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"Just asking ...... Many many moons ago I became quite emotionally attached to a mature lady providing "professional services" to discerning gentlemen in the Manchester area. It crossed my mind several times as to whether or not I could marry such a woman. In the end, I moved away from the area and lost touch with said female. But I've often wonde_ed if others have ever conside_ed marrying (or have married) a whore. .........Dons flak jacket and tin hat in readiness for responses !! "I would, would love my girl to be one. | |||
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"Why do you call a woman in the industry a whore It's just a job at the end of the day Some agree with it and some don't Whore is a very strong word so be careful what people will say in this thread Some of my best friends are in that line of work and very very nice people"  | |||
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"Just asking ...... Many many moons ago I became quite emotionally attached to a mature lady providing "professional services" to discerning gentlemen in the Manchester area. It crossed my mind several times as to whether or not I could marry such a woman. In the end, I moved away from the area and lost touch with said female. But I've often wonde_ed if others have ever conside_ed marrying (or have married) a whore. .........Dons flak jacket and tin hat in readiness for responses !!
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"...But I've often wonde_ed if others have ever conside_ed marrying (or have married) a whore..." Mate put down your bible and come back to the 21st century.  | |||
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"...Dons flak jacket and tin hat in readiness for responses..." Good, because the title alone does sound like you live in a parallel universe. Here's what I think about the question in the title: "In psychoanalytic literature, a Madonna–whore complex is the inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed, loving relationship. First identified by Sigmund Freud, under the rubric of psychic impotence, this psychological complex is said to develop in men who see women as either saintly Madonnas or debased prostitutes. Men with this complex desire a sexual partner who has been degraded (the whore) while they cannot desire the respected partner (the Madonna)." - and, "In sexual politics the _iew of women as either Madonnas or whores limits women's sexual expression, offering two mutually exclusive ways to construct a sexual identity." You are welcome! | |||
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"...But I've often wonde_ed if others have ever conside_ed marrying (or have married) a whore... Mate put down your bible and come back to the 21st century. "You'll find more bigotry in the sun these days | |||
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"Just asking ...... Many many moons ago I became quite emotionally attached to a mature lady providing "professional services" to discerning gentlemen in the Manchester area. It crossed my mind several times as to whether or not I could marry such a woman. In the end, I moved away from the area and lost touch with said female. But I've often wonde_ed if others have ever conside_ed marrying (or have married) a whore. .........Dons flak jacket and tin hat in readiness for responses !!
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You'll find more bigotry in the sun these days "You're so right! The Daily Mail too. In fact, most tabloids lol. Incidentally, my comment was alluding to the Whore of Babylon in the Book of Revelations. I don't know of any modern usage of the word, in everyday 21st century parlance, that isn't just as derogatory as it was back then. Great profile btw. | |||
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"...Dons flak jacket and tin hat in readiness for responses...Good, because the title alone does sound like you live in a parallel universe. Here's what I think about the question in the title: "In psychoanalytic literature, a Madonna–whore complex is the inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed, loving relationship. First identified by Sigmund Freud, under the rubric of psychic impotence, this psychological complex is said to develop in men who see women as either saintly Madonnas or debased prostitutes. Men with this complex desire a sexual partner who has been degraded (the whore) while they cannot desire the respected partner (the Madonna)." - and, "In sexual politics the _iew of women as either Madonnas or whores limits women's sexual expression, offering two mutually exclusive ways to construct a sexual identity." You are welcome!" I was seeing someone like that,for sex. Although we went out for meals and he cooked for me he couldn't date me,because he would lose all desire for me,he said. The women he dated he said the sex was boring and he lost interest in them. | |||
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"I'd be more than happy to have a relationship with a sex worker - male or female. (I wouldn't marry, but that's because I don't agree with marriage). What isn't cool though is using derogatory names to refer to women. It shows how little respect you have for people." I often feel a bit fed up about the way women are refer_ed to in general but on fab in particular its more common to see milf, hottie, cougar, slut etc than just plain woman...or that's how it seems to me and it feels like the thin end of the wedge. | |||
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" But I've often wonde_ed if others have ever conside_ed marrying (or have married) a whore. .........Dons flak jacket and tin hat in readiness for responses !! "OP -The fact you wrote that last sentence tells me that you wanted to cause a stir. If I loved someone and wanted to get married then yes I would. Don't like the way you've used whore in that context though. Shows a lack of respect and understanding. Sarah | |||
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"...Dons flak jacket and tin hat in readiness for responses...Good, because the title alone does sound like you live in a parallel universe. Here's what I think about the question in the title: "In psychoanalytic literature, a Madonna–whore complex is the inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed, loving relationship. First identified by Sigmund Freud, under the rubric of psychic impotence, this psychological complex is said to develop in men who see women as either saintly Madonnas or debased prostitutes. Men with this complex desire a sexual partner who has been degraded (the whore) while they cannot desire the respected partner (the Madonna)." - and, "In sexual politics the _iew of women as either Madonnas or whores limits women's sexual expression, offering two mutually exclusive ways to construct a sexual identity." You are welcome!" I do love Freud, but you must remember that he was high as a mutherfucker when he wrote his stuff so it's a bit hit and miss. To me, the Madonna-Whore complex is nonsense. The reason I probably wouldn't marry a sex worker is nothing to do with feeling shame for the job, it's more that I wouldn't personally like to marry anyone who made their career based on their physical attributes. This would include athletes or fashion models for example. The main reason for this is that most tend to struggle to maintain a meaningful career after their mid-30's. I'd much rather someone who did a job that relies on knowledge, because that gets increasingly better as you get more experience. They are not necessarily mutually exclusive, but it's also worth remembering that many former pornstars stars face terrible discrimination if they try to get back into a mainstream career. That's just my preference though, it's a matter of probability rather than an absolute. | |||
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"...But I've often wonde_ed if others have ever conside_ed marrying (or have married) a whore... Mate put down your bible and come back to the 21st century.
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You're so right! The Daily Mail too. In fact, most tabloids lol.
Incidentally, my comment was alluding to the Whore of Babylon in the Book of Revelations. I don't know of any modern usage of the word, in everyday 21st century parlance, that isn't just as derogatory as it was back then.
Great profile btw. "Thanks, I'm not sure how literally one should take revelations!! It reads like an acid trip frankly. | |||
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"...Dons flak jacket and tin hat in readiness for responses...Good, because the title alone does sound like you live in a parallel universe. Here's what I think about the question in the title: "In psychoanalytic literature, a Madonna–whore complex is the inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed, loving relationship. First identified by Sigmund Freud, under the rubric of psychic impotence, this psychological complex is said to develop in men who see women as either saintly Madonnas or debased prostitutes. Men with this complex desire a sexual partner who has been degraded (the whore) while they cannot desire the respected partner (the Madonna)." - and, "In sexual politics the _iew of women as either Madonnas or whores limits women's sexual expression, offering two mutually exclusive ways to construct a sexual identity." You are welcome! I do love Freud, but you must remember that he was high as a mutherfucker when he wrote his stuff so it's a bit hit and miss. To me, the Madonna-Whore complex is nonsense. The reason I probably wouldn't marry a sex worker is nothing to do with feeling shame for the job, it's more that I wouldn't personally like to marry anyone who made their career based on their physical attributes. This would include athletes or fashion models for example. The main reason for this is that most tend to struggle to maintain a meaningful career after their mid-30's. I'd much rather someone who did a job that relies on knowledge, because that gets increasingly better as you get more experience. They are not necessarily mutually exclusive, but it's also worth remembering that many former pornstars stars face terrible discrimination if they try to get back into a mainstream career. That's just my preference though, it's a matter of probability rather than an absolute. " Freud is highly subjective nonsense. | |||
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"...But I've often wonde_ed if others have ever conside_ed marrying (or have married) a whore... Mate put down your bible and come back to the 21st century.
You'll find more bigotry in the sun these days
You're so right! The Daily Mail too. In fact, most tabloids lol.
Incidentally, my comment was alluding to the Whore of Babylon in the Book of Revelations. I don't know of any modern usage of the word, in everyday 21st century parlance, that isn't just as derogatory as it was back then.
Great profile btw.
Thanks, I'm not sure how literally one should take revelations!! It reads like an acid trip frankly. " you mean it isn't fact!? Tell me it isn't so | |||
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"...Dons flak jacket and tin hat in readiness for responses...Good, because the title alone does sound like you live in a parallel universe. Here's what I think about the question in the title: "In psychoanalytic literature, a Madonna–whore complex is the inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed, loving relationship. First identified by Sigmund Freud, under the rubric of psychic impotence, this psychological complex is said to develop in men who see women as either saintly Madonnas or debased prostitutes. Men with this complex desire a sexual partner who has been degraded (the whore) while they cannot desire the respected partner (the Madonna)." - and, "In sexual politics the _iew of women as either Madonnas or whores limits women's sexual expression, offering two mutually exclusive ways to construct a sexual identity." You are welcome! I do love Freud, but you must remember that he was high as a mutherfucker when he wrote his stuff so it's a bit hit and miss. To me, the Madonna-Whore complex is nonsense. The reason I probably wouldn't marry a sex worker is nothing to do with feeling shame for the job, it's more that I wouldn't personally like to marry anyone who made their career based on their physical attributes. This would include athletes or fashion models for example. The main reason for this is that most tend to struggle to maintain a meaningful career after their mid-30's. I'd much rather someone who did a job that relies on knowledge, because that gets increasingly better as you get more experience. They are not necessarily mutually exclusive, but it's also worth remembering that many former pornstars stars face terrible discrimination if they try to get back into a mainstream career. That's just my preference though, it's a matter of probability rather than an absolute. Freud is highly subjective nonsense. " You're just saying that because you are sca_ed of having your penis cut off | |||
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"...Dons flak jacket and tin hat in readiness for responses...Good, because the title alone does sound like you live in a parallel universe. Here's what I think about the question in the title: "In psychoanalytic literature, a Madonna–whore complex is the inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed, loving relationship. First identified by Sigmund Freud, under the rubric of psychic impotence, this psychological complex is said to develop in men who see women as either saintly Madonnas or debased prostitutes. Men with this complex desire a sexual partner who has been degraded (the whore) while they cannot desire the respected partner (the Madonna)." - and, "In sexual politics the _iew of women as either Madonnas or whores limits women's sexual expression, offering two mutually exclusive ways to construct a sexual identity." You are welcome! I do love Freud, but you must remember that he was high as a mutherfucker when he wrote his stuff so it's a bit hit and miss. To me, the Madonna-Whore complex is nonsense. The reason I probably wouldn't marry a sex worker is nothing to do with feeling shame for the job, it's more that I wouldn't personally like to marry anyone who made their career based on their physical attributes. This would include athletes or fashion models for example. The main reason for this is that most tend to struggle to maintain a meaningful career after their mid-30's. I'd much rather someone who did a job that relies on knowledge, because that gets increasingly better as you get more experience. They are not necessarily mutually exclusive, but it's also worth remembering that many former pornstars stars face terrible discrimination if they try to get back into a mainstream career. That's just my preference though, it's a matter of probability rather than an absolute. Freud is highly subjective nonsense. You're just saying that because you are sca_ed of having your penis cut off" No I'm saying that because I secretly want a penis | |||
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just wow
Would I marry an escort, of course I would
It's inside that counts right ?
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"...Dons flak jacket and tin hat in readiness for responses...Good, because the title alone does sound like you live in a parallel universe. Here's what I think about the question in the title: "In psychoanalytic literature, a Madonna–whore complex is the inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed, loving relationship. First identified by Sigmund Freud, under the rubric of psychic impotence, this psychological complex is said to develop in men who see women as either saintly Madonnas or debased prostitutes. Men with this complex desire a sexual partner who has been degraded (the whore) while they cannot desire the respected partner (the Madonna)." - and, "In sexual politics the _iew of women as either Madonnas or whores limits women's sexual expression, offering two mutually exclusive ways to construct a sexual identity." You are welcome! I do love Freud, but you must remember that he was high as a mutherfucker when he wrote his stuff so it's a bit hit and miss. To me, the Madonna-Whore complex is nonsense. The reason I probably wouldn't marry a sex worker is nothing to do with feeling shame for the job, it's more that I wouldn't personally like to marry anyone who made their career based on their physical attributes. This would include athletes or fashion models for example. The main reason for this is that most tend to struggle to maintain a meaningful career after their mid-30's. I'd much rather someone who did a job that relies on knowledge, because that gets increasingly better as you get more experience. They are not necessarily mutually exclusive, but it's also worth remembering that many former pornstars stars face terrible discrimination if they try to get back into a mainstream career. That's just my preference though, it's a matter of probability rather than an absolute. Freud is highly subjective nonsense. " Oh Joe! Highly subjective perhaps, but nonsense? That's a little over the top! | |||
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"...Dons flak jacket and tin hat in readiness for responses...Good, because the title alone does sound like you live in a parallel universe. Here's what I think about the question in the title: "In psychoanalytic literature, a Madonna–whore complex is the inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed, loving relationship. First identified by Sigmund Freud, under the rubric of psychic impotence, this psychological complex is said to develop in men who see women as either saintly Madonnas or debased prostitutes. Men with this complex desire a sexual partner who has been degraded (the whore) while they cannot desire the respected partner (the Madonna)." - and, "In sexual politics the _iew of women as either Madonnas or whores limits women's sexual expression, offering two mutually exclusive ways to construct a sexual identity." You are welcome! I do love Freud, but you must remember that he was high as a mutherfucker when he wrote his stuff so it's a bit hit and miss. To me, the Madonna-Whore complex is nonsense. The reason I probably wouldn't marry a sex worker is nothing to do with feeling shame for the job, it's more that I wouldn't personally like to marry anyone who made their career based on their physical attributes. This would include athletes or fashion models for example. The main reason for this is that most tend to struggle to maintain a meaningful career after their mid-30's. I'd much rather someone who did a job that relies on knowledge, because that gets increasingly better as you get more experience. They are not necessarily mutually exclusive, but it's also worth remembering that many former pornstars stars face terrible discrimination if they try to get back into a mainstream career. That's just my preference though, it's a matter of probability rather than an absolute. " Assume they have another job that also pays well. You're saying you would? | |||
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"...Dons flak jacket and tin hat in readiness for responses...Good, because the title alone does sound like you live in a parallel universe. Here's what I think about the question in the title: "In psychoanalytic literature, a Madonna–whore complex is the inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed, loving relationship. First identified by Sigmund Freud, under the rubric of psychic impotence, this psychological complex is said to develop in men who see women as either saintly Madonnas or debased prostitutes. Men with this complex desire a sexual partner who has been degraded (the whore) while they cannot desire the respected partner (the Madonna)." - and, "In sexual politics the _iew of women as either Madonnas or whores limits women's sexual expression, offering two mutually exclusive ways to construct a sexual identity." You are welcome! I do love Freud, but you must remember that he was high as a mutherfucker when he wrote his stuff so it's a bit hit and miss. To me, the Madonna-Whore complex is nonsense. The reason I probably wouldn't marry a sex worker is nothing to do with feeling shame for the job, it's more that I wouldn't personally like to marry anyone who made their career based on their physical attributes. This would include athletes or fashion models for example. The main reason for this is that most tend to struggle to maintain a meaningful career after their mid-30's. I'd much rather someone who did a job that relies on knowledge, because that gets increasingly better as you get more experience. They are not necessarily mutually exclusive, but it's also worth remembering that many former pornstars stars face terrible discrimination if they try to get back into a mainstream career. That's just my preference though, it's a matter of probability rather than an absolute. Freud is highly subjective nonsense. Oh Joe! Highly subjective perhaps, but nonsense? That's a little over the top!" Your starter for 10... The Century of the Self - Part 1: "Happiness Machines" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DnPmg0R1M04 | |||
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"Whats more important, Love ? Money ? Sex ?" Love. | |||
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"Whats more important, Love ? Money ? Sex ? Love. " I personally don't think either are important, feelings can change just like the weather I'm a loving person but Fuk that shit lol  | |||
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"...Dons flak jacket and tin hat in readiness for responses...Good, because the title alone does sound like you live in a parallel universe. Here's what I think about the question in the title: "In psychoanalytic literature, a Madonna–whore complex is the inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed, loving relationship. First identified by Sigmund Freud, under the rubric of psychic impotence, this psychological complex is said to develop in men who see women as either saintly Madonnas or debased prostitutes. Men with this complex desire a sexual partner who has been degraded (the whore) while they cannot desire the respected partner (the Madonna)." - and, "In sexual politics the _iew of women as either Madonnas or whores limits women's sexual expression, offering two mutually exclusive ways to construct a sexual identity." You are welcome! I do love Freud, but you must remember that he was high as a mutherfucker when he wrote his stuff so it's a bit hit and miss. To me, the Madonna-Whore complex is nonsense. The reason I probably wouldn't marry a sex worker is nothing to do with feeling shame for the job, it's more that I wouldn't personally like to marry anyone who made their career based on their physical attributes. This would include athletes or fashion models for example. The main reason for this is that most tend to struggle to maintain a meaningful career after their mid-30's. I'd much rather someone who did a job that relies on knowledge, because that gets increasingly better as you get more experience. They are not necessarily mutually exclusive, but it's also worth remembering that many former pornstars stars face terrible discrimination if they try to get back into a mainstream career. That's just my preference though, it's a matter of probability rather than an absolute. Assume they have another job that also pays well. You're saying you would?" Well it's not really about what the pay is, it's about whether we're going to have similar paths and life experiences in our 30's and 40's. But to get to the point, would I have (in theory) married porn star asia carrera? Hell yeah, if she wanted a short, average-looking, middle-class white British guy. She (was) a member of mensa and a fan of Warren Buffet so I don't think we'd have ever struggled for conversation. | |||
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"Whats more important, Love ? Money ? Sex ?" Statistically speaking, you are very unlikely to be in love if you are not having sex. | |||
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"Whats more important, Love ? Money ? Sex ? Love. " Love don't pay my gas electric water & council tax bills and certainly not my mortgage  | |||
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"Just asking ...... Many many moons ago I became quite emotionally attached to a mature lady providing "professional services" to discerning gentlemen in the Manchester area. It crossed my mind several times as to whether or not I could marry such a woman. In the end, I moved away from the area and lost touch with said female. But I've often wonde_ed if others have ever conside_ed marrying (or have married) a whore. .........Dons flak jacket and tin hat in readiness for responses !! "Is your wife married to a Whoremaster? | |||
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"I've slept with people for money when I worked at the strip bar. Now, I meet men off fab and do it for free. Which one do you assume makes me a 'worse person'? I now have a very respectable profession and was recently described as 'the loveliest girl you could hope to meet'. I give 110% in relationships and the man wants for NOTHING and I'd never cheat. But I suppose there's always those hypocritical types that will tar a woman with a brush because she's had the same fun a man is 'ok' having. So backwards. " Exactly my point, you fall in love with a person, not what they do for a living. | |||
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"If I loved someone enough that I wanted to marry them, their profession is of no relevance to me. Unless they were a clown, that's a step too far for me." Politician? They're sometimes like clowns... I hear Trump prefers younger, blonder models... | |||
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"What someone does for a living just isn't important. Many people seem so hung up over this, these days. All about the person. " So you don't think there are correlations between types of personalities and the professions they go into? | |||
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"What someone does for a living just isn't important. Many people seem so hung up over this, these days. All about the person. So you don't think there are correlations between types of personalities and the professions they go into? " Whenever I say to people that I won't meet/date military (or ex military) guys I'm told that professions and personalities have no correlation. So we can't have it both ways... | |||
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"If I loved someone enough that I wanted to marry them, their profession is of no relevance to me. Unless they were a clown, that's a step too far for me. Politician? They're sometimes like clowns... I hear Trump prefers younger, blonder models... " | |||
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"What someone does for a living just isn't important. Many people seem so hung up over this, these days. All about the person. So you don't think there are correlations between types of personalities and the professions they go into? Whenever I say to people that I won't meet/date military (or ex military) guys I'm told that professions and personalities have no correlation. So we can't have it both ways..." I think its patently obvious there are strong correlations! | |||
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"Just asking ...... Many many moons ago I became quite emotionally attached to a mature lady providing "professional services" to discerning gentlemen in the Manchester area. It crossed my mind several times as to whether or not I could marry such a woman. In the end, I moved away from the area and lost touch with said female. But I've often wonde_ed if others have ever conside_ed marrying (or have married) a whore. .........Dons flak jacket and tin hat in readiness for responses !! "So OP, one assumes you left the relationship before leaving the area, would be a bit weird to be close to proposing but then a new house takes priority... But did you come close to a decision on your question? | |||
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"What someone does for a living just isn't important. Many people seem so hung up over this, these days. All about the person. So you don't think there are correlations between types of personalities and the professions they go into? " No, I don't. I speak for myself, but, what I choose to do for a living in no way defines me as a person. It just pays the bills! | |||
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"What someone does for a living just isn't important. Many people seem so hung up over this, these days. All about the person. So you don't think there are correlations between types of personalities and the professions they go into? No, I don't. I speak for myself, but, what I choose to do for a living in no way defines me as a person. It just pays the bills! " You're welcome to a different opinion. But I just think it's impossible that someone spends half their waking hours doing something during the week and doing so in no way influences how they think and see the world. | |||
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"What someone does for a living just isn't important. Many people seem so hung up over this, these days. All about the person. So you don't think there are correlations between types of personalities and the professions they go into? No, I don't. I speak for myself, but, what I choose to do for a living in no way defines me as a person. It just pays the bills! You're welcome to a different opinion. But I just think it's impossible that someone spends half their waking hours doing something during the week and doing so in no way influences how they think and see the world. " I agree with this - and in my experience it's almost always the case. Certainly personality types are drawn to certain types of occupation. Obviously there are exceptions. | |||
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"I probably wouldn't, no. I would only marry someone who had the same sort of career and future aspirations as me. Sounds boring to some I'm sure, but this also ruled out musicians, actors, flighty musicians - because it's not who I could see myself having any future with. I suppose I'd class sex workers within that more "performance" based group of occupations, and that's not for me. Whore, though? Really? "It always amuses me when people say they wish they could marry a famous athlete. The reality is that being a professional at a sport it monotonous in the extreme and most of them have a personality that is... well let's say tolerant of monotony. Of course there are exceptions like athletes who cross sports, but in the main it's helps to have a personality that is frankly a bit boring in my opinion. | |||
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"What someone does for a living just isn't important. Many people seem so hung up over this, these days. All about the person. So you don't think there are correlations between types of personalities and the professions they go into? No, I don't. I speak for myself, but, what I choose to do for a living in no way defines me as a person. It just pays the bills! You're welcome to a different opinion. But I just think it's impossible that someone spends half their waking hours doing something during the week and doing so in no way influences how they think and see the world. I agree with this - and in my experience it's almost always the case. Certainly personality types are drawn to certain types of occupation. Obviously there are exceptions. "I'd have to dispute that,having worked in a secondary school with hund_eds of teachers and knowing a lot of men who work in the building trade. I think people with all kinds of personalities can have the same occupation. | |||
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"What someone does for a living just isn't important. Many people seem so hung up over this, these days. All about the person. So you don't think there are correlations between types of personalities and the professions they go into? No, I don't. I speak for myself, but, what I choose to do for a living in no way defines me as a person. It just pays the bills! You're welcome to a different opinion. But I just think it's impossible that someone spends half their waking hours doing something during the week and doing so in no way influences how they think and see the world. I agree with this - and in my experience it's almost always the case. Certainly personality types are drawn to certain types of occupation. Obviously there are exceptions.
I'd have to dispute that,having worked in a secondary school with hund_eds of teachers and knowing a lot of men who work in the building trade. I think people with all kinds of personalities can have the same occupation.
"Maybe teaching is a broader church, although I know a lot of them and I'd say most have similar traits. I've worked with loads of lawyers, planners, accountants, engineers, vs marketing, PR, advertising, creatives - there is a definite split there. Of course people are different and have different personalities. But in my experience it's absolutely correct that people with the same basic traits and aspirations for their future tend to congregate together. | |||
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"Just asking ...... Many many moons ago I became quite emotionally attached to a mature lady providing "professional services" to discerning gentlemen in the Manchester area. It crossed my mind several times as to whether or not I could marry such a woman. In the end, I moved away from the area and lost touch with said female. But I've often wonde_ed if others have ever conside_ed marrying (or have married) a whore. .........Dons flak jacket and tin hat in readiness for responses !! "If you called her a whore I doubt you would have had to make that dissision in the first place | |||
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"Yes no problem.. Human being just like anyone else.. If your attracted your attracted.." Yes but she needs to be left handed at least | |||
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"Yes no problem.. Human being just like anyone else.. If your attracted your attracted.. Yes but she needs to be left handed at least " Wtf. | |||
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"Yes no problem.. Human being just like anyone else.. If your attracted your attracted.. Yes but she needs to be left handed at least Wtf." Each to their own !!! | |||
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"Shame you have to use that terminology OP but to answer your question, yes I would be more than happy to marry a sex worker. " Same thoughts here and same response. I went to a brothel in Germany many years ago. My mates and I got there early so we had to wait for it to open. About 30 minutes before opening time the ladies started to arrive, many being dropped of by partners that gave them a loving kiss before they started work. | |||
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"I've slept with people for money when I worked at the strip bar. Now, I meet men off fab and do it for free. Which one do you assume makes me a 'worse person'? I now have a very respectable profession and was recently described as 'the loveliest girl you could hope to meet'. I give 110% in relationships and the man wants for NOTHING and I'd never cheat. But I suppose there's always those hypocritical types that will tar a woman with a brush because she's had the same fun a man is 'ok' having. So backwards. Exactly my point, you fall in love with a person, not what they do for a living. "I lot do not though Speaking from personal experience a hell of a lot of men run a mile when they know your a sex worker, lots of guys don't even want to meet you off here where they know never mind have a relationship | |||
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"I've slept with people for money when I worked at the strip bar. Now, I meet men off fab and do it for free. Which one do you assume makes me a 'worse person'? I now have a very respectable profession and was recently described as 'the loveliest girl you could hope to meet'. I give 110% in relationships and the man wants for NOTHING and I'd never cheat. But I suppose there's always those hypocritical types that will tar a woman with a brush because she's had the same fun a man is 'ok' having. So backwards. Exactly my point, you fall in love with a person, not what they do for a living.
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Speaking from personal experience a hell of a lot of men run a mile when they know your a sex worker, lots of guys don't even want to meet you off here where they know never mind have a relationship "Bit shallow ain't they b@st@rds | |||
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"Yes no problem.. Human being just like anyone else.. If your attracted your attracted.. Yes but she needs to be left handed at least " 10/10 for consistency | |||
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"Yes no problem.. Human being just like anyone else.. If your attracted your attracted.. Yes but she needs to be left handed at least 10/10 for consistency "Hey this is all I have left consistency ! So let me live the dream and find my ultimate/unicorn leftie ! | |||
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Hey this is all I have left consistency !
So let me live the dream and find my ultimate/unicorn leftie ! "Can't help you there, righty all the way, but good luck in your quest | |||
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Hey this is all I have left consistency !
So let me live the dream and find my ultimate/unicorn leftie ! "I was left handed but the nuns beat it out of me. | |||
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Hey this is all I have left consistency !
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Can't help you there, righty all the way, but good luck in your quest "You could pretend ? | |||
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Hey this is all I have left consistency !
So let me live the dream and find my ultimate/unicorn leftie !
I was left handed but the nuns beat it out of me."Show me where she lives, I'll beat her left hand with my bollocks ! | |||
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"Yes no problem.. Human being just like anyone else.. If your attracted your attracted.. Yes but she needs to be left handed at least 10/10 for consistency
Hey this is all I have left consistency !
So let me live the dream and find my ultimate/unicorn leftie !
Can't help you there, righty all the way, but good luck in your quest
You could pretend ? "I mean I could try, but I'm not even the slightest bit ambidextrous. It would be a pale imitation of a real left hander. | |||
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Hey this is all I have left consistency !
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I was left handed but the nuns beat it out of me.
Show me where she lives, I'll beat her left hand with my bollocks ! "She's dead now...That's a whole other morbid fetish eh?  | |||
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Hey this is all I have left consistency !
So let me live the dream and find my ultimate/unicorn leftie !
Can't help you there, righty all the way, but good luck in your quest
You could pretend ?
I mean I could try, but I'm not even the slightest bit ambidextrous. It would be a pale imitation of a real left hander. "You know my life is so pathetic that I am ready to let you try ! Let's discuss the details in private Ruby. | |||
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"Yes no problem.. Human being just like anyone else.. If your attracted your attracted.. Yes but she needs to be left handed at least 10/10 for consistency
Hey this is all I have left consistency !
So let me live the dream and find my ultimate/unicorn leftie !
I was left handed but the nuns beat it out of me.
Show me where she lives, I'll beat her left hand with my bollocks !
She's dead now...That's a whole other morbid fetish eh?
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"I'd be more than happy to have a relationship with a sex worker - male or female. (I wouldn't marry, but that's because I don't agree with marriage). What isn't cool though is using derogatory names to refer to women. It shows how little respect you have for people. I totally agree with your statement but there is a fly in your ointment what about ferns who enjoy being called a certain name a points in the sexual play because it excites then . these names I'm sure when used out of context you would deem derogatory. sex is as much mental as it is physical brake down the mental barriers with a partner get them to admit to their dark desires what really turns them on . which can include labels then use that knowledge alone with word play to get them to enter high arousal state of being . I had a play partner who would come almost instantly when I used certain words and phrases along with physical stimulation with out both she would struggle to orgasm with both she would and could come with ease . sex is as much mental as it is physical words and phrases can be used along with physical play to get some one into a mental state where they can fully let go similar to how sub space works for submissive . " And to respond to your comment. It's completely different to refer to somebody as a whore in a play scenario. Rather than saying it because that's what you truly believe them to be. | |||
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"I'd be more than happy to have a relationship with a sex worker - male or female. (I wouldn't marry, but that's because I don't agree with marriage). What isn't cool though is using derogatory names to refer to women. It shows how little respect you have for people. I totally agree with your statement but there is a fly in your ointment what about ferns who enjoy being called a certain name a points in the sexual play because it excites then . these names I'm sure when used out of context you would deem derogatory. sex is as much mental as it is physical brake down the mental barriers with a partner get them to admit to their dark desires what really turns them on . which can include labels then use that knowledge alone with word play to get them to enter high arousal state of being . I had a play partner who would come almost instantly when I used certain words and phrases along with physical stimulation with out both she would struggle to orgasm with both she would and could come with ease . sex is as much mental as it is physical words and phrases can be used along with physical play to get some one into a mental state where they can fully let go similar to how sub space works for submissive . " He's not talking about those women. He's talking about women who take payment for sex. It's a whole different world. | |||
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"no But could you wank with your left hand ? " What is it with you and left-handed wanking? | |||
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"no But could you wank with your left hand ? What is it with you and left-handed wanking?" I have a fetish bad nanna nanna nanna | |||
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"no But could you wank with your left hand ? What is it with you and left-handed wanking?" Nice avatar btw | |||
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"no But could you wank with your left hand ? What is it with you and left-handed wanking? Nice avatar btw " Thank you,although it's becoming rather common. | |||
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"I wouldn't touch any many who called women derogatory names with a barge pole. What's the difference in swinging as a man and having sex with many women and a woman doing it? Paid or not. " THIS!!! | |||
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"A person who works in the sex industry is also a fellow human being. He/she isn't less human than you are. In fact I think that they are by far a better human than you will ever be. I am not sorry to say what I have and you clearly have no respect for her from deep down if you've branded her in the sense you have done. I wouldn't hesitate to marry her if she was a nice person regardless of her history or profession. Don't care if no one agrees with me. Don't matter what industry a person works in. Doesn't change or effect anything for me. They are not committing treason or a Capital crime." | |||
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"Strange how women have these titles of,whore,slut,slapper etc so what is a man if he sleeps around,a hero the only man i wouldnt marry is a pompos upstart."I could only be happy if I married a "Hot wife". So if she occasionally got rewarded how could I complain? | |||
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"I think men like sluts but when it comes to the crunch most of them want Miss Wholesome as a partner Bonus for me as I like being a slutty singleton so happy to oblige "I think a lot of people don't actually have the confidence to live the life they actually want. They are more concerned with what their friends and family think, than whether they are actually happy. Let's face it, the divorce rate in this country tells you everything you need to know about how good most people are at choosing a life partner. | |||
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"All us woman here who like sex with strangers are just like her we just don't ask for money .. its free . " | |||
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"All us woman here who like sex with strangers are just like her we just don't ask for money .. its free . "She might have offe_ed 'mates rates' of course ... ( I'm expecting a slap or two...) | |||
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"Why do you call a woman in the industry a whore It's just a job at the end of the day Some agree with it and some don't Whore is a very strong word so be careful what people will say in this thread Some of my best friends are in that line of work and very very nice people" Well put | |||
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"I understand what your basic question is op and I'm willing to bet that not many men from fab would marry a sex worker. Lots of the single men say they wouldn't swing, (often they refer to it as sharing another term I dislike) with their girlfriend or wife if they had one and I strongly suspect that lots of men who are on here as singles but have a partner wouldn't want them joining them either so I doubt they'd consider a sex worker as a long term partner. I reckon too that more people than we would like to admit use the word whore in connection with women. Anyway for myself I'm not sure if I would marry a male sex worker or not because I don't think I would ever marry again if I was in a position to do so." I was shaking my head thinking "what a bunch of hypocrites" until I read your post. There are people on this thread who have stated they wouldn't date a swinger, don't want to work their way through the whole site who now, jumping on the bandwagon to slag the op off, will now say "I do" with a whore...yeah...right!!! I would not marry a sex worker, fishmonger, undertaker, actor, poor man etc for a variety of reasons and feel no "shame" in saying so! | |||
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"It beats me that so many swingers can be judgemental in their _iews about sex workers while bed hoping with complete strangers as though they are somewhat better with their morals lol. Next time you pay to enter a swinging party held at a home remember the people charging are living off immoral earnings & can technicaly be done for prostitution. We are here to have fun on a "swinging" site not pull people professions to bits." "Professional" is a whole other thread! | |||
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"It beats me that so many swingers can be judgemental in their _iews about sex workers while bed hoping with complete strangers as though they are somewhat better with their morals lol. Next time you pay to enter a swinging party held at a home remember the people charging are living off immoral earnings & can technicaly be done for prostitution. We are here to have fun on a "swinging" site not pull people professions to bits. "Professional" is a whole other thread! " don't start that one up | |||
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"I understand what your basic question is op and I'm willing to bet that not many men from fab would marry a sex worker. Lots of the single men say they wouldn't swing, (often they refer to it as sharing another term I dislike) with their girlfriend or wife if they had one and I strongly suspect that lots of men who are on here as singles but have a partner wouldn't want them joining them either so I doubt they'd consider a sex worker as a long term partner. I reckon too that more people than we would like to admit use the word whore in connection with women. Anyway for myself I'm not sure if I would marry a male sex worker or not because I don't think I would ever marry again if I was in a position to do so. I was shaking my head thinking "what a bunch of hypocrites" until I read your post. There are people on this thread who have stated they wouldn't date a swinger, don't want to work their way through the whole site who now, jumping on the bandwagon to slag the op off, will now say "I do" with a whore...yeah...right!!! I would not marry a sex worker, fishmonger, undertaker, actor, poor man etc for a variety of reasons and feel no "shame" in saying so!" I dated a fishmonger. No amount of washing could rid of the smell. | |||
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"I think men like sluts but when it comes to the crunch most of them want Miss Wholesome as a partner Bonus for me as I like being a slutty singleton so happy to oblige
I think a lot of people don't actually have the confidence to live the life they actually want. They are more concerned with what their friends and family think, than whether they are actually happy. Let's face it, the divorce rate in this country tells you everything you need to know about how good most people are at choosing a life partner. "Totally agree I think if everyone lived the life they wanted and were honest there'd be a lot less divorce and way more swingers My friends all know I swing As far as I'm concerned it's nothing ti be ashamed about its my lifestyle choice | |||
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"I wouldn't touch any many who called women derogatory names with a barge pole. What's the difference in swinging as a man and having sex with many women and a woman doing it? Paid or not. " There are men on here who do think some women on here are just whores and slappers though, they dont always say it to your face but you can tell by the things they say, though it doesnt stop them from having sex with them of course. | |||
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"According to Jimmy Soul, if you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife. He mentions nothing about Whores...." That's good looking woe's bugge_ed then lol xx | |||
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"I understand what your basic question is op and I'm willing to bet that not many men from fab would marry a sex worker. Lots of the single men say they wouldn't swing, (often they refer to it as sharing another term I dislike) with their girlfriend or wife if they had one and I strongly suspect that lots of men who are on here as singles but have a partner wouldn't want them joining them either so I doubt they'd consider a sex worker as a long term partner. I reckon too that more people than we would like to admit use the word whore in connection with women. Anyway for myself I'm not sure if I would marry a male sex worker or not because I don't think I would ever marry again if I was in a position to do so. I was shaking my head thinking "what a bunch of hypocrites" until I read your post. There are people on this thread who have stated they wouldn't date a swinger, don't want to work their way through the whole site who now, jumping on the bandwagon to slag the op off, will now say "I do" with a whore...yeah...right!!! I would not marry a sex worker, fishmonger, undertaker, actor, poor man etc for a variety of reasons and feel no "shame" in saying so!" | |||
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"Why do you call a woman in the industry a whore It's just a job at the end of the day Some agree with it and some don't Whore is a very strong word so be careful what people will say in this thread Some of my best friends are in that line of work and very very nice people" I would agree strongly. Love a women with a open mind. We have just came out of one of the biggest recessions for a long time and many people are struggling to put food on the table. I find labelling a escort or sex-worker as a whore to be ignorant. The economic conditions at the moment are really dire and if I had to provide explicit services to feed my children (if I had any) I wouldn't think twice. I think escorts/sex workers are some of the most mentally strong people you can meet. Also as a disabled person I have a lot of respect for escorts/sex workers because they have helped many of my disabled friends explore their sexuality in a safe-sex clean protected way. So that is what I think. | |||
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"95% of our friends are in the adult industry/escorts & swingers & we are proud to call them friends, as swinging is one of the biggest cash earners in the sex industry today we all pay one way or another for sex through internet/club fee's/site memberships/parties etc so how is it any different to other ways of paying for sex Nothing in life is ever completely free, when sex is involved someone somewhere will be on an earner be it escorting or swinging so who is morally right to earn the money & what makes them any better." I actually see no difference between an escort and the women in here who refuse to pay anything towards their meets Women who want picking up, taking to clubs or hotels provided for them, drinks and meals provided and taking home again and expect their meet to pay the lot Ok so the guy isn't giving them cash in hand but what he's not putting in their hand he's using to pay their way so the women are still getting his money in one way or another | |||
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"I couldn't care less if someone man or woman was a escort. The industry needs fully legalising and regulating in my opinion. Yes, it's biazzare that government debt has never been higher, tax revenues aren't great and yet they won't legalise the oldest profession, take the tax revenue and the savings to the NHS you'd get from less STDs in a regulated, licensed industry" Not arguing for state intervention are you? | |||
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"95% of our friends are in the adult industry/escorts & swingers & we are proud to call them friends, as swinging is one of the biggest cash earners in the sex industry today we all pay one way or another for sex through internet/club fee's/site memberships/parties etc so how is it any different to other ways of paying for sex Nothing in life is ever completely free, when sex is involved someone somewhere will be on an earner be it escorting or swinging so who is morally right to earn the money & what makes them any better. I actually see no difference between an escort and the women in here who refuse to pay anything towards their meets Women who want picking up, taking to clubs or hotels provided for them, drinks and meals provided and taking home again and expect their meet to pay the lot Ok so the guy isn't giving them cash in hand but what he's not putting in their hand he's using to pay their way so the women are still getting his money in one way or another " In what way are they getting his money? Most clubs have a free entrance for women. If I permit a guy to tag alongwith me, I am suddenly a couple and charged £30 - £40? Why would I want to pay half of that when 100% of free is, free And why would I want a hotel room? I have a very nice home. But I wouldn't want anyone here so I meet in clubs. But if after a few times, he wants to meet outside of a club and cannot accomodate and books a room, why would I want to pay for the room? Whilst I agree that asking for bottles of wine or whatever else smacks of prostitution, I don't think that when some guy brings a bottle of wine and flowers for me (and yes, that happens fairly often) that I should swipe my contactless card | |||
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"I couldn't care less if someone man or woman was a escort. The industry needs fully legalising and regulating in my opinion. Yes, it's biazzare that government debt has never been higher, tax revenues aren't great and yet they won't legalise the oldest profession, take the tax revenue and the savings to the NHS you'd get from less STDs in a regulated, licensed industry" Most of the escorts we know pay tax as its a legal job these days, brothels pimps are illegal but as long as a girl works on her own its 100% legal. | |||
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"95% of our friends are in the adult industry/escorts & swingers & we are proud to call them friends, as swinging is one of the biggest cash earners in the sex industry today we all pay one way or another for sex through internet/club fee's/site memberships/parties etc so how is it any different to other ways of paying for sex Nothing in life is ever completely free, when sex is involved someone somewhere will be on an earner be it escorting or swinging so who is morally right to earn the money & what makes them any better. I actually see no difference between an escort and the women in here who refuse to pay anything towards their meets Women who want picking up, taking to clubs or hotels provided for them, drinks and meals provided and taking home again and expect their meet to pay the lot Ok so the guy isn't giving them cash in hand but what he's not putting in their hand he's using to pay their way so the women are still getting his money in one way or another " | |||
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"95% of our friends are in the adult industry/escorts & swingers & we are proud to call them friends, as swinging is one of the biggest cash earners in the sex industry today we all pay one way or another for sex through internet/club fee's/site memberships/parties etc so how is it any different to other ways of paying for sex Nothing in life is ever completely free, when sex is involved someone somewhere will be on an earner be it escorting or swinging so who is morally right to earn the money & what makes them any better." With prostitution, it is usually the woman (I said, usually, not always) who earns the money and it is usually the man paying for it With swinging, it is usually the man who might otherwise pay for sex, who now doesn't have to pay for it for usually (usually) the women do not charge for sex | |||
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"Escorts paying tax & NI "Ofcourse; and employer's NI contributions and Corporation Tax and in some cases flat rate VAT (although, I haven't yet figu_ed out which category thay would register themselves under) | |||
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"I couldn't care less if someone man or woman was a escort. The industry needs fully legalising and regulating in my opinion. Yes, it's biazzare that government debt has never been higher, tax revenues aren't great and yet they won't legalise the oldest profession, take the tax revenue and the savings to the NHS you'd get from less STDs in a regulated, licensed industry" hard to disagree.. | |||
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"I wouldn't touch any many who called women derogatory names with a barge pole. What's the difference in swinging as a man and having sex with many women and a woman doing it? Paid or not. " I certainly agree with your distaste that a man will use such a term to describe a woman (unless of course the lady in question enjoys being refer_ed to as such) as "sex worker" would be more appropriate. However there is a difference between someone man or woman swinging or having sex with many partners and someone getting paid for it. As one implies seeking sex for the enjoyable physical thrills and the other merely to make money without discrimination. | |||
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"I couldn't care less if someone man or woman was a escort. The industry needs fully legalising and regulating in my opinion. Yes, it's biazzare that government debt has never been higher, tax revenues aren't great and yet they won't legalise the oldest profession, take the tax revenue and the savings to the NHS you'd get from less STDs in a regulated, licensed industry" Prostitution is legal. Soliciting in a public place, kerb crawling, owning or managing a brothel, pimping and pandering, are crimes. There is no law stopping protitutes from declaring their income and paying tax. Infact, I would have thought that not declaring that income would be tax evasion | |||
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Ofcourse; and employer's NI contributions and Corporation Tax and in some cases flat rate VAT (although, I haven't yet figu_ed out which category thay would register themselves under)"Ignorance is bliss for some lol, escorting was made legal quite a while ago & many do pay tax & n.i. stamps. Most have regular sex checks at the clinic & use condoms unlike a majority of swingers who seldom visit a clinic...as i said ignorance is bliss for some | |||
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Ofcourse; and employer's NI contributions and Corporation Tax and in some cases flat rate VAT (although, I haven't yet figu_ed out which category thay would register themselves under)
Ignorance is bliss for some lol, escorting was made legal quite a while ago & many do pay tax & n.i. stamps. Most have regular sex checks at the clinic & use condoms unlike a majority of swingers who seldom visit a clinic...as i said ignorance is bliss for some "Erm, yes I do know that prostitution is legal (see my earlier comment). What was the point you are making? | |||
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Ofcourse; and employer's NI contributions and Corporation Tax and in some cases flat rate VAT (although, I haven't yet figu_ed out which category thay would register themselves under)
Ignorance is bliss for some lol, escorting was made legal quite a while ago & many do pay tax & n.i. stamps. Most have regular sex checks at the clinic & use condoms unlike a majority of swingers who seldom visit a clinic...as i said ignorance is bliss for some
Erm, yes I do know that prostitution is legal (see my earlier comment). What was the point you are making?"Sorry i quoted the wrong posts opps! No I'm in full agreement with your comments x | |||
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Ofcourse; and employer's NI contributions and Corporation Tax and in some cases flat rate VAT (although, I haven't yet figu_ed out which category thay would register themselves under)
Ignorance is bliss for some lol, escorting was made legal quite a while ago & many do pay tax & n.i. stamps. Most have regular sex checks at the clinic & use condoms unlike a majority of swingers who seldom visit a clinic...as i said ignorance is bliss for some
Erm, yes I do know that prostitution is legal (see my earlier comment). What was the point you are making?
Sorry i quoted the wrong posts opps! No I'm in full agreement with your comments x"I see absolutely nothing wrong with prostitution (escorting!). I see everything wrong with someone who is earning honest money by using their body, being refer_ed to in derogatory terms Athletes use their body to earn money. Prostitutes do too. The better her body and the more attractive she (or he) is, the more money she can charge. Same goes for athletes | |||
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"I wouldn't touch any many who called women derogatory names with a barge pole. What's the difference in swinging as a man and having sex with many women and a woman doing it? Paid or not. I certainly agree with your distaste that a man will use such a term to describe a woman (unless of course the lady in question enjoys being refer_ed to as such) as "sex worker" would be more appropriate. However there is a difference between someone man or woman swinging or having sex with many partners and someone getting paid for it. As one implies seeking sex for the enjoyable physical thrills and the other merely to make money without discrimination." Swinging clubs / parties / don't take money without discrimination for implied sex for profit...I'm obviously going to the wrong places lol. | |||
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Ofcourse; and employer's NI contributions and Corporation Tax and in some cases flat rate VAT (although, I haven't yet figu_ed out which category thay would register themselves under)
Ignorance is bliss for some lol, escorting was made legal quite a while ago & many do pay tax & n.i. stamps. Most have regular sex checks at the clinic & use condoms unlike a majority of swingers who seldom visit a clinic...as i said ignorance is bliss for some
Erm, yes I do know that prostitution is legal (see my earlier comment). What was the point you are making?
Sorry i quoted the wrong posts opps! No I'm in full agreement with your comments x
I see absolutely nothing wrong with prostitution (escorting!). I see everything wrong with someone who is earning honest money by using their body, being refer_ed to in derogatory terms
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"I wouldn't touch any many who called women derogatory names with a barge pole. What's the difference in swinging as a man and having sex with many women and a woman doing it? Paid or not. I certainly agree with your distaste that a man will use such a term to describe a woman (unless of course the lady in question enjoys being refer_ed to as such) as "sex worker" would be more appropriate. However there is a difference between someone man or woman swinging or having sex with many partners and someone getting paid for it. As one implies seeking sex for the enjoyable physical thrills and the other merely to make money without discrimination. Swinging clubs / parties / don't take money without discrimination for implied sex for profit...I'm obviously going to the wrong places lol." I am not stalking you I agree with you; swinging clubs, niteclubs, all such venues favour women as it is the women who will bring in the men (unless it is a gay sauna). However, that does not now follow that the women entering such clubs are selling themselves. Clubs can start charging women the same (or even more). Some women will continue visting these clubs (maybe) but most will stop going there The fact of the matter is that women are more likely to find recreational sex than men can. Those who have an issue with that should perhaps have a conversation with the creator and lodge a formal complaint | |||
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"Just asking ...... Many many moons ago I became quite emotionally attached to a mature lady providing "professional services" to discerning gentlemen in the Manchester area. It crossed my mind several times as to whether or not I could marry such a woman. In the end, I moved away from the area and lost touch with said female. But I've often wonde_ed if others have ever conside_ed marrying (or have married) a whore. .........Dons flak jacket and tin hat in readiness for responses !! "I don't think you are the first to get attached to someone you really shouldn't be attached to. Prostitutes must have this issue lots of times,a man needs sex and a lady gives him the best sex he's ever had so he falls in love with her and wants to marry her...conveniently forgetting that the woman is not attracted to you in any way and only allowed you to be intimate for 1 reason..money. | |||
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"I wouldn't touch any many who called women derogatory names with a barge pole. What's the difference in swinging as a man and having sex with many women and a woman doing it? Paid or not. I certainly agree with your distaste that a man will use such a term to describe a woman (unless of course the lady in question enjoys being refer_ed to as such) as "sex worker" would be more appropriate. However there is a difference between someone man or woman swinging or having sex with many partners and someone getting paid for it. As one implies seeking sex for the enjoyable physical thrills and the other merely to make money without discrimination. Swinging clubs / parties / don't take money without discrimination for implied sex for profit...I'm obviously going to the wrong places lol. I am not stalking you I agree with you; swinging clubs, niteclubs, all such venues favour women as it is the women who will bring in the men (unless it is a gay sauna). However, that does not now follow that the women entering such clubs are selling themselves. Clubs can start charging women the same (or even more). Some women will continue visting these clubs (maybe) but most will stop going there The fact of the matter is that women are more likely to find recreational sex than men can. Those who have an issue with that should perhaps have a conversation with the creator and lodge a formal complaint" I dont think your stalking & your _iews are in line with my own xx, the swinging industry & escort industry both profit good from sex or implied sex so there is no difference in the money factor & it shows nothing is ever free. | |||
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Ofcourse; and employer's NI contributions and Corporation Tax and in some cases flat rate VAT (although, I haven't yet figu_ed out which category thay would register themselves under)
Ignorance is bliss for some lol, escorting was made legal quite a while ago & many do pay tax & n.i. stamps. Most have regular sex checks at the clinic & use condoms unlike a majority of swingers who seldom visit a clinic...as i said ignorance is bliss for some
Erm, yes I do know that prostitution is legal (see my earlier comment). What was the point you are making?
Sorry i quoted the wrong posts opps! No I'm in full agreement with your comments x
I see absolutely nothing wrong with prostitution (escorting!). I see everything wrong with someone who is earning honest money by using their body, being refer_ed to in derogatory terms
Athletes use their body to earn money. Prostitutes do too. The better her body and the more attractive she (or he) is, the more money she can charge. Same goes for athletes
"I don't think the term whore is necessarily derogatory,if you are selling your body then that is 1 of many titles you can attribute to yourself,escort/ptostitute/FWB/whore etc. It's only derogatory to call someone a whore when they aren't actually whoring or escorting if you prefer | |||
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"I couldn't care less if someone man or woman was a escort. The industry needs fully legalising and regulating in my opinion. Yes, it's biazzare that government debt has never been higher, tax revenues aren't great and yet they won't legalise the oldest profession, take the tax revenue and the savings to the NHS you'd get from less STDs in a regulated, licensed industry Prostitution is legal. Soliciting in a public place, kerb crawling, owning or managing a brothel, pimping and pandering, are crimes. There is no law stopping protitutes from declaring their income and paying tax. Infact, I would have thought that not declaring that income would be tax evasion" But I think brothels should be legal like they are in Germany. Safer for the girls, easier to tax for the government and a degree of quality control for the customer | |||
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"Would I bollocks. I've fucked a few I wouldn't mind having unlimited funds to, marriage though?? Do I look mental? "Just so what we're clear... are you insinuating that you have mental health problems if you marry an escort? Or just if you get married at all? | |||
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"Sex workers are human to so simple answer to the question posed without all the frills and bI'll that most Sprout is yes "Yehh and often addicts. So stop glamouring it up..it's a seedy murky world and any bloke that gets turned in giving a or crack addict a score for a blow job is sad as fuck | |||
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"Escorts paying tax & NI
Ofcourse; and employer's NI contributions and Corporation Tax and in some cases flat rate VAT (although, I haven't yet figu_ed out which category thay would register themselves under)
Ignorance is bliss for some lol, escorting was made legal quite a while ago & many do pay tax & n.i. stamps. Most have regular sex checks at the clinic & use condoms unlike a majority of swingers who seldom visit a clinic...as i said ignorance is bliss for some
Erm, yes I do know that prostitution is legal (see my earlier comment). What was the point you are making?
Sorry i quoted the wrong posts opps! No I'm in full agreement with your comments x
I see absolutely nothing wrong with prostitution (escorting!). I see everything wrong with someone who is earning honest money by using their body, being refer_ed to in derogatory terms
Athletes use their body to earn money. Prostitutes do too. The better her body and the more attractive she (or he) is, the more money she can charge. Same goes for athletes
I don't think the term whore is necessarily derogatory,if you are selling your body then that is 1 of many titles you can attribute to yourself,escort/ptostitute/FWB/whore etc.
It's only derogatory to call someone a whore when they aren't actually whoring or escorting if you prefer "I am afraid that I disagree with you. There are some terms which are derogatory; whore is derogatory; sex-worker, escort, prostitute are not (or atleast, I do not think these are) There is no reason to use terms which one knows are hurtful to someone when a perfectly good alternative is available. Well, not unless the aim is to cause hurt or offence to someone and that says more about the person using hurtful terms than the recipient
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Yehh and often addicts. So stop glamouring it up..it's a seedy murky world and any bloke that gets turned in giving a or crack addict a score for a blow job is sad as fuck"I believe you're pretty fucking ignorant about the world of sex work. | |||
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"I couldn't care less if someone man or woman was a escort. The industry needs fully legalising and regulating in my opinion. Yes, it's biazzare that government debt has never been higher, tax revenues aren't great and yet they won't legalise the oldest profession, take the tax revenue and the savings to the NHS you'd get from less STDs in a regulated, licensed industry Prostitution is legal. Soliciting in a public place, kerb crawling, owning or managing a brothel, pimping and pandering, are crimes. There is no law stopping protitutes from declaring their income and paying tax. Infact, I would have thought that not declaring that income would be tax evasion But I think brothels should be legal like they are in Germany. Safer for the girls, easier to tax for the government and a degree of quality control for the customer " I agree with you. It is a business like any other and the German model proves that it is safer for the girls. Having said that, the clients find such places as a bit soulless as these lacks that degree of 'danger' and 'naughtiness' The State makes money, the girls make money, the clients loose money; the House always wins | |||
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"I couldn't care less if someone man or woman was a escort. The industry needs fully legalising and regulating in my opinion. Yes, it's biazzare that government debt has never been higher, tax revenues aren't great and yet they won't legalise the oldest profession, take the tax revenue and the savings to the NHS you'd get from less STDs in a regulated, licensed industry Prostitution is legal. Soliciting in a public place, kerb crawling, owning or managing a brothel, pimping and pandering, are crimes. There is no law stopping protitutes from declaring their income and paying tax. Infact, I would have thought that not declaring that income would be tax evasion But I think brothels should be legal like they are in Germany. Safer for the girls, easier to tax for the government and a degree of quality control for the customer I agree with you. It is a business like any other and the German model proves that it is safer for the girls. Having said that, the clients find such places as a bit soulless as these lacks that degree of 'danger' and 'naughtiness' The State makes money, the girls make money, the clients loose money; the House always wins "For me, I'd rather go somewhere soulless knowing the girls had a monthly HIV & STD test than a back alley 'massage' shop with all the flavours of the parade | |||
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"Sex workers are human to so simple answer to the question posed without all the frills and bI'll that most Sprout is yes
Yehh and often addicts. So stop glamouring it up..it's a seedy murky world and any bloke that gets turned in giving a or crack addict a score for a blow job is sad as fuck" | |||
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"Shame you have to use that terminology OP but to answer your question, yes I would be more than happy to marry a sex worker. " | |||
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"Sex workers are human to so simple answer to the question posed without all the frills and bI'll that most Sprout is yes
Yehh and often addicts. So stop glamouring it up..it's a seedy murky world and any bloke that gets turned in giving a or crack addict a score for a blow job is sad as fuck
I believe you're pretty fucking ignorant about the world of sex work."I wonder how many of these dudes have people in their lives who actually *are* sex workers, but wouldn't trust them with that information because of all their garbage assumptions about sex workers. | |||
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"Would I bollocks. I've fucked a few I wouldn't mind having unlimited funds to, marriage though?? Do I look mental?
Just so what we're clear... are you insinuating that you have mental health problems if you marry an escort? Or just if you get married at all?"I'm insinuating whatever the fuck I want to insinuate about myself. I didn't think I needed approval | |||
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"Sex workers are human to so simple answer to the question posed without all the frills and bI'll that most Sprout is yes
Yehh and often addicts. So stop glamouring it up..it's a seedy murky world and any bloke that gets turned in giving a or crack addict a score for a blow job is sad as fuck
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"95% of our friends are in the adult industry/escorts & swingers & we are proud to call them friends, as swinging is one of the biggest cash earners in the sex industry today we all pay one way or another for sex through internet/club fee's/site memberships/parties etc so how is it any different to other ways of paying for sex Nothing in life is ever completely free, when sex is involved someone somewhere will be on an earner be it escorting or swinging so who is morally right to earn the money & what makes them any better. I actually see no difference between an escort and the women in here who refuse to pay anything towards their meets Women who want picking up, taking to clubs or hotels provided for them, drinks and meals provided and taking home again and expect their meet to pay the lot Ok so the guy isn't giving them cash in hand but what he's not putting in their hand he's using to pay their way so the women are still getting his money in one way or another In what way are they getting his money? Most clubs have a free entrance for women. If I permit a guy to tag alongwith me, I am suddenly a couple and charged £30 - £40? Why would I want to pay half of that when 100% of free is, free And why would I want a hotel room? I have a very nice home. But I wouldn't want anyone here so I meet in clubs. But if after a few times, he wants to meet outside of a club and cannot accomodate and books a room, why would I want to pay for the room? Whilst I agree that asking for bottles of wine or whatever else smacks of prostitution, I don't think that when some guy brings a bottle of wine and flowers for me (and yes, that happens fairly often) that I should swipe my contactless card" wow you took that way to personal
i seem to recall me saying women who insist upon it
If thats not you i really see no reason why you felt the need to defend yourself there
I've read loads of womens profile's where they ASK for gifts and even to be took shopping, out for meals, saying things like i only do hotel meets and you must pay etc thats what im talking about not a guy taking it upon himself to bring you a bottle of wine
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