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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok so we are 'relitively' new to the scene...(played a bit!! ) but how comes nearly EVERY woman on here is bi-curious? dont straight women swing ??!! can someone please shed some light?!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

yes, there are loads of straight women who swing, why worry about so many bi ladies though? Z

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

sorry, bi curious is simply that, curious, there must be a lot of women who are curious about playing with another lady, can't see the problem with that myself! Z

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"ok so we are 'relitively' new to the scene...(played a bit!! ) but how comes nearly EVERY woman on here is bi-curious? dont straight women swing ??!! can someone please shed some light?! "

Can only speak for myself, of course... I am straight but it does not mean that in certain (party) situations I cannot engage with females. Sexually it does nothing for me but I see it as part and parcel of the "orgy" feel that you can get at some venues hence I dont mind crossing the boundary in some situations. Does that make sense? I would imagine that other women who feel like me would consider themselves "bi" as a result - I would not because I get my sexual pleasures only from (nice) guys and their "equipments" ...(brains and balls and the bit in between

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yes, there are loads of straight women who swing, why worry about so many bi ladies though? Z"

because im not totally sure what it means? u are either bi or not surely? or is it for the partners benefit?? i dont quite understand...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok so we are 'relitively' new to the scene...(played a bit!! ) but how comes nearly EVERY woman on here is bi-curious? dont straight women swing ??!! can someone please shed some light?! "

Some ladies put on a show for their fellas.... they aren't truly bi

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"ok so we are 'relitively' new to the scene...(played a bit!! ) but how comes nearly EVERY woman on here is bi-curious? dont straight women swing ??!! can someone please shed some light?!

Some ladies put on a show for their fellas.... they aren't truly bi "

I agree I have heard that quite a lot also!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry, bi curious is simply that, curious, there must be a lot of women who are curious about playing with another lady, can't see the problem with that myself! Z"

have to say same my self .fine women body lot better looking than a guys (sorry)lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sorry, bi curious is simply that, curious, there must be a lot of women who are curious about playing with another lady, can't see the problem with that myself! Z

have to say same my self .fine women body lot better looking than a guys (sorry)lol"

yes lol

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth


"yes, there are loads of straight women who swing, why worry about so many bi ladies though? Z

because im not totally sure what it means? u are either bi or not surely? or is it for the partners benefit?? i dont quite understand..."

i (HSM) am listed as bi... no longer curious... which in mho ment i was curious as to how it was... now love playing with a woman ,,, and the taste of another woman... and no not for my partners sake.... i was doing it when i was single and it was something i always wanted to try....

why label things.? we are all sexual creatures... surely once we were all " swing curious" wondering what swinging was like... its the same thing.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"can someone please shed some light?! "

Based on the sudden amount of “Bi curious” females, I'm starting to believe “Bi Curious” is a requirement of the site for females

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


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why label things.? we are all sexual creatures... surely once we were all " swing curious" wondering what swinging was like... its the same thing. "

What a brilliant point - that is exactly how I feel, being essentially straight. We don't really need labels that make us one thing OR another... we can be many thigns at different times.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yes, there are loads of straight women who swing, why worry about so many bi ladies though? Z"

not worried, just confused

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ok so we are 'relitively' new to the scene...(played a bit!! ) but how comes nearly EVERY woman on here is bi-curious? dont straight women swing ??!! can someone please shed some light?!

Can only speak for myself, of course... I am straight but it does not mean that in certain (party) situations I cannot engage with females. Sexually it does nothing for me but I see it as part and parcel of the "orgy" feel that you can get at some venues hence I dont mind crossing the boundary in some situations. Does that make sense? I would imagine that other women who feel like me would consider themselves "bi" as a result - I would not because I get my sexual pleasures only from (nice) guys and their "equipments" ...(brains and balls and the bit in between "

ok thanks, yes i understand that....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ok so we are 'relitively' new to the scene...(played a bit!! ) but how comes nearly EVERY woman on here is bi-curious? dont straight women swing ??!! can someone please shed some light?!

Some ladies put on a show for their fellas.... they aren't truly bi "

thats what i think too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"can someone please shed some light?!

Based on the sudden amount of “Bi curious” females, I'm starting to believe “Bi Curious” is a requirement of the site for females "

well thats how it seems 2 me too lol

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

I'm bi sexual - not curious but can understand why some women are curious if it's not something they've tried, I wouldn't do anything just for the sake of my partner - I haven't ever really wondered about the ratios of other peoples sexuality - haven't got the time! Z

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth


"ok so we are 'relitively' new to the scene...(played a bit!! ) but how comes nearly EVERY woman on here is bi-curious? dont straight women swing ??!! can someone please shed some light?!

Some ladies put on a show for their fellas.... they aren't truly bi

thats what i think too"

ok does that mean my man is only being Bi courious cos i made him?? lmao ...

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"can someone please shed some light?!

Based on the sudden amount of “Bi curious” females, I'm starting to believe “Bi Curious” is a requirement of the site for females

well thats how it seems 2 me too lol "

So what? Z

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"ok so we are 'relitively' new to the scene...(played a bit!! ) but how comes nearly EVERY woman on here is bi-curious? dont straight women swing ??!! can someone please shed some light?!

Some ladies put on a show for their fellas.... they aren't truly bi

thats what i think too

ok does that mean my man is only being Bi courious cos i made him?? lmao ... "

Are you publicly admitting to being a bad influence on him

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth


"ok so we are 'relitively' new to the scene...(played a bit!! ) but how comes nearly EVERY woman on here is bi-curious? dont straight women swing ??!! can someone please shed some light?!

Some ladies put on a show for their fellas.... they aren't truly bi

thats what i think too

ok does that mean my man is only being Bi courious cos i made him?? lmao ...

Are you publicly admitting to being a bad influence on him"

ohh yes and he loves it ,.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

I'm curious, if the females who state curious really are curious, or if it's the male partner stating the female is curious because their curious wondering what it'll be like seeing the female with another female, in fact, I'm curious if my post makes any sense

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth


"I'm curious, if the females who state curious really are curious, or if it's the male partner stating the female is curious because their curious wondering what it'll be like seeing the female with another female, in fact, I'm curious if my post makes any sense "

yep.. couriously i understood every word...

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

curiouser and curiouser!!! Z

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I'm curious, if the females who state curious really are curious, or if it's the male partner stating the female is curious because their curious wondering what it'll be like seeing the female with another female, in fact, I'm curious if my post makes any sense "

I am curious how I understood your curiosity in the curious or non-curious matter. I do believe that my curiosity has been satisfied, no cat will be harmed in the process either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While there are women who play Bi just to please their men...... judging by some of the forums, the same can also be said of some guys who play Bi due to pressure from their women.

XXXX

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth


"While there are women who play Bi just to please their men...... judging by some of the forums, the same can also be said of some guys who play Bi due to pressure from their women.

XXXX"

while curiously.. there are some off us who are genually (sp) Bi and willing to explore and break bounderies..

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

Well, it appears the curious peeps are no longer curious about being curious regarding one's sexuality

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"the same can also be said of some guys who play Bi due to pressure from their women"

As a MM cpl, never, ever, have we come across a guy "pressurised" to partake in cock sucking, solely to please his misses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was curious, have now satisfied my curiosity, and am straight.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

Straight here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm curious, if the females who state curious really are curious, or if it's the male partner stating the female is curious because their curious wondering what it'll be like seeing the female with another female, in fact, I'm curious if my post makes any sense "

that sounds like whats going on my my head lmao

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was curious, have now satisfied my curiosity, and am straight."

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have to admit it's a curious thing these labels, I don't consider myself bi-sexual but i'm also no longer bi-curious, in our profile I have stated that I am more bi-playful, because of the options given on then site I prefer the label of bi-curious but thinking on it the more realistic label would be bi-sexual...hell now i'm all confused, gonna stick with bi-playful......

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth


"have to admit it's a curious thing these labels, I don't consider myself bi-sexual but i'm also no longer bi-curious, in our profile I have stated that I am more bi-playful, because of the options given on then site I prefer the label of bi-curious but thinking on it the more realistic label would be bi-sexual...hell now i'm all confused, gonna stick with bi-playful...... "

hey thats great... can i steal that label..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

help yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

bi 'eck i wish id never asked

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"have to admit it's a curious thing these labels, I don't consider myself bi-sexual but i'm also no longer bi-curious, in our profile I have stated that I am more bi-playful, because of the options given on then site I prefer the label of bi-curious but thinking on it the more realistic label would be bi-sexual...hell now i'm all confused, gonna stick with bi-playful...... "

Good point - my partner sometimes describes me as "bi-accessible" and as stated above for me that means I dont freak out ata woman's touch but sexually it does not excite me.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"bi 'eck i wish id never asked "

No dont worry - it is interesting and entertaining xx

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"bi 'eck i wish id never asked "

I'm curious why you did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why the need for more bi labels? they all have a common denominator and that’s describing one as bisexual

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"bi 'eck i wish id never asked

I'm curious why you did "

im curious but not bi curious if that answers your curiosity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the same can also be said of some guys who play Bi due to pressure from their women

As a MM cpl, never, ever, have we come across a guy "pressurised" to partake in cock sucking, solely to please his misses."

Check out some of the old forums on the subject.

How some women admit they would seize upon any sign of "curiosity", shown by their fella, to get him to suck another guys cock because it turns her on.

You see them saying time and again that they're "working on him" because the idea turns THEM on.

Just because you haven't knowingly encountered it, doesn't mean it doesn't happen, all be it not as much as men coercing women.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I used to belong to a site where stating I was bisexual actually stopped people from messaging me. They were put off by it. I was so glad when I got here to know there wasn't a problem with me being bisexual, or so I thought!

Having said that, I would never force anyone to do something they don't want to do. I have been to parties where I didn't lay a finger or tongue on another woman, and impugning that I can't control myself because I am bisexual is slightly offensive to me. As long as people state honestly what they want, that's what they'll get from me.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"bi 'eck i wish id never asked

I'm curious why you did

im curious but not bi curious if that answers your curiosity "

I'm curious about that red dress was it painted on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"bi 'eck i wish id never asked

I'm curious why you did

im curious but not bi curious if that answers your curiosity

I'm curious about that red dress was it painted on "

would have been easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when I think about it hubby is very much straight, when i'm getting dvp in a 3sum is he then bi-sexual or bi-curious or just very comfortable and not freaked out by rubbing cocks with another man, so his status is straight, should I consider him bi-playful in this scenario?? I so hate labels, if everyone is having fun who cares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bi 'eck i wish id never asked "

Always ask!

For the record it seems I'm one of the few straight women on here who doesn't have any qualms in standing proud and saying I'm not the least bit interested or curious about other women!

I'm able to push my boundaries and enjoy my play without the need to explore another woman.

So there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kate's straight and this Gent ain't bent either

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