FabSwingers.com forum: Blocking

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You think you're getting on well with someone but without warning you're blocked.

Do you just shrug your shoulders and move on!?

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yes

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

"You think you're getting on well with someone but without warning you're blocked.

Do you just shrug your shoulders and move on!?"

Surely that's the preferable option? What other choices are there? Post a thread? Have a whinge? Long for what might have been?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, no! You open up 5 new accounts and harass the person from those.

Or have I been doing it wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear.

There should usually be a reason. Something they dont like on your profile, something you have said or maybe they came across veris they didnt like. All sorts really but shame they didnt tell you why they were going to block you.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I don't know I don't recall that ever happening to me,but yeah that's all you can do I suppose

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By *llywalesWoman
over a year ago

Some people are not what they seem ? You get used to it .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, no! You open up 5 new accounts and harass the person from those.

Or have I been doing it wrong?

That's happened to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, no! You open up 5 new accounts and harass the person from those.

Or have I been doing it wrong?

Just 5 ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I'd wonder for a while why they'd blocked me if we'd been getting one well.

On the other hand if they haven't got the balls to tell me maybe it's just as well they did.

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

"Yeah I'd wonder for a while why they'd blocked me if we'd been getting one well.

On the other hand if they haven't got the balls to tell me maybe it's just as well they did."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not OP.

You then need to use their number to look them up on Facebook and pester them on there instead.

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Absolutely not OP.

You then need to use their number to look them up on Facebook and pester them on there instead."

Don't forget to use reverse image search on the saved photos you have of them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not a stalker so that definitely not am option, for anybody for that matter.

I'm a big boy and will move on but just taken a back that's all, came out the blue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You think you're getting on well with someone but without warning you're blocked.

Do you just shrug your shoulders and move on!?"

As opposed to???....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would. Being blocked on here is the least of my worries.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"No, no! You open up 5 new accounts and harass the person from those.

Or have I been doing it wrong?

Only 5?

You must have been doing something wrong there ya Damn Yankee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You think you're getting on well with someone but without warning you're blocked.

Do you just shrug your shoulders and move on!?

As opposed to???...."

Crying into your pillow.

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

To any normal person what is there that you could do?

But then what's normal these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely not OP.

You then need to use their number to look them up on Facebook and pester them on there instead.

Don't forget to use reverse image search on the saved photos you have of them. "

If anyone did that with my face photo they'd just find a load of old poems

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"You think you're getting on well with someone but without warning you're blocked.

Do you just shrug your shoulders and move on!?"

I would just move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Absolutely not OP.

You then need to use their number to look them up on Facebook and pester them on there instead."

I know I've actually got quite a wicked forum persona but I don't find that amusing, even in jest.

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Absolutely not OP.

You then need to use their number to look them up on Facebook and pester them on there instead.

I know I've actually got quite a wicked forum persona but I don't find that amusing, even in jest."

Then what did you think the answer would be, if not "yes"? As many have asked, what is the alternative here then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cry. become a hermit, and whittle spoons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cry. become a hermit, and whittle spoons "

I yearn to whittle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely not OP.

You then need to use their number to look them up on Facebook and pester them on there instead.

I know I've actually got quite a wicked forum persona but I don't find that amusing, even in jest."

To be fair, I wasn't saying you'd do that but someone did do that to me... I gave him a mouthful & blocked him every which way. Definitely learned my lesson though.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"If anyone did that with my face photo they'd just find a load of old poems

There once was Woman from Leeds ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You think you're getting on well with someone but without warning you're blocked.

Do you just shrug your shoulders and move on!?"

Clearly you have pissed them off. I'd leave it if i were you and move on.

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By *rs Mia WallaceWoman
over a year ago

Bathwyche

Its their shit.

Fuck em. Or not, as case may be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If anyone did that with my face photo they'd just find a load of old poems

There once was Woman from Leeds ......

More like a poem about lesbian sex called Strawberry Cornetto...

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By *aura66Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I got blocked by a bloke because I tore a strip off him , because he sent me a pic of him with a couple their faces in full view ..

Didn't get the concept of discretion obviously.

Aren't I glad I didn't send my face pic to him or my number ..

Tool !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Absolutely not OP.

You then need to use their number to look them up on Facebook and pester them on there instead.

I know I've actually got quite a wicked forum persona but I don't find that amusing, even in jest.

To be fair, I wasn't saying you'd do that but someone did do that to me... I gave him a mouthful & blocked him every which way. Definitely learned my lesson though."

I know, sorry for being brusque and rude.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"No, no! You open up 5 new accounts and harass the person from those.

Or have I been doing it wrong?

we've already been blocked by 3 of our new accounts.

We're still waiting for face pics from the other 2.

Fingers crossed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You think you're getting on well with someone but without warning you're blocked.

Do you just shrug your shoulders and move on!?

Clearly you have pissed them off. I'd leave it if i were you and move on."

how clearly?... maybe they are just rude? why must it be his fault? or maybe theyv done it bcos they just wanted too?....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You think you're getting on well with someone but without warning you're blocked.

Do you just shrug your shoulders and move on!?

Clearly you have pissed them off. I'd leave it if i were you and move on.

how clearly?... maybe they are just rude? why must it be his fault? or maybe theyv done it bcos they just wanted too?....

You'd have to read between the lines a bit to be honest. I

we are both obviously taking it on face value, yes i agree he has to just forget it and move on, but i wouldnt automatically blame him x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just move on and chuckle there are a lot of strange folk on here so dont let the bastards grind you down

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's not the being blocked that particularly bothers me, that's peoples choice. It's the fact that I would appear to have upset, hurt or annoyed a person so much, without realising it, that they've felt they've had to block me.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"You think you're getting on well with someone but without warning you're blocked.

Do you just shrug your shoulders and move on!?

Surely that's the preferable option? What other choices are there? Post a thread? Have a whinge? Long for what might have been? "

Exactly

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"You think you're getting on well with someone but without warning you're blocked.

Do you just shrug your shoulders and move on!?

Surely that's the preferable option? What other choices are there? Post a thread? Have a whinge? Long for what might have been? "

All of the above apparently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not the being blocked that particularly bothers me, that's peoples choice. It's the fact that I would appear to have upset, hurt or annoyed a person so much, without realising it, that they've felt they've had to block me."

... and without the chance to apologise or make it right. I know what you mean. x

They may have replied to your mail and hit the 'reply and block' button (or whatever it's called). No way of knowing if it was on purpose or accidental.

Hope you feel better today.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

OP is your third pic an ironing board?

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's happened to me before & I'd met the person

Like SS said they could have hit the block button by mistake it's easily done.

I've just left them unblocked my end in case they want to get back in touch.

If not you know the ole saying ~ "its their loss"

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"No, no! You open up 5 new accounts and harass the person from those.

Or have I been doing it wrong?

Someone did this to me for ages and in the end i did actualy meet him

with another man i think it was and guess what, he moaned about a girl who was also blocking him on here he said he was sending her realy nice messages as well.

Oh well takes all sorts.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"You think you're getting on well with someone but without warning you're blocked.

Do you just shrug your shoulders and move on!?"

What other option is there?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Nope; I start a thread on it

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You think you're getting on well with someone but without warning you're blocked.

Do you just shrug your shoulders and move on!?"

Just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You think you're getting on well with someone but without warning you're blocked.

Do you just shrug your shoulders and move on!?"

I do a heavy sigh. Shrugging shoulders takes effort. A heavy sigh is an increase of oxygen, so has health benefits as well.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Why do they have to be hurt or upset to block you? They could gave gotten bored by you, realised you weren't compatible (just because you thought you were getting on ok doesn't mean they felt the same), there are lots of reasons why but to obsess over them is a waste of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever I have been blocked it's because those people finally realised I'm a twat. Just surprised it takes so long really

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you everybody, know it wasn't a mistake on their part, new day, shrugging shoulders and sadly moving on.

Not an ironing board, cheeky sod, it's a quickly to be removed arty shoot of my derrière, taken for one of those stupid "today's thread" themes!

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