FabSwingers.com forum: Who was your?

By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

First love? I love a bit of romance and do you still think of them today?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooo, good one !

First girl I had a mad crush on, French girl over in Exchange with the school. Still Remember her name!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ain't had one yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She was the light at the end of a very long tunnel.

I never knew I loved her though until it was too late.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A girl from middle school oddly now live opposite each other and secretly hook up

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"First love? I love a bit of romance and do you still think of them today?

Yes, my long-haired hippie builder boyfriend, I went away to college and broke his heart, but no-one loved me better, I'd love to see him again

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"She was the light at the end of a very long tunnel.

I never knew I loved her though until it was too late.

Awwww

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"First love? I love a bit of romance and do you still think of them today?

Yes, my long-haired hippie builder boyfriend, I went away to college and broke his heart, but no-one loved me better, I'd love to see him again

Stalk him on Facebook? I mean look him up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex. Funnily enough she was my first heartbreak too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marc.

I never believed in love until I met Marc. He changed me for the better in that regard.

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"My ex. Funnily enough she was my first heartbreak too lol"

Do you still think of her?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

A lovely irish lad who I met through work. The bosses relocated him and it slowly fizzled out. I still get the odd email from him. He lives in Reykjavic digging graves now

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Marc.

I never believed in love until I met Marc. He changed me for the better in that regard. "

Awww

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

A girl from school - half philapeno half English - I was 12 and fancied the pants off her,she is

Now married with2 kids butbhas moved back to area according to stalk book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She was a holiday romance, we met in Florida and continued a long distance relationship for about a year. She was what I consider my first love.

Stoke to Nottingham was considered long distance back in my teens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first ever love broke my heart. Often think about him and what could of been. Never looked him up though as the past is the past and I'm sure there will be more love in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"First love? I love a bit of romance and do you still think of them today?

No.

He was a manipulative, evil bastard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never look back. People who have left our lives have done so for a reason and shaped us into who we are today. The future is the most important

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was with my first love for 9 years. Sex was amazing.

He's happily married to someone else now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her name was Tracy (maybe) she had cute dimples and wore her long blond hair in pig tails. I thought she was gorgeous. When we played kiss cuddle or torture in the playground we always kissed. Aww whatever happened to Tracy!?!???

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Her name was Tracy (maybe) she had cute dimples and wore her long blond hair in pig tails. I thought she was gorgeous. When we played kiss cuddle or torture in the playground we always kissed. Aww whatever happened to Tracy!?!???"

Who knows

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By *anaduABCMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Im still friendly with my first love...now my second....she can fuck right off-

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Im still friendly with my first love...now my second....she can fuck right off-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not my first but I saw an old boyfriend who lives nearby the other day- we still say hi and smile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how you define it.

First ....primary school. Girl called Julie, loved her ringlets!

First sex....also called a Julie in secondary school...won't say how old we were.

First longer term...Jackie. Kinda fizzled as I went to Uni and she didn't.....been a few more since but as others have said....past is past. I did go back to one once.....it wasn't the best thing I did even tho the sex was amazing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it was my teddy bear, imaginatively named 'Ted'. Loved that dude, properly. Inseparable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was Alison Ditch of all names!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine was Alison Ditch of all names!"
....she ditched meof course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband; my first and last. I still have a lot of contact with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still married to mine.....been together 23 years next month and love him more than ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ex. Funnily enough she was my first heartbreak too lol

Do you still think of her?

Nah, I think of what happened and I'm glad she's an ex lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am married to mine xxxx

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By *ogerNesszonesMan
over a year ago

Northern England

Ahhh Jeanette. Bless her.

All she wanted to do was settle down and get married - but the 16 yr old me just wanted to have some fun and go out on the lash with his mates (NOT fuck other girls, I hasten to add).

I once sneaked a look in her diary (wrong, I know) and read. "I know he really loves me, despite the way he treats me"

I simply couldn't carry on after reading that, and I ended it.

Last I heard, she married a (lovely) lad from my school and they were happily married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married to mine,31 years in.

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

Mine had the initials "DP" but at a naive 14 years old, I didn't realise the significance. I saw her in passing 2 years ago before she married for her first time. She is still gorgeous.

#probablyamissedopportunity

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By *auren001Woman
over a year ago

birmingham

"A lovely irish lad who I met through work. The bosses relocated him and it slowly fizzled out. I still get the odd email from him. He lives in Reykjavic digging graves now

He sounds like mine

although digging graves in Ireland now as far as I know haha

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

I married him. And divorced him. See more of him than I'd like but this will change as kids get older.

Totally loved up with Frank now & never been happier

JG x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I married him. And divorced him. See more of him than I'd like but this will change as kids get older.

Totally loved up with Frank now & never been happier

JG x"

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I married him. And divorced him. See more of him than I'd like but this will change as kids get older.

Totally loved up with Frank now & never been happier

JG x"

Awwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"First love? I love a bit of romance and do you still think of them today?

Love? Women I married.

Crush? Music teacher at school! 5' if she was lucky. Cute, curvy, always wore a white shirt that gaped to show just enough bra and could do that thing women do by putting her hair in a bun with a pencil.

No, don't think of her at all

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"First love? I love a bit of romance and do you still think of them today?

Love? Women I married.

No, don't think of her at all

Oh right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"First love? I love a bit of romance and do you still think of them today?

Love? Women I married.

No, don't think of her at all

Oh right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christmas pudding was my first true love...I still have memories which surface once a year at our special time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She was the light at the end of a very long tunnel.

I never knew I loved her though until it was too late.

Awwww

To be honest it was doomed from the beginning.

I fucked her mum first

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"First love? I love a bit of romance and do you still think of them today?

That's easy.

Mr B, he was my first and has continued to be my only

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

First love...lots of teen romances but first real love was wife. ..divorce papers came through 2 weeks ago after 6 yrs apart...slightly chipped more than broken is best way to describe it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My lesbian Kyrgyz friend (long story) I gave her away at her wedding.. I still love her... as a friend and no one makes me laugh as much as she does (or has a better right hook).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Little red head called Yvette and to this day love got redheads natural or bottle

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By *londie bearWoman
over a year ago

Bexley-ish

Billy Dunn, we "got married" in the infants playground...we were 5 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other than my teddy bear (previous answer) my first person I loved was the girl who lived down the lane, she used to have a little red coat and shoes and I used to go and knock on her door and ask her Mum is she was coming out to play.

I remember being so disappointed one evening when she couldn't come out to play as she had gone to bed.

I must have been about 6 at the time

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I'm not saying but she was, and is, beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first love was also my first time, she was older than me and broke my heart spectacularly. I was 19 when I met her and she was a redhead, looks like somethings stick!

Beard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No was a arsehole and not worth thinking about.

Pauls was a total bitch but he's still friends with her because he's too nice

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

My last proper boyfriend I think. Only time I've been truly in love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never look back. People who have left our lives have done so for a reason and shaped us into who we are today. The future is the most important

Kinky

I really liked that!

Looking back isn't great when it's upsetting. Onwards and upwards so they say ??

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"First love? I love a bit of romance and do you still think of them today?

Yes, my long-haired hippie builder boyfriend, I went away to college and broke his heart, but no-one loved me better, I'd love to see him again

Stalk him on Facebook? I mean look him up

I have looked and he seems to be happily married still so bless 'em, I'll keep away.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

He's now a bigoted UKIP supporter :-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first proper love is still a big part of my life. (Child together) he is a bit of a dickhead but we make good friends, if not good life partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who knows

I do often wonder!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first long term gf met at 16 after school were together 6 years. Worked together a further 5. No one will ever match up to her in my mothers eyes.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I was 12, he was 14. I lived in London and he lived in Barnstaple. We saw each other each summer for two weeks each year for 3 years.

Ten years later we saw each other at a wedding and had our first and only sexual encounter. He was a bit of rough by then.

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

Her name was Sally, I played sardines with her at a d*unken teen party. And I do still think of her today and wish I hadn't been so shy ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First girl I kissed from school and still the best bj I've ever had ha

We are still friends and talk regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first? The woman I'm married to. If I'd been truly in love before I'd still be with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not only do I still think of him but almost 20 years after we split up we are still great friends and meet up at least twice a year for a night out (he lives miles away)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

first love - 11 months 1 week and 1 day - not that i was counting - dont miss him and have bumped into him since seeing as he then went and got my best friend preggers when she was 15 and the divorced her - seen him when kids were small in the same playground - he wasnt they guy he was - about 6 times larger - and not as cute

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

He was tall, blonde and gorgeous. I dumped him when he went to work abroad for a year.

Then met my ex but was never in love with him.

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I met a guy and proper fell in love with him at the age of 36,....he will always remain special as I move along

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I met a guy and proper fell in love with him at the age of 36,....he will always remain special as I move along

He was my first true love

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over a year ago

"I met a guy and proper fell in love with him at the age of 36,....he will always remain special as I move along

He was my first true love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a guy and proper fell in love with him at the age of 36,....he will always remain special as I move along

He was my first true love

Still see him?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I met a guy and proper fell in love with him at the age of 36,....he will always remain special as I move along

He was my first true love

Is it over? It's good to know what it feels like.

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I met a guy and proper fell in love with him at the age of 36,....he will always remain special as I move along

He was my first true love

Still see him?"

Nah I'm blocked

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I met a guy and proper fell in love with him at the age of 36,....he will always remain special as I move along

He was my first true love

Is it over? It's good to know what it feels like.

It is I didn't beg or go chasing he made his mind up the end but I live in the fact that I was the best sex he ever had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A girl from uni I was besotted with. We fooled around a few times but never became an official couple. Took me a long time to get over her, but I rarely think of her these days. Besides, she had a kid and became an irritating hippie type so I think I dodged a bullet there! Looking back, it was probably just young lust, but it felt like love at the time, used to get butterflies just at the mention of her name!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A really special guy who i met when I was 13 we where inseparable got engaged at 16 but he passed away two months later life can be so cruel at times

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"A really special guy who i met when I was 13 we where inseparable got engaged at 16 but he passed away two months later life can be so cruel at times"

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I met a guy and proper fell in love with him at the age of 36,....he will always remain special as I move along

He was my first true love

Is it over? It's good to know what it feels like.

It is I didn't beg or go chasing he made his mind up the end but I live in the fact that I was the best sex he ever had

Good for you. Remember the love and settle for nothing less.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Mine was the most wonderful man in the world

No wait, he was an absolute fuck boy

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I met a guy and proper fell in love with him at the age of 36,....he will always remain special as I move along

He was my first true love

Is it over? It's good to know what it feels like.

It is I didn't beg or go chasing he made his mind up the end but I live in the fact that I was the best sex he ever had

Good for you. Remember the love and settle for nothing less.

I will it was great fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first husband who I had 2 children with and beat the shit out of me.

Do I think of him? Sure.

He hasn't seen or paid for his children for 12 years, they are now 16 and 13.

Married at 20, child beaten from me which I gave birth to on my 21St birthday.

That cunt haunts me but I've most definitely learnt plenty and had some very loving relationships since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine was the most wonderful man in the world

No wait, he was an absolute fuck boy "

Can't decide if "absolute fuck boy" is bad or brilliant...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My first husband who I had 2 children with and beat the shit out of me.

Do I think of him? Sure.

He hasn't seen or paid for his children for 12 years, they are now 16 and 13.

Married at 20, child beaten from me which I gave birth to on my 21St birthday.

That cunt haunts me but I've most definitely learnt plenty and had some very loving relationships since. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm trying to get over her now

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Mine was the most wonderful man in the world

No wait, he was an absolute fuck boy

Can't decide if "absolute fuck boy" is bad or brilliant..."

It's bad when you are in love

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"My first husband who I had 2 children with and beat the shit out of me.

Do I think of him? Sure.

He hasn't seen or paid for his children for 12 years, they are now 16 and 13.

Married at 20, child beaten from me which I gave birth to on my 21St birthday.

That cunt haunts me but I've most definitely learnt plenty and had some very loving relationships since. "

I've been in 3 violent relationships and its horrendous I got through it via so many means don't let the cunt grasp at your sanity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My first husband who I had 2 children with and beat the shit out of me.

Do I think of him? Sure.

He hasn't seen or paid for his children for 12 years, they are now 16 and 13.

Married at 20, child beaten from me which I gave birth to on my 21St birthday.

That cunt haunts me but I've most definitely learnt plenty and had some very loving relationships since.

I've been in 3 violent relationships and its horrendous I got through it via so many means don't let the cunt grasp at your sanity "

Oh I'm so beyond him allowing that, however it does leave you cautious xx

What happened to treating eachother right

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"My first husband who I had 2 children with and beat the shit out of me.

Do I think of him? Sure.

He hasn't seen or paid for his children for 12 years, they are now 16 and 13.

Married at 20, child beaten from me which I gave birth to on my 21St birthday.

That cunt haunts me but I've most definitely learnt plenty and had some very loving relationships since.

I've been in 3 violent relationships and its horrendous I got through it via so many means don't let the cunt grasp at your sanity

Oh I'm so beyond him allowing that, however it does leave you cautious xx

What happened to treating eachother right

Fuck knows but I learnt any man puts a hand on me again he better run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My first husband who I had 2 children with and beat the shit out of me.

Do I think of him? Sure.

He hasn't seen or paid for his children for 12 years, they are now 16 and 13.

Married at 20, child beaten from me which I gave birth to on my 21St birthday.

That cunt haunts me but I've most definitely learnt plenty and had some very loving relationships since.

I've been in 3 violent relationships and its horrendous I got through it via so many means don't let the cunt grasp at your sanity

Oh I'm so beyond him allowing that, however it does leave you cautious xx

What happened to treating eachother right

Fuck knows but I learnt any man puts a hand on me again he better run

Ain't that the truth!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate being in love

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I hate being in love

Don't hate it, it's what makes us human

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate being in love

Don't hate it, it's what makes us human

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its hard when its unrequited

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I hate being in love

Don't hate it, it's what makes us human

its hard when its unrequited

It is but it's still better than hating. You have to move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first true Love was an Indian girl, I wanted to marry her even though her family was against me, but fate took her she was killed,took me a long time to get over her, then met someone who I thought loved me, but she left me with the children when she buggered off with someone she worked beside, think she did all of us a favour, still think of the indian girl & how things may have turned out.

Life does go on.

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