FabSwingers.com forum: Any ladies ever been the single female in a ffm?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi Fabsters,

I was just wondering if any of you had experienced a ffm threesome as the single female and what your take on it was?

Myself and a friend are looking for a single female to join us and I'm finding the title unicorn is to be an understatement! This is despite many of the single ladies on here being bi or bi curious.

I'd love to hear your experiences X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. It was ok but I knew one couple very well and the woman in the other couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Fabsters,

I was just wondering if any of you had experienced a ffm threesome as the single female and what your take on it was?

Myself and a friend are looking for a single female to join us and I'm finding the title unicorn is to be an understatement! This is despite many of the single ladies on here being bi or bi curious.

I'd love to hear your experiences X "

Tried it, hated it , when it wasn't all about the other girl i felt like she was looking at me as if to say why are you fucking my boyfriend

Haven't met a couple since but would consider playing mff all singles or ff with another girl

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Oswestry

I've had a few 3sums as the single female... loved it being fucked by him with her sat on my face

Got an FB now so we will also be looking for the illusive unicorn at some point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have, with someone who looks remarkably like you, and from your area.... haha

Mine was fine as I had known the couple for a few months and had played with hubby a few times before. Plus, and this is the big thing for me, we were all there for each other's pleasure, not just me joining them for their fantasy. I was very well taken care of

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Yep. Met the couple as part of an MFMF meet with the regular squeeze and we got on so I met them on my own a few months afterwards. Boundaries and dynamic already established.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never been the fem but we have had a few fems play with us -and we talked a lot with them about how they feel in that situation - we always make it more about them than us - even better if we have a shared fantasy - we had one lady we played with a lot of times and it just got better as we got to know each other more - but always different and a lot of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Fabsters,

I was just wondering if any of you had experienced a ffm threesome as the single female and what your take on it was?

Myself and a friend are looking for a single female to join us and I'm finding the title unicorn is to be an understatement! This is despite many of the single ladies on here being bi or bi curious.

I'd love to hear your experiences X "
yes.. its put me off being so again

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

"Hi Fabsters,

I was just wondering if any of you had experienced a ffm threesome as the single female and what your take on it was?

Myself and a friend are looking for a single female to join us and I'm finding the title unicorn is to be an understatement! This is despite many of the single ladies on here being bi or bi curious.

I'd love to hear your experiences X

Tried it, hated it , when it wasn't all about the other girl i felt like she was looking at me as if to say why are you fucking my boyfriend

Haven't met a couple since but would consider playing mff all singles or ff with another girl "

This....apparently I'm Intimidating looking and made him too hard... What the actual fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

Yes, a couple of times in a club I was invited to join a couple of friends. It was most enjoyable

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

Not yet. But I would love to do that with right couple.

MrsSB

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

"Hi Fabsters,

I was just wondering if any of you had experienced a ffm threesome as the single female and what your take on it was?

Myself and a friend are looking for a single female to join us and I'm finding the title unicorn is to be an understatement! This is despite many of the single ladies on here being bi or bi curious.

I'd love to hear your experiences X

Tried it, hated it , when it wasn't all about the other girl i felt like she was looking at me as if to say why are you fucking my boyfriend

Haven't met a couple since but would consider playing mff all singles or ff with another girl

This....apparently I'm Intimidating looking and made him too hard... What the actual fuck "

Fwiw.... I'm actually lush, can't help it if he got too hard lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes - and it was great - on every occasion

I've been lucky with my meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not yet. But I would love to do that with right couple.

MrsSB

Fancy a fuck

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Myself and a friend are looking for a single female to join us and I'm finding the title unicorn is to be an understatement! This is despite many of the single ladies on here being bi or bi curious.

This may be because, judging by your profile, they may doubt the existence of your other half.

To all couples struggling to meet a bi-fem I always suggest trying couples too. Many are happy to limit the permutations or switch things round a bit. With couples we've done ff, mff, mfm, swapping and all together. Often all during the same meet.

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Fabsters,

I was just wondering if any of you had experienced a ffm threesome as the single female and what your take on it was?

Myself and a friend are looking for a single female to join us and I'm finding the title unicorn is to be an understatement! This is despite many of the single ladies on here being bi or bi curious.

I'd love to hear your experiences X

Tried it, hated it , when it wasn't all about the other girl i felt like she was looking at me as if to say why are you fucking my boyfriend

Haven't met a couple since but would consider playing mff all singles or ff with another girl

This....apparently I'm Intimidating looking and made him too hard... What the actual fuck "

it will never work if the fem isnt happy with her fella being with another woman - if both girls are fully bi as in our cases its just wonderful - any insecurities or doing things just for show mean failure in our eyes

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Hi Fabsters,

I was just wondering if any of you had experienced a ffm threesome as the single female and what your take on it was?

Myself and a friend are looking for a single female to join us and I'm finding the title unicorn is to be an understatement! This is despite many of the single ladies on here being bi or bi curious.

I'd love to hear your experiences X

Tried it, hated it , when it wasn't all about the other girl i felt like she was looking at me as if to say why are you fucking my boyfriend

Haven't met a couple since but would consider playing mff all singles or ff with another girl

This....apparently I'm Intimidating looking and made him too hard... What the actual fuck "

You made him too hard? Is there such a thing as 'too' hard? Lol

Some people really can't handle that sexy single being in their playtime like they think they can lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep - I've been the f in ffm's several times - generally at clubs and parties as its easier to see if you all click! Only had one bad experience where I felt like a sex toy - the other times it was great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been the F in an F-FM it was fun it was my first " swinging experience, I thoroughly enjoyed it, I didn't find it intimidating but I'm not easily intimidated so I can see how some might find it that way though.

I guess as a couple you need to make sure your dynamic comes across as friendly and equal rather than the guy pushing or the woman pushing as I guess the main fear is a jealous rage for a single female in a couples house or hotel room etc.

Also having a couples profile might help your search on here as alot of women will not trust a guy on a single profile looking for him and his "friend" as very often the "friend" gets sick at the last minute or doesn't show..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had good and bad experiences. I tend to prefer equal numbers nowadays

unless I know the couple fairly well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Myself and a friend are looking for a single female to join us and I'm finding the title unicorn is to be an understatement! This is despite many of the single ladies on here being bi or bi curious.

This may be because, judging by your profile, they may doubt the existence of your other half.

Mr ddc"

I am indeed real

and finding it hard to find a female to be involved in Mff when we are all single unfortunately ..

I've found a lot of couple interest which is great for involving myself into that (very flattering)

however when shoe is on other foot I find it difficult to have another female want the same.

What's a girl got to do to enjoy a pussy around here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have, with someone who looks remarkably like you, and from your area.... haha

Well sadly it wasn't me but glad to hear I'm your type

I agree it's got to be a mutual thing, there must be nothing worse than feeling like you are there for someone else's fantasy X

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"Not yet. But I would love to do that with right couple.

MrsSB

Fancy a fuck

? "

Hell yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Fabsters,

I was just wondering if any of you had experienced a ffm threesome as the single female and what your take on it was?

Myself and a friend are looking for a single female to join us and I'm finding the title unicorn is to be an understatement! This is despite many of the single ladies on here being bi or bi curious.

I'd love to hear your experiences X

Tried it, hated it , when it wasn't all about the other girl i felt like she was looking at me as if to say why are you fucking my boyfriend

Haven't met a couple since but would consider playing mff all singles or ff with another girl

This....apparently I'm Intimidating looking and made him too hard... What the actual fuck

You made him too hard? Is there such a thing as 'too' hard? Lol

Some people really can't handle that sexy single being in their playtime like they think they can lol"

Tbh I think it's a matter of getting the balance and chemistry right! I always spend lots of time chatting first to make sure they're 'solid' as a couple - and that I really like them and they both really like me!

During sex I try to make sure the female never feels like a spare part even if she just wants to sit back and watch for a while - and I make sure she knows I think she's hot too as well as her husband - otherwise I wouldn't be playing with them! If I'm prepared I take a selection of great toys too - so there's never the problem of 'one cock two fanny's'!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi Fabsters,

I was just wondering if any of you had experienced a ffm threesome as the single female and what your take on it was?

Myself and a friend are looking for a single female to join us and I'm finding the title unicorn is to be an understatement! This is despite many of the single ladies on here being bi or bi curious.

I'd love to hear your experiences X

Tried it, hated it , when it wasn't all about the other girl i felt like she was looking at me as if to say why are you fucking my boyfriend

Haven't met a couple since but would consider playing mff all singles or ff with another girl "

Yeah I guess jealousy must be an issue. Luckily the girl in question is so kinky she gets off on that sort of thing so no issues there X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not yet. But I would love to do that with right couple.

MrsSB

Fancy a fuck

Hell yes

Come to Newcastle, we have great bridges

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi Fabsters,

I was just wondering if any of you had experienced a ffm threesome as the single female and what your take on it was?

Myself and a friend are looking for a single female to join us and I'm finding the title unicorn is to be an understatement! This is despite many of the single ladies on here being bi or bi curious.

I'd love to hear your experiences X

Tried it, hated it , when it wasn't all about the other girl i felt like she was looking at me as if to say why are you fucking my boyfriend

Haven't met a couple since but would consider playing mff all singles or ff with another girl

This....apparently I'm Intimidating looking and made him too hard... What the actual fuck

You made him too hard? Is there such a thing as 'too' hard? Lol

Some people really can't handle that sexy single being in their playtime like they think they can lol

Wow you sound like the queen of all the unicorns! That's really considerate of you.

I think you might be chatting to the girl in question. She's mentioned you more than once

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Myself and a friend are looking for a single female to join us and I'm finding the title unicorn is to be an understatement! This is despite many of the single ladies on here being bi or bi curious.

This may be because, judging by your profile, they may doubt the existence of your other half.

Mr ddc

I am indeed real

and finding it hard to find a female to be involved in Mff when we are all single unfortunately ..

I've found a lot of couple interest which is great for involving myself into that (very flattering)

however when shoe is on other foot I find it difficult to have another female want the same.

What's a girl got to do to enjoy a pussy around here

But again, unless the other woman can see the man on your profile, I can see why she might be hesitant. She may worry that she wouldn't find him attractive, or worry that something may happen and only he turn up.

If you are only looking for pussy, why do you need to involve a third person?

(or have I misunderstood?)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not yet. But I would love to do that with right couple.

MrsSB

Fancy a fuck

Hell yes

Come to Newcastle, we have great bridges

And gorgeous women Jo X

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Yes but it's not for me. I'm not really bi and they knew that but they both still wanted to meet. We got on well socially and agreed to meet at their place.

I think more time getting to know them would have helped as I was distracted trying to read their dynamic and not do anything to make her feel I was trying to get hold of her man.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Myself and a friend are looking for a single female to join us and I'm finding the title unicorn is to be an understatement! This is despite many of the single ladies on here being bi or bi curious.

This may be because, judging by your profile, they may doubt the existence of your other half.

Mr ddc

I am indeed real

and finding it hard to find a female to be involved in Mff when we are all single unfortunately ..

I've found a lot of couple interest which is great for involving myself into that (very flattering)

however when shoe is on other foot I find it difficult to have another female want the same.

What's a girl got to do to enjoy a pussy around here

If you are only looking for pussy, why do you need to involve a third person?

(or have I misunderstood?)"

To be fair, most of my MFF experiences have been with two other singles. But they were where one person of the three had met the other two separately previously and chosen the combination carefully knowing them both and their preferences. I've arranged a couple myself that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Fabsters,

I was just wondering if any of you had experienced a ffm threesome as the single female and what your take on it was?

Myself and a friend are looking for a single female to join us and I'm finding the title unicorn is to be an understatement! This is despite many of the single ladies on here being bi or bi curious.

I'd love to hear your experiences X

Tried it, hated it , when it wasn't all about the other girl i felt like she was looking at me as if to say why are you fucking my boyfriend

Haven't met a couple since but would consider playing mff all singles or ff with another girl

This....apparently I'm Intimidating looking and made him too hard... What the actual fuck

You made him too hard? Is there such a thing as 'too' hard? Lol

Some people really can't handle that sexy single being in their playtime like they think they can lol

Wow you sound like the queen of all the unicorns! That's really considerate of you.

I think you might be chatting to the girl in question. She's mentioned you more than once

X "

I am - yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Myself and a friend are looking for a single female to join us and I'm finding the title unicorn is to be an understatement! This is despite many of the single ladies on here being bi or bi curious.

This may be because, judging by your profile, they may doubt the existence of your other half.

Mr ddc

I am indeed real

and finding it hard to find a female to be involved in Mff when we are all single unfortunately ..

I've found a lot of couple interest which is great for involving myself into that (very flattering)

however when shoe is on other foot I find it difficult to have another female want the same.

What's a girl got to do to enjoy a pussy around here

If you are only looking for pussy, why do you need to involve a third person?

(or have I misunderstood?)"

No I understand that and think creating a couples profile would be better in the long run.

I mean im happy in the gent department so would like a female, even if it FF at first. (Sorry if that came across poorly before)

Thank you for your advice X

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"(or have I misunderstood?) "

Right, I've checked your profiles and understand now. Have you both considered going to a club as couple?

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"No I understand that and think creating a couples profile would be better in the long run.

I nearly suggested that, but didn't want to appear presumptuous. I didn't realise initially that you were the female he was talking about.

(but I got there in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"(or have I misunderstood?)

Right, I've checked your profiles and understand now. Have you both considered going to a club as couple?

We went the other week together, it was fun .

We only played together but did see some beautiful ladies

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Myself and a friend are looking for a single female to join us and I'm finding the title unicorn is to be an understatement! This is despite many of the single ladies on here being bi or bi curious.

This may be because, judging by your profile, they may doubt the existence of your other half.

Mr ddc

I am indeed real

and finding it hard to find a female to be involved in Mff when we are all single unfortunately ..

I've found a lot of couple interest which is great for involving myself into that (very flattering)

however when shoe is on other foot I find it difficult to have another female want the same.

What's a girl got to do to enjoy a pussy around here

Thanks for confirming your realness Jo!

Point taken though it's probably more tricky with two single profiles. I'm not sure I could handle the admin on a couples profile as well but I suppose a pic of us together wouldn't hurt.

Jo get over to mine and let's get naked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I understand that and think creating a couples profile would be better in the long run.

I nearly suggested that, but didn't want to appear presumptuous. I didn't realise initially that you were the female he was talking about.

(but I got there in the end

It's like an adult version of treasure hunt

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've had a few 3sums as the single female... loved it being fucked by him with her sat on my face

Got an FB now so we will also be looking for the illusive unicorn at some point

Haha maybe we could trade unicorns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Myself and a friend are looking for a single female to join us and I'm finding the title unicorn is to be an understatement! This is despite many of the single ladies on here being bi or bi curious.

This may be because, judging by your profile, they may doubt the existence of your other half.

Mr ddc

I am indeed real

and finding it hard to find a female to be involved in Mff when we are all single unfortunately ..

I've found a lot of couple interest which is great for involving myself into that (very flattering)

however when shoe is on other foot I find it difficult to have another female want the same.

What's a girl got to do to enjoy a pussy around here

Thanks for confirming your realness Jo!

Point taken though it's probably more tricky with two single profiles. I'm not sure I could handle the admin on a couples profile as well but I suppose a pic of us together wouldn't hurt.

Jo get over to mine and let's get naked

Have a cuppa and cake ready and I'll think about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"never been the fem but we have had a few fems play with us -and we talked a lot with them about how they feel in that situation - we always make it more about them than us - even better if we have a shared fantasy - we had one lady we played with a lot of times and it just got better as we got to know each other more - but always different and a lot of fun "

Wow sounds like you had a good experience then. I agree regular fun leads to so much better sex than one offs. I guess we'll have to leave her wanting to come back for more X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Myself and a friend are looking for a single female to join us and I'm finding the title unicorn is to be an understatement! This is despite many of the single ladies on here being bi or bi curious.

This may be because, judging by your profile, they may doubt the existence of your other half.

Mr ddc

I am indeed real

and finding it hard to find a female to be involved in Mff when we are all single unfortunately ..

I've found a lot of couple interest which is great for involving myself into that (very flattering)

however when shoe is on other foot I find it difficult to have another female want the same.

What's a girl got to do to enjoy a pussy around here

Thanks for confirming your realness Jo!

Point taken though it's probably more tricky with two single profiles. I'm not sure I could handle the admin on a couples profile as well but I suppose a pic of us together wouldn't hurt.

Jo get over to mine and let's get naked

Have a cuppa and cake ready and I'll think about it

Deal X

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By *antescarletCouple
over a year ago

newbury

The only way a ffm or any threesome experience is going to bee good is if everyone has the same ideea, pleasuring the other to the fullest and viceversa.when you are selfish all the way it will never be great.our point of view anyway

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Yes many times, some great and some off putting. As advice OP, make sure you understand what you want and that the fem is told your boundaries. Find out what she wants from a 3sum and that it matches what you're offering - it's not enjoyable when the couple want something different to the fem

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