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By *itsandtatts73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

close to Narnia

What would you do if you were interested in meeting someone..but you saw on their profile they had met someone you didnt get on with any more.... Would you continue .. 'hypothectical'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *itsandtatts73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

close to Narnia

thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends. It might make me think they had very poor judgement/taste and that could be a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. This is a swinging site so people are going to meet other people whether I like them or not. Doesn't bother me who else they meet

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Depends. It might make me think they had very poor judgement/taste and that could be a turn off."

Particularly if they are know barebackers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes... If the one you don't get on with is blocked... They can't PM you anyway.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"Depends. It might make me think they had very poor judgement/taste and that could be a turn off."

This. I probably wouldn't bother pursuing it.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"What would you do if you were interested in meeting someone..but you saw on their profile they had met someone you didnt get on with any more.... Would you continue .. 'hypothectical'"

It's the 'any more' that would make me think about continuing. It presupposes I also liked them once. So why shouldn't someone else? Unless the person they'd met had really fucked me or someone I care about over personally; then I would err on the side of leave it.

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By *itsandtatts73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

close to Narnia

ahhh so if a person is not a friend now or is blocked they would not see any interaction ?

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By *itzhallMan
over a year ago

birchington

You'll be potentially meeting the new person not the ex friend.... so no worries as far as I can see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the reasons behind us "not getting on anymore"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt meet them if i saw they had met one of the local bikes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the reasons behind us "not getting on anymore""

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me to be honest. Just because one person doesn't like another doesn't make that person bad it's just your opinion. Not everyone can get on in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would, that is why not having to many veris is good as they cant see who you met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

of the other person is not going to be at the meet then I wouldn't see the issue.

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By *itsandtatts73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

close to Narnia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

''you can;t be my friend if your friends with them''

kids, school, ring any bells ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple of my friends are on here n we won't meet the same guys. I'm not bothered about people I don't personally know. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just lost touch etc...nothing bad...lol think i should have re-worded that bit"

Nahhh I wouldn't worry then. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just lost touch etc...nothing bad...lol think i should have re-worded that bit"

In that case it would have no bearing on my decision. I've got a mental list of people I wouldn't meet someone I knew they'd met, but that's because I actively think they're cunts and nobody with any self respect could possibly want to have sex with them.

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By *itsandtatts73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

close to Narnia


"''you can;t be my friend if your friends with them''

kids, school, ring any bells ?"

not at all... more trying not to upset the apple cart !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"''you can;t be my friend if your friends with them''

kids, school, ring any bells ?"

Yeah I know what you mean. Some woman can be very jealous. (Not meaning you OP)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just lost touch etc...nothing bad...lol think i should have re-worded that bit

In that case it would have no bearing on my decision. I've got a mental list of people I wouldn't meet someone I knew they'd met, but that's because I actively think they're cunts and nobody with any self respect could possibly want to have sex with them. "

Haaaaaaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What others do is there affair it's a yes from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'd continue, the only way I wouldn't would be if there was a possible health risk from the previous meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't bother me to be honest. Just because one person doesn't like another doesn't make that person bad it's just your opinion. Not everyone can get on in life.

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This^

But then I don't have any and don't read them.

I have a very narrow attention span too.

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By *itsandtatts73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

close to Narnia


"just lost touch etc...nothing bad...lol think i should have re-worded that bit

In that case it would have no bearing on my decision. I've got a mental list of people I wouldn't meet someone I knew they'd met, but that's because I actively think they're cunts and nobody with any self respect could possibly want to have sex with them.

Haaaaaaa "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What Ruby said. If the person in question is a complete and utter ass clown then I prob would not get involved in the friend circle.


"just lost touch etc...nothing bad...lol think i should have re-worded that bit

In that case it would have no bearing on my decision. I've got a mental list of people I wouldn't meet someone I knew they'd met, but that's because I actively think they're cunts and nobody with any self respect could possibly want to have sex with them. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just lost touch etc...nothing bad...lol think i should have re-worded that bit

In that case it would have no bearing on my decision. I've got a mental list of people I wouldn't meet someone I knew they'd met, but that's because I actively think they're cunts and nobody with any self respect could possibly want to have sex with them. "

This!!!

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By *itzhallMan
over a year ago

birchington

Op you could have hooked up with someone I hated more than anyone else In the world and I'd still want to meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i wouldnt meet them if i saw they had met one of the local bikes"

Could you give your definition of 'one of the local bikes'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"''you can;t be my friend if your friends with them''

kids, school, ring any bells ?

not at all... more trying not to upset the apple cart !"

so you won't meet someone if it upsets someone you don't like...that makes sens

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"What would you do if you were interested in meeting someone..but you saw on their profile they had met someone you didnt get on with any more.... Would you continue .. 'hypothectical'"

Lol - I wouldn't give a damn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you do if you were interested in meeting someone..but you saw on their profile they had met someone you didnt get on with any more.... Would you continue .. 'hypothectical'

Lol - I wouldn't give a damn"

Haha standards are still at an all time low I see ... never cease to amaze us

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"What would you do if you were interested in meeting someone..but you saw on their profile they had met someone you didnt get on with any more.... Would you continue .. 'hypothectical'

Lol - I wouldn't give a damn

Haha standards are still at an all time low I see ... never cease to amaze us "

Eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Eh?"

Beats me if I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the scope for drama and my ability to think rational thoughts that day.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


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Eh?

Beats me if I know "

My brain hurts but fortunately I've had my oats this evening so I'll let you off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you do if you were interested in meeting someone..but you saw on their profile they had met someone you didnt get on with any more.... Would you continue .. 'hypothectical'

Lol - I wouldn't give a damn

Haha standards are still at an all time low I see ... never cease to amaze us "

don't think you should really start throwing stones after telling an OP on another thread shame he's not local...even though he clearly has spud holes in his socks in look at the pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you do if you were interested in meeting someone..but you saw on their profile they had met someone you didnt get on with any more.... Would you continue .. 'hypothectical'"

Why would that matter? You're not inviting the person you don't get along with to meet. If you like them and they feel the same go for it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I take people on face value, based on my impressions. Not hearsay or who they know or have shagged. Keep life simple and cleaner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would very much depend on who they are and the reasons why. Every situation is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you do if you were interested in meeting someone..but you saw on their profile they had met someone you didnt get on with any more.... Would you continue .. 'hypothectical'

Lol - I wouldn't give a damn

Haha standards are still at an all time low I see ... never cease to amaze us

don't think you should really start throwing stones after telling an OP on another thread shame he's not local...even though he clearly has spud holes in his socks in look at the pics "

My question is... why were u looking so closely lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you do if you were interested in meeting someone..but you saw on their profile they had met someone you didnt get on with any more.... Would you continue .. 'hypothectical'

Lol - I wouldn't give a damn

Haha standards are still at an all time low I see ... never cease to amaze us

don't think you should really start throwing stones after telling an OP on another thread shame he's not local...even though he clearly has spud holes in his socks in look at the pics

My question is... why were u looking so closely lol "

you don't even need to just having 20/20 vision is enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you do if you were interested in meeting someone..but you saw on their profile they had met someone you didnt get on with any more.... Would you continue .. 'hypothectical'

Lol - I wouldn't give a damn

Haha standards are still at an all time low I see ... never cease to amaze us

don't think you should really start throwing stones after telling an OP on another thread shame he's not local...even though he clearly has spud holes in his socks in look at the pics

My question is... why were u looking so closely lol

you don't even need to just having 20/20 vision is enough "

Luckily I'm blind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Luckily I'm blind "

Result, I'm fugly. Faf?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Luckily I'm blind

Result, I'm fugly. Faf? "

Say what now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Luckily I'm blind

Result, I'm fugly. Faf?

Say what now? "

Thats excellent news. I'm particularly unattractive, would you like sexual intercourse?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I really couldn't give two kangeroos' knackers who anyone has met before, I'm only interested in what happens between the person I'm going to have some fun with and me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say no on the basis that I 'didn't get on with' someone they had met. However, I would say a polite no thank you if they had met someone who I know to be not terribly discerning and doesn't play safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it would depend on the reason the other person was disliked etc -

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

I wouldn't personally care if I'm being totally honest.

who someone meets away from there fun with me is of no concern to me unless I thought they were risking there own sexual health and by default mine to in the process.

each friendship with me is a separate dynamic just because I can not see what they see or like in the other person or in a person I personally dislike ,doesn't give me the right to impose my dislike for that person on a play partner nor do I have the right unless its part of the dynamic we share to impose rules on who they meet .

oh well that's my honest opinion on this topic OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is different. I wouldn't judge someone for someone else's error or wrong doing. I would possibly meet them but would take things slow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who the person was but probably not. 6 degrees of separation and all that..

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I really couldn't give two kangeroos' knackers who anyone has met before, I'm only interested in what happens between the person I'm going to have some fun with and me "

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Depends on who the person was but probably not. 6 degrees of separation and all that.. "

can I have your list of who to avoid as I may have very little chance of meeting you but I don't want it to drop to zero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on who the person was but probably not. 6 degrees of separation and all that..

can I have your list of who to avoid as I may have very little chance of meeting you but I don't want it to drop to zero "

Aww. That actually made me smile, thank you.

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

Depends if that person then turned psycho stalker on you because you verified them! TBH Id wanna meet them more just to wind up said person!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would depend on why we no longer got on with that person. If it was over something major then we would probably try to avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really couldn't give two kangeroos' knackers who anyone has met before, I'm only interested in what happens between the person I'm going to have some fun with and me "

totally agree. Very childish to say I'm not being your friend if your friends with so an so because we don't get on or I think he/she's a cunt, playground behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really couldn't give two kangeroos' knackers who anyone has met before, I'm only interested in what happens between the person I'm going to have some fun with and me

totally agree. Very childish to say I'm not being your friend if your friends with so an so because we don't get on or I think he/she's a cunt, playground behaviour. "

yep pretty much what I said

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