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By *pforfun1234562016 OP   Couple
over a year ago

leamington spa

If you message eachother what do people think average amount to ask for a meet dont want to be pushy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you message eachother what do people think average amount to ask for a meet dont want to be pushy x"
after she replies to my " Fancy a fuck " message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess that depends on the person / couple and their expectations and how the conversation goes. Some people will meet after one or two messages for a social others will take much longer. Gauge each situation individually and see how it goes......

Blimey that's quite deep and sensible for me.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always try and pin down a social quite early on. Cant be arsed with message tennis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always try and pin down a social quite early on. Cant be arsed with message tennis "

Fancy a coffee?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the person. Some like a "so when are you free?" kind of arrangement and other love to have a conversation first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always try and pin down a social quite early on. Cant be arsed with message tennis

Fancy a coffee? "

That's a bloody long way for a coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always try and pin down a social quite early on. Cant be arsed with message tennis

Fancy a coffee?

That's a bloody long way for a coffee "

Haha it's not when I'm at my head office lol..... Perks of working on the road you see....

Anyway stop the tennis messages.....

Coffee???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to sort out a social early on as if not it's pointless we are here to meet at the end of the day

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We would say something like

"Can we tempt you for a drink sometime?" its non-pushy but its a good way to get onto making a meet happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oohh. I like to lay it on the line as soon as I know I both of us feel the same.

No use in wasting their time or mine.

But that's just me, i like people to be direct so I do the same.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"If you message eachother what do people think average amount to ask for a meet dont want to be pushy x"

Play it by ear, everyone's different and there aren't any rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always try and pin down a social quite early on. Cant be arsed with message tennis

Fancy a coffee?

That's a bloody long way for a coffee "

Fancy a coffee. haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you message eachother what do people think average amount to ask for a meet dont want to be pushy x"

Maybe not in first message then

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