I'm an old romantic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want fluorescent strip lights, but it's good to see expressions!Subtle lighting, please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what they look like

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Mostly on, occasionally off. Mix it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

off if i can to hide the lumps and wobbly bits lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like subtle lighting dimmed lights candles but I do so like to watch the pleasure ...............and look them in the eyes where possible.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On or off, each has its merits

On, and you can see the other person's body and facial reactions.

Off, and your other senses are heightened. You smell them, feel, taste and hear them better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On I like to see the lady im with.

Its all part of the attraction

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

On as I like to see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lights on

Am a deviant like that Even kinkier if it's the big light

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On, I like to always know where the door is......"

What if it's locked?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"On, I like to always know where the door is......

What if it's locked? "

then I am out the window

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On, I like to always know where the door is......

What if it's locked?

then I am out the window "

10 stories up?

Don't tell me, you take a parachute?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On for me, i love to see the pleasure on the face. "

Yeah definitely with the lights on spot on with this seeing the pleasure on the woman's face

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"On, I like to always know where the door is......

What if it's locked?

then I am out the window

10 stories up?

Don't tell me, you take a parachute? "

you do make a good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On, I like to always know where the door is......

What if it's locked?

then I am out the window

10 stories up?

Don't tell me, you take a parachute?

you do make a good point

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Something to think about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Candles or dimmed lights please .. Bright enough to see facial expression but dim enough to hide the unwanted lumps and bumps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Candles or dimmed lights please .. Bright enough to see facial expression but dim enough to hide the unwanted lumps and bumps "

God given them are Miss Bella more places to touch and potientially lick

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If they're wearing the paper bag? Then it doesn't matter.

In general I want to see as much as possible. The milk tray man tends not to put them on though.

Daytime fun works simply.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Lights on

Am a deviant like that Even kinkier if it's the big light

"

Deviancy I can cope with, but the extravagance of using the big light is just too much

OP: We're with Lickety: if it's on, it's on, if it's off, it's off, but it's generally daylight.

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On, but well thought out lighting -- I like a mood and ambiance. Lighting is key to setting a certain mood and creating the right aesthetics -- all of which add to my enjoyment. I like *all* my senses involved/stimulated and my mind engaged.

Having said that, a good screw in the dark is simply a different mood/vibe -- and works for me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off, makes imagining who you'd actually like it too be much easier!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to say on...but then I remember those middle of the night pitch dark fucks which can be amazing because you can't see anything.

I tend to naturally shut my eyes quite a lot anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lights off... separate rooms...

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Lights off... separate rooms... "

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Half way between on and off,bright lights make me squint and that's so not attractive

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I want to say on...but then I remember those middle of the night pitch dark fucks which can be amazing because you can't see anything.

I tend to naturally shut my eyes quite a lot anyway. "

Never ever close your eyes,alway's be aware of what the bugger is doing all the time!

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By *xcumMan
over a year ago

kidderminster

My missus wants them off. She hates to see me enjoying myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to say on...but then I remember those middle of the night pitch dark fucks which can be amazing because you can't see anything.

I tend to naturally shut my eyes quite a lot anyway.

Never ever close your eyes,alway's be aware of what the bugger is doing all the time! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to say on...but then I remember those middle of the night pitch dark fucks which can be amazing because you can't see anything.

I tend to naturally shut my eyes quite a lot anyway.

Never ever close your eyes,alway's be aware of what the bugger is doing all the time! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking I need to get a dimmer for my bedroom

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

Off

It makes a huge saving on paper bags

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Floodlights on a rugby pitch...

I'm kidding, all about mood lighting for me. Candles, warm white string lights. Something kinda sexy about it

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Subdued

I like to look into his eyes but don't want to have to wear shades to do it!

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