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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dont get me wrong i understand some people like to talk an get to know a little about each other before meetings...

but Isit just me or is there people on here who just want to talk for weeks an not meet? I mean, cant we just tick some boxes an fuck ,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont get me wrong i understand some people like to talk an get to know a little about each other before meetings...

but Isit just me or is there people on here who just want to talk for weeks an not meet? I mean, cant we just tick some boxes an fuck ,lol "

Yes. No. Maybe. Some. Perhaps. Not. Occasionally. Never. Frequently.

I think that covers it,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shut the fuck up and take me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are those that will. I won't do that because I don't meet socially and will.only meet when time permits and I feel safe.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Dont get me wrong i understand some people like to talk an get to know a little about each other before meetings...

but Isit just me or is there people on here who just want to talk for weeks an not meet? I mean, cant we just tick some boxes an fuck ,lol "

Can we talk about it?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

You need at least five messages before you find out if the veneer isn't glued on well.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

There are plenty of people like that, tons of them men.

They want the chat but as soon as you mention meeting for a coffee they can't cope.

A lot of them just want wank chat

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Loads of us are 'swingers' as the site suggests so you have to expect that many have some if not a lot of other commitments before they can 'just fuck'

I don't mess people about but if you wanna meet and pkay a bit it takes planning round my busy family life.

In the time between chatting starts and meeting in person I like to be nosey too hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with a good chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like to talk and get to know people first, I feel it makes meeting less awkward. Plus, I have very limited time to meet at the moment so that's all I can offer for now

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont get me wrong i understand some people like to talk an get to know a little about each other before meetings...

but Isit just me or is there people on here who just want to talk for weeks an not meet? I mean, cant we just tick some boxes an fuck ,lol "

are you on a timer or something?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"There are plenty of people like that, tons of them men.

They want the chat but as soon as you mention meeting for a coffee they can't cope.

A lot of them just want wank chat "

Tis true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one's ever expressed any interest in meeting me so chats all I've got

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Shut the fuck up and take me!"

il take you anytime babe...where an when? lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont get me wrong i understand some people like to talk an get to know a little about each other before meetings...

but Isit just me or is there people on here who just want to talk for weeks an not meet? I mean, cant we just tick some boxes an fuck ,lol

Can we talk about it? "

Do we have to? Cant we just fuck instead? lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do like to talk and get to know people first, I feel it makes meeting less awkward. Plus, I have very limited time to meet at the moment so that's all I can offer for now "

i never said dont talk, even i know this aint blind date an we need to talk, but im saying weeks of endless banter an then no meet in the end...i mean whats the point? Its a sex site, were all here for the same reason an thats sex...so lets see if we click an meet up an lets make love ..sorry i meant fuck lol

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Dont get me wrong i understand some people like to talk an get to know a little about each other before meetings...

but Isit just me or is there people on here who just want to talk for weeks an not meet? I mean, cant we just tick some boxes an fuck ,lol "

You read me like a book, OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont get me wrong i understand some people like to talk an get to know a little about each other before meetings...

but Isit just me or is there people on here who just want to talk for weeks an not meet? I mean, cant we just tick some boxes an fuck ,lol

are you on a timer or something? "

not at all... but id rather be fucking than talking...you know the saying right .."less talk, more action"... thats me right there lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No one's ever expressed any interest in meeting me so chats all I've got

"

i actually feel sorry for you mate... the best i can do for you is give a shout out for you..."comon girls someone give him a wank to make his day" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do like to talk and get to know people first, I feel it makes meeting less awkward. Plus, I have very limited time to meet at the moment so that's all I can offer for now

i never said dont talk, even i know this aint blind date an we need to talk, but im saying weeks of endless banter an then no meet in the end...i mean whats the point? Its a sex site, were all here for the same reason an thats sex...so lets see if we click an meet up an lets make love ..sorry i meant fuck lol "

Weeks of endless banter is just what it says on the tin..just banter. If 1 of you doesn't want to go any further than just banter then the weeks will turn to years so you can accept the fact it's just not going to get physical and enjoy the banter or move along and find someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm all for just fucking! If only it was that easy

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I do like to talk and get to know people first, I feel it makes meeting less awkward. Plus, I have very limited time to meet at the moment so that's all I can offer for now

i never said dont talk, even i know this aint blind date an we need to talk, but im saying weeks of endless banter an then no meet in the end...i mean whats the point? Its a sex site, were all here for the same reason an thats sex...so lets see if we click an meet up an lets make love ..sorry i meant fuck lol "

It's taken as long as two years for some of my meets.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I've done less than an hour from initial PM to getting my hands on an individual

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I have done the spontaneous fun.

But it is a lot more fun getting to know someone and having fun on more than one occasion.

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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago

north kensington w10


"Dont get me wrong i understand some people like to talk an get to know a little about each other before meetings...

but Isit just me or is there people on here who just want to talk for weeks an not meet? I mean, cant we just tick some boxes an fuck ,lol "

Been on 8 months and had 5 meets already and no a tv in site! What is the problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh.

When I meet it tends to be off the forums so we might be hours apart so it can take time to arrange a suitable meeting. Actually I talked to one man for six months before we had chance to meet, and none of the men I've met have complained about talking for a while before hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've done less than an hour from initial PM to getting my hands on an individual "

Does the itchy rash/sore throat take less than an hour to appear?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do like to talk and get to know people first, I feel it makes meeting less awkward. Plus, I have very limited time to meet at the moment so that's all I can offer for now

i never said dont talk, even i know this aint blind date an we need to talk, but im saying weeks of endless banter an then no meet in the end...i mean whats the point? Its a sex site, were all here for the same reason an thats sex...so lets see if we click an meet up an lets make love ..sorry i meant fuck lol

Weeks of endless banter is just what it says on the tin..just banter. If 1 of you doesn't want to go any further than just banter then the weeks will turn to years so you can accept the fact it's just not going to get physical and enjoy the banter or move along and find someone else"

i know what you mean but comon lets get real, this aint facebook, theres horny people on the site an they want to fuck...

so are we talking or we fucking?lol

Everyone has there own opinion, but me personally, if i find someone attractive, il have a chit chat an want to meet an play... i really find it pointless getting to know the other person for weeks on end for the simple reason that its a sex site..im not here looking for a wife lol... im looking for a nice fit lady to have fun with...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont get me wrong i understand some people like to talk an get to know a little about each other before meetings...

but Isit just me or is there people on here who just want to talk for weeks an not meet? I mean, cant we just tick some boxes an fuck ,lol

are you on a timer or something?

not at all... but id rather be fucking than talking...you know the saying right .."less talk, more action"... thats me right there lol "

that's fine....but how long does the action last?

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Dont get me wrong i understand some people like to talk an get to know a little about each other before meetings...

but Isit just me or is there people on here who just want to talk for weeks an not meet? I mean, cant we just tick some boxes an fuck ,lol "

Family life & work just gets in the way sometimes for instance had a social today after a few messages, we all want to play but by the time work, kids etc are worked around we are talking end October or mid November before we can all be at the same place at the same time..

Just one of those things, so we'll chat maybe have another social in the meantime..

S

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I've done less than an hour from initial PM to getting my hands on an individual

Does the itchy rash/sore throat take less than an hour to appear? "

Don;t judge me by your twisted standards

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I've done less than an hour from initial PM to getting my hands on an individual

Does the itchy rash/sore throat take less than an hour to appear?

Don;t judge me by your twisted standards "

PS - nice tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ill be honest and say if i chat for to long i lose interest.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I prefer to be chatted to. Even if it's 'can I grind my wet cunt to completion on your face, Steve?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one's ever expressed any interest in meeting me so chats all I've got

i actually feel sorry for you mate... the best i can do for you is give a shout out for you..."comon girls someone give him a wank to make his day" lol"

Don't be. I'm a cunt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont get me wrong i understand some people like to talk an get to know a little about each other before meetings...

but Isit just me or is there people on here who just want to talk for weeks an not meet? I mean, cant we just tick some boxes an fuck ,lol

are you on a timer or something?

not at all... but id rather be fucking than talking...you know the saying right .."less talk, more action"... thats me right there lol

that's fine....but how long does the action last? "

Now that would be telling...the only way to find out would be to come an give me a go lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No one's ever expressed any interest in meeting me so chats all I've got

i actually feel sorry for you mate... the best i can do for you is give a shout out for you..."comon girls someone give him a wank to make his day" lol

Don't be. I'm a cunt. "

Sorry girls, my bad and change of mind, no wanking for him, hes a cunt lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ill be honest and say if i chat for to long i lose interest. "

EXACTLY!!! High Five ..you go girl !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like action but I like chatting too.

When I can't meet the chat keeps the spark alive for me until we can.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like action but I like chatting too.

When I can't meet the chat keeps the spark alive for me until we can."

babe il chat to you all night if you want me to after looking through your pics lol

wooosahhh... i like and i want to taste lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the blah blah blah so no, we can't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer to be chatted to. Even if it's 'can I grind my wet cunt to completion on your face, Steve?' "

So good to see you here.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Dont get me wrong i understand some people like to talk an get to know a little about each other before meetings...

but Isit just me or is there people on here who just want to talk for weeks an not meet? I mean, cant we just tick some boxes an fuck ,lol

Can we talk about it?

Do we have to? Cant we just fuck instead? lol"

We could. But I want to talk first.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I prefer to be chatted to. Even if it's 'can I grind my wet cunt to completion on your face, Steve?'

So good to see you here.

"

I'm glad to be back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like the blah blah blah so no, we can't."

Gutted...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Took me two years to finally arrange a meet with someone. Was worth it in the end. Tho I have chatted and met the same day that really didnt do it for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont get me wrong i understand some people like to talk an get to know a little about each other before meetings...

but Isit just me or is there people on here who just want to talk for weeks an not meet? I mean, cant we just tick some boxes an fuck ,lol

Can we talk about it?

Do we have to? Cant we just fuck instead? lol

We could. But I want to talk first."

ok...im a guy to compromise so lets make a deal an meet halfway... lets talk a little while were fucking?lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to chat as I can't meet very often. Anyone want to chat until, say, late November / December!? I'm deffo free to meet in December - maybe even a few days, gosh!!

In the meantime chat about anything - cake, the weather, your holidays, other general bobbins, maybe - just maybe - sex but I'm really no good at all that talk to be honest! Better off sticking with cake chat!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Took me two years to finally arrange a meet with someone. Was worth it in the end. Tho I have chatted and met the same day that really didnt do it for me."

but thats down to who you meet aswell though isnt it... i mean he probably gave you shit sex ... now that wouldnt be the case with me... i wont be leaving till your satisfied an ready for bed but hey thats me...

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I like to get to know someone before I can decide if I want to meet them, so if you are looking for a fuck and go you can just go and fuck someone else, no skin off my nose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like action but I like chatting too.

When I can't meet the chat keeps the spark alive for me until we can.

babe il chat to you all night if you want me to after looking through your pics lol

wooosahhh... i like and i want to taste lol "

See...you do like the chat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to get to know someone before I can decide if I want to meet them, so if you are looking for a fuck and go you can just go and fuck someone else, no skin off my nose "

Erm i dont mean to sound rude but i actually never asked to fuck you babe.. but best of luck on the site lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the blah blah blah so no, we can't.

Gutted... "

gutted?? really?? because someone does things differently to you??

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Dont get me wrong i understand some people like to talk an get to know a little about each other before meetings...

but Isit just me or is there people on here who just want to talk for weeks an not meet? I mean, cant we just tick some boxes an fuck ,lol

Can we talk about it?

Do we have to? Cant we just fuck instead? lol

We could. But I want to talk first.

ok...im a guy to compromise so lets make a deal an meet halfway... lets talk a little while were fucking?lol "

Depends what we are talking about

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like action but I like chatting too.

When I can't meet the chat keeps the spark alive for me until we can.

babe il chat to you all night if you want me to after looking through your pics lol

wooosahhh... i like and i want to taste lol

See...you do like the chat "

i guess its ok, its just im not so keen into speaking for weeks an weeks an then no meet... but you, i think im going to make an exception ...lets talk babe lol haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont get me wrong i understand some people like to talk an get to know a little about each other before meetings...

but Isit just me or is there people on here who just want to talk for weeks an not meet? I mean, cant we just tick some boxes an fuck ,lol

are you on a timer or something?

not at all... but id rather be fucking than talking...you know the saying right .."less talk, more action"... thats me right there lol

that's fine....but how long does the action last?

Now that would be telling...the only way to find out would be to come an give me a go lol"

sorry, I'm out...as I'm guessing a conversation would string it out to 20 mins at the most

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I do like to talk and get to know people first, I feel it makes meeting less awkward. Plus, I have very limited time to meet at the moment so that's all I can offer for now

i never said dont talk, even i know this aint blind date an we need to talk, but im saying weeks of endless banter an then no meet in the end...i mean whats the point? Its a sex site, were all here for the same reason an thats sex...so lets see if we click an meet up an lets make love ..sorry i meant fuck lol

Weeks of endless banter is just what it says on the tin..just banter. If 1 of you doesn't want to go any further than just banter then the weeks will turn to years so you can accept the fact it's just not going to get physical and enjoy the banter or move along and find someone else

i know what you mean but comon lets get real, this aint facebook, theres horny people on the site an they want to fuck...

so are we talking or we fucking?lol

Everyone has there own opinion, but me personally, if i find someone attractive, il have a chit chat an want to meet an play... i really find it pointless getting to know the other person for weeks on end for the simple reason that its a sex site..im not here looking for a wife lol... im looking for a nice fit lady to have fun with... "

Stick to an actual sex site and not a swingers site then we will all be happy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to chat first to regardless of this being a sex site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont get me wrong i understand some people like to talk an get to know a little about each other before meetings...

but Isit just me or is there people on here who just want to talk for weeks an not meet? I mean, cant we just tick some boxes an fuck ,lol

Can we talk about it?

Do we have to? Cant we just fuck instead? lol

We could. But I want to talk first.

ok...im a guy to compromise so lets make a deal an meet halfway... lets talk a little while were fucking?lol

Depends what we are talking about "

I cant say that here now can i? Youll have to come an find out ... lol

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

It depends on the circumstance, for instance we had a few messages then a social today, we all want to play but by the time we allow fow work, kids, life etc it looks like any proper play date will be end October mid November so we'll organise that & chat in the meantime getting ourselves worked up

S&H

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do like to talk and get to know people first, I feel it makes meeting less awkward. Plus, I have very limited time to meet at the moment so that's all I can offer for now

i never said dont talk, even i know this aint blind date an we need to talk, but im saying weeks of endless banter an then no meet in the end...i mean whats the point? Its a sex site, were all here for the same reason an thats sex...so lets see if we click an meet up an lets make love ..sorry i meant fuck lol

Weeks of endless banter is just what it says on the tin..just banter. If 1 of you doesn't want to go any further than just banter then the weeks will turn to years so you can accept the fact it's just not going to get physical and enjoy the banter or move along and find someone else

i know what you mean but comon lets get real, this aint facebook, theres horny people on the site an they want to fuck...

so are we talking or we fucking?lol

Everyone has there own opinion, but me personally, if i find someone attractive, il have a chit chat an want to meet an play... i really find it pointless getting to know the other person for weeks on end for the simple reason that its a sex site..im not here looking for a wife lol... im looking for a nice fit lady to have fun with...

Stick to an actual sex site and not a swingers site then we will all be happy! "

Erm so what your telling me here is that all people on here are looking to swing an noone is here for 1 on 1 sex? Dont get me wrong i meet singles and couples but the point im making is if thats what you think then i think youv got things very wrong on here lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I like to get to know someone before I can decide if I want to meet them, so if you are looking for a fuck and go you can just go and fuck someone else, no skin off my nose

Erm i dont mean to sound rude but i actually never asked to fuck you babe.. but best of luck on the site lol "

I didn't infer you did, just that most men think us women should just drop our knickers when asked, this site isn't or should I say wasn't built for that, plenty of sites are made for that so I suggest you move to them if not? Just pay for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont get me wrong i understand some people like to talk an get to know a little about each other before meetings...

but Isit just me or is there people on here who just want to talk for weeks an not meet? I mean, cant we just tick some boxes an fuck ,lol

are you on a timer or something?

not at all... but id rather be fucking than talking...you know the saying right .."less talk, more action"... thats me right there lol

that's fine....but how long does the action last?

Now that would be telling...the only way to find out would be to come an give me a go lol

sorry, I'm out...as I'm guessing a conversation would string it out to 20 mins at the most "

20 mins...low blow that...lol im not that bad haha lol... i dont mind a chit chat an banter just not for weeks an weeks... i like to see forward progress an a meet up sooner rather than later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 on 1 is the only way I play

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I do like to talk and get to know people first, I feel it makes meeting less awkward. Plus, I have very limited time to meet at the moment so that's all I can offer for now

i never said dont talk, even i know this aint blind date an we need to talk, but im saying weeks of endless banter an then no meet in the end...i mean whats the point? Its a sex site, were all here for the same reason an thats sex...so lets see if we click an meet up an lets make love ..sorry i meant fuck lol

Weeks of endless banter is just what it says on the tin..just banter. If 1 of you doesn't want to go any further than just banter then the weeks will turn to years so you can accept the fact it's just not going to get physical and enjoy the banter or move along and find someone else

i know what you mean but comon lets get real, this aint facebook, theres horny people on the site an they want to fuck...

so are we talking or we fucking?lol

Everyone has there own opinion, but me personally, if i find someone attractive, il have a chit chat an want to meet an play... i really find it pointless getting to know the other person for weeks on end for the simple reason that its a sex site..im not here looking for a wife lol... im looking for a nice fit lady to have fun with...

Stick to an actual sex site and not a swingers site then we will all be happy!

Erm so what your telling me here is that all people on here are looking to swing an noone is here for 1 on 1 sex? Dont get me wrong i meet singles and couples but the point im making is if thats what you think then i think youv got things very wrong on here lol"

Oh I don't think so! I've been here for over 7 years and know exactly what I am looking for and what the site is about, I think you need to rethink things rather than think everyone else is wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually we're not all here for the same thing....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to get to know someone before I can decide if I want to meet them, so if you are looking for a fuck and go you can just go and fuck someone else, no skin off my nose

Erm i dont mean to sound rude but i actually never asked to fuck you babe.. but best of luck on the site lol

I didn't infer you did, just that most men think us women should just drop our knickers when asked, this site isn't or should I say wasn't built for that, plenty of sites are made for that so I suggest you move to them if not? Just pay for it "

Firstly, no ones asking you to drop your knickers, you keep yours on so you dont need to worry lol

Secondly, im here to meet an have fun with like minded women who want to have a chit chat an banter yes...i never said no chat, i just said not endless conversations for weeks an weeks an then no meet...

And finally, iv crossed a few nice women on here who i do have a chit chat on odd occasions with an we have fun from time to time too around our work schedule so i really dont need to pay for it, lol but by the sounds of it you like chatting more and sex less...so you should log off here an log onto facebook an then we d all be happy

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Call me old fashioned, but I like to ascertain whether I actually want to fuck the person that I've been chatting to, and to do that I need to actually meet them.

People don't always look like pictures and messsges don't always translate to how a person is in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a sex site.

Not everybody is looking for the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shut the fuck up and take me!"

Where?

Take you where?

Where the fuck do yahwannago?

Information woman, details!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not a sex site.

Not everybody is looking for the same thing. "

.lolok, to an extent i can agree but comon, you cant say most of the people are on here to talk about baking cakes? lol im sure alot of the women may think a little different but maybe not all but most of the guys here surely are here to have a good time sexually with other people... or am i the only one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not a sex site.

Not everybody is looking for the same thing.

.lolok, to an extent i can agree but comon, you cant say most of the people are on here to talk about baking cakes? lol im sure alot of the women may think a little different but maybe not all but most of the guys here surely are here to have a good time sexually with other people... or am i the only one lol "

Sorry, I got distracted by your torso.... what was the question??

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton


"It's not a sex site.

Not everybody is looking for the same thing.

.lolok, to an extent i can agree but comon, you cant say most of the people are on here to talk about baking cakes? lol im sure alot of the women may think a little different but maybe not all but most of the guys here surely are here to have a good time sexually with other people... or am i the only one lol

Sorry, I got distracted by your torso.... what was the question?? "

Did someone mention cake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not a sex site.

Not everybody is looking for the same thing.

.lolok, to an extent i can agree but comon, you cant say most of the people are on here to talk about baking cakes? lol im sure alot of the women may think a little different but maybe not all but most of the guys here surely are here to have a good time sexually with other people... or am i the only one lol

Sorry, I got distracted by your torso.... what was the question??

Did someone mention cake?"

Lemon drizzle?

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton


"It's not a sex site.

Not everybody is looking for the same thing.

.lolok, to an extent i can agree but comon, you cant say most of the people are on here to talk about baking cakes? lol im sure alot of the women may think a little different but maybe not all but most of the guys here surely are here to have a good time sexually with other people... or am i the only one lol

Sorry, I got distracted by your torso.... what was the question??

Did someone mention cake?

Lemon drizzle? "

My speciality..do a mean chocolate and cardamom tarte too

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By *rMrs-Luv-ItCouple
over a year ago

cwmbranish

lol wow dont hold back

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Getting someone into bed's easy... it's getting them out again that's the art

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting someone into bed's easy... it's getting them out again that's the art"

Their taxi beeping outside is usually helpful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how horny I am. xxx

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I used to lose interest if the chat went on too long, but then we are a couple so things are different than if I was meeting as a single female.

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton


"Getting someone into bed's easy... it's getting them out again that's the art

Their taxi beeping outside is usually helpful "

And untying them helps too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do like to talk and get to know people first, I feel it makes meeting less awkward. Plus, I have very limited time to meet at the moment so that's all I can offer for now "

Your a 1000% worth it anyway beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like action but I like chatting too.

When I can't meet the chat keeps the spark alive for me until we can."
see ive actually cancelled a meet because the guy kept chatting wanting to talk filthy to me. Date and and time was set so he just bugged me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting someone into bed's easy... it's getting them out again that's the art

Their taxi beeping outside is usually helpful

And untying them helps too.

"

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

If your approach is getting you the meets you want op then fantastic .I'm sure others will sort their meets they way they feel comfortable with , there is no one right way on here.

If you don't want to keep talking to the person then you have option to tell them you don't feel it's working and move on to someone who's happy to meet with same criteria as you .That's beauty of the site there's those who will be happy to meet after brief chat and those who it takes longer to get to that comfort zone . Just move on to those with same outlook as you .wish you continued fun on the site

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I like action but I like chatting too.

When I can't meet the chat keeps the spark alive for me until we can. see ive actually cancelled a meet because the guy kept chatting wanting to talk filthy to me. Date and and time was set so he just bugged me "

I find dirty talk either via message or on the phone a total cringe-fest....

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"Getting someone into bed's easy... it's getting them out again that's the art

Their taxi beeping outside is usually helpful "

I like calling the taxi, cheers for that taxi is on the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person, met someone this week I've known for 1 day, someone else I've known for a year. Average is a month. Our time is limited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the chat drags on to long I get bored and loose interest

Don't get me wrong I like to chat but if I had been chatting to somebody for weeks and nothing had been arranged I would assume they had no interest in meeting and move on

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Junkie XL, Elvis Presley - A Little Less Conversation

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zx1_6F-nCaw

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"If the chat drags on to long I get bored and loose interest

Don't get me wrong I like to chat but if I had been chatting to somebody for weeks and nothing had been arranged I would assume they had no interest in meeting and move on"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say a week or two of chat, and then if a meet or a social isn't arranged then its not going to happen..

but I wouldn't ever just meet someone, fuck them then fuck off...there has to be some conversation lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely get chance too meet, due too busy work commitments, living in the middle of nowhere, family and friends too prioritise etc, so i have too plan meets, and that usually means on my infrequent trips too civilisation, besides what is wrong with getting too know someone, as some have said it can remove awkwardness plus i think if you can't hold a conversation, you can't be trusted too communicate eloquently in the bedroom either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Junkie XL, Elvis Presley - A Little Less Conversation

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zx1_6F-nCaw"

I've tried this on a night out... never worked surprisingly.

I have met women off here before with only a dozen or so messages so it's possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like action but I like chatting too.

When I can't meet the chat keeps the spark alive for me until we can. see ive actually cancelled a meet because the guy kept chatting wanting to talk filthy to me. Date and and time was set so he just bugged me "

I've cancelled a few like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It usually takes me around 6 weeks+ to arrange a meet. Busy life and all that. Depending on the person, I would talk to them a lot in that time, or just check in occasionally to make sure we are still on track. If you can't hack talking to someone before the meet, it doesn't really bode well for what's going to happen when you meet. Unless of course your the type of person who doesn't really like to talk on meets and just wants to get it done and go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont get me wrong i understand some people like to talk an get to know a little about each other before meetings...

but Isit just me or is there people on here who just want to talk for weeks an not meet? I mean, cant we just tick some boxes an fuck ,lol "

I think there comes a time when talk becomes just talk.

There's probably a time frame where you figure that it's gonna happen now or never.

I do like to talk, but the ultimate aim is to get in her knickers. I find it hard (pun) if we're not face to face.

So, when you both figure each of you are not repulsed by each other's looks. You should try and arrange to meet personally I'd prefer a social quickly, otherwise it does become tedious trying to meet. It's not long before I'll loose interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like action but I like chatting too.

When I can't meet the chat keeps the spark alive for me until we can. see ive actually cancelled a meet because the guy kept chatting wanting to talk filthy to me. Date and and time was set so he just bugged me "

Yeah I understand that, I wouldn't want to be just wank fodder for someone.

My chat I suppose is more banter, I need to have a connection with the person beforehand.

If the chat wears off which it inevitably can on occasions then it's onto the next...

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Dont get me wrong i understand some people like to talk an get to know a little about each other before meetings...

but Isit just me or is there people on here who just want to talk for weeks an not meet? I mean, cant we just tick some boxes an fuck ,lol

I think there comes a time when talk becomes just talk.

There's probably a time frame where you figure that it's gonna happen now or never.

I do like to talk, but the ultimate aim is to get in her knickers. I find it hard (pun) if we're not face to face.

So, when you both figure each of you are not repulsed by each other's looks. You should try and arrange to meet personally I'd prefer a social quickly, otherwise it does become tedious trying to meet. It's not long before I'll loose interest.

"

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

no we can't just meet and fuck OP

you see I like to explore what turns a potential play partner on .so I can tailor my needs to match theirs because that way the sex will be great for all involved not just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont get me wrong i understand some people like to talk an get to know a little about each other before meetings...

but Isit just me or is there people on here who just want to talk for weeks an not meet? I mean, cant we just tick some boxes an fuck ,lol

are you on a timer or something?

not at all... but id rather be fucking than talking...you know the saying right .."less talk, more action"... thats me right there lol "

Surely it's better to be talking and having banter with the chance that it might end with a fuck, than not talking and having banter with no chance at all?

If you can't be bothered to do that, then move on to those that don't and spend less time getting frustrated at those that don't meet your expectations.

Having a little understanding and appreciation of others preferences and boundaries and adjusting your expectations might help?

Of course you could just send a load of "wanna fuck?" messages to people. I hear that works well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont get me wrong i understand some people like to talk an get to know a little about each other before meetings...

but Isit just me or is there people on here who just want to talk for weeks an not meet? I mean, cant we just tick some boxes an fuck ,lol "

I have a picture that says just that

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Dont get me wrong i understand some people like to talk an get to know a little about each other before meetings...

but Isit just me or is there people on here who just want to talk for weeks an not meet? I mean, cant we just tick some boxes an fuck ,lol "

It depends how the chat goes. I talk to people I MIGHT want to meet, but very few actually go on to engage me enough for me to decide to meet them, thats the problem. I hope they will - but mostly they don't.

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"It depends how the chat goes. I talk to people I MIGHT want to meet, but very few actually go on to engage me enough for me to decide to meet them, thats the problem. I hope they will - but mostly they don't. "

This..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends how the chat goes. I talk to people I MIGHT want to meet, but very few actually go on to engage me enough for me to decide to meet them, thats the problem. I hope they will - but mostly they don't.

This.. "

Ditto

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think having less conversation is the way forward for me at the moment!

I'm living like a nun because my inbox appears to be the mother ship for muppets!

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We have a system in place where we post a meet up a week before....we screen who is who and then talk to those found most attractive to get a feel for who they are.

Then 24 hours before we give one first refusal rights.

It might seem a bit harsh but it works

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY


"Dont get me wrong i understand some people like to talk an get to know a little about each other before meetings...

but Isit just me or is there people on here who just want to talk for weeks an not meet? I mean, cant we just tick some boxes an fuck ,lol

are you on a timer or something? "

He's very short of time when the wife is out

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