FabSwingers.com forum: 2nd date

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was at a wedding the other week got talking to a woman there. After a week or so of messaging i asked her out on a date.

We went for a walk round a lake near here then went to the bowling alley for a few games of pool (bowling lanes were shut).

Now were looking at going out for a second date and its my choice of where to go.

Any inspiration would be great so if youve got any ideas then please let me know.

Also. What was the best date you went on?

(Fyi, if this gets serious then fab will be gone)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if that first date was her choice then take her to something you'd be interested in and that's important to you and see how that goes.

take advantage of what little nice weather we have left too if you can.

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By *ootballFlowerCouple
over a year ago

Ollerton

Try a casino? Nice adult night, few drinks, some fun playing roulette and then a nice meal as most of them have a decent restaurant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try a casino? Nice adult night, few drinks, some fun playing roulette and then a nice meal as most of them have a decent restaurant."

Just simply take her for a nice meal in a nice place and be nice......I will come to your wedding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When is it? Doncaster Rovers are home vs Carlisle next Tuesday night ...

Just kiddin' - you could do something like when you were a teenager - ice skating that sort of thing. Something to make you both laugh a bit.

A cycle somewhere?

Theatre?

Walk through the countryside?

It's obvious I haven't been dating for a LOOOONNG time hey?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take her to a Swingers club on Greedy Girls night and watch her get screwed by dozens of men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just simply take her for a nice meal in a nice place and be nice......I will come to your wedding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was at a wedding the other week got talking to a woman there. After a week or so of messaging i asked her out on a date.

We went for a walk round a lake near here then went to the bowling alley for a few games of pool (bowling lanes were shut).

Now were looking at going out for a second date and its my choice of where to go.

Any inspiration would be great so if youve got any ideas then please let me know.

Also. What was the best date you went on?

(Fyi, if this gets serious then fab will be gone)"

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I had one with this French guy that I had spent 3 months pinning down to a rematch. Fit, cute, ginger, French... hot!

We met up for some food, went for a walk along the river, chatted, couple of drinks in a wine bar...

So I'd had 6 fucks in 6 days preceding that and although he was supposed to be the cherry one the cake, I really didn't feel like *another* fuck.

And yet it somehow descended into a sauna where we pulled this hawt little Texan bottom and a stunning Persian guy and had a mind-blowing foursome.

You know, the ones where you stop, look at the madness and think, WOW! This is like porn, only *I'm* in it!

Yeah. Good date.

Woke up with a smile on my face three days in a row.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can i come to the wedding?

if mr blue sky is inviting himself...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check if the bowling is open......as you obviously missed out on that last time.....otherwise take her carp fishing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There is a comedy club in sheffield. Thinking of taking her to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either way good luck...i like a bit of romance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Either way good luck...i like a bit of romance."

Thanks. You can be my best man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about to a restaurant with stand up comedy?

Don't forget a bunch of exotic flowers and pulling the chair for her,refill her glass and don't ask for sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weather's still good so I'd go for something outdoors. See if there's any events on or just perhaps a boat trip down the river and the perfect picnic to finish off. Have fun whatever you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about something different? I know Doncaster has a good icerink, I think it's always a good choice, lots of laughs to be had, holding hands. Or maybe it's the old romantic in me because Paul first told me he loved me at the bottom of a ski slope next to a roaring fire (sigh)

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By *horley ChickWoman
over a year ago

Chorley

"I was at a wedding the other week got talking to a woman there. After a week or so of messaging i asked her out on a date.

We went for a walk round a lake near here then went to the bowling alley for a few games of pool (bowling lanes were shut).

Now were looking at going out for a second date and its my choice of where to go.

Any inspiration would be great so if youve got any ideas then please let me know.

Also. What was the best date you went on?

(Fyi, if this gets serious then fab will be gone)"

Right op!

I've read your profile - and you sound like you have a great personality! If she finds you attractive (and guessing she does if she's agreed on a second date) then I doubt you've anything to worry about!

Why not see the new Bridget Jones movie then go for something to eat? In the unlikely (given your profile) situation that you're struggling for conversation, you can always talk about the film - leading on to favourite/worst film seen etc etc!

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The races

Comedy club

Tapas n pub

Go karting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The zoo (unless she's an activist type)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice, I've narrowed it down to comedy club, or go see the sheffield steelers (ice hockey)

I may get her opinion on the second option first

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Thanks for the advice, I've narrowed it down to comedy club, or go see the sheffield steelers (ice hockey)

I may get her opinion on the second option first

If I'd told a guy he could choose I wouldn't want him asking my opinion.

Of the two choices I'd go for the hockey. It's an unusual idea but somewhere you can laugh, jump up and end up in each others laps by accident etc. whereas a comedy club might be more sedate and too loud to talk?

I'm no expert on dates btw

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Thanks for the advice, I've narrowed it down to comedy club, or go see the sheffield steelers (ice hockey)

I may get her opinion on the second option first

If I'd told a guy he could choose I wouldn't want him asking my opinion.

I'm no expert on dates btw

I'm with you on this one. You can go to a comedy club any time but an ice hockey game is something different and to my mind more memorable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks for the advice, I've narrowed it down to comedy club, or go see the sheffield steelers (ice hockey)

I may get her opinion on the second option first

If I'd told a guy he could choose I wouldn't want him asking my opinion.

I'm no expert on dates btw

I'm with you on this one. You can go to a comedy club any time but an ice hockey game is something different and to my mind more memorable. "

Thank you both. Ill book the tickets tomorrow

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I'm good at dates.

They frequently end in bed

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm good at dates.

They frequently end in bed

I'm good at eating dates.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"I'm good at dates.

They frequently end in bed

This happens to me a lot, when I date.

For whatever reason though, when it does, they might want a casual type relationship or nothing more, so I'm currentky refusing to shag people on first dates.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I'm good at dates.

They frequently end in bed

This happens to me a lot, when I date.

For whatever reason though, when it does, they might want a casual type relationship or nothing more, so I'm currentky refusing to shag people on first dates. "

Nah, you're doing it wrong

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I'm good at dates.

They frequently end in bed

I'm good at eating dates.

Ohhh, yummy!

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"I'm good at dates.

They frequently end in bed

This happens to me a lot, when I date.

For whatever reason though, when it does, they might want a casual type relationship or nothing more, so I'm currentky refusing to shag people on first dates.

Nah, you're doing it wrong

Define "wong"...

I get a lot of random sex, but I'd like an acxtual girlfriend......

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I'm good at dates.

They frequently end in bed

This happens to me a lot, when I date.

For whatever reason though, when it does, they might want a casual type relationship or nothing more, so I'm currentky refusing to shag people on first dates.

Nah, you're doing it wrong

Define "wong"...

I get a lot of random sex, but I'd like an acxtual girlfriend......"

Ah, well, I have, as per, both

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"I'm good at dates.

They frequently end in bed

This happens to me a lot, when I date.

For whatever reason though, when it does, they might want a casual type relationship or nothing more, so I'm currentky refusing to shag people on first dates.

Nah, you're doing it wrong

Define "wong"...

I get a lot of random sex, but I'd like an acxtual girlfriend......

Ah, well, I have, as per, both

I've never managed to find a woman who'd like to date me and who is also cool with me shagging other women.....

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I'm good at dates.

They frequently end in bed

This happens to me a lot, when I date.

For whatever reason though, when it does, they might want a casual type relationship or nothing more, so I'm currentky refusing to shag people on first dates.

Nah, you're doing it wrong

Define "wong"...

I get a lot of random sex, but I'd like an acxtual girlfriend......

Ah, well, I have, as per, both

I've never managed to find a woman who'd like to date me and who is also cool with me shagging other women.....

Keep shaking that tree

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"I'm good at dates.

They frequently end in bed

This happens to me a lot, when I date.

For whatever reason though, when it does, they might want a casual type relationship or nothing more, so I'm currentky refusing to shag people on first dates.

Nah, you're doing it wrong

Define "wong"...

I get a lot of random sex, but I'd like an acxtual girlfriend......

Ah, well, I have, as per, both

I've never managed to find a woman who'd like to date me and who is also cool with me shagging other women.....

Keep shaking that tree

I did get a bit.... d*unk once and moaned about this very thing to my mates that I grew up with (most of whom are married/with a partner and have been for some time)

There was a distinct lack of sympathy.

"So, what you are telling me is, that you have sex with a variety of attractive women, often...and you are pissed off because you want to have sex with just one woman, semi-regularly?"....

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I'm good at dates.

They frequently end in bed

This happens to me a lot, when I date.

For whatever reason though, when it does, they might want a casual type relationship or nothing more, so I'm currentky refusing to shag people on first dates.

Nah, you're doing it wrong

Define "wong"...

I get a lot of random sex, but I'd like an acxtual girlfriend......

Ah, well, I have, as per, both

I've never managed to find a woman who'd like to date me and who is also cool with me shagging other women.....

Keep shaking that tree

I did get a bit.... d*unk once and moaned about this very thing to my mates that I grew up with (most of whom are married/with a partner and have been for some time)

There was a distinct lack of sympathy.

"So, what you are telling me is, that you have sex with a variety of attractive women, often...and you are pissed off because you want to have sex with just one woman, semi-regularly?"....

Seems perfectly reasonable

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm good at dates.

They frequently end in bed

This happens to me a lot, when I date.

For whatever reason though, when it does, they might want a casual type relationship or nothing more, so I'm currentky refusing to shag people on first dates.

Nah, you're doing it wrong

Define "wong"...

I get a lot of random sex, but I'd like an acxtual girlfriend......

Ah, well, I have, as per, both

I've never managed to find a woman who'd like to date me and who is also cool with me shagging other women.....

I'd date you if we were closer, you fancied me and I was 15 years younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best date was the date I met ads, I waited on a really cold platform not sure if he would turn up, he did and his smile melted me right there I knew. Ok we kissed for about ten mins but still! We didn't do anything special, just went to the pub, drank diet s in front of the fire but it was bliss

G x

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I'm good at dates.

They frequently end in bed

This happens to me a lot, when I date.

For whatever reason though, when it does, they might want a casual type relationship or nothing more, so I'm currentky refusing to shag people on first dates.

Nah, you're doing it wrong

Define "wong"...

I get a lot of random sex, but I'd like an acxtual girlfriend......

Ah, well, I have, as per, both

I've never managed to find a woman who'd like to date me and who is also cool with me shagging other women.....

I'd date you if we were closer, you fancied me and I was 15 years younger.

I'd fuck him if he were gay.

C'est la vie.

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"Take her to a Swingers club on Greedy Girls night and watch her get screwed by dozens of men. "

This

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm good at dates.

They frequently end in bed

This happens to me a lot, when I date.

For whatever reason though, when it does, they might want a casual type relationship or nothing more, so I'm currentky refusing to shag people on first dates.

Nah, you're doing it wrong

Define "wong"...

I get a lot of random sex, but I'd like an acxtual girlfriend......

Ah, well, I have, as per, both

I've never managed to find a woman who'd like to date me and who is also cool with me shagging other women.....

Keep shaking that tree

I did get a bit.... d*unk once and moaned about this very thing to my mates that I grew up with (most of whom are married/with a partner and have been for some time)

There was a distinct lack of sympathy.

"So, what you are telling me is, that you have sex with a variety of attractive women, often...and you are pissed off because you want to have sex with just one woman, semi-regularly?"....

A familiar rant

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Thanks for the advice, I've narrowed it down to comedy club, or go see the sheffield steelers (ice hockey)

I may get her opinion on the second option first

If I'd told a guy he could choose I wouldn't want him asking my opinion.

I'm no expert on dates btw

I'm with you on this one. You can go to a comedy club any time but an ice hockey game is something different and to my mind more memorable.

Thank you both. Ill book the tickets tomorrow

You'll have to let us know how it goes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks for the advice, I've narrowed it down to comedy club, or go see the sheffield steelers (ice hockey)

I may get her opinion on the second option first

If I'd told a guy he could choose I wouldn't want him asking my opinion.

I'm no expert on dates btw

I'm with you on this one. You can go to a comedy club any time but an ice hockey game is something different and to my mind more memorable.

Thank you both. Ill book the tickets tomorrow

You'll have to let us know how it goes

Were going to a ice hockey game on Sunday the 9th. But in the mean time were going to a mexican restaurant on Tuesday and then a few days later were off to ice skating. After ice skating im planning on finishing our date in A and E

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the advice, I've narrowed it down to comedy club, or go see the sheffield steelers (ice hockey)

I may get her opinion on the second option first

If I'd told a guy he could choose I wouldn't want him asking my opinion.

I'm no expert on dates btw

I'm with you on this one. You can go to a comedy club any time but an ice hockey game is something different and to my mind more memorable.

Thank you both. Ill book the tickets tomorrow

You'll have to let us know how it goes

Good luck.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Thanks for the advice, I've narrowed it down to comedy club, or go see the sheffield steelers (ice hockey)

I may get her opinion on the second option first

If I'd told a guy he could choose I wouldn't want him asking my opinion.

I'm no expert on dates btw

I'm with you on this one. You can go to a comedy club any time but an ice hockey game is something different and to my mind more memorable.

Thank you both. Ill book the tickets tomorrow

You'll have to let us know how it goes

Does A & E count as the fifth date then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now were looking at going out for a second date and its my choice of where to go.

Well for me it's usually Starbucks because by that point I'd have already forgotten her name...

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Your from Doncaster so it's got to be cactus jacks for the best Rex me X food in town

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I went on a date with the wrong guy once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I went on a date with the wrong guy once"

You can't leave it there Diamond

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I went on a date with the wrong guy once

You can't leave it there Diamond

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it would take to long to type out but id spent all evening going round the pubs with him having a laugh and when he walked me home i invited him in and thats when he came clean my mates had set me up good and proper.

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Thanks for the advice, I've narrowed it down to comedy club, or go see the sheffield steelers (ice hockey)

I may get her opinion on the second option first

If I'd told a guy he could choose I wouldn't want him asking my opinion.

I'm no expert on dates btw

I'm with you on this one. You can go to a comedy club any time but an ice hockey game is something different and to my mind more memorable.

Thank you both. Ill book the tickets tomorrow

You'll have to let us know how it goes

Ha ha ha...I'm sure you'll be just fine

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your from Doncaster so it's got to be cactus jacks for the best Rex me X food in town "

I love cactus jacks, but I'm taking her to Chiquentos at xscape

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Your from Doncaster so it's got to be cactus jacks for the best Rex me X food in town

I love cactus jacks, but I'm taking her to Chiquentos at xscape"

Very nice place also best of luck

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I've never really been on a proper date. You know the ones where its great with no expectations and ending the evening with a spine tingling kiss?

Maybe one day.

However OP I'd go with the food idea but maybe somewhere that provides plenty conversation ideas. Do a chocolate making day or something then drinks after?

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

"Thanks for the advice, I've narrowed it down to comedy club, or go see the sheffield steelers (ice hockey)

I may get her opinion on the second option first

I'm sure it'll be good no matter what

Personally I'd prefer the ice hockey to a casino

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

"I went on a date with the wrong guy once

You can't leave it there Diamond

it would take to long to type out but id spent all evening going round the pubs with him having a laugh and when he walked me home i invited him in and thats when he came clean my mates had set me up good and proper."

Came clean and what? Set you up..how?

Come on Diamond smiles, you have stuck your head above the parapet...reveal all

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

We need an update on the dating. Hope it goes well.

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