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By *rs Mia Wallace OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bathwyche

Having chatted with some febfemfriends of the same age..and who are experiencing the same, we think that mid thirties is too young to be called a milf. Or a cougar.

Or is one term suited to older age or not?

Yep, im aware of labelling etc.... Just would like others opinions?

Age 37. Thats not an 'older woman', cougar or milf. Is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say your more in your prime kinda age

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By *opedick89Man
over a year ago

Midlands

If you have kids your defo a milf but cougar for me is just older probably mid 40s onwards but me my self intrested in women older than 30

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By *rs Mia Wallace OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bathwyche

Cheers, werent asking for personal...im asking quite general. How old does a woman have to be to 'qualify'. And now i come to mention it....when does a man become an okd git ha!

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By *rs Mia Wallace OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bathwyche


"If you have kids your defo a milf but cougar for me is just older probably mid 40s onwards but me my self intrested in women older than 30 "

Thats what my thoughts around it were.... Even thought the gf's n i prefered milf to cougar, despite having no kids.

But there is some kind of age boundary around it then?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers, werent asking for personal...im asking quite general. How old does a woman have to be to 'qualify'. And now i come to mention it....when does a man become an okd git ha!"

I am a old git and I am 36 haha I feel old at the moment as not feeling too good at times. As well as being a git haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

45+ I'd say cougar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have kids your defo a milf but cougar for me is just older probably mid 40s onwards but me my self intrested in women older than 30

Thats what my thoughts around it were.... Even thought the gf's n i prefered milf to cougar, despite having no kids.

But there is some kind of age boundary around it then?!"

Cougars are older ladies that go for younger men. I would say 45+ milf any age over 18 as long as they have kids. I hate the word cougar too I find it really offensive to older ladies. I never use the word. I use lady, woman, milf and gilf

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By *rs Mia Wallace OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bathwyche


"45+ I'd say cougar "

Yep, i thought so too....

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By *rs Mia Wallace OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bathwyche


"If you have kids your defo a milf but cougar for me is just older probably mid 40s onwards but me my self intrested in women older than 30

Thats what my thoughts around it were.... Even thought the gf's n i prefered milf to cougar, despite having no kids.

But there is some kind of age boundary around it then?

Cougars are older ladies that go for younger men. I would say 45+ milf any age over 18 as long as they have kids. I hate the word cougar too I find it really offensive to older ladies. I never use the word. I use lady, woman, milf and gilf "

Ha! No kids. Yo7nger than 45.

We are cleaely neither.

Cleared that up swiftly! Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, a milf is just a sexy mother, so any age is relevant if they're a mum.They don't necessarily go for younger men.

A cougar is defined in Google as being 45+, though I'm sure other sites will have different age categories perhaps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have kids your defo a milf but cougar for me is just older probably mid 40s onwards but me my self intrested in women older than 30

Thats what my thoughts around it were.... Even thought the gf's n i prefered milf to cougar, despite having no kids.

But there is some kind of age boundary around it then?

Cougars are older ladies that go for younger men. I would say 45+ milf any age over 18 as long as they have kids. I hate the word cougar too I find it really offensive to older ladies. I never use the word. I use lady, woman, milf and gilf

Ha! No kids. Yo7nger than 45.

We are cleaely neither.

Cleared that up swiftly! Cheers"

Any time. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with above: to me a cougar is an older lady who predominantly prey on the young (-er man). Whereas a MILF is a hot mum, so could be anything. I'd say cougar could be quite relative though, as obviously a 40yo lady chasing me is a little different to a 40yo chasing an 18yo. To the young 'un she'd be a cougar, but to me she's just a wonderful lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get called a milf, I'm 27.

A cougar is an older lady preying on younger guys! I'd say 45 plus too.

Red xx

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By *rs Mia Wallace OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bathwyche


"I get called a milf, I'm 27.

A cougar is an older lady preying on younger guys! I'd say 45 plus too.

Red xx"

You get called a milf too?

The planet's going mad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cougar in her 30s kinda renders my liking for older women obsolete. 45+ I'd say

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By *rGuyMan
over a year ago

Croydon

I would say a woman who is mid to late 40s or older looking for someone in their early 20s or older depending on age difference. A milf could be a 20 year old with a child.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get called a milf, I'm 27.

A cougar is an older lady preying on younger guys! I'd say 45 plus too.

Red xx

You get called a milf too?

The planet's going mad!"

Haha. I was called a milf at 21. It really is any age, just as long as you are a mother... Then there's gilf haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always thought a milf was supposed to be a woman with children old enough to have friends who were sexually active - e.g. American Pie, Stiflers Mom type thing.

As a childless 31 year old anyone who tries to describe me as one or approach me when their profile or username is all about milfs can fuck right off. I'm clearly not what they're looking for so I don't even know why they bother, and they do.

As for Cougars, I have no idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning

Mid 40s

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"45+ I'd say cougar "

Agreed ??

Milf is just that your a mum so it could be any age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can anybody be a milf if they don't have kids? Surely you would just an a ilf??

A cougar is i would say a lady late 40's and up who likes to play with much younger guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been happy with the MILF phrase. Cougar isn't half as bad.

At what age do you stop being prey for these feline predators?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get called a milf, I'm 27.

A cougar is an older lady preying on younger guys! I'd say 45 plus too.

Red xx

You get called a milf too?

The planet's going mad!

Haha. I was called a milf at 21. It really is any age, just as long as you are a mother... Then there's gilf haha x"

I was a mum at 18, definitely wasn't a milf then. Let's just say I've grown into my looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any mention of MILF / Cougar & I don't want to know, really dislike these labels.

I'd say though I could if I wanted too, be 'technically' both.

Offspring with friends (legally) old enough to fancy me = MILF

In my 40's fucking men 15+ years younger (on occasions )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Milfs can be any age

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By *opedick89Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"I get called a milf, I'm 27.

A cougar is an older lady preying on younger guys! I'd say 45 plus too.

Red xx"

Yh you'd get bonned on burton bridge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Milfs any age.

Cougars from 40 upwards.

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By *opedick89Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Any mention of MILF / Cougar & I don't want to know, really dislike these labels.

I'd say though I could if I wanted too, be 'technically' both.

Offspring with friends (legally) old enough to fancy me = MILF

You defo would be classed as a cougar but must say you take some very nice pics

In my 40's fucking men 15+ years younger (on occasions )

"

You defo would be classed as a cougar but must say you take some very nice pics ever in need of a hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If cougars prey on much younger men, does that mean my chance of being preyed upon these days is slim? If so that makes me sadface

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm see I'm only 30 so I'm hoping I'm not going to be a cougar just yet, I am a mother though so maybe a milf

Op at 37 I would say milf and over 40 cougar, saying that though it depends on the age of the guy you're fucking, cougar would be if you were older than your fuck buddy wouldn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If cougars prey on much younger men, does that mean my chance of being preyed upon these days is slim? If so that makes me sadface "

Sorry Phil it does I think I worked out the average difference in age so you would be preyed upon a 60+ year old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So...I have two kids and I'm a cougar? But I'm only 41

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If cougars prey on much younger men, does that mean my chance of being preyed upon these days is slim? If so that makes me sadface "

I'd prey on you

U would have to settle for a milf though then, I'm not cougar ready for at least another decade

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To my mind a milf should be a woman with teenage or older children who's friends are of an age to find her attractive, that's where milf stems from. Just popping a baby out does not raise you to milf status and I used to get offended at 26 when anyone called me a milf as that suggested to me that I looked like I should have teenage/young adult kids.

A cougar should be a lady in her late 40s upwards who doesn't have children/family ties and actively seeks out younger men to play with /show the ropes.

It annoys me that folks seem to think all women need to be shoehorned into one of these categories even if they quite clearly aren't....and it's ok to not be....I don't want to be a milf because that means my kids are growing up too fast.

It's more than ok to just be a beautiful woman who doesn't fit into a pigeonhole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought a collection of people's personal opinions became a general opinion , given an average of people's opinion,

Hence the word general opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To my mind a milf should be a woman with teenage or older children who's friends are of an age to find her attractive, that's where milf stems from. Just popping a baby out does not raise you to milf status and I used to get offended at 26 when anyone called me a milf as that suggested to me that I looked like I should have teenage/young adult kids.

A cougar should be a lady in her late 40s upwards who doesn't have children/family ties and actively seeks out younger men to play with /show the ropes.

It annoys me that folks seem to think all women need to be shoehorned into one of these categories even if they quite clearly aren't....and it's ok to not be....I don't want to be a milf because that means my kids are growing up too fast.

It's more than ok to just be a beautiful woman who doesn't fit into a pigeonhole "

Love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If cougars prey on much younger men, does that mean my chance of being preyed upon these days is slim? If so that makes me sadface

I'd prey on you

U would have to settle for a milf though then, I'm not cougar ready for at least another decade "

I have a feeling meeting you would not be "settling" at all!

Lucky for you, milfs do it for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All relative I guess, 37 to an 18 year old is a generation apart so guess the term could apply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If cougars prey on much younger men, does that mean my chance of being preyed upon these days is slim? If so that makes me sadface

I'd prey on you

U would have to settle for a milf though then, I'm not cougar ready for at least another decade

I have a feeling meeting you would not be "settling" at all!

Lucky for you, milfs do it for me too "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I would class anyone from like last 20s onwards as a milf/cougar but feel it comes down to their personality/lifestyle which classes them under those categories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To my mind a milf should be a woman with teenage or older children who's friends are of an age to find her attractive, that's where milf stems from. Just popping a baby out does not raise you to milf status and I used to get offended at 26 when anyone called me a milf as that suggested to me that I looked like I should have teenage/young adult kids.

A cougar should be a lady in her late 40s upwards who doesn't have children/family ties and actively seeks out younger men to play with /show the ropes.

It annoys me that folks seem to think all women need to be shoehorned into one of these categories even if they quite clearly aren't....and it's ok to not be....I don't want to be a milf because that means my kids are growing up too fast.

It's more than ok to just be a beautiful woman who doesn't fit into a pigeonhole "

Amen! And women without children are also capable of being sexually attractive. It bugs me that in mainstream porn there is nothing between 'teen' and 'milf'. So as soon as you've reached adulthood, if you haven't procreated you might as well not exist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To my mind a milf should be a woman with teenage or older children who's friends are of an age to find her attractive, that's where milf stems from. Just popping a baby out does not raise you to milf status and I used to get offended at 26 when anyone called me a milf as that suggested to me that I looked like I should have teenage/young adult kids.

A cougar should be a lady in her late 40s upwards who doesn't have children/family ties and actively seeks out younger men to play with /show the ropes.

It annoys me that folks seem to think all women need to be shoehorned into one of these categories even if they quite clearly aren't....and it's ok to not be....I don't want to be a milf because that means my kids are growing up too fast.

It's more than ok to just be a beautiful woman who doesn't fit into a pigeonhole

Amen! And women without children are also capable of being sexually attractive. It bugs me that in mainstream porn there is nothing between 'teen' and 'milf'. So as soon as you've reached adulthood, if you haven't procreated you might as well not exist. "

Isn't that middle ground just porn though? ie not all mainstream porn is "teen" or "cougar" it's "woman"

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

What about a TILF ??

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To my mind a milf should be a woman with teenage or older children who's friends are of an age to find her attractive, that's where milf stems from. Just popping a baby out does not raise you to milf status and I used to get offended at 26 when anyone called me a milf as that suggested to me that I looked like I should have teenage/young adult kids.

A cougar should be a lady in her late 40s upwards who doesn't have children/family ties and actively seeks out younger men to play with /show the ropes.

It annoys me that folks seem to think all women need to be shoehorned into one of these categories even if they quite clearly aren't....and it's ok to not be....I don't want to be a milf because that means my kids are growing up too fast.

It's more than ok to just be a beautiful woman who doesn't fit into a pigeonhole

Amen! And women without children are also capable of being sexually attractive. It bugs me that in mainstream porn there is nothing between 'teen' and 'milf'. So as soon as you've reached adulthood, if you haven't procreated you might as well not exist.

Isn't that middle ground just porn though? ie not all mainstream porn is "teen" or "cougar" it's "woman" "

There was a study done a few years ago about the most popular female roles in porn. It found that "teen” won by miles, "MILF” came second and the average MILf was portrayed by a 33 year old actress. To me, there's an implication in popular labelling that women are desirable as teenagers and then not again unless they are mothers, until they hit older woman/cougar status. The third most common role in porn was "wife” - again, another label based on a woman's relationship to someone else rather than her existence as a woman in her own right. That's borne out by my experience of messages from a lot of men on here - many of which refer to milfs or my marital status. FWIW I think that popular male labels are probably equally problematic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cougar is obviously age related, in that the woman has to be older. But MILF is not age specific it relates to a mother I like to f**k, anybody who is a mother, clue is in the title! The same applies to a thread yesterday, just because you have become a mother or grandmother doesn't automatically make you a MILF or GILF, you've got to be wanted to be f**ked I'm being pedantic but on this I think we should.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To my mind a milf should be a woman with teenage or older children who's friends are of an age to find her attractive, that's where milf stems from. Just popping a baby out does not raise you to milf status and I used to get offended at 26 when anyone called me a milf as that suggested to me that I looked like I should have teenage/young adult kids.

A cougar should be a lady in her late 40s upwards who doesn't have children/family ties and actively seeks out younger men to play with /show the ropes.

It annoys me that folks seem to think all women need to be shoehorned into one of these categories even if they quite clearly aren't....and it's ok to not be....I don't want to be a milf because that means my kids are growing up too fast.

It's more than ok to just be a beautiful woman who doesn't fit into a pigeonhole

Amen! And women without children are also capable of being sexually attractive. It bugs me that in mainstream porn there is nothing between 'teen' and 'milf'. So as soon as you've reached adulthood, if you haven't procreated you might as well not exist.

Isn't that middle ground just porn though? ie not all mainstream porn is "teen" or "cougar" it's "woman"

There was a study done a few years ago about the most popular female roles in porn. It found that "teen” won by miles, "MILF” came second and the average MILf was portrayed by a 33 year old actress. To me, there's an implication in popular labelling that women are desirable as teenagers and then not again unless they are mothers, until they hit older woman/cougar status. The third most common role in porn was "wife” - again, another label based on a woman's relationship to someone else rather than her existence as a woman in her own right. That's borne out by my experience of messages from a lot of men on here - many of which refer to milfs or my marital status. FWIW I think that popular male labels are probably equally problematic.

"

Youve obviously looked into this is so much more depth than I have.

A women is a women first and foremost in my eyes. Anything else is just a label to use in a search bar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Youve obviously looked into this is so much more depth than I have.

A women is a women first and foremost in my eyes. Anything else is just a label to use in a search bar. "

I *may* be guilty of overanalysing things when I get a bit between my teeth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having chatted with some febfemfriends of the same age..and who are experiencing the same, we think that mid thirties is too young to be called a milf. Or a cougar.

Or is one term suited to older age or not?

Yep, im aware of labelling etc.... Just would like others opinions?

Age 37. Thats not an 'older woman', cougar or milf. Is it?"

it is if your in your 20s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To my mind a milf should be a woman with teenage or older children who's friends are of an age to find her attractive, that's where milf stems from. Just popping a baby out does not raise you to milf status and I used to get offended at 26 when anyone called me a milf as that suggested to me that I looked like I should have teenage/young adult kids.

A cougar should be a lady in her late 40s upwards who doesn't have children/family ties and actively seeks out younger men to play with /show the ropes.

It annoys me that folks seem to think all women need to be shoehorned into one of these categories even if they quite clearly aren't....and it's ok to not be....I don't want to be a milf because that means my kids are growing up too fast.

It's more than ok to just be a beautiful woman who doesn't fit into a pigeonhole

Amen! And women without children are also capable of being sexually attractive. It bugs me that in mainstream porn there is nothing between 'teen' and 'milf'. So as soon as you've reached adulthood, if you haven't procreated you might as well not exist.

Isn't that middle ground just porn though? ie not all mainstream porn is "teen" or "cougar" it's "woman"

There was a study done a few years ago about the most popular female roles in porn. It found that "teen” won by miles, "MILF” came second and the average MILf was portrayed by a 33 year old actress. To me, there's an implication in popular labelling that women are desirable as teenagers and then not again unless they are mothers, until they hit older woman/cougar status. The third most common role in porn was "wife” - again, another label based on a woman's relationship to someone else rather than her existence as a woman in her own right. That's borne out by my experience of messages from a lot of men on here - many of which refer to milfs or my marital status. FWIW I think that popular male labels are probably equally problematic.

"

Porn has always been mainly about the young, fresh faces. When a female performer hits 30, she's considered "mature" and gets pushed into the milf category. I don't think it's accurate or right, but porn is a business about fantasies. Sorry to say it, but most guys aren't interested in women with individual identities or personalities when they want to get off, they just want to see a hot woman doing something considered naughty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To my mind a milf should be a woman with teenage or older children who's friends are of an age to find her attractive, that's where milf stems from. Just popping a baby out does not raise you to milf status and I used to get offended at 26 when anyone called me a milf as that suggested to me that I looked like I should have teenage/young adult kids.

A cougar should be a lady in her late 40s upwards who doesn't have children/family ties and actively seeks out younger men to play with /show the ropes.

It annoys me that folks seem to think all women need to be shoehorned into one of these categories even if they quite clearly aren't....and it's ok to not be....I don't want to be a milf because that means my kids are growing up too fast.

It's more than ok to just be a beautiful woman who doesn't fit into a pigeonhole

Amen! And women without children are also capable of being sexually attractive. It bugs me that in mainstream porn there is nothing between 'teen' and 'milf'. So as soon as you've reached adulthood, if you haven't procreated you might as well not exist.

Isn't that middle ground just porn though? ie not all mainstream porn is "teen" or "cougar" it's "woman"

There was a study done a few years ago about the most popular female roles in porn. It found that "teen” won by miles, "MILF” came second and the average MILf was portrayed by a 33 year old actress. To me, there's an implication in popular labelling that women are desirable as teenagers and then not again unless they are mothers, until they hit older woman/cougar status. The third most common role in porn was "wife” - again, another label based on a woman's relationship to someone else rather than her existence as a woman in her own right. That's borne out by my experience of messages from a lot of men on here - many of which refer to milfs or my marital status. FWIW I think that popular male labels are probably equally problematic.

Porn has always been mainly about the young, fresh faces. When a female performer hits 30, she's considered "mature" and gets pushed into the milf category. I don't think it's accurate or right, but porn is a business about fantasies. Sorry to say it, but most guys aren't interested in women with individual identities or personalities when they want to get off, they just want to see a hot woman doing something considered naughty."

Yeah I don't care about that - what grates is that they are never just "a hot WOMAN" they have to be a "hot TEEN STEPDAUGHTER", "hot MOM", "hot WIFE". That's what I mean by, in her own right, not that I have some delusion that men are interested in a porn star's personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 18 year olds asking if im into "younger" a lot if that's any help?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I get called a milf

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I guess that it depends on the age of the guy. I've been described as an "older" guy before now. Can't say that I was particularly excited about that description of me....

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I'm 38.

I've been called both a milf and a cougar, but was did it was being called mature. Mature, I'm not a cheese!

It was all by much younger men, so I suppose to them, I probably was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get called a milf "

You obviously are fully qualify.

Slightly flippant, but have any of this threads posters who have objected to the objectification caused by MILF etc actually got similar on their profiles, well hung, tall, big booed, coloured, not coloured, articulate, young, old etc.

Just a bit of fun but really what's the difference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get called a milf

You obviously are fully qualify.

Slightly flippant, but have any of this threads posters who have objected to the objectification caused by MILF etc actually got similar on their profiles, well hung, tall, big booed, coloured, not coloured, articulate, young, old etc.

Just a bit of fun but really what's the difference? "

I have tall on mine. That's an actual anatomical description though, not an objectification. As are all of the things you mentioned, so it's not really the same thing at all. Had your examples been "stud", "BBC", or something like that, you might have had a point.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I get called a milf

You obviously are fully qualify.

Slightly flippant, but have any of this threads posters who have objected to the objectification caused by MILF etc actually got similar on their profiles, well hung, tall, big booed, coloured, not coloured, articulate, young, old etc.

Just a bit of fun but really what's the difference?

I have tall on mine. That's an actual anatomical description though, not an objectification. As are all of the things you mentioned, so it's not really the same thing at all. Had your examples been "stud", "BBC", or something like that, you might have had a point. "

Everyone is tall next to me

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over a year ago


"I get called a milf

You obviously are fully qualify.

Slightly flippant, but have any of this threads posters who have objected to the objectification caused by MILF etc actually got similar on their profiles, well hung, tall, big booed, coloured, not coloured, articulate, young, old etc.

Just a bit of fun but really what's the difference?

I have tall on mine. That's an actual anatomical description though, not an objectification. As are all of the things you mentioned, so it's not really the same thing at all. Had your examples been "stud", "BBC", or something like that, you might have had a point.

Everyone is tall next to me "

Lucky sod

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Having chatted with some febfemfriends of the same age..and who are experiencing the same, we think that mid thirties is too young to be called a milf. Or a cougar.

Or is one term suited to older age or not?

Yep, im aware of labelling etc.... Just would like others opinions?

Age 37. Thats not an 'older woman', cougar or milf. Is it?"

I'd say it was relative to your bedfellow or admirer. I'm a cougar for someone who is 37!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I get called a milf

You obviously are fully qualify.

Slightly flippant, but have any of this threads posters who have objected to the objectification caused by MILF etc actually got similar on their profiles, well hung, tall, big booed, coloured, not coloured, articulate, young, old etc.

Just a bit of fun but really what's the difference?

I have tall on mine. That's an actual anatomical description though, not an objectification. As are all of the things you mentioned, so it's not really the same thing at all. Had your examples been "stud", "BBC", or something like that, you might have had a point.

Everyone is tall next to me

Lucky sod "

Not when they crouch down and offer you soft drinks on a night out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get called a milf

You obviously are fully qualify.

Slightly flippant, but have any of this threads posters who have objected to the objectification caused by MILF etc actually got similar on their profiles, well hung, tall, big booed, coloured, not coloured, articulate, young, old etc.

Just a bit of fun but really what's the difference?

I have tall on mine. That's an actual anatomical description though, not an objectification. As are all of the things you mentioned, so it's not really the same thing at all. Had your examples been "stud", "BBC", or something like that, you might have had a point.

Everyone is tall next to me

Lucky sod

Not when they crouch down and offer you soft drinks on a night out "

I'd take that over feeling like an enormous heifer next to 90% of men

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I get called a milf

You obviously are fully qualify.

Slightly flippant, but have any of this threads posters who have objected to the objectification caused by MILF etc actually got similar on their profiles, well hung, tall, big booed, coloured, not coloured, articulate, young, old etc.

Just a bit of fun but really what's the difference?

I have tall on mine. That's an actual anatomical description though, not an objectification. As are all of the things you mentioned, so it's not really the same thing at all. Had your examples been "stud", "BBC", or something like that, you might have had a point.

Everyone is tall next to me

Lucky sod

Not when they crouch down and offer you soft drinks on a night out

I'd take that over feeling like an enormous heifer next to 90% of men "

I don't think thats possible, you are gorgeous

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

Milf I'm happy with. Lately I've been called cougar several times.... from guys also in their 30's.

Red x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get called a milf

You obviously are fully qualify.

Slightly flippant, but have any of this threads posters who have objected to the objectification caused by MILF etc actually got similar on their profiles, well hung, tall, big booed, coloured, not coloured, articulate, young, old etc.

Just a bit of fun but really what's the difference?

I have tall on mine. That's an actual anatomical description though, not an objectification. As are all of the things you mentioned, so it's not really the same thing at all. Had your examples been "stud", "BBC", or something like that, you might have had a point. "

Consider me suitably admonished.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Milf for me is any lady with kids cougar is 50 plus who likes younger and gold is any lady u fancy inbetween

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wondered this....I don't mind guys in their twenties calling me it so much but I'm not keen on guys who are only a year or two younger than me lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get called a milf

You obviously are fully qualify.

Slightly flippant, but have any of this threads posters who have objected to the objectification caused by MILF etc actually got similar on their profiles, well hung, tall, big booed, coloured, not coloured, articulate, young, old etc.

Just a bit of fun but really what's the difference?

I have tall on mine. That's an actual anatomical description though, not an objectification. As are all of the things you mentioned, so it's not really the same thing at all. Had your examples been "stud", "BBC", or something like that, you might have had a point.

Consider me suitably admonished. "

Post in haste, recant in leisure!

Actually I don't think I an wrong based on want youve posted. What's the difference between:-

MILF, woman etc etc and

TMILF, Tall men etc etc

surely arent both, as you put it, anatomical describtions?

Anyway, taking Mrs B thread to heart from yesterday, im currently being nice and relaxed about Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wondered this....I don't mind guys in their twenties calling me it so much but I'm not keen on guys who are only a year or two younger than me lol! "
I'd class u as a gilf girl I'd like to fuck lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get called a milf

You obviously are fully qualify.

Slightly flippant, but have any of this threads posters who have objected to the objectification caused by MILF etc actually got similar on their profiles, well hung, tall, big booed, coloured, not coloured, articulate, young, old etc.

Just a bit of fun but really what's the difference?

I have tall on mine. That's an actual anatomical description though, not an objectification. As are all of the things you mentioned, so it's not really the same thing at all. Had your examples been "stud", "BBC", or something like that, you might have had a point.

Consider me suitably admonished.

Post in haste, recant in leisure!

Actually I don't think I an wrong based on want youve posted. What's the difference between:-

MILF, woman etc etc and

TMILF, Tall men etc etc

surely arent both, as you put it, anatomical describtions?

Anyway, taking Mrs B thread to heart from yesterday, im currently being nice and relaxed about Fab "

Because describing someone as "tall" or "a woman" isn't casting a value judgement on their fuckability which is based on their ability to procreate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having chatted with some febfemfriends of the same age..and who are experiencing the same, we think that mid thirties is too young to be called a milf. Or a cougar.

Or is one term suited to older age or not?

Yep, im aware of labelling etc.... Just would like others opinions?

Age 37. Thats not an 'older woman', cougar or milf. Is it?"

I'd like to know what age a female that whinges becomes a 'Old Boot' ?

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By *rs Mia Wallace OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bathwyche


"To my mind a milf should be a woman with teenage or older children who's friends are of an age to find her attractive, that's where milf stems from. Just popping a baby out does not raise you to milf status and I used to get offended at 26 when anyone called me a milf as that suggested to me that I looked like I should have teenage/young adult kids.

A cougar should be a lady in her late 40s upwards who doesn't have children/family ties and actively seeks out younger men to play with /show the ropes.

It annoys me that folks seem to think all women need to be shoehorned into one of these categories even if they quite clearly aren't....and it's ok to not be....I don't want to be a milf because that means my kids are growing up too fast.

It's more than ok to just be a beautiful woman who doesn't fit into a pigeonhole "

Tequila, you are bloody brilliant!!

The next time i have a mid 20s man refer to me as a milf/cougar, i shall refer them to this!

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By *rs Mia Wallace OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bathwyche


"Having chatted with some febfemfriends of the same age..and who are experiencing the same, we think that mid thirties is too young to be called a milf. Or a cougar.

Or is one term suited to older age or not?

Yep, im aware of labelling etc.... Just would like others opinions?

Age 37. Thats not an 'older woman', cougar or milf. Is it?

I'd like to know what age a female that whinges becomes a 'Old Boot' ? "

38 by looks of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is subjective and everyone is probably gonna differ. For me 50+ is a cougar. Mid to late 40s is just an older women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having chatted with some febfemfriends of the same age..and who are experiencing the same, we think that mid thirties is too young to be called a milf. Or a cougar.

Or is one term suited to older age or not?

Yep, im aware of labelling etc.... Just would like others opinions?

Age 37. Thats not an 'older woman', cougar or milf. Is it?

I'd like to know what age a female that whinges becomes a 'Old Boot' ?

38 by looks of it"

Oh no..mid thirties seems more accurate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get called a milf

You obviously are fully qualify.

Slightly flippant, but have any of this threads posters who have objected to the objectification caused by MILF etc actually got similar on their profiles, well hung, tall, big booed, coloured, not coloured, articulate, young, old etc.

Just a bit of fun but really what's the difference?

I have tall on mine. That's an actual anatomical description though, not an objectification. As are all of the things you mentioned, so it's not really the same thing at all. Had your examples been "stud", "BBC", or something like that, you might have had a point.

Consider me suitably admonished.

Post in haste, recant in leisure!

Actually I don't think I an wrong based on want youve posted. What's the difference between:-

MILF, woman etc etc and

TMILF, Tall men etc etc

surely arent both, as you put it, anatomical describtions?

Anyway, taking Mrs B thread to heart from yesterday, im currently being nice and relaxed about Fab

Because describing someone as "tall" or "a woman" isn't casting a value judgement on their fuckability which is based on their ability to procreate."

Whatever, just spent two hours in the kitchen cooking Rogan Josh for tea and making curried Cornish pasties for colleagues at work tomorrow so too relaxed and chilled to argue.

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Telford

I'll never be a milf as got nko kids but consider myself a cougar cause I like younger men

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