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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What are peoples _iews on Women playing while pregnant..i know its each to there own but wondered what people thorght?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something you want to tell us Bitch? Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh Er that's interesting.

I guess I would very much leave it to the pregnant person to decide.

Would I play with a pregnant woman?

Yeah probably, if she seemed to have her head screwed on right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Something you want to tell us Bitch? Lol x"

Hell no haha...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did, in selective situations. I got so many messages on here though while pregnant. Definitely a popular kink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my wife was pregnant her sex drive went through the roof literally she wanted it 7-8 times a day gentle sex was amazing being that close to the bump was very intimate and it probably was the best sex we had apart from the first six months when we met.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"What are peoples _iews on Women playing while pregnant..i know its each to there own but wondered what people thorght?.."

There are 101 threads on this if you really want to know people's thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm currently 17 weeks pregnant, and from finding out at 2 weeks pregnant I stopped playing straight away, it just doesnt seem right to me personally, however a lot of that's down to the fact we lost our first child and have now had lots of complications with this pregnancy so I've been on pelvic rest majority of the time

Lots of women's sex drive heightens and I guess as long as their safe and know their limits it's all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh wow. Id very very very much like to play woth a pregnant lady. Any offers ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What are peoples _iews on Women playing while pregnant..i know its each to there own but wondered what people thorght?..

There are 101 threads on this if you really want to know people's thoughts."

Oh i am sorry..i dont spend my Days on the forums must have missed them!!...no one asked you to comment!

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

This thread has been discussed before .... so if u search you will find loads of opinions

I personally think its wrong ....but thats just my opinion

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

It would be an absolute no for us.

Having had 8 miscarriages playing with random strangers would be the furthest thing from our minds.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"What are peoples _iews on Women playing while pregnant..i know its each to there own but wondered what people thorght?..

There are 101 threads on this if you really want to know people's thoughts.

Oh i am sorry..i dont spend my Days on the forums must have missed them!!...no one asked you to comment!"

Actually I was trying to be helpful as these threads NEVER end well as people get very judgemental, but hey ho your comment tells me all I need to know about you so enjoy your day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think that when pregnant you should only play with your partner the health risks involved to not only you but the unborn child are not worth taking the risk even if you practice safe sex its not always 100% safe.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What are peoples _iews on Women playing while pregnant..i know its each to there own but wondered what people thorght?..

There are 101 threads on this if you really want to know people's thoughts.

Oh i am sorry..i dont spend my Days on the forums must have missed them!!...no one asked you to comment!

Actually I was trying to be helpful as these threads NEVER end well as people get very judgemental, but hey ho your comment tells me all I need to know about you so enjoy your day. "

You dont need to know anything about me?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It would be an absolute no for us.

Having had 8 miscarriages playing with random strangers would be the furthest thing from our minds. "

Sorry about that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm also high risk when it comes to pregnancies so i wouldn't do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i'm also high risk when it comes to pregnancies so i wouldn't do it."

Better to be safe than sorry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's incredibly sad if sex with strangers is more important than the wellbeing of their unborn child.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'm also high risk when it comes to pregnancies so i wouldn't do it.

Better to be safe than sorry x"

yeah, that's my first thought.

i think i'd probably not do it even if i was high risk. i'm the type of person who thinks their body doesn't belong to themselves any more when pregnant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I declined a FFM years ago, in 30s because one of the ladies was pregnant. She was very visibly with baby and I did fancy her but my instincts said leave well alone. I know that the feeling wasn't self preservation, disgust or judgement, it was concern for the nipper.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i'm also high risk when it comes to pregnancies so i wouldn't do it.

Better to be safe than sorry x

yeah, that's my first thought.

i think i'd probably not do it even if i was high risk. i'm the type of person who thinks their body doesn't belong to themselves any more when pregnant."

Yep x

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

I just find it yucky to swing ... I don't know why. I don't feel the same when having fun with partner though. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think pregnant people should play if they want to

I for one encourage it. Its fucking hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's incredibly sad if sex with strangers is more important than the wellbeing of their unborn child. "

^^ This. I wouldn't play whilst pregnant myself, and I wouldn't play with someone who is pregnant. When I was pregnant i did absolutely everything I could to keep my baby safe, there's no way i'd ever have taken any unnecessary risks. Even safe sex isn't 100% safe, I'd never forgive myself if something happened to the baby. I'm of the opinion that for those months, you stop doing anything that might cause harm... paté, alcohol, smoking, rollercoasters, sex with strangers... your first job as a mum is to protect your baby from unnecessary harm.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

My sex drive went through the roof when I was pregnant but Bradley was the only person I wanted near me.

It's up to the individual to calculate the risks but having seen what herpes can do to a Newborn and knowing what other STI's can do to babies, in utero or out, it's not a risk I would've taken.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't agree with it.

I think it's selfish.

Which is the last thing a mother should be.

And OP your comments to another forumite up there are very telling. You can't ask for public opinion (which is what this is) and then kick off when you get a reply that you don't like.

V

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are peoples _iews on Women playing while pregnant..i know its each to there own but wondered what people thorght?.."
I really don't mind it find pregnant women are hornier

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't agree with it.

I think it's selfish.

Which is the last thing a mother should be.

And OP your comments to another forumite up there are very telling. You can't ask for public opinion (which is what this is) and then kick off when you get a reply that you don't like.

V"

If people dont like a post they have no need to comment!..

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I don't agree with it.

I think it's selfish.

Which is the last thing a mother should be.

And OP your comments to another forumite up there are very telling. You can't ask for public opinion (which is what this is) and then kick off when you get a reply that you don't like.

V

If people dont like a post they have no need to comment!.."

But that's a whole other argument entirely.

It's a forum and full of arguments - likewise if you don't like a comment you don't need to reply to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not something I agree with personally

But what others do is nothing to do with me

Though the risks maybe small they are still to hight for me to put on my unborn child

If I played with a guy and cought a STI its a trip to the clap clinic and a dose of antibiotics, for the unborn child your carrying the result could be life changing, more so in the early stages, if my child came out blind as a result of my sexual actions I'd have to live with knowing what I'd done for the rest of my life

No sex is 100% safe, even with condoms, its just not worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also often wonder how many of the guys in here wanted to fuck pregnant women would let guys off a sex site fuck their Mrs while she was carrying their child

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't agree with it.

I think it's selfish.

Which is the last thing a mother should be.

And OP your comments to another forumite up there are very telling. You can't ask for public opinion (which is what this is) and then kick off when you get a reply that you don't like.

V

If people dont like a post they have no need to comment!..

But that's a whole other argument entirely.

It's a forum and full of arguments - likewise if you don't like a comment you don't need to reply to it "

What like you just did hahaha

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I don't agree with it.

I think it's selfish.

Which is the last thing a mother should be.

And OP your comments to another forumite up there are very telling. You can't ask for public opinion (which is what this is) and then kick off when you get a reply that you don't like.

V

If people dont like a post they have no need to comment!..

But that's a whole other argument entirely.

It's a forum and full of arguments - likewise if you don't like a comment you don't need to reply to it

What like you just did hahaha "

I wasn't arguing - just making a simple point All the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not something that would even enter my mind to consider.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think with the baby's dad or boyfriend..Ect...

But not on a sex site

Wrong is soo many levels

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't agree with it.

I think it's selfish.

Which is the last thing a mother should be.

And OP your comments to another forumite up there are very telling. You can't ask for public opinion (which is what this is) and then kick off when you get a reply that you don't like.

V

If people dont like a post they have no need to comment!..

But that's a whole other argument entirely.

It's a forum and full of arguments - likewise if you don't like a comment you don't need to reply to it

What like you just did hahaha

I wasn't arguing - just making a simple point All the best "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh Er that's interesting.

I guess I would very much leave it to the pregnant person to decide.

Would I play with a pregnant woman?

Yeah probably, if she seemed to have her head screwed on right.

"

Any pregnant woman will wait until she is not carrying a child until she plays with others(not the father)..if her head is screwed on right.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

In my opinion. They should embrace the pregnancy and new life growing and developing. To put the health of an unborn at risk is, and this is only my opinion, rather selfish. Xxxxx Suzi

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If not playing is advocated for pregnant women I think it should apply to the father too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is one subject I am highly opinionated on. Pregnancy is a gift and should be treated as so. Due to loosing numerous pregnancies and having a ectopic pregnancy 10 years ago I have had that chance taken away from me.

So woman who risk the safety of their babies royally piss me off. You could ask what's unsafe about it? Well your playing with a playmate and the condom breaks thus you put your baby at risk. Genital herpes can be passed with condoms on - again puts baby at risk.

Safety aside I also feel pregnancy is a sacred time and it's something where your body changes all the time and only your partner should get the chance to enjoy that with you

Just my two pennies worth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is one subject I am highly opinionated on. Pregnancy is a gift and should be treated as so. Due to loosing numerous pregnancies and having a ectopic pregnancy 10 years ago I have had that chance taken away from me.

So woman who risk the safety of their babies royally piss me off. You could ask what's unsafe about it? Well your playing with a playmate and the condom breaks thus you put your baby at risk. Genital herpes can be passed with condoms on - again puts baby at risk.

Safety aside I also feel pregnancy is a sacred time and it's something where your body changes all the time and only your partner should get the chance to enjoy that with you

Just my two pennies worth! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a NO No from me

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"

And OP your comments to another forumite up there are very telling. You can't ask for public opinion (which is what this is) and then kick off when you get a reply that you don't like.

V"

But the post wasn't answering the question, it was telling the OP that there were other threads on this subject in the past. I think I would have taken that post as the OP did, that she should read other threads instead of posting.

To the OP, my thoughts are, I would never have taken any risks with my unborn children if we were swinging when I was pregnant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went into Labour with my first born whilst shagging. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're pregnant, I think the safety of your baby should be paramount, and swinging whilst being pregnant could very well jeopardise the baby's health, so for that reason, I'd say no.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"This is one subject I am highly opinionated on. Pregnancy is a gift and should be treated as so. Due to loosing numerous pregnancies and having a ectopic pregnancy 10 years ago I have had that chance taken away from me.

So woman who risk the safety of their babies royally piss me off. You could ask what's unsafe about it? Well your playing with a playmate and the condom breaks thus you put your baby at risk. Genital herpes can be passed with condoms on - again puts baby at risk.

Safety aside I also feel pregnancy is a sacred time and it's something where your body changes all the time and only your partner should get the chance to enjoy that with you

Just my two pennies worth! "

I totally agree,I just don't understand it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I wouldn't. I've never been pregnant though so no judgement. My gut instinct is telling me I'd reserve sex for my partner in that case

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By *upidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I think it should be up to the individual, everyone is going to have an opinion on such a touchy subject. Yes the female is pregnant here & she still enjoys watching others in clubs but the judgemental looks & comments when we go to play ourselves - i.e. not with others - is ridiculous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's incredibly sad if sex with strangers is more important than the wellbeing of their unborn child.

^^ This. I wouldn't play whilst pregnant myself, and I wouldn't play with someone who is pregnant. When I was pregnant i did absolutely everything I could to keep my baby safe, there's no way i'd ever have taken any unnecessary risks. Even safe sex isn't 100% safe, I'd never forgive myself if something happened to the baby. I'm of the opinion that for those months, you stop doing anything that might cause harm... paté, alcohol, smoking, rollercoasters, sex with strangers... your first job as a mum is to protect your baby from unnecessary harm. "

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By *am-RaiderMan
over a year ago

Corby

At risk of being sat on and smothered by many protective past present and future mums....

Is this where the phrase "Wetting the baby's head" comes from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have sex unless with partner. You can't guarantee that people will be gentle, if something bad did happen you'd never forgive yourself. And is a shag with strangers really worth the risk?

Add to that you might get struck down with inconvenient vomitting and throw up over someone.

Pregnancy sex can be sexy, but mostly its not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't have sex unless with partner. You can't guarantee that people will be gentle, if something bad did happen you'd never forgive yourself. And is a shag with strangers really worth the risk?

Add to that you might get struck down with inconvenient vomitting and throw up over someone.

Pregnancy sex can be sexy, but mostly its not."

for the last line.

Uncontrollable body motions ain't sexy

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Summed up the whole thread in one post.

Some will say hell yes,

Some will say hell no,

Some will say up to the individual.

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By *upergirthukMan
over a year ago

Liverpool UK

I'm not sure if it's a hormonal thing but in my experience, ie my missus, her juices felt absolutely amazing almost like a waxiness or more viscous quality to them. The best fuck I ever had (yet) were when she was pregnant. I'd love to fuck another pregnant lady to compare so message if you're interested.

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By *inkybabe1109Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Hell no i wouldnt

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"What are peoples _iews on Women playing while pregnant..i know its each to there own but wondered what people thorght?.."

I'd play...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are peoples _iews on Women playing while pregnant..i know its each to there own but wondered what people thorght?..

I'd play..."

Ohhh my god....are you pregnant?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What are peoples _iews on Women playing while pregnant..i know its each to there own but wondered what people thorght?..

I'd play...

Ohhh my god....are you pregnant? "

Nooooo

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By *elledegoreCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Am four months pregnant only have sex with my Huby doesn't feel right to us to have sex with other people , if other people are comfortable doing so whilst pregnant that's completely up to them we don't judge X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had meets with pregnant women , and they were really hot !

Their choice to play , and our fantasy fulfilled so all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe ask the baby when he/she has grown up in say 20yrs time....

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Health of the unborn would be/was paramount, playing would be the last thing on our minds.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Holds zero interest to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Holds zero interest to me"

To be hopes you never get a lady pregnant then..

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I wasn't into the scene when I had my kids, bit when I was pregnant I was always seriously demanding of sex .... more so than usually .... those days are behind me now, but it never did any harm to my kids

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