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"Can you set facebook friends into diff groups? For example friends, family, work colleagues etc? I dont mind work people being able to see other work people, but I dont want them to be able to see family etc" No but some ppl have swinging/vanilla accounts.i tell anyone i have made friends with via swinging whom i add that my mum is on,and friends children,if they can't handle that,then i don't add them.It's a good way of seeing who actually has a hinterland lol. i had a bad experience when another sub started posting about doing Sir's ironing naked for him .Wrong time and place as far as i was concerned,and if people cant manage that on facebook,then i doubt they can in RL either. | |||
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"when you say you only let your friends see your page..ok so the people that run facebook are your friends too then?? thats what i mean!! You think its private but nothing really is " and using that premise so could hanging around a swinging website putting stuff on a profile.... 
you only let people know as little or as much as you want them to.... the key word there being YOU.....
use the same username of various different sites and they could link them all together....
click the button to take it off searches.. and people will have a harder time finding you....
you make it as easy or as hard for people to search... again key word YOU.... | |||
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"Can you set facebook friends into diff groups? For example friends, family, work colleagues etc? I dont mind work people being able to see other work people, but I dont want them to be able to see family etc No but some ppl have swinging/vanilla accounts.i tell anyone i have made friends with via swinging whom i add that my mum is on,and friends children,if they can't handle that,then i don't add them.It's a good way of seeing who actually has a hinterland lol. i had a bad experience when another sub started posting about doing Sir's ironing naked for him .Wrong time and place as far as i was concerned,and if people cant manage that on facebook,then i doubt they can in RL either."Thanks Jemima, might just have to hide them all or not bother joining up x | |||
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"Can you set facebook friends into diff groups? For example friends, family, work colleagues etc? I dont mind work people being able to see other work people, but I dont want them to be able to see family etc" yes and no... now on facebook you can set it to: just friends, friends and their immediate friends, friends and networks you are in, friends , friends of friends, and networks... or everyone... so again you can customise ya settings..... | |||
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"well i think a swinging site is a lot different to faceshit for one thing i havent seen anyone yet walk around a supermarket updating thier fab swingers profile telling people they are buying frozen peas in section 10 of sainsburys but i see tons of people updating their fb as they go along the day two totally different things in my opinion i notice that when a non facebook person basically says what fb is..a pile of utter shit if you ask me then they try to justify it someway or another its just my opinion but like i said be careful out there you never know who is watching your shit!! " well if you want to be righteous any swinging site that asks you for a subscription to pay is going to have some sort of details on you.... name, address, credit card details so it is exactly the same thing that has happened on the playstation network..... as i said... you can put on as little or as much info as you want on facebook, and i am not really a facebook fan myself.... no amount of security is going to be 100% proof... if it was we wouldn't be having this conversation... all you can do is manage that risk... | |||
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"Does refering to it as Faceshit seem just a little childish to anyone else?
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"it may seem childish to you but updating Faceshit with every movement you make every single minute of every day is about as juvenile as you can get if you ask me " But only if you read it... | |||
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"it may seem childish to you but updating Faceshit with every movement you make every single minute of every day is about as juvenile as you can get if you ask me Does refering to it as Faceshit seem just a little childish to anyone else?
"Some people are addicted to it others are not, others simply use it as a tool for keeping in touch. You either love it or hate it, but I will say _iteskin does have a point last year all military persons who had facebook were told to delete it as it was a way of Al Qaeda finding information about your family. We wasn't sure if it was true most left their profiles active, I deleted mine at the time | |||
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"it may seem childish to you but updating Faceshit with every movement you make every single minute of every day is about as juvenile as you can get if you ask me Does refering to it as Faceshit seem just a little childish to anyone else?
Some people are addicted to it others are not, others simply use it as a tool for keeping in touch. You either love it or hate it, but I will say _iteskin does have a point last year all military persons who had facebook were told to delete it as it was a way of Al Qaeda finding information about your family. We wasn't sure if it was true most left their profiles active, I deleted mine at the time " | |||
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"so no hotels for your meets then _iteskin... after all... they would have your details wouldn't they... oh hang on... did you buy your car... they would have your details... sorry.. not car... trains... but did you buy your tickets in advance... hang on... they would have your card details... trace it back to you... arrrrgghh!!!!! " | |||
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"facebook is what you make of it, same with here. You dont have to add people you dont want too, no one forces you to upload pictures or video's. If you do have a friend who updates every 3 mins you can select to remove their posts from the news feed. " Exactly what i was going to say! Adding that since friends are people you choose to get on with,it is unlikely that someone is going to be a constant updater if you are not(birds of a feather and all that). Every internet site, swinging,social network,bdsm,whatever,only gets the information you choose to give it.If you don't like a certain site,then you log off.What confuses me is why people get so upset about how others choose to use the interweb. 
See the word that keeps coming up there? | |||
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"hiya im on facebook alot due to the fact im aloud to use it at work lol,the swingers pages one there tend to be poo as there always americans or never reply to your messages lol ." | |||
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"good job you dont work for me then i would sack you on the spot...that would give you something worthwhile to post about on your wall wouldnt it lol hiya im on facebook alot due to the fact im aloud to use it at work lol,the swingers pages one there tend to be poo as there always americans or never reply to your messages lol ." I really hope you had written policies in place outlining acceptable net use policies, or you could find yourself on the wrong end of an unfair dismissal case. | |||
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. He'd made it quite clear he wanted nothing to do with her and her son, and she was ok with that. He'd never given her a penny towards her son who is now three.
Well, in the interim he's now married, and posted it on Facebook, along with a comment that Auto Trader is pants as he was having difficulty finding a quality car for his wife.
My sister has suddenly decided she wants him to pay towards their son, has got the CSA involved, paternity tests are under way the lot.
Now if only he'd kept his business to himself...! | |||
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"good job you dont work for me then i would sack you on the spot...that would give you something worthwhile to post about on your wall wouldnt it lol hiya im on facebook alot due to the fact im aloud to use it at work lol,the swingers pages one there tend to be poo as there always americans or never reply to your messages lol . I really hope you had written policies in place outlining acceptable net use policies, or you could find yourself on the wrong end of an unfair dismissal case. " | |||
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"And one final note, how come those that hate and never use it seem to know so much about it and what goes on!
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"i would LOVE to see him try lol good job you dont work for me then i would sack you on the spot...that would give you something worthwhile to post about on your wall wouldnt it lol hiya im on facebook alot due to the fact im aloud to use it at work lol,the swingers pages one there tend to be poo as there always americans or never reply to your messages lol . I really hope you had written policies in place outlining acceptable net use policies, or you could find yourself on the wrong end of an unfair dismissal case. " | |||
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"The object if an unfair dismissal claim is often NOT to win the claim - that's just an unexpected bonus if you do. Then there's the ongoing problem of actually getting any winnings out of the former employer. With the help that's available from any number of organisations up and down the country it's really quite easy to keep an employer tied up in expensively time-consuming knots for weeks and months, all the while having a really good laugh - not least because your ex-employer knows exactly what you're doing and why. lol! i would LOVE to see him try lol good job you dont work for me then i would sack you on the spot...that would give you something worthwhile to post about on your wall wouldnt it lol hiya im on facebook alot due to the fact im aloud to use it at work lol,the swingers pages one there tend to be poo as there always americans or never reply to your messages lol . I really hope you had written policies in place outlining acceptable net use policies, or you could find yourself on the wrong end of an unfair dismissal case. " | |||
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"ohh i dunno the fact he was chatting up guys on fb and he is a married man..mmmm dont think he would want that comming out hence why he wont try lol and another reason why peeps should be careful with fb the cats out the bag when you use it like a fool lol The object if an unfair dismissal claim is often NOT to win the claim - that's just an unexpected bonus if you do. Then there's the ongoing problem of actually getting any winnings out of the former employer. With the help that's available from any number of organisations up and down the country it's really quite easy to keep an employer tied up in expensively time-consuming knots for weeks and months, all the while having a really good laugh - not least because your ex-employer knows exactly what you're doing and why. lol! i would LOVE to see him try lol good job you dont work for me then i would sack you on the spot...that would give you something worthwhile to post about on your wall wouldnt it lol hiya im on facebook alot due to the fact im aloud to use it at work lol,the swingers pages one there tend to be poo as there always americans or never reply to your messages lol . I really hope you had written policies in place outlining acceptable net use policies, or you could find yourself on the wrong end of an unfair dismissal case. " | |||
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"Blackmail is where it moves from merely being a civil matter to being a criminal matter. lol! ohh i dunno the fact he was chatting up guys on fb and he is a married man..mmmm dont think he would want that comming out hence why he wont try lol and another reason why peeps should be careful with fb the cats out the bag when you use it like a fool lol The object if an unfair dismissal claim is often NOT to win the claim - that's just an unexpected bonus if you do. Then there's the ongoing problem of actually getting any winnings out of the former employer. With the help that's available from any number of organisations up and down the country it's really quite easy to keep an employer tied up in expensively time-consuming knots for weeks and months, all the while having a really good laugh - not least because your ex-employer knows exactly what you're doing and why. lol! i would LOVE to see him try lol good job you dont work for me then i would sack you on the spot...that would give you something worthwhile to post about on your wall wouldnt it lol hiya im on facebook alot due to the fact im aloud to use it at work lol,the swingers pages one there tend to be poo as there always americans or never reply to your messages lol . I really hope you had written policies in place outlining acceptable net use policies, or you could find yourself on the wrong end of an unfair dismissal case. " | |||
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"Can you set facebook friends into diff groups? For example friends, family, work colleagues etc? I dont mind work people being able to see other work people, but I dont want them to be able to see family etc" Yes you can group people & to some extent restrict - you can restrict a group from posting to your wall & also if you play any games etc who sees those posts - while I was Ill last year I grouped my friend & set certain privacy settings etc for work, family, mum etc I also used the groups to decide who can see which photos - I don't allow anyone except close family view photos of the kids | |||
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"I really don't know why I bother with this site! Here we are on a site that is uber politically correct and non judgemental. Where has all that gone now? The OP must be very insecure if he feels the need to use childish names to try and make his point! The site has a name and no amount of changing it will make one bit of difference. Millions of people around the world will continue to use it as THEY want. I use Facebook almost every day for contact with family abroad and down in Cornwall. I use it to chat to some of my customers and I use it to arrange business meeting with people whose services I use. Just a thought to the OP... You are saying about people knowing where others are? The technology is in place and can be (is?) used to track you with your mobile! You are tracked with CCTV. You are tracked with Debit/Credit cards. By all means express a dislike of the site, but don't try to make yourself seem bigger by demeaning others who want or love to use it!" | |||
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if people are happy to do that then let them, i dont get the need to get sooooo worked up about it really, you dont like facebook - dont use it, its about as simple as it gets really
i agree with the poster that calling it faceshit all the time is childish - everytime i read it reading through this thread i just thought 'fucking grow up man!!!' but then i followed my own advice and got over it
we are not allowed to use facebook at work purely because it is a vehicle for all sorts of viruses (thats the corporate line anyway lol)
i cant be arsed telling people wat i am doing all the time - at the moment i am getting a running commentary of the wedding - i know whats happening on that, i'm watching it ffs!!!! lol | |||
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"i shall grow up and call it facebook..that really makes a difference doesnt it "yes it does and thank you very much, it is appreciated x | |||
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"i really dont get it??? why do people put all their biz on there for every person,burglar,unsavoury type person to see EXACTLY what they are getting up to like where they go on hols,when they are out etc etc You wouldnt tell joe blogs in the street your biz or show them pics of your kids now would you?? i really dont get it..maybe i,m getting old lol "Sounds pretty much like here | |||
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"jesus people will argue about anything on ere these days "no we wont | |||
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"i really dont get it??? why do people put all their biz on there for every person,burglar,unsavoury type person to see EXACTLY what they are getting up to like where they go on hols,when they are out etc etc You wouldnt tell joe blogs in the street your biz or show them pics of your kids now would you?? i really dont get it..maybe i,m getting old lol
Sounds pretty much like here "thing is i understand peoples concern about because some crimes have been related to people posting pictures on facebook. 1 year ago someone posted pictures of their car. of course on facebook it had the persons location. and thieves used google streetview to narrow down the number of similar cars in that area until they came across one on someones drive. and it was the same one on this persons facebook and it was stolen. if thieves want something bad enough they will take time in getting it and search blogging and social sites to target peoples property. people posting they are going on holiday have come home to find the place ransacked. it does happen. | |||
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"Dont do Facebook - can see the value for networking but I dont have time for Fabs AND Facebook... "love it | |||
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"i really dont get it??? why do people put all their biz on there for every person,burglar,unsavoury type person to see EXACTLY what they are getting up to like where they go on hols,when they are out etc etc You wouldnt tell joe blogs in the street your biz or show them pics of your kids now would you?? i really dont get it..maybe i,m getting old lol "I have facebook... but its locked out to anyone but those I add myself... No one can see anything unless I add them. I use it for my family that is spread about the world.. To keep them updated on things like the kids at school and stuff like that. I also then get to see photos of them.. I have 23 friends on there.. 17 are family, the rest are very dear friends. Katie. x | |||
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