FabSwingers.com forum: Goodbye all

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A major disaster - my new girlfriend (of 4 weeks' standing) has hacked into my computer and found my Fabswingers account and messages - she's not best pleased - deleting account now.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

Now wonder who this is, we'll never know

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Blimey… four weeks in and she's hacking into his computer? Doesn't bode well for a long and happy one! Hide your bunny!

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

whoever it was it goes to show you shouldn't keep secrets from your nearest and dearest

(puts helment and flack jacket on)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh well one less guys playing behind his partners back

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By *utzzCouple
over a year ago

wrexham

"Blimey… four weeks in and she's hacking into his computer? Doesn't bode well for a long and happy one! Hide your bunny!

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oo so right! This is so not a good start to a relationship is it. 4 weeks and the jealousy already started.

But who was the mystery man???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh well one less guys playing behind his partners back"

Dya mean Doggy style...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh well one less guys playing behind his partners back

Dya mean Doggy style...?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Damned inconsiderate of him not to message us all personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He'll be back when she dumps him or he talk her into a couples profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And there he was gone lol xx

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

4 week old relationship, new, exciting, can't get enough of each other and he is still on here?

If he was playing away that earlier, and she was 'researching' him that early then it will be a short self destructive relationship methinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And there he was gone lol xx

I told him the Atkins diet was too extreme

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

oh bloody hell, this is gonna bug me now!!

anyone who knows who it was pm me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've checked our mail box to make sure we weren't one of the 'discovered' ones

Phew! We are safe from the bunny boiler

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh bloody hell, this is gonna bug me now!!

anyone who knows who it was pm me lol"

+1 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not clear whether she actually hacked into his PC proper (ie, from afar) or just snooped, but either way anyone going through the contents of my private stuff (computer, handbag, whatever) would be dumped pronto no matter how much I liked them as it indicates a complete lack of trust. Doesn't matter if I've been seeing them 4 weeks or 4 years. Although it's scary that someone would do that just a month into the relationship.

On his side, without looking at his profile to see if he has any very recent verifications I wouldn't assume he was playing away behind her back. Most of us have adult sites bookmarked, probably. I keep profiles on a number of adult sites, not all swinging, and would keep them even if I started a serious relationship with someone. But the OP ought to look at why he chose not to be open about such things - then again, 4 weeks isn't very long and he may not have felt ready to just yet.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

[Removed by poster at 30/04/11 10:53:17]

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By *acktilMan
over a year ago

Tewkesbury

May be her name was "Stan"

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

well everyone check there friends list.. and if someone is down 1 let us all know...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"well everyone check there friends list.. and if someone is down 1 let us all know...

bloody hell i got hundreds on me friends list _abio!!!!

this may take some time......

(no it wont cos i know who it was now hahaha)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wish i could have been a fly on the wall when she found out

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

was it anyone interesting... if not then "meah"

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"was it anyone interesting... if not then "meah"

nah he was a bit of a whinger to be fair

ps can we name and shame if they are no longer on site????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"(no it wont cos i know who it was now hahaha)"

So do I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ruggers...??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ruggers...??"

Can we? Can we? Can we?

Ooohhh, actually... it's really mean to keep secrets and I feel like being mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love these goodbye ones...if I was leaving my friends would get to know rather than a forum post, pretty much a silly thing since ur no longer on fab...in fact WHY am I responding ur not reading this...but all the best n take care lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wish i could have been a fly on the wall when she found out

SPLATS annie...but not in the killing sense just a friendly splat hehe

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I mailed someone and found out as I am a nosey mare

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"love these goodbye ones...if I was leaving my friends would get to know rather than a forum post, pretty much a silly thing since ur no longer on fab...in fact WHY am I responding ur not reading this...but all the best n take care lol"

haha i read it

if i was leaving i would let my friends that know me well personally however there are aquaintances on the forums that i would like to say goodbye to.

people that i have perhaps not met but have enjoyed a good bit of banter with etc

plus i would give a 2/3 day lead time to get anyone who wants to stay int ouch to leave their details for me lol

p.s. i am not leaving

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

He knew his name would be discussed as he started the post, and if he comes back I doubt it will be on the same name, so I don't see why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so go on then - tell! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mailed someone and found out as I am a nosey mare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i was leaving i would let my friends that know me well personally however there are aquaintances on the forums that i would like to say goodbye to.

people that i have perhaps not met but have enjoyed a good bit of banter with etc

plus i would give a 2/3 day lead time to get anyone who wants to stay int ouch to leave their details for me lol

p.s. i am not leaving

great news now i can perv yer tits&bits x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so go on then - tell! x"

NOOOOOOO!!!!!! xx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

if i was leaving i would let my friends that know me well personally however there are aquaintances on the forums that i would like to say goodbye to.

people that i have perhaps not met but have enjoyed a good bit of banter with etc

plus i would give a 2/3 day lead time to get anyone who wants to stay int ouch to leave their details for me lol

p.s. i am not leaving

great news now i can perv yer tits&bits x"

haha perv away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have a clue who it was ????

And now my day is ruined........

Ahem !!!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

so you just going to tell us or not then.... lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

What's it worth?

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

He'll be back, he'll start one of those "Any advice on how to get a partner to swing?" threads lol!

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By *arryJones1975Man
over a year ago

ely

1 - How did you work it out Sherlock Evesham.

2 - A bloke who has messages - must be a liar ha ha ha ha

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"1 - How did you work it out Sherlock Evesham.

2 - A bloke who has messages - must be a liar ha ha ha ha"

i cant reveal my sources Harry!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh come on ruggers...

I wont get anything done till i knows and _abio will give you anything ya likes ...wont ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's it worth?"

Don't Ruggers... I'll remove your post if you do!

Oooppsssy... wrong way round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty please .

I wont be able to sleep tonight otherwise, cogitating all night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh well one less guys playing behind his partners back"

should always be honest, thats why we wont play with a married guy or girl as we wouldn't like it done to us

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

lol @ nosier people than me !

The person who told me might tell you all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoever knows....

TELL....TELL.....TELL....TELL....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh i knows now

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

Eurotongue is a mountain of info lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eurotongue is a mountain of info lol"

Poor blokes gonna get flooded with mail now lol

He's gonna have to start a thread complaining about being harassed

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

"Eurotongue is a mountain of info lol

Poor blokes gonna get flooded with mail now lol

He's gonna have to start a thread complaining about being harassed

He can take it like a man

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I messaged someone to find out who it was - and found out that I hadn't even heard of the OP!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...He can take it like a man

Eh! Wha...!!

Oh... Oops... Thought you meant...

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

awww bless him. 54 posts and he's not even here to enjoy them.

Bet he never had that many messages all the time he was on the site...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"awww bless him. 54 posts and he's not even here to enjoy them.

Bet he never had that many messages all the time he was on the site..."

Harsh but probably fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah come on who the feckin hell is it. I promise to open me mail and read it if anyone should care to mail me.

bloody hate secrets that am not in on

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

now i really really need to know..

pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaseeeeeeeeeeeeeee tell me...

( on her knees , giving you all her best puppy dog eyes and most suductive look)

plllleeeeeeease

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By *ricky_DickyMan
over a year ago

Mirfield

I'm intrigued now, come on some one spill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm intrigued now, come on some one spill

me too come on spill the beans pleaseeeeeee with lots of pretties xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh please just post it, I cant stand the suspense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"now i really really need to know..

pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaseeeeeeeeeeeeeee tell me...

( on her knees , giving you all her best puppy dog eyes and most suductive look)

plllleeeeeeease "

Never could resist puppydog eyes...

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

"now i really really need to know..

pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaseeeeeeeeeeeeeee tell me...

( on her knees , giving you all her best puppy dog eyes and most suductive look)

plllleeeeeeease

Never could resist puppydog eyes...

lol and only the puppy dog eyes?? grin..

now spill...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we have to look at the clues and work it out. What do we know so far.

It was a single male

He was a bit of a whinger

that narrows it down to 14,252

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

"Well we have to look at the clues and work it out. What do we know so far.

It was a single male

He was a bit of a whinger

that narrows it down to 14,252 "

hes not on my friend list so thats 14.200 lol

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

ive never seen the OP in forums before

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

sniggers..) i know who it was ,, but never saw them before...

thanks ET.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rummaging around on my computer after just 4 weeks, it would have been her I'd have been ditching, rather than Fab!!

Or of course maybe he hadn't secured things very well. I know of one married lady who used to be on here, who was found out when her hubby got into her Yahoo account while supposedly "fiddling around updating the anti-virus or something". Well for a start, you need a username and then a password to get into a Yahoo account, unless of course you've left the door wide open!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not clear whether she actually hacked into his PC proper (ie, from afar) or just snooped, but either way anyone going through the contents of my private stuff (computer, handbag, whatever) would be dumped pronto no matter how much I liked them as it indicates a complete lack of trust. Doesn't matter if I've been seeing them 4 weeks or 4 years. Although it's scary that someone would do that just a month into the relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah I got a mail saying who it is or was

aint bloody heard of him never mind shagged him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I still don't know who it was, if someone wants to tell me please...

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

Really, not like you hun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on dish the goss

Name. Cheer me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i was leaving i would let my friends that know me well personally however there are aquaintances on the forums that i would like to say goodbye to.

people that i have perhaps not met but have enjoyed a good bit of banter with etc

plus i would give a 2/3 day lead time to get anyone who wants to stay int ouch to leave their details for me lol

p.s. i am not leaving

great news now i can perv yer tits&bits x

haha perv away

I do regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"awww bless him. 54 posts and he's not even here to enjoy them.

Bet he never had that many messages all the time he was on the site..."

Haa haaa haa haaa...that sent rioja spluttering all over my screen. Harsh, funny and probably true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know who it is now - sheesh! cannot beleve that he's gone just like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know who it is now - sheesh! cannot beleve that he's gone just like that

Gone... But not forgotten...

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By *arryJones1975Man
over a year ago

ely

"1 - How did you work it out Sherlock Evesham.

2 - A bloke who has messages - must be a liar ha ha ha ha

i cant reveal my sources Harry!!!"

Am going to tease and tempt you and drive you wild next time we meet until you do ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Bring back wassisname,thingummybob,whoever he was

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

"Bring back wassisname,thingummybob,whoever he was

Nice chap, his mother ran a chippy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bring back wassisname,thingummybob,whoever he was

Nice chap, his mother ran a chippy

is he related to thingamijig

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

"Bring back wassisname,thingummybob,whoever he was

Nice chap, his mother ran a chippy

is he related to thingamijig

Noooooooooooo whojits but not thingamajig

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bring back wassisname,thingummybob,whoever he was

Nice chap, his mother ran a chippy

is he related to thingamijig

Noooooooooooo whojits but not thingamajig"

oh dont no him then

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Does it matter? They've gone?!

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

"Does it matter? They've gone?!

It shouldn't, but I'm such a nosey bugger that I wanna know

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Does it matter? They've gone?!

It shouldn't, but I'm such a nosey bugger that I wanna know

At least you're honest!

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