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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Affairs or swing OP? I'm not sure what you're getting at but until you've walked a mile in someone's shoes and know their reasons maybe you should reserve judgement

Beard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough? "

Is there something in the Fab air today?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough? "

Rightly or wrongly we are an animal that enjoys and sometimes craves sex but may not be satisfied at home. So suppose those married woman you refer to may be in that situation, like some married man, yes me as well.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Cheaters have affairs behind their partner's backs. Dress it up whichever way you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough? "

Ah, the "love" thing.

There are many versions of that.

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

I'm married. I love my husband more than I've ever loved anyone. We both here and play with others. Who you love and who you has sexwith is two different things.

Our sexual life with eachother is amazing. We enjoy having sex with others. It works for us and we are happy. So we don't see the problem.

MrsSB

PS fancy a fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because being in love and being happy don't always go hand in hand

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have been in those shoes and regretted it beard, also been in marriage where it happened. Have been swinging with a lady who has told a pack of lies, how do I know as her husband came to see me.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Have enough dramas of my own to care what others do with their lives.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

People cheat for various reasons op,no sex at home,greedy,feeling unwanted etc.

If they are honest about it,people can make an informed choice about meeting them.

I get the lying bit though,its not fair to drag people into their dramas.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because being in love and being happy don't always go hand in hand"

This

I don't judge others. What they do is their buisness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough? "

Probably be best to nip off to your nearest stately home and ask the question as the question you're asking is usually for the aristocracy.

Sex here is in the most part consensual between all relevant parties.

Yes there are people on here who have sex with others and not tell their partners. Thats their life, their choice, their conscience.

You're asking about partners that do know though.

Generally people here know their partners have sex with others.

It's um....kinda the point of the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm married. I love my husband more than I've ever loved anyone. We both here and play with others. Who you love and who you has sexwith is two different things.

Our sexual life with eachother is amazing. We enjoy having sex with others. It works for us and we are happy. So we don't see the problem.

MrsSB

PS fancy a fuck?

Ever In ireland hit me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough? "

No everybody associates love with sex, some don't see having sex with others as a way of loving their partner any less

I guess we all _iew things different, so long as it's not your Mrs I wouldn't worry about it

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Because their individual wants are greater than the partnership

They cause me no ill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's their business leave them to it. I do wander if anyone has ever been spotted on here who is married by face pic or sorroundjngs in picture? I don't think I could insult my husband or OH by having conspicuous pictures up in my public profile if I were cheating. Bit mean. Sorry off topic carry on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mrs spanish brunette if you lived closer I would as your stunning and hubby would know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just like the husbands that say they love their wife's and would do anything for them, but still cheat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was lucky as hubby put it my wife is a cheap whore! You aren't the first on fab to be fooled and you won't be the last. I would like to name and shame but I won't put more dishonour on the man.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I was lucky as hubby put it my wife is a cheap whore! You aren't the first on fab to be fooled and you won't be the last. I would like to name and shame but I won't put more dishonour on the man. "

Dignity at all costs

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Ironic talking about cheating on a swinging site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ironic talking about cheating on a swinging site"

Why so?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ironic talking about cheating on a swinging site

Why so? "

Swinging doesn't mean cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because being in love and being happy don't always go hand in hand"

I love my wife but I'm not happy she went off sex a long long long long time ago I crave sex if I left her it would destroy her and my son.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know. I could speak for myself, but a) it's none of anyone's business, and b) I don't want to.

And I wouldn't presume to speak for anyone else the way a lot of people seem to do.

It's unfortunate if you've been caught up in someone else's drama, OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get why were holding on to this Victorian _iew of love and sex Being mutually exclusive? If I love someone, and they want to play tennis with someone, I wouldn't stop that!, so why stop other physical activities, obviously I'd expect honesty and transparency, and safe sex, but other than that, go for it

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I'm married and yes I love my hubby. He knows I'm on here. I tell him when I meet. He's not cuckold. He also has absolutely no sex drive at all. Not interested in women (or men). Tried everything. I'm the opposite, I have an extremely high drive. This works for us

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

This isn't a gendered issue unless you are holding _iews that men will stray and that should be tolerated but women who love and stray are not to be tolerated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get why were holding on to this Victorian _iew of love and sex Being mutually exclusive? If I love someone, and they want to play tennis with someone, I wouldn't stop that!, so why stop other physical activities, obviously I'd expect honesty and transparency, and safe sex, but other than that, go for it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop judging others.

Simple.

Live your own life.

Mind your beeswax.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

"Stop judging others.

Simple.

Live your own life.

Mind your beeswax. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough? "

clearly Not. I'm happy to be doing this with hubby's support. Some don't. It's their problem not mine ...but i know who's shoes i'd rather be in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough?

clearly Not. I'm happy to be doing this with hubby's support. Some don't. It's their problem not mine ...but i know who's shoes i'd rather be in."

I'd love a relationship like you have scarlet. Very envious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough?

clearly Not. I'm happy to be doing this with hubby's support. Some don't. It's their problem not mine ...but i know who's shoes i'd rather be in.

I'd love a relationship like you have scarlet. Very envious

It's taken us a lot of ups and downs over 20+ years to get there. It isn't easy...and not all plain sailing.....but it's worth it...p.s....you can borrow him anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough?

clearly Not. I'm happy to be doing this with hubby's support. Some don't. It's their problem not mine ...but i know who's shoes i'd rather be in.

I'd love a relationship like you have scarlet. Very envious

It's taken us a lot of ups and downs over 20+ years to get there. It isn't easy...and not all plain sailing.....but it's worth it...p.s....you can borrow him anytime

Why thank you

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough?

clearly Not. I'm happy to be doing this with hubby's support. Some don't. It's their problem not mine ...but i know who's shoes i'd rather be in.

I'd love a relationship like you have scarlet. Very envious

It's taken us a lot of ups and downs over 20+ years to get there. It isn't easy...and not all plain sailing.....but it's worth it...p.s....you can borrow him anytime

Is there a qualifying test to get ones name on the waiting list?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough?

clearly Not. I'm happy to be doing this with hubby's support. Some don't. It's their problem not mine ...but i know who's shoes i'd rather be in.

I'd love a relationship like you have scarlet. Very envious

It's taken us a lot of ups and downs over 20+ years to get there. It isn't easy...and not all plain sailing.....but it's worth it...p.s....you can borrow him anytime

Is there a qualifying test to get ones name on the waiting list?

For Clem? Yeah.... you just need to be able to write your name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough?

clearly Not. I'm happy to be doing this with hubby's support. Some don't. It's their problem not mine ...but i know who's shoes i'd rather be in.

I'd love a relationship like you have scarlet. Very envious

It's taken us a lot of ups and downs over 20+ years to get there. It isn't easy...and not all plain sailing.....but it's worth it...p.s....you can borrow him anytime

Is there a qualifying test to get ones name on the waiting list?

For Clem? Yeah.... you just need to be able to write your name

Haaaa that's halarious poor clem

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough?

clearly Not. I'm happy to be doing this with hubby's support. Some don't. It's their problem not mine ...but i know who's shoes i'd rather be in.

I'd love a relationship like you have scarlet. Very envious

It's taken us a lot of ups and downs over 20+ years to get there. It isn't easy...and not all plain sailing.....but it's worth it...p.s....you can borrow him anytime

Is there a qualifying test to get ones name on the waiting list?

For Clem? Yeah.... you just need to be able to write your name

I think mine starts with an "L"; how am I doin' so far?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough?

clearly Not. I'm happy to be doing this with hubby's support. Some don't. It's their problem not mine ...but i know who's shoes i'd rather be in.

I'd love a relationship like you have scarlet. Very envious

It's taken us a lot of ups and downs over 20+ years to get there. It isn't easy...and not all plain sailing.....but it's worth it...p.s....you can borrow him anytime

Is there a qualifying test to get ones name on the waiting list?

For Clem? Yeah.... you just need to be able to write your name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough?

clearly Not. I'm happy to be doing this with hubby's support. Some don't. It's their problem not mine ...but i know who's shoes i'd rather be in.

I'd love a relationship like you have scarlet. Very envious

It's taken us a lot of ups and downs over 20+ years to get there. It isn't easy...and not all plain sailing.....but it's worth it...p.s....you can borrow him anytime

Is there a qualifying test to get ones name on the waiting list?

For Clem? Yeah.... you just need to be able to write your name

Obviously I'm kidding!!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough?

clearly Not. I'm happy to be doing this with hubby's support. Some don't. It's their problem not mine ...but i know who's shoes i'd rather be in.

I'd love a relationship like you have scarlet. Very envious

It's taken us a lot of ups and downs over 20+ years to get there. It isn't easy...and not all plain sailing.....but it's worth it...p.s....you can borrow him anytime

Is there a qualifying test to get ones name on the waiting list?

For Clem? Yeah.... you just need to be able to write your name

Obviously I'm kidding!!

Oh well

[ that is another one who slipped through my fingers ]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop judging others.

Simple.

Live your own life.

Mind your beeswax. "

None of your business what others do with their lives. Some cheaters are upfront on here, some will lie through their teeth. Just move on and don't get involved in other people's dramas

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough?

clearly Not. I'm happy to be doing this with hubby's support. Some don't. It's their problem not mine ...but i know who's shoes i'd rather be in.

I'd love a relationship like you have scarlet. Very envious

It's taken us a lot of ups and downs over 20+ years to get there. It isn't easy...and not all plain sailing.....but it's worth it...p.s....you can borrow him anytime

Is there a qualifying test to get ones name on the waiting list?

For Clem? Yeah.... you just need to be able to write your name

Obviously I'm kidding!!

I know - you just have to promise to show him your tits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm married. I love my husband more than I've ever loved anyone. We both here and play with others. Who you love and who you has sexwith is two different things.

Our sexual life with eachother is amazing. We enjoy having sex with others. It works for us and we are happy. So we don't see the problem.

MrsSB

PS fancy a fuck?

Totally agree shame I'm not getting any on fab

my better half does very well on another site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough? "

maybe their a crap shag but 99.9% of them is awesome to that person

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough? "
I think I unstand ops thread...

However does make think of another awkward question.Often reading upset of women finding out that supposed single fella is married being a deal breaker.Though not so much if seeking a single " elusive" bi- woman only to discover is actually married ....?

Is this equally a dealbreaker ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Holy shite . !

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Ha ha embrace the chaos !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because being in love and being happy don't always go hand in hand"

Wow how true

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

So the OP has been cheated on, but is now on a swinging site and complaining about married women being on here because one once cheated on her husband to be with him?

Thread sounds like sour grapes but correct me if I'm wrong

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Because being in love and being happy don't always go hand in hand"

And this

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Because being in love and being happy don't always go hand in hand"

I can see that people agree with you but I cannot understand this. If I were in love with someone, that would make me happy; why wouldn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is possible to love two people or more for some, otherwise how do polygamous marriages work?

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

"So the OP has been cheated on, but is now on a swinging site and complaining about married women being on here because one once cheated on her husband to be with him?

Thread sounds like sour grapes but correct me if I'm wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't waste your time trying to 2nd guess why people do the things they do.

No two answers will ever be the same.

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

"Why is that married women who say they love their husband are happy with them have affairs? Surely if you love someone and are happy with them isn't that enough? "

Some people believe in monogamous relationships and that sex only within that relationship is a way of being in love

Others don't, and believe there is a separation of sex and love and you can have a very happy, amazingly loving non-monogamous relationship that involves sex with others outside of the relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because being in love and being happy don't always go hand in hand

This

I don't judge others. What they do is their buisness. "

This. ^^^^^

My default response; not my monkey not my circus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm married. I love my husband more than I've ever loved anyone. We both here and play with others. Who you love and who you has sexwith is two different things.

Our sexual life with eachother is amazing. We enjoy having sex with others. It works for us and we are happy. So we don't see the problem.

MrsSB

PS fancy a fuck?

Absoblimminlutely - you may have been looking at IP when you asked but it was obviously meant fir me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not right but who am I to complain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm married. I love my husband more than I've ever loved anyone. We both here and play with others. Who you love and who you has sexwith is two different things.

Our sexual life with eachother is amazing. We enjoy having sex with others. It works for us and we are happy. So we don't see the problem.

MrsSB

PS fancy a fuck?

yeah sounds good

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