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Once a fabber always a fabber?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey so whats your thoughts on this?

Once youve gone fab you never go back?

Or do you think you can go back to monogomy and a "normal" lifestyle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have left here twice, but keep coming back so that said it all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have left here twice, but keep coming back so that said it all "

1 nil to fab lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no way I could ever be in a monogamous relationship again. I don't think humans are built for monogamy as if we were we would only have sex to procreate not for pleasure. Social conditioning has created monogamy.

Saying that I happily take fab breaks and managed to not have a swing meet for 2 years but I always come back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There is no way I could ever be in a monogamous relationship again. I don't think humans are built for monogamy as if we were we would only have sex to procreate not for pleasure. Social conditioning has created monogamy.

Saying that I happily take fab breaks and managed to not have a swing meet for 2 years but I always come back. "

For a minute then i thought you said fag breaks hahahhah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Monogamy is not for me. I wouldn't settle with someone who wanted that now.

I'm ruined!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Monogamy is not for me. I wouldn't settle with someone who wanted that now.

I'm ruined! "

Hahahah ruined xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We pretty much have it made at the moment. We were both here previously as single swingers and want to stay in the swinging world as a couple. We're happy to be doing this at the moment and although there's lots we've done together there is still lots we both have on our bucket list. Couldn't go back to a vanilla relationship / lifestyle now I don't think. We enjoy kink too much

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Monogamy is not for me. I wouldn't settle with someone who wanted that now.

I'm ruined! "

I'm the same, I'm not sure if the adage of 'once; always' fits for everyone but certainly for me I couldn't go back to monogamy

Beard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on and off quite a few times. Left for a few years because I met someone... But the lure of the site dragged me back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think once you spend a decent amount of time here as a single, going to clubs, enjoying socials and having meets etc.

You'll really find it difficult to go back to monogamy.

I tried it and simply couldn't deal with the closed mindedness towards the swinging lifestyle vanilla people seem to have. Hence why I came back to fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does this mean a loving partnership is out of the question for me now lol

My god have i ruined myself!

This must be why im here on and off ha!

I say i want something serious but end up back here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this mean a loving partnership is out of the question for me now lol

My god have i ruined myself!

This must be why im here on and off ha!

I say i want something serious but end up back here?"

You do realise that you can have a loving relationship too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this mean a loving partnership is out of the question for me now lol

My god have i ruined myself!

This must be why im here on and off ha!

I say i want something serious but end up back here?"

There's no reason you can't have a loving relationship from here.

I do feel being on here has to a certain degree, jaded my view towards vanilla dating though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hmm i love the fun of nsa, whilst im single, but if i was to meet someone would that change? Not sure, maybe i should find someone on here and try it hah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this mean a loving partnership is out of the question for me now lol

My god have i ruined myself!

This must be why im here on and off ha!

I say i want something serious but end up back here?

You do realise that you can have a loving relationship too?"

I gave up swinging for a while. My ex wasn't into it and I respected that. I had no intention of cheating on her. Now I'm single I'm happy to find like minded people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done the monogamy thing a few times. I could do it again but hoping i will find someone who likes MFM 3sums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After being in a relationship for 19 years I wont settle down into a monogamous lifestyle again.

I like my freedom and love meeting new people and learning new things.

The clubs the sex the social side etc

This life suits me.

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