FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Isn't it just quicker to say who hasn't UNLOSed?

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm still here! Anyone else?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I quite liked your coining of UNLOSers.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waving

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just checked...yes am still here...for now.....

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't promise anything.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yoohoo

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats unlos ?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A prize for the first person to post on this thread - then UNLOS on us!

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still here

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm here, but not as active in the forum as I was, not for any lack of love for the peeps in here, but there are only so many times I can say lot 2523311 to what is your favourite name for your boobs and so on

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am here but

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Whats unlos ?"

User No Longer On Site - people that deactivate their account (although usually open another within a month )

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"A prize for the first person to post on this thread - then UNLOS on us! "

Lib will win.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still here. Not leaving till i have sex again....offers on a postcard to..

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

here!

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A prize for the first person to post on this thread - then UNLOS on us! "

Im none the wiser ?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A prize for the first person to post on this thread - then UNLOS on us! "

Ohhhh I like prizes......oh wait how will I know I've won?!

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A prize for the first person to post on this thread - then UNLOS on us!

Lib will win.

"

I was so tempted to do it when I saw the thread just for the hell of it.

It's exhilarating, I'd recommend it to all.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I'm not leaving whilst my pics still make page one

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I seriously considered it a couple of weeks ago. I'm glad I stuck around.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

I'm tempted to see if it's possible to change your username to UNLOS. It would be nice to still be here for the party

Mr ddc

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still here

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats unlos ?

User No Longer On Site - people that deactivate their account (although usually open another within a month )"

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A prize for the first person to post on this thread - then UNLOS on us!

Ohhhh I like prizes......oh wait how will I know I've won?!"

By instantly rejoining, duh! x

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats unlos ?"

User no longer on site = unlos

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does changing username to UNLOS count for prize claiming purposes

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

We are still here...... ignored mainly, but none the less here. Wherever here is xxxxxx suzi

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bueller? Bueller? Bueller?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I'm here am I?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ames6ft5Man
over a year ago

North London / Herts

Reporting in.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I'm tempted to see if it's possible to change your username to UNLOS. It would be nice to still be here for the party

Mr ddc"

It was one of Colgate's names for a while.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"A prize for the first person to post on this thread - then UNLOS on us!

Im none the wiser ? "

scroll up one message from the one you just answered..definition given..

im still here..

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are still here...... ignored mainly, but none the less here. Wherever here is xxxxxx suzi"

Did anyone else hear something?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"We are still here...... ignored mainly, but none the less here. Wherever here is xxxxxx suzi"

How are you ignored?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"A prize for the first person to post on this thread - then UNLOS on us! "

What's the prize??

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I'll leave when I've had sex with all of my hot list. ...or all of my hot list leave.. . I've a feeling it's going to be the latter ...

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 58 days of silver membership left

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should I stay or should I go?

https://youtu.be/oGIFublvDes

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A prize for the first person to post on this thread - then UNLOS on us!

What's the prize?? "

Are you thinking of UNLOSing then?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was but now I'm not.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I'm too stubborn to go UNLOS. The fact that people would welcome it makes me stick around out of sheer contrariness.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Present

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Present "

There's presents?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)


"We are still here...... ignored mainly, but none the less here. Wherever here is xxxxxx suzi

Did anyone else hear something?

"

I said we are still here....... you deaf or something xxxxxx Suzi

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Hanging on by a thread...

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are still here...... ignored mainly, but none the less here. Wherever here is xxxxxx suzi

Did anyone else hear something?

I said we are still here....... you deaf or something xxxxxx Suzi"

There it is again! Is it just me or did anyone else hear it!?!

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've gone to some the realm of the unknown anyone fancy joining me on this adventure

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Present "

I'm sure I read that you were UNLOS on one of the UNLOS tribute threads.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alas for some, still present.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good name change can mix things up a bit

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)


"We are still here...... ignored mainly, but none the less here. Wherever here is xxxxxx suzi

Did anyone else hear something?

I said we are still here....... you deaf or something xxxxxx Suzi

There it is again! Is it just me or did anyone else hear it!?! "

Pffft. ....... don't know what that means, but have seen others quote it xxxxxxx Suzi

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

UNLOS is not in my dictionary.

Hmm...Where did I put my dictionary...?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I delete how soon can I rejoin with the same name, I feel like I should experience it

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I delete how soon can I rejoin with the same name, I feel like I should experience it "

No don't I still have plans for you

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

And I am telling you I'm not leaving...

Nope not a hope

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

I'm still here for the now!

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still popping up randomly every now and again

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is that it then? Just us - everyone else has UNLOSed?

It's going to be quite intimate in here until everyone else signs up again innit?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"A prize for the first person to post on this thread - then UNLOS on us!

What's the prize??

Are you thinking of UNLOSing then? "

Christ no, I'm too bloody nosey!!

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *zeye73Man
over a year ago

Amersham

Confession time.

I was once UNLOS but came back.

I felt compelled to return.

Guess at makes me a UNLOSBCB

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where's Twizzlefucks these days? They gone? No backbone those Yanks

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *tudmcmuffinMan
over a year ago

Swindon

I may or may not be a cardboard cut out. I'm definitely not UNLOS though

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't go UNLOS. Just found the forums. Would seem a little premature.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can I ask what UNLOS means ?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"can I ask what UNLOS means ?

"

user, no longer on site

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where's Twizzlefucks these days? They gone? No backbone those Yanks

"

I know, right? It was that twizzle....I didn't trust her anyway

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can I ask what UNLOS means ?

user, no longer on site"

ahhh thanks I was reading through and was soo lost

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

I'm hanging in there

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here tho I might just open a p.o. box number

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm still here..

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Some of me is here, some inside H as I type. Think she's giving me a hint? I take it that's a nod from the head bobbing up & down

Till the morrow sweet lusters, till the morrow..

x

S

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Hand up, can't get rid of me that easily!

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I'm still here.. "

Wish you were here insted....

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was UNLOS once now I'm an EXUNLOS fabster!

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Alas for some, still present. "

Oh you jest

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Present

I'm sure I read that you were UNLOS on one of the UNLOS tribute threads.

"

oh goodness. Well I'm still here

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I thought TheManFromUNLOS would be a good username

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I'm hanging in there "

I like the new avatar.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still here, but also still a hologram

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Present

I'm sure I read that you were UNLOS on one of the UNLOS tribute threads.

oh goodness. Well I'm still here "

Thank goodness!

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I was UNLOS once now I'm an EXUNLOS fabster!"
yay!! x

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still here, sadly most people don't want me to be. Despite there being many women on here in the same position.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"I'm hanging in there

I like the new avatar.

"

Thank you beautiful woman x

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

Im just a ghost

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I'm still here, sadly most people don't want me to be. Despite there being many women on here in the same position. "
fuck em..(or not) do what you want, they arent your parents block them all and concentrate on having a good time..that will really piss them off

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the only person I ever missed was Sydney University

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Present

I'm sure I read that you were UNLOS on one of the UNLOS tribute threads.

oh goodness. Well I'm still here

Thank goodness! "

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im far to scared to leave incase i get a dead thread put up about me

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still here, sadly most people don't want me to be. Despite there being many women on here in the same position. fuck em..(or not) do what you want, they arent your parents block them all and concentrate on having a good time..that will really piss them off "

Well put, and I'm trying hehe

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm not leaving unless you have a whip round!

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm not leaving unless you have a whip round! "

We can bring a whip round if you insist Peachy

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still here, sadly most people don't want me to be. Despite there being many women on here in the same position. "

There are lots of succesfull attached men on here. Pimp up your profile with a few more public pics, get rid of shadow man avatar & post in the forums more.

What people say in public & what they do in private can be poles apart. I've seen those fiercely opposed to cheaters in the forums meet them 6 months down the line.

Anything goes in the world of fab.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm not leaving unless you have a whip round!

We can bring a whip round if you insist Peachy "

Mmmmm - go on then!

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I'm still here, sadly most people don't want me to be. Despite there being many women on here in the same position. "
well stop being so negative lots of attatched men get meets

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

still here too

and I'm unattached lol

sometimes wonder why I'm here but I am

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"still here too

and I'm unattached lol

sometimes wonder why I'm here but I am"

not leaving till the very ample lady sings

(being polite here lol)

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're still here - you can't get rid of is that easily

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why do people UNLOS anyway

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people UNLOS anyway "

To be dramatic.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I am still here

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hanging around like the proverbial bad smell!

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

We are still here. Going no where.

MrsSB

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people UNLOS anyway

To be dramatic.

"

That's not always true. Some just want to take a break.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people UNLOS anyway "

So they can get unlos threads started about them

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm tempted to see if it's possible to change your username to UNLOS. It would be nice to still be here for the party

Mr ddc"

Colgate changed his to unlos for a while before he actually went unlos.....

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Would anyone like to come and check to see if I'm all here? Xx

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people UNLOS anyway

To be dramatic.

"

In fairness quite a few of the recent ones it's not the person that's gone that's created drama. It's the multiple threads, the 'are they okay' posts, the updates that 'I've spoken to them and they are okay' or my fave ever 'they needed a break and are feeling better for it' posted 3 hours after they'd gone that have create the drama.

And on the subject of drama the cynic in me suspects at least one UNLOS has been motivated by the ridiculous reactions to other people going UNLOS to see if their departure and inevitable return gets the ssme response

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and I'm still here

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was here last night....thought I'd get up and check if I still am this morning....can anyone see me? Am I still here?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Still here. Not leaving till i have sex again....offers on a postcard to.."

I'll offer but your straight

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss Twizzlefucks.

They were a lovely couple.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A prize for the first person to post on this thread - then UNLOS on us!

Lib will win.

I was so tempted to do it when I saw the thread just for the hell of it.

It's exhilarating, I'd recommend it to all."

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"the only person I ever missed was Sydney University "

They didn't leave.

They just changed their name to the First Antipodean Branch of the Sydney Workers Institute for Nudity, Group-sex and Eccentric Research Surveys. I think they have their own website if you google the acronym

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"the only person I ever missed was Sydney University

They didn't leave.

They just changed their name to the First Antipodean Branch of the Sydney Workers Institute for Nudity, Group-sex and Eccentric Research Surveys. I think they have their own website if you google the acronym

"

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose somebody has left again. I never knowbuntil somebody points it out. Each day!

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leaving is so last week.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually i don't think it would be quicker to name the UNLOSed....There are over 19000 online atm. That's a lot.

Wouldn't it just be easier to let them go without all the fuss and drama?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

like a sprat....

splosh

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Waving "

oh no you don't girl I'm only just getting to know you don't go anywhere

rant at me about it all because I'm selfish I want you sticking around until at least our cam date because I've got to see the face of the women with that oh so sexy bottom and than rather brilliant mind

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"why do people UNLOS anyway

To be dramatic.

In fairness quite a few of the recent ones it's not the person that's gone that's created drama. It's the multiple threads, the 'are they okay' posts, the updates that 'I've spoken to them and they are okay' or my fave ever 'they needed a break and are feeling better for it' posted 3 hours after they'd gone that have create the drama.

And on the subject of drama the cynic in me suspects at least one UNLOS has been motivated by the ridiculous reactions to other people going UNLOS to see if their departure and inevitable return gets the ssme response"

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bueller? Bueller? Bueller?

"

Winner

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still here! Anyone else? "

I'm still here, but I'm not all there if you know what I mean.

*goes back to licking windows

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people UNLOS anyway

To be dramatic.

In fairness quite a few of the recent ones it's not the person that's gone that's created drama. It's the multiple threads, the 'are they okay' posts, the updates that 'I've spoken to them and they are okay' or my fave ever 'they needed a break and are feeling better for it' posted 3 hours after they'd gone that have create the drama.

And on the subject of drama the cynic in me suspects at least one UNLOS has been motivated by the ridiculous reactions to other people going UNLOS to see if their departure and inevitable return gets the ssme response

"

Drama by proxy then?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im still here, being ignored as usual.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im still here, being ignored as usual. "

It's the best way. ...you can get away with saying all sorts

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Im still here, being ignored as usual.

It's the best way. ...you can get away with saying all sorts "

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

here most day well in work lol

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im still here, being ignored as usual.

It's the best way. ...you can get away with saying all sorts "

Tell me about it

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im still here, being ignored as usual. "

Ahem.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

*checks bits...checks again just to be sure...wanders upstairs to check Ms G's still there too*

Nope we're definitely still here!!

Mr G

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"why do people UNLOS anyway

To be dramatic.

In fairness quite a few of the recent ones it's not the person that's gone that's created drama. It's the multiple threads, the 'are they okay' posts, the updates that 'I've spoken to them and they are okay' or my fave ever 'they needed a break and are feeling better for it' posted 3 hours after they'd gone that have create the drama.

And on the subject of drama the cynic in me suspects at least one UNLOS has been motivated by the ridiculous reactions to other people going UNLOS to see if their departure and inevitable return gets the ssme response"
this is the most accurate post. Its actually becoming the best entertainment even though it completly freaks me out to see people being talked about as though they where dead.

I left the other week someone put a "shocked" unlos thread up yet the unlos had pmed their friends to say they where going so they seemed to be devasted about someones going who they werent even friends with. That amused me

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"why do people UNLOS anyway

To be dramatic.

In fairness quite a few of the recent ones it's not the person that's gone that's created drama. It's the multiple threads, the 'are they okay' posts, the updates that 'I've spoken to them and they are okay' or my fave ever 'they needed a break and are feeling better for it' posted 3 hours after they'd gone that have create the drama.

And on the subject of drama the cynic in me suspects at least one UNLOS has been motivated by the ridiculous reactions to other people going UNLOS to see if their departure and inevitable return gets the ssme responsethis is the most accurate post. Its actually becoming the best entertainment even though it completly freaks me out to see people being talked about as though they where dead.

I left the other week someone put a "shocked" unlos thread up yet the unlos had pmed their friends to say they where going so they seemed to be devasted about someones going who they werent even friends with. That amused me"

I think your thinking is all wrong every time someone joins the forum community they are adding to the community making it better more vibrate for us all .so when someone leaves the site and they are a contributor to the forums and its community the community loses something that's is what people are mostly expressing when they say they will miss someone they will miss the contribution to the forum community.

dark angel gave freely of her thoughts in this community her leaving will in a tiny way make this community less for those who enjoyed reading her posts that all people are expressing when they say they will miss someone who leaves the site and there by the forum community ,

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people UNLOS anyway

To be dramatic.

In fairness quite a few of the recent ones it's not the person that's gone that's created drama. It's the multiple threads, the 'are they okay' posts, the updates that 'I've spoken to them and they are okay' or my fave ever 'they needed a break and are feeling better for it' posted 3 hours after they'd gone that have create the drama.

And on the subject of drama the cynic in me suspects at least one UNLOS has been motivated by the ridiculous reactions to other people going UNLOS to see if their departure and inevitable return gets the ssme responsethis is the most accurate post. Its actually becoming the best entertainment even though it completly freaks me out to see people being talked about as though they where dead.

I left the other week someone put a "shocked" unlos thread up yet the unlos had pmed their friends to say they where going so they seemed to be devasted about someones going who they werent even friends with. That amused me

I think your thinking is all wrong every time someone joins the forum community they are adding to the community making it better more vibrate for us all .so when someone leaves the site and they are a contributor to the forums and its community the community loses something that's is what people are mostly expressing when they say they will miss someone they will miss the contribution to the forum community.

dark angel gave freely of her thoughts in this community her leaving will in a tiny way make this community less for those who enjoyed reading her posts that all people are expressing when they say they will miss someone who leaves the site and there by the forum community , "

There are 100s of people posting on this forum. Like all forums it's a fluid dynamic and people cone and go all the time. I don't see why we need these obituaryesque threads if people leave without a fanfare.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people UNLOS anyway

To be dramatic.

In fairness quite a few of the recent ones it's not the person that's gone that's created drama. It's the multiple threads, the 'are they okay' posts, the updates that 'I've spoken to them and they are okay' or my fave ever 'they needed a break and are feeling better for it' posted 3 hours after they'd gone that have create the drama.

And on the subject of drama the cynic in me suspects at least one UNLOS has been motivated by the ridiculous reactions to other people going UNLOS to see if their departure and inevitable return gets the ssme responsethis is the most accurate post. Its actually becoming the best entertainment even though it completly freaks me out to see people being talked about as though they where dead.

I left the other week someone put a "shocked" unlos thread up yet the unlos had pmed their friends to say they where going so they seemed to be devasted about someones going who they werent even friends with. That amused me

I think your thinking is all wrong every time someone joins the forum community they are adding to the community making it better more vibrate for us all .so when someone leaves the site and they are a contributor to the forums and its community the community loses something that's is what people are mostly expressing when they say they will miss someone they will miss the contribution to the forum community.

dark angel gave freely of her thoughts in this community her leaving will in a tiny way make this community less for those who enjoyed reading her posts that all people are expressing when they say they will miss someone who leaves the site and there by the forum community , "

Most of us don't object to people being missed. It's the "I'm worried that they're Ok" "something terrible must have happened" kinda weird shit that is just odd. People stop using sites all the time. The fact that people think it has anything to do with events on the site i just find plain odd. It's like they are suggesting their entire life revolves around a website. That isn't a sane person's thought process.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually i don't think it would be quicker to name the UNLOSed....There are over 19000 online atm. That's a lot.

Wouldn't it just be easier to let them go without all the fuss and drama? "

Where's the fun in that especially when they pop up a few weeks later......

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"why do people UNLOS anyway

To be dramatic.

In fairness quite a few of the recent ones it's not the person that's gone that's created drama. It's the multiple threads, the 'are they okay' posts, the updates that 'I've spoken to them and they are okay' or my fave ever 'they needed a break and are feeling better for it' posted 3 hours after they'd gone that have create the drama.

And on the subject of drama the cynic in me suspects at least one UNLOS has been motivated by the ridiculous reactions to other people going UNLOS to see if their departure and inevitable return gets the ssme responsethis is the most accurate post. Its actually becoming the best entertainment even though it completly freaks me out to see people being talked about as though they where dead.

I left the other week someone put a "shocked" unlos thread up yet the unlos had pmed their friends to say they where going so they seemed to be devasted about someones going who they werent even friends with. That amused me

I think your thinking is all wrong every time someone joins the forum community they are adding to the community making it better more vibrate for us all .so when someone leaves the site and they are a contributor to the forums and its community the community loses something that's is what people are mostly expressing when they say they will miss someone they will miss the contribution to the forum community.

dark angel gave freely of her thoughts in this community her leaving will in a tiny way make this community less for those who enjoyed reading her posts that all people are expressing when they say they will miss someone who leaves the site and there by the forum community , "
im not referring to any unlos imparticular, the post i quoted sums it up especially the hourly updates of how they are doing

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people UNLOS anyway

To be dramatic.

In fairness quite a few of the recent ones it's not the person that's gone that's created drama. It's the multiple threads, the 'are they okay' posts, the updates that 'I've spoken to them and they are okay' or my fave ever 'they needed a break and are feeling better for it' posted 3 hours after they'd gone that have create the drama.

And on the subject of drama the cynic in me suspects at least one UNLOS has been motivated by the ridiculous reactions to other people going UNLOS to see if their departure and inevitable return gets the ssme responsethis is the most accurate post. Its actually becoming the best entertainment even though it completly freaks me out to see people being talked about as though they where dead.

I left the other week someone put a "shocked" unlos thread up yet the unlos had pmed their friends to say they where going so they seemed to be devasted about someones going who they werent even friends with. That amused me

I think your thinking is all wrong every time someone joins the forum community they are adding to the community making it better more vibrate for us all .so when someone leaves the site and they are a contributor to the forums and its community the community loses something that's is what people are mostly expressing when they say they will miss someone they will miss the contribution to the forum community.

dark angel gave freely of her thoughts in this community her leaving will in a tiny way make this community less for those who enjoyed reading her posts that all people are expressing when they say they will miss someone who leaves the site and there by the forum community ,

Most of us don't object to people being missed. It's the "I'm worried that they're Ok" "something terrible must have happened" kinda weird shit that is just odd. People stop using sites all the time. The fact that people think it has anything to do with events on the site i just find plain odd. It's like they are suggesting their entire life revolves around a website. That isn't a sane person's thought process. "

I think it speaks volumes about the people posting these comments as the impression I get is that their lives do revolve around the forums and they seem incapable of considering that that isn't the case for everyone else. It's pretty sad

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people UNLOS anyway

To be dramatic.

In fairness quite a few of the recent ones it's not the person that's gone that's created drama. It's the multiple threads, the 'are they okay' posts, the updates that 'I've spoken to them and they are okay' or my fave ever 'they needed a break and are feeling better for it' posted 3 hours after they'd gone that have create the drama.

And on the subject of drama the cynic in me suspects at least one UNLOS has been motivated by the ridiculous reactions to other people going UNLOS to see if their departure and inevitable return gets the ssme responsethis is the most accurate post. Its actually becoming the best entertainment even though it completly freaks me out to see people being talked about as though they where dead.

I left the other week someone put a "shocked" unlos thread up yet the unlos had pmed their friends to say they where going so they seemed to be devasted about someones going who they werent even friends with. That amused me

I think your thinking is all wrong every time someone joins the forum community they are adding to the community making it better more vibrate for us all .so when someone leaves the site and they are a contributor to the forums and its community the community loses something that's is what people are mostly expressing when they say they will miss someone they will miss the contribution to the forum community.

dark angel gave freely of her thoughts in this community her leaving will in a tiny way make this community less for those who enjoyed reading her posts that all people are expressing when they say they will miss someone who leaves the site and there by the forum community , im not referring to any unlos imparticular, the post i quoted sums it up especially the hourly updates of how they are doing"

I always think the updates are prinarily about saying 'look at me, I can contact them in real life'

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The For umfa mousse?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people UNLOS anyway

To be dramatic.

In fairness quite a few of the recent ones it's not the person that's gone that's created drama. It's the multiple threads, the 'are they okay' posts, the updates that 'I've spoken to them and they are okay' or my fave ever 'they needed a break and are feeling better for it' posted 3 hours after they'd gone that have create the drama.

And on the subject of drama the cynic in me suspects at least one UNLOS has been motivated by the ridiculous reactions to other people going UNLOS to see if their departure and inevitable return gets the ssme responsethis is the most accurate post. Its actually becoming the best entertainment even though it completly freaks me out to see people being talked about as though they where dead.

I left the other week someone put a "shocked" unlos thread up yet the unlos had pmed their friends to say they where going so they seemed to be devasted about someones going who they werent even friends with. That amused me

I think your thinking is all wrong every time someone joins the forum community they are adding to the community making it better more vibrate for us all .so when someone leaves the site and they are a contributor to the forums and its community the community loses something that's is what people are mostly expressing when they say they will miss someone they will miss the contribution to the forum community.

dark angel gave freely of her thoughts in this community her leaving will in a tiny way make this community less for those who enjoyed reading her posts that all people are expressing when they say they will miss someone who leaves the site and there by the forum community , im not referring to any unlos imparticular, the post i quoted sums it up especially the hourly updates of how they are doing

I always think the updates are prinarily about saying 'look at me, I can contact them in real life'"

Yes i always think that too. ...It's like a competition to see who can get in first with the "it's ok I've been in touch" posts. They crack me up!

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

They will be reading it all from offsite, revelling in the glory.

Not all, but the most frequent exiters will.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

Still here. Hide or go quiet occasionally but I'm with you in spirit

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went unlos, now I'm back with redhead. No one bothered when I left and no one is fussed that I'm back *gallic shrug*

Beard

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I always think the updates are prinarily about saying 'look at me, I can contact them in real life'

Yes i always think that too. ...It's like a competition to see who can get in first with the "it's ok I've been in touch" posts. They crack me up! "

I got it in the neck for saying it before but I like to call it retrospective lamppost pissing.

I have received private messages in the past when people I have known have gone UNLOS from other fab members asking me if they're OK. I never really know how or if I even should respond to that.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went unlos, now I'm back with redhead. No one bothered when I left and no one is fussed that I'm back *gallic shrug*

Beard"

With squinty eyes I read that as 'garlic shrug' -- pungent!

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester


"I went unlos, now I'm back with redhead. No one bothered when I left and no one is fussed that I'm back *gallic shrug*

Beard"
. Oh it's driving me mad now, I've tried to work it out, and I can't and my nosiness is getting the better of me, so I'm putting my cards on the table, yes I'm nosey, but I really want to know, who the bloody hell were you when you were on here before? Mrs blue eyes

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"why do people UNLOS anyway

To be dramatic.

In fairness quite a few of the recent ones it's not the person that's gone that's created drama. It's the multiple threads, the 'are they okay' posts, the updates that 'I've spoken to them and they are okay' or my fave ever 'they needed a break and are feeling better for it' posted 3 hours after they'd gone that have create the drama.

And on the subject of drama the cynic in me suspects at least one UNLOS has been motivated by the ridiculous reactions to other people going UNLOS to see if their departure and inevitable return gets the ssme responsethis is the most accurate post. Its actually becoming the best entertainment even though it completly freaks me out to see people being talked about as though they where dead.

I left the other week someone put a "shocked" unlos thread up yet the unlos had pmed their friends to say they where going so they seemed to be devasted about someones going who they werent even friends with. That amused me

I think your thinking is all wrong every time someone joins the forum community they are adding to the community making it better more vibrate for us all .so when someone leaves the site and they are a contributor to the forums and its community the community loses something that's is what people are mostly expressing when they say they will miss someone they will miss the contribution to the forum community.

dark angel gave freely of her thoughts in this community her leaving will in a tiny way make this community less for those who enjoyed reading her posts that all people are expressing when they say they will miss someone who leaves the site and there by the forum community , im not referring to any unlos imparticular, the post i quoted sums it up especially the hourly updates of how they are doing

I always think the updates are prinarily about saying 'look at me, I can contact them in real life'"

you maybe right on that but who cares .all I want is a vibrate forum community to pass some spare time on call me selfless be for that to happen we need interesting fun people enjoying passing some time on here .

what ever happens to force someone off a site must be something in there eyes that has ruined the fun of being here .what ever it was is personal to them to me it may seem trivial maybe even to you but to them is was something and as a empathic human being one can not help but feel sorry for there polite .

that ability to feel for others makes us human after all and separates and differences us from animals .

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

The last few posts sum up the phenomenon perfectly for me. Yes when someone you have got to know leaves a site it can be sad, but (the perfectly coined IMHO) "obituaryesque threads" are a little OTT (again IMHO).

Mr G

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went unlos, now I'm back with redhead. No one bothered when I left and no one is fussed that I'm back *gallic shrug*

Beard. Oh it's driving me mad now, I've tried to work it out, and I can't and my nosiness is getting the better of me, so I'm putting my cards on the table, yes I'm nosey, but I really want to know, who the bloody hell were you when you were on here before? Mrs blue eyes "

You beat me too it!!

I think I know but I'm not 100% sure

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I always think the updates are prinarily about saying 'look at me, I can contact them in real life'

Yes i always think that too. ...It's like a competition to see who can get in first with the "it's ok I've been in touch" posts. They crack me up!

I got it in the neck for saying it before but I like to call it retrospective lamppost pissing.

I have received private messages in the past when people I have known have gone UNLOS from other fab members asking me if they're OK. I never really know how or if I even should respond to that."
i had a few the other week and just said they where ok.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

what ever happens to force someone off a site must be something in there eyes that has ruined the fun of being here .what ever it was is personal to them to me it may seem trivial maybe even to you but to them is was something and as a empathic human being one can not help but feel sorry for there polite .

that ability to feel for others makes us human after all and separates and differences us from animals . "

This illustrates my point entirely. Why assume they have been forced off the site? That's exactly what i was referring to in my previous posts.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"We are still here...... ignored mainly, but none the less here. Wherever here is xxxxxx suzi"

you are totally impossible to ignore as you dam well know

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester


"I went unlos, now I'm back with redhead. No one bothered when I left and no one is fussed that I'm back *gallic shrug*

Beard. Oh it's driving me mad now, I've tried to work it out, and I can't and my nosiness is getting the better of me, so I'm putting my cards on the table, yes I'm nosey, but I really want to know, who the bloody hell were you when you were on here before? Mrs blue eyes

You beat me too it!!

I think I know but I'm not 100% sure "
. Tee hee, I'm normally nosey enough that I would have worked it out by now, but this ones got me, at least you're a little ahead of me,I'm not even close to a guess Mrs blue eyes

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people UNLOS anyway

To be dramatic.

In fairness quite a few of the recent ones it's not the person that's gone that's created drama. It's the multiple threads, the 'are they okay' posts, the updates that 'I've spoken to them and they are okay' or my fave ever 'they needed a break and are feeling better for it' posted 3 hours after they'd gone that have create the drama.

And on the subject of drama the cynic in me suspects at least one UNLOS has been motivated by the ridiculous reactions to other people going UNLOS to see if their departure and inevitable return gets the ssme responsethis is the most accurate post. Its actually becoming the best entertainment even though it completly freaks me out to see people being talked about as though they where dead.

I left the other week someone put a "shocked" unlos thread up yet the unlos had pmed their friends to say they where going so they seemed to be devasted about someones going who they werent even friends with. That amused me

I think your thinking is all wrong every time someone joins the forum community they are adding to the community making it better more vibrate for us all .so when someone leaves the site and they are a contributor to the forums and its community the community loses something that's is what people are mostly expressing when they say they will miss someone they will miss the contribution to the forum community.

dark angel gave freely of her thoughts in this community her leaving will in a tiny way make this community less for those who enjoyed reading her posts that all people are expressing when they say they will miss someone who leaves the site and there by the forum community , im not referring to any unlos imparticular, the post i quoted sums it up especially the hourly updates of how they are doing

I always think the updates are prinarily about saying 'look at me, I can contact them in real life'

you maybe right on that but who cares .all I want is a vibrate forum community to pass some spare time on call me selfless be for that to happen we need interesting fun people enjoying passing some time on here .

what ever happens to force someone off a site must be something in there eyes that has ruined the fun of being here .what ever it was is personal to them to me it may seem trivial maybe even to you but to them is was something and as a empathic human being one can not help but feel sorry for there polite .

that ability to feel for others makes us human after all and separates and differences us from animals . "

They may have not been forced off the site, they can leave of their own free will.

If someone has had something truly horrible happen to them as a result of being on Fabs & it was known then I can understand a thread being started to let a group of people know en masse that he / she are okay.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

There are people who come and go for nothing more than dramatic impact, they know social media inside out and play it all out for reaction.

They can do that and relish every reaction from the community, it's their choice.

I don't have to empathetic to them but I can look at them and think whatever I choose.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still here sat in my little corner wait for some wonderful fun X

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats unlos ?

User no longer on site = unlos"

Ah i see musty be a drowsy saturday brain lol

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The cynic in me thinks it's not always to do with their engaging points of _iew / opinions they express in the forums, it's more to do with them being pretty / good looking & therefore "popular"......*

*Of course there are exceptions.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The cynic in me thinks it's not always to do with their engaging points of _iew / opinions they express in the forums, it's more to do with them being pretty / good looking & therefore "popular"......*

*Of course there are exceptions."

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"The cynic in me thinks it's not always to do with their engaging points of _iew / opinions they express in the forums, it's more to do with them being pretty / good looking & therefore "popular"......*

*Of course there are exceptions."

100%

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The cynic in me thinks it's not always to do with their engaging points of _iew / opinions they express in the forums, it's more to do with them being pretty / good looking & therefore "popular"......*

*Of course there are exceptions."

Be gone cynic in thee!

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"

what ever happens to force someone off a site must be something in there eyes that has ruined the fun of being here .what ever it was is personal to them to me it may seem trivial maybe even to you but to them is was something and as a empathic human being one can not help but feel sorry for there polite .

that ability to feel for others makes us human after all and separates and differences us from animals .

This illustrates my point entirely. Why assume they have been forced off the site? That's exactly what i was referring to in my previous posts. "

your right it is a assumption I for one come and go myself mainly to do with spare time constrains and how I choose to use that spare time .

if I have some spare time and room for a few more friends in my life I come on here and go on the warpath to try and find them.

if I have no such room in my life I leave my profile sitting here unused .

the fact someone erases there profile makes one think the worst where as hiding it or just leaving it unused kind of implies things are ok where as the other doesn't in my opinion .

yes one day I may choose off my own back to leave this game behind me and on the day I choose to do that I would erase my profile but I'm the kind of guy who would post a goodbye post for no other reason that to say thanks for the fun prev,s

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"The cynic in me thinks it's not always to do with their engaging points of _iew / opinions they express in the forums, it's more to do with them being pretty / good looking & therefore "popular"......*

*Of course there are exceptions."

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went unlos, now I'm back with redhead. No one bothered when I left and no one is fussed that I'm back *gallic shrug*

Beard. Oh it's driving me mad now, I've tried to work it out, and I can't and my nosiness is getting the better of me, so I'm putting my cards on the table, yes I'm nosey, but I really want to know, who the bloody hell were you when you were on here before? Mrs blue eyes "

Haha! I think you're making the assumption that I was a forumite of note

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

what ever happens to force someone off a site must be something in there eyes that has ruined the fun of being here .what ever it was is personal to them to me it may seem trivial maybe even to you but to them is was something and as a empathic human being one can not help but feel sorry for there polite .

that ability to feel for others makes us human after all and separates and differences us from animals .

This illustrates my point entirely. Why assume they have been forced off the site? That's exactly what i was referring to in my previous posts.

your right it is a assumption I for one come and go myself mainly to do with spare time constrains and how I choose to use that spare time .

if I have some spare time and room for a few more friends in my life I come on here and go on the warpath to try and find them.

if I have no such room in my life I leave my profile sitting here unused .

the fact someone erases there profile makes one think the worst where as hiding it or just leaving it unused kind of implies things are ok where as the other doesn't in my opinion .

yes one day I may choose off my own back to leave this game behind me and on the day I choose to do that I would erase my profile but I'm the kind of guy who would post a goodbye post for no other reason that to say thanks for the fun prev,s "

What do you mean by 'think the worst', surely this speaks more about you than anything else?

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts


"the fact someone erases there profile makes one think the worst where as hiding it or just leaving it unused kind of implies things are ok where as the other doesn't in my opinion .

yes one day I may choose off my own back to leave this game behind me and on the day I choose to do that I would erase my profile but I'm the kind of guy who would post a goodbye post for no other reason that to say thanks for the fun prev,s

What do you mean by 'think the worst', surely this speaks more about you than anything else?"

There can be any number of reasons someone might go UNLOS including simply being bored with the site, or losing interest in it, maybe meeting someone in real life that isn't into swinging, a lifestyle change, for effect and many many more that aren't "the worst"...so really have no idea why you'd "think the worst" because someone goes UNLOS _andsonjohn?

Mr G

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester


"I went unlos, now I'm back with redhead. No one bothered when I left and no one is fussed that I'm back *gallic shrug*

Beard. Oh it's driving me mad now, I've tried to work it out, and I can't and my nosiness is getting the better of me, so I'm putting my cards on the table, yes I'm nosey, but I really want to know, who the bloody hell were you when you were on here before? Mrs blue eyes

Haha! I think you're making the assumption that I was a forumite of note "
. Alas, I now know my dear beard, and yes you very much were a forumite of note, but I guess it's a little endearing that you may not of realised it Mrs blue eyes

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If something terrible has happened to a regular forum user someone would get to know and let us know and godforbid someone dies they are hardly going to go unlos the account will still be here

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

I'm partially here

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats unlos ?

User No Longer On Site - people that deactivate their account (although usually open another within a month )"

Or an hour in my case xxx

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went unlos, now I'm back with redhead. No one bothered when I left and no one is fussed that I'm back *gallic shrug*

Beard. Oh it's driving me mad now, I've tried to work it out, and I can't and my nosiness is getting the better of me, so I'm putting my cards on the table, yes I'm nosey, but I really want to know, who the bloody hell were you when you were on here before? Mrs blue eyes

Haha! I think you're making the assumption that I was a forumite of note . Alas, I now know my dear beard, and yes you very much were a forumite of note, but I guess it's a little endearing that you may not of realised it Mrs blue eyes "

Alas?! and that's very kind of you to say that

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

I've never gone UNLOS.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"

what ever happens to force someone off a site must be something in there eyes that has ruined the fun of being here .what ever it was is personal to them to me it may seem trivial maybe even to you but to them is was something and as a empathic human being one can not help but feel sorry for there polite .

that ability to feel for others makes us human after all and separates and differences us from animals .

This illustrates my point entirely. Why assume they have been forced off the site? That's exactly what i was referring to in my previous posts.

your right it is a assumption I for one come and go myself mainly to do with spare time constrains and how I choose to use that spare time .

if I have some spare time and room for a few more friends in my life I come on here and go on the warpath to try and find them.

if I have no such room in my life I leave my profile sitting here unused .

the fact someone erases there profile makes one think the worst where as hiding it or just leaving it unused kind of implies things are ok where as the other doesn't in my opinion .

yes one day I may choose off my own back to leave this game behind me and on the day I choose to do that I would erase my profile but I'm the kind of guy who would post a goodbye post for no other reason that to say thanks for the fun prev,s

What do you mean by 'think the worst', surely this speaks more about you than anything else?"

of coarse it does I wouldn't deny that fact since when has worrying about another persons wellbeing based off a assumption been a crime...? is not that what being a living breathing human being is all about caring .

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

what ever happens to force someone off a site must be something in there eyes that has ruined the fun of being here .what ever it was is personal to them to me it may seem trivial maybe even to you but to them is was something and as a empathic human being one can not help but feel sorry for there polite .

that ability to feel for others makes us human after all and separates and differences us from animals .

This illustrates my point entirely. Why assume they have been forced off the site? That's exactly what i was referring to in my previous posts.

your right it is a assumption I for one come and go myself mainly to do with spare time constrains and how I choose to use that spare time .

if I have some spare time and room for a few more friends in my life I come on here and go on the warpath to try and find them.

if I have no such room in my life I leave my profile sitting here unused .

the fact someone erases there profile makes one think the worst where as hiding it or just leaving it unused kind of implies things are ok where as the other doesn't in my opinion .

yes one day I may choose off my own back to leave this game behind me and on the day I choose to do that I would erase my profile but I'm the kind of guy who would post a goodbye post for no other reason that to say thanks for the fun prev,s

What do you mean by 'think the worst', surely this speaks more about you than anything else?

of coarse it does I wouldn't deny that fact since when has worrying about another persons wellbeing based off a assumption been a crime...? is not that what being a living breathing human being is all about caring . "

Yes but I don't overly care about people where my omy interaction is on a swingers forum.

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 

By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

[Removed by poster at 01/10/16 11:25:14]

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
 
 

By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

life goes on.....

 (closed, thread got too big)

Reply privately
back to top