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By *omeo21 OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth

Me and my ex partner split because we stopped having sex (even though we loved each other)

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

And?

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By *omeo21 OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth

Well... We loved each other but me working away, the responsibility of looking after 300 men meant that when I was home for 2 days a month, it was like hard, after a few months of being totally platonic ? It kinda became taboo to talk about it... A year went by and we split because she said she couldn't even try? No matter if the reason was that I was stressed.

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By *omeo21 OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth

Guess all I'm saying is... It was hard for me to understand where she was coming from? I loved her unconditionally.

And I know she will never be as happy as I made her feel. (Even though the sec wasn't therre) xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's very sad when two people who love each other can't find a way forward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When did this happen?

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By *omeo21 OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth

It is sad.... I've never ever let her down, or her children.

This happened last month after we got off holiday.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Have you tried counselling or even really talking to each other?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It is sad.... I've never ever let her down, or her children.

This happened last month after we got off holiday.

"

Well you're obviously hurting but she isn't here to give her side. I'm sorry you feel this way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does she know you've been on here for over a year?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Me and my ex partner split because we stopped having sex (even though we loved each other) "

Sorry to hear that and hope you go forward soon.

My own feelings are that you should move on.

Sex isn't a relationship and if a relationship dies when there's no sex then it was just sex. Maybe not at the beginning but surely later on. xx

Take your time but move on xx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Does she know you've been on here for over a year? "

Why is it necessary to ask that ?

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By *omeo21 OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth

I've been on line and taken screen shots of couples conversations about how affective counselling had been for them, I've then sent her them and told her I'm happy to talk etc.

But she doesn't really understand it believe in how stress can have an impact on anyone.

But with me working 13 days on and 1day off and having to travel 200 plus miles to get home etc..... I was just shattered and it was like we just became friends.

I seen her on Monday and I gave her a hug, a kiss on top of her head and said I love you hun, (held my hands out) and said don't give up on me.

She said she loved me too but was no longer in love with me and that she would talk next week over lunch.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Sorry bud but that's a woman's way of saying she doesn't want it to carry on.

She cares for you but ........ that's it.

Let go hey and make yourself happy.x

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By *omeo21 OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth

We've only been together 2 year.

But I got attached to her and her children, invested in a great way. Time, effort, money and love because they were all missing that.

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By *omeo21 OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth

And me being on here is purely for advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does she know you've been on here for over a year?

Why is it necessary to ask that ?"

Well, I'm trying to work out if he could have used the time he spent on here with his wife and thus may have avoided this sad situation.

Is that ok with you?

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By *omeo21 OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth

Sorry.... I'm not replying in the correct boxes here. Just sussed out the for etiquette.

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By *omeo21 OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth

Only just on here now mate... Not been on all the time whilst being together.

Fuck.... I'm no dickhead bro.

I'm an ex combat infantry soldier and bodyguard to the queen.

I know how to treat someone with respect.

Plus... I loved the lass and the kids.

Men get nothing from here and 9times out of 10 you text a women and get nothing back.... Regardless of how polite you are.

There's too much hassle for women on here and I choose not to get involved.

I think women gain a whole mountain of confidence from a site like this because most men on here would message they're own gran for a blow job.

I also think it goes to they're heads too though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Only just on here now mate... Not been on all the time whilst being together.

Fuck.... I'm no dickhead bro.

I'm an ex combat infantry soldier and bodyguard to the queen.

I know how to treat someone with respect.

Plus... I loved the lass and the kids.

Men get nothing from here and 9times out of 10 you text a women and get nothing back.... Regardless of how polite you are.

There's too much hassle for women on here and I choose not to get involved.

I think women gain a whole mountain of confidence from a site like this because most men on here would message they're own gran for a blow job.

I also think it goes to they're heads too though. "

If you use the reply+quote button to the bottom right of each post we will know who you're responding to.

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By *omeo21 OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth


"Only just on here now mate... Not been on all the time whilst being together.

Fuck.... I'm no dickhead bro.

I'm an ex combat infantry soldier and bodyguard to the queen.

I know how to treat someone with respect.

Plus... I loved the lass and the kids.

Men get nothing from here and 9times out of 10 you text a women and get nothing back.... Regardless of how polite you are.

There's too much hassle for women on here and I choose not to get involved.

I think women gain a whole mountain of confidence from a site like this because most men on here would message they're own gran for a blow job.

I also think it goes to they're heads too though.

If you use the reply+quote button to the bottom right of each post we will know who you're responding to."

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By *omeo21 OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth


"Only just on here now mate... Not been on all the time whilst being together.

Fuck.... I'm no dickhead bro.

I'm an ex combat infantry soldier and bodyguard to the queen.

I know how to treat someone with respect.

Plus... I loved the lass and the kids.

Men get nothing from here and 9times out of 10 you text a women and get nothing back.... Regardless of how polite you are.

Ok I got it

There's too much hassle for women on here and I choose not to get involved.

I think women gain a whole mountain of confidence from a site like this because most men on here would message they're own gran for a blow job.

I also think it goes to they're heads too though.

If you use the reply+quote button to the bottom right of each post we will know who you're responding to."

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By *omeo21 OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth


"Only just on here now mate... Not been on all the time whilst being together.

Fuck.... I'm no dickhead bro.

I'm an ex combat infantry soldier and bodyguard to the queen.

I know how to treat someone with respect.

Plus... I loved the lass and the kids.

Men get nothing from here and 9times out of 10 you text a women and get nothing back.... Regardless of how polite you are.

There's too much hassle for women on here and I choose not to get involved.

I think women gain a whole mountain of confidence from a site like this because most men on here would message they're own gran for a blow job.

I also think it goes to they're heads too though.

If you use the reply+quote button to the bottom right of each post we will know who you're responding to."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn't calling you a dickhead at all.

I just wanted to know if you're sure you did all you could do? If you did, then something's are just out of your control. Clearly she wasn't happy and something was wrong, so chose to change that.

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By *omeo21 OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth


"Only just on here now mate... Not been on all the time whilst being together.

Fuck.... I'm no dickhead bro.

I'm an ex combat infantry soldier and bodyguard to the queen.

I know how to treat someone with respect.

Plus... I loved the lass and the kids.

Men get nothing from here and 9times out of 10 you text a women and get nothing back.... Regardless of how polite you are.ok I got it.

There's too much hassle for women on here and I choose not to get involved.

I think women gain a whole mountain of confidence from a site like this because most men on here would message they're own gran for a blow job.

I also think it goes to they're heads too though.

If you use the reply+quote button to the bottom right of each post we will know who you're responding to."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I think women gain a whole mountain of confidence from a site like this because most men on here would message they're own gran for a blow job.

I also think it goes to they're heads too though. "

I know you may be upset, but let's not start having a pop at the women of the site mate, it calls into question your ability to know how to treat a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only just on here now mate... Not been on all the time whilst being together.

Fuck.... I'm no dickhead bro.

I'm an ex combat infantry soldier and bodyguard to the queen.

I know how to treat someone with respect.

Plus... I loved the lass and the kids.

Men get nothing from here and 9times out of 10 you text a women and get nothing back.... Regardless of how polite you are.ok I got it.

There's too much hassle for women on here and I choose not to get involved.

I think women gain a whole mountain of confidence from a site like this because most men on here would message they're own gran for a blow job.

I also think it goes to they're heads too though.

If you use the reply+quote button to the bottom right of each post we will know who you're responding to."

You have to click after the bit that says quote at the end and then put your comment fella.

As a woman in a ldr with a military man, I do empathise x

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By *omeo21 OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth

Lords at... I wasn't meaning you were calling me a dickhead.

And yes things weren't good.... Especially with me being away from home, but I do know that I did all I could, I cared in everyway, but when the topic of sex came up and we discussed it slightly, I mentioned counselling and yet she didn't believe in it.

Guess I'm just being stupid and need to move on, but I so don't want to without a fight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon that is why many couples are into swinging as they wouldnt get bored with eachother.

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By *omeo21 OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth

Lords at... I wasn't meaning you were calling me a dickhead.

And yes things weren't good.... Especially with me being away from home, but I do know that I did all I could, I cared in everyway, but when the topic of sex came up and we discussed it slightly, I mentioned counselling and yet she didn't believe in it.

Guess I'm just being stupid and need to move on, but I so don't want to without a fight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lords at... I wasn't meaning you were calling me a dickhead.

And yes things weren't good.... Especially with me being away from home, but I do know that I did all I could, I cared in everyway, but when the topic of sex came up and we discussed it slightly, I mentioned counselling and yet she didn't believe in it.

Guess I'm just being stupid and need to move on, but I so don't want to without a fight.

"

That could be the training!

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By *omeo21 OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth


" yeah I guess it's the fight in me. Lords at... I wasn't meaning you were calling me a dickhead.

And yes things weren't good.... Especially with me being away from home, but I do know that I did all I could, I cared in everyway, but when the topic of sex came up and we discussed it slightly, I mentioned counselling and yet she didn't believe in it.

Guess I'm just being stupid and need to move on, but I so don't want to without a fight.

That could be the training!"

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Well... We loved each other but me working away, the responsibility of looking after 300 men meant that when I was home for 2 days a month, it was like hard, after a few months of being totally platonic ? It kinda became taboo to talk about it... A year went by and we split because she said she couldn't even try? No matter if the reason was that I was stressed. "

Need to talk to the grand old Duke of York.

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By *omeo21 OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Well... We loved each other but me working away, the responsibility of looking after 300 men meant that when I was home for 2 days a month, it was like hard, after a few months of being totally platonic ? It kinda became taboo to talk about it... A year went by and we split because she said she couldn't even try? No matter if the reason was that I was stressed.

Need to talk to the grand old Duke of York. "

Especially his wife

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Does she know you've been on here for over a year?

Why is it necessary to ask that ?

Well, I'm trying to work out if he could have used the time he spent on here with his wife and thus may have avoided this sad situation.

Is that ok with you? "

What a cross little emoticon.

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