FabSwingers.com forum: Is there a "code"?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So we were out having drinks after our meet up Saturday, a couple came over (vanilla bar) said hi and we had a few drinks listening to a live band.

The female said "are you having a FAB night"??

At first I thought nothing of it then she said "this band are FAB" and I was thinking.....

"Is this some code we don't know about yet"?

Anyway they left very shortly after and I spoke to miss and she said "hmmm yeah maybe they were giving us a coded signal"!

If its not a signal as yet, it should be

How do you recognise other "fabbers" in vanilla settings, maybe there's a badge?

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

Did they have some pampas grass hanging out their back jeans pocket?

Mr G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of people use the word fab as code. Well on customer at work did one time as she was leaving she said 'have a fab night miss B' I'd have thought nothing of it but my real name isn't Bella and doesn't begin with B

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

That Virgil Tracy was a swinger. You could tell by the pampas grass planted outside the hanger for Thunderbird 2

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We wondered what the hell you meant then googled it and were like "ah really....".

Pampas grass, everydays a school day

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I've got a T-shirt with ma username on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got a T-shirt with ma username on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can only imagine it was because who uses the word fab in normal speech anymore and by the way does having a pampas grass mean you swing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Apparently pampas grass in your front garden means your a swinger....

I'm sure my aunty had it in hers. Old slut

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

Ankle bracelets is another one...along with a box of Daz in your front window...or was that just a signal to the milkman that the coast was clear for him to deliver an extra pint?!

Mr G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ankle bracelets is another one...along with a box of Daz in your front window...or was that just a signal to the milkman that the coast was clear for him to deliver an extra pint?!

Mr G"

OMO wasn't it? "Old Man Out"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ankle bracelets is another one...along with a box of Daz in your front window...or was that just a signal to the milkman that the coast was clear for him to deliver an extra pint?!

Mr G"

Daz in window is an old military one on married quarters I'm sure?

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

"Ankle bracelets is another one...along with a box of Daz in your front window...or was that just a signal to the milkman that the coast was clear for him to deliver an extra pint?!

Mr G

OMO wasn't it? "Old Man Out"

Bloody hell had forgotten OMO...and yeah you're right.....Daz was an invite for Danny Baker only!!

Mr G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waitrose carrier bags are dead giveaways, particularly if the bearer has a moustache and walks with a slight limp

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Pampas grass, ankle bracelet on the right ankle, hot tub, saying the word FAB in conversation and a fish symbol looking to the left are all signs of swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A chameleon badge is also used. On a yellow branch for a straight swinger, on a pink branch for a bisexual swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A big fuck off placard saying I'm a swinger is also a good sign

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hard to hold with a pint though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hard to hold with a pint though?"

Placard in one hand, pint in the other...simples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got a T-shirt with ma username on it

I've got a tee-shirt with 4 massive dildos on it!

Badge/symbol/tattoo/car sticker is a chameleon.

Pampas grass is so 1970s

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hard to hold with a pint though?

Placard in one hand, pint in the other...simples!

Your placard is not big enough if it is hold able in only one hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hard to hold with a pint though?

Placard in one hand, pint in the other...simples!

Your placard is not big enough if it is hold able in only one hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So we were out having drinks after our meet up Saturday, a couple came over (vanilla bar) said hi and we had a few drinks listening to a live band.

The female said "are you having a FAB night"??

At first I thought nothing of it then she said "this band are FAB" and I was thinking.....

"Is this some code we don't know about yet"?

Anyway they left very shortly after and I spoke to miss and she said "hmmm yeah maybe they were giving us a coded signal"!

If its not a signal as yet, it should be

How do you recognise other "fabbers" in vanilla settings, maybe there's a badge?"

There is scope for this to go massively wrong when someone innocently uses the fab word and someone else mis-interprets the whole scenario....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hard to hold with a pint though?

Placard in one hand, pint in the other...simples!

Your placard is not big enough if it is hold able in only one hand

Just reduce the placardage, you'll be fine with one hand, honestly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So we were out having drinks after our meet up Saturday, a couple came over (vanilla bar) said hi and we had a few drinks listening to a live band.

The female said "are you having a FAB night"??

At first I thought nothing of it then she said "this band are FAB" and I was thinking.....

"Is this some code we don't know about yet"?

Anyway they left very shortly after and I spoke to miss and she said "hmmm yeah maybe they were giving us a coded signal"!

If its not a signal as yet, it should be

How do you recognise other "fabbers" in vanilla settings, maybe there's a badge?

There is scope for this to go massively wrong when someone innocently uses the fab word and someone else mis-interprets the whole scenario....

True but every good code needs a code exchange.

Maybe they use the word fab.....

You reply. It depends on how you define FAB?

They say Fab.com

Sounds like a very pornographic spy movie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pampas grass, ankle bracelet on the right ankle, hot tub, saying the word FAB in conversation and a fish symbol looking to the left are all signs of swingers

And if you live on a boat... A teapot on the roof! (We have 3!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Somebody should write a code book

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"So we were out having drinks after our meet up Saturday, a couple came over (vanilla bar) said hi and we had a few drinks listening to a live band.

The female said "are you having a FAB night"??

At first I thought nothing of it then she said "this band are FAB" and I was thinking.....

"Is this some code we don't know about yet"?

Anyway they left very shortly after and I spoke to miss and she said "hmmm yeah maybe they were giving us a coded signal"!

If its not a signal as yet, it should be

How do you recognise other "fabbers" in vanilla settings, maybe there's a badge?"

I can spot a swinger a mile away but I dont assume everyone is one or if they are, they are on fab. I think its part of the human condition to want to belong or bring others down to our level. why would anyone assume that there are loads of other swingers out there?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do you "spot a swinger a mile off"?

This is quite a skill.

I mean, my grandad said he could spot a hare a mile off, and by heck often he could, but that was more to do with good eyesight.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"How do you "spot a swinger a mile off"?

This is quite a skill.

I mean, my grandad said he could spot a hare a mile off, and by heck often he could, but that was more to do with good eyesight.

Maybe not a mile off but whenever we go to a wedding or similar social gathering, I have a knack of getting people's secrets out .... actually I do this anywhere, but where there is a swinger, I find one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm benidorm during the fiestas we wear a black ring as a sign... not sure if that helps at all or if it's just useless Info haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a friend that used the word FAB a lot and she's as vanilla as they come...... Or maybe she's just good at fooling me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Posh people say fab s lot. The filthy fuckers.

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By *ctaxi and stacieCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Lol Mctaxi seen me on my fab when i was in his cab for the first time on way home from work lol we exchanged numbers great wee social meet to break the ice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So we were out having drinks after our meet up Saturday, a couple came over (vanilla bar) said hi and we had a few drinks listening to a live band.

The female said "are you having a FAB night"??

At first I thought nothing of it then she said "this band are FAB" and I was thinking.....

"Is this some code we don't know about yet"?

Anyway they left very shortly after and I spoke to miss and she said "hmmm yeah maybe they were giving us a coded signal"!

If its not a signal as yet, it should be

How do you recognise other "fabbers" in vanilla settings, maybe there's a badge?

'Bring others down to our level'....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there a "code"?"

Up up, down down, left right, left right, B A.

Unlocks the Fab superpowers.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

It always a surprise to us when people come over on the beach having seen FAB on our umbrella ..works well for us, try it and see ..connie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha. I use the word 'fab' all the time in normal conversations.

It's either made me look like a sex addicted slut with nothing else on my mind.

Or it's ruined any chance in the future, because that's just a word they know I use.

Damn you code words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ankle bracelets is another one...along with a box of Daz in your front window...or was that just a signal to the milkman that the coast was clear for him to deliver an extra pint?!

Mr G

Daz in window is an old military one on married quarters I'm sure?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that why my X Mrs used to buy Daz when I was in th navy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the word "Peachy" around a peach tattooed on my arse.

So if you ever see someone you think might be me, check their arse. I'm sure they won't mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Posh people say fab s lot. The filthy fuckers. "

I say fab a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Posh people say fab s lot. The filthy fuckers.

I say fab a lot

My mom says fab alot.. she better not be here

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Oswestry

"I've got a T-shirt with ma username on it

Hahaha I'd love one of those for dress down fridays at work So very incorporate

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"A chameleon badge is also used. On a yellow branch for a straight swinger, on a pink branch for a bisexual swinger"
now i want a tattoo...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Posh people say fab s lot. The filthy fuckers.

I say fab a lot

My mom says fab alot.. she better not be here

She is and she was round ours lastnight!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Posh people say fab s lot. The filthy fuckers.

I say fab a lot

My mom says fab alot.. she better not be here

She is and she was round ours lastnight!

We can confirm this, we were there too.

She is a hot mum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Posh people say fab s lot. The filthy fuckers.

I say fab a lot

My mom says fab alot.. she better not be here

She is and she was round ours lastnight!

We can confirm this, we were there too.

She is a hot mum

Wrong soo wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you have to like Fab I've lollies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ankle bracelets is another one...along with a box of Daz in your front window...or was that just a signal to the milkman that the coast was clear for him to deliver an extra pint?!

Mr G

OMO wasn't it? "Old Man Out"

I thought it was "On my own"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm benidorm during the fiestas we wear a black ring as a sign... not sure if that helps at all or if it's just useless Info haha xx"

You paint your ring black?

Agile aren't ya?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I've just been out on a date

Music in the car on the way home was quite mellow

"What's this I ask"

"This? just some swing"

"Oh, not my kinda swing"

Went straight over their head while I suppressed giggles

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"A chameleon badge is also used. On a yellow branch for a straight swinger, on a pink branch for a bisexual swinger now i want a tattoo...

Nah, you just want a Cockatoo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

omo - on my own - forces speak I'might here alone, he's elsewhere do come over haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use Fab and FabLife as code if i meet someone i think may be on here. It is surprising how often you bump into Fabbers in Tesco.

If your not sure, discretely check your See Who's Near and send a wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Nessa)

I like the open approach.

Getting into a conversation, flirting and talking about social media sites. Then say that we are on FAB.... either they say "what?" Or it gets hot.

Sometimes gets hot and not swingers. ...hee hee.

Seduction is soooooooo wicked.

Lipstick Kisses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An OMO packet placed upside down in the window.... OWO a bloke claiming Old Woman Out.....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMO was a top seller in the N.A.A.F.I. shops when I was in the R.A.F.

For some reason some wives when their husbands were away seemed to like to store the box on the window sill in plain view.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've just been out on a date

Music in the car on the way home was quite mellow

"What's this I ask"

"This? just some swing"

"Oh, not my kinda swing"

Went straight over their head while I suppressed giggles

Haha made us laugh this one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So we were out watching this band, when another couple came over, never once said fab, didn't have pampas grass on her ankle chain, she dropped to her knees undid my fly and gave me an excellent blow job.

? do you think they were giving us a coded sign?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So we were out watching this band, when another couple came over, never once said fab, didn't have pampas grass on her ankle chain, she dropped to her knees undid my fly and gave me an excellent blow job.

? do you think they were giving us a coded sign?

Maybe she was the trumpet player and forgot her instrument?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

? do you think they were giving us a coded sign?

Maybe she was the trumpet player and forgot her instrument?"

That's what we thought, so obviously didn't follow it up just in case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oo ive unknowingly been exposing myself.. as i sometimes get waitrose milk and i did limp last week.. oh dear

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

"Can only imagine it was because who uses the word fab in normal speech anymore and by the way does having a pampas grass mean you swing?"

I'm gonna change my choice of ice lolly, just in case the icecream seller gets the wrong idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a lot on here who don't swing so were you go with that one

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