FabSwingers.com forum: I've decided to take the plunge and attend a club

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been meaning to for a while but life gets in the way and all that, so I've grabbed myself a ticket to a night at Le Boudoir! Not that you care so I'll ask a question...

what was your first club experience?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Nocturnal social at Jay Dees and had a fantastic time.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

It was an old school house dance theam night at xtasia. Nervous as funk before it and till about 15 minutes in then realised everyone didn't have 2 heads and had a fantastic night best thing I ever did and not stopped going since

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

SW1A1AA

Hated it and swore id never go to another. Took about 18 months for someone to persuade me to go to another and i absolutly loved it. Id just gone to the wrong club for my liking

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Chams with a bloke who knew the scene inside out. It was exactly what I thought it would be and I had a smashing time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First club i went to was Chams. A guy i knew well was trying to persuade me to go. It took him and a couple i knew about 5 hours to get me to agree to go.

Very nervous and felt sick with fear.

Loved it. Been loads of times in the past 11 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still yet to visit a club, the one close to me I've heard can be very cliquey, and sometimes not a good night/day for single guys, chances are I'll never bother going to be honest.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Nocturnal social at Jay Dees and had a fantastic time.

mine was at ab fabs about 6 years ago..went for a whole weekend. friday and saturday night..what an experience

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Went to Radlette as it was more or less like a house party. Dance floor, DJ and a buffet

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I've been a member of two clubs and visited as a guest one other .. they all had a different vibe and atmosphere, if you're friendly and sociable you'll enjoy the experience let the staff know it's your first time and they'll look after you

Try and relax and enjoy

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Naked sunbathing at Eureka on a 30 degree sunny day

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners

"Nocturnal social at Jay Dees and had a fantastic time.

this night for me too

it was awesome!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I went to the VA and had an absolutely amazing time with a few other fabbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First club was townhouse nearly 3 years ago. I am now a member, it was a private party... Never looked back. C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club F about a week ago. Really enjoyed it. A combination of going with a good (girl) friend, really welcoming club management (Simon), and very friendly clientele (some of which I'd previously spoken to on here). Just went for a nosey really without any expectation of doing much. Just take small steps...

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Went to Club F, another couple showed us a fantastic time and we have never looked back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marks was in Brighton at a now closed club called Skinny.

Su was at a now closed club nr Gatwick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ab Fabs with a non fab friend.

We weren't too sure of club etiquette, didn't fancy anyone else, laughed a lot & had fun with each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm yet to go to a club, but am always open to new experiences -- not sure which of the London clubs would be a best fit for me though. Or who to go with!

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Went to one in sheerness, can't remember what it was called. Went for a greedy girls night, turned out only one greedy girl turned up, i guess she was the greediest. So in effect the evening turned into a gang bang. Once that was all done and dusted, 20 odd blokes and no women, aside from the lady that run it and an employee running the bar, not playing for obvious reasons. An hour later tony blair and rose west arrive and fuck ( bit surreal, as it did genuinely look like they'd knocked off from the talent agency). They got the hump cos the fella they selected to join them flatly refused. Scraped the frost off my windscreen and went home.

Spent 30 quid on entrance and lifetime membership, never felt the urge to return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Marks was in Brighton at a now closed club called Skinny.

Su was at a now closed club nr Gatwick."

Skinnies was the best

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Abfab about 10 years ago. Lovely staff and great facilities but had a shit night. It was a Saturday night and I played with a couple that I didn't know til later had rules that they did soft play then when suitably aroused dispensed with the single lady and went off to fuck, lady not invited. It left me feeling unsatisfied and used, hence my long standing reticence on not meeting couples unless it's a full 3 way. Luckily I was persuaded to come back and try a Friday night. Still a regular now

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

Just seen your profile OP. I think you'll be very popular!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A forumite persuaded me. I was bricking it. 29 minutes in and I was fucking in a room with a view. Go figure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A forumite persuaded me. I was bricking it. 29 minutes in and I was fucking in a room with a view. Go figure. "

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I never been to one, it's on my to do list but none of my friends will come! Bloody vanillas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Townhouse was my first ever club visit. - year ago this weekend actually. I braved it alone, as a single girl and was bricking it!

My initial thoughts were 'thank fuck it's not seedy!'

I didn't play, in fact I mostly hid in the corner and watched the world go by. It was scary! But now I've made lots of friends there so I really like it.

Red xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first club was Leicester City Celts at a private party. I had a fantastic time. The second was Extasia FFFF in July. It was really different but still a lot of fun. I thing Quest in Leeds might be good for my 3rd club experience.

Nell

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

The ex took me to a rather seedy, full on greedy girl club that isn't around any more.

I didn't know what to wear or what would happen. It was an intense experience and he commented that I took to it like a duck to flying.

OP, Le Boudoir is lovely. I can't persuade many to go with me but I like it there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went to pleasures about 7 or 8 yeas ago we had a cap night and have never been back. Just the wrong club for us.

Thinking of braving BGHS at some point several people have said it's really nice and not pressured

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like Angel's it's brilliant but I was stood up by a guy and a couple last time so haven't been since! I like to go escorted as safer. It's a really clean and friendly club and I particularly liked being spanked and watched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been meaning to for a while but life gets in the way and all that, so I've grabbed myself a ticket to a night at Le Boudoir! Not that you care so I'll ask a question...

what was your first club experience?"

When are you going!?

wouldn't mind attending for the view. Hee hee

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just seen your profile OP. I think you'll be very popular!

Let's hope so!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Been meaning to for a while but life gets in the way and all that, so I've grabbed myself a ticket to a night at Le Boudoir! Not that you care so I'll ask a question...

what was your first club experience?

When are you going!?

wouldn't mind attending for the view. Hee hee"

Not until December

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Been meaning to for a while but life gets in the way and all that, so I've grabbed myself a ticket to a night at Le Boudoir! Not that you care so I'll ask a question...

what was your first club experience?

When are you going!?

wouldn't mind attending for the view. Hee hee

Not until December

That is booking in advance. I usually decide a few days beforehand.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Been meaning to for a while but life gets in the way and all that, so I've grabbed myself a ticket to a night at Le Boudoir! Not that you care so I'll ask a question...

what was your first club experience?

When are you going!?

wouldn't mind attending for the view. Hee hee

Not until December

That is booking in advance. I usually decide a few days beforehand.

Nothing wrong with planning when visiting clubs we plan well in advance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have a busy life, last minute isn't an option. I'm out of the country most of the next 3 months

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I have a busy life, last minute isn't an option. I'm out of the country most of the next 3 months "

It's worth it. Three generous floors of fun to be had and very comfy sofas for chilling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first time was with a FWB when I was only 21- went to liberty elite and absolutely loved it. Pauls first time was around 3/4years ago when we first went to chams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me to with another formiter when I go to Derby to meet him

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