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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When simply putting it in and pulling out isn't good enough lol. What does it for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humming god save the queen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Humming god save the queen "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Passion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry.. that feeling you just want to fuck with that person with wild abandonment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The passionate and sensual kissing is the main ingredient for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Chemistry.. that feeling you just want to fuck with that person with wild abandonment."

Totally agree. I've met plenty of good looking women but he chemistry wasn't there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being on my own...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The right person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or .... Not having to hand over the money in advance and being told.... "No kissing"!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mental connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The intensity. Im not interested in just putting it in. I need the touching, the kissing, starting off slow until we can no longer contain ourself and start fucking like wild animals

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

A suitable D/s dynamic for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The right person"

Or maybe the wrong person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When simply putting it in and pulling out isn't good enough lol. What does it for you? "

Thoughts shared no matter how perverse .

Recalling meets .

What we are gonna do next .

Passionate kissing .

Adjusting tempo and position .

etc....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The intensity. Im not interested in just putting it in. I need the touching, the kissing, starting off slow until we can no longer contain ourself and start fucking like wild animals"

Exactly!

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By *gentlovedayWoman
over a year ago

Tranmere


"A mental connection. "

This goes far I need my brain to be turned on before my body also the excitement of the touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being in each others heads...bodies in synch.

The ability to react to the others bodies and adapt quickly. There is no 'one size fits all' method for being intimate with someone.

Desire. I want to want you, and I want you to want me in return.

Humour. It should be fun.

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

There's gotta be a connection, an attraction. Call it lust, for loss of a better word.

That desire to want to be with that person, touching them, kissing, caressing.. Never wanting it to end..

That's what does it for me..

The kind of sex when you finish, collapse in each others arms and lay there exhausted grinning like the proverbial Cheshire cat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Someone who is filthier than me always seems to help and someone who equally wants to put the work in instead of just being in the room!

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

the right foreplay, someone who you feel comfortable with who isnt too serious, someone who isnt too rough or pushy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking of my cousin....who has massive tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can talk dirty to me and suck my earlobe. It'll be all over in seconds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be a connection on both parts

Love when you just can't keep your hands off each other. As soon as you get behind a closed door it's wild passionate sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking of my cousin....who has massive tits"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A mental connection.

This goes far I need my brain to be turned on before my body also the excitement of the touch "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking of my cousin....who has massive tits"

Yeah but I hear he's trying to lose weight

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Me!!!

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"Passion. "

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"Being in each others heads...bodies in synch.

The ability to react to the others bodies and adapt quickly. There is no 'one size fits all' method for being intimate with someone.

Desire. I want to want you, and I want you to want me in return.

Humour. It should be fun."

Exactly

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By *ashedMan
over a year ago

hemel

Black cherry yogurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Passion, chemistry and lots of kissing and touching

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Anticipation, then more anticipation.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. The connection. The ease of it all. The fit. The eye contact. The joy of knowing what each other wants intuitively. The giggles that don't spoil the moment. That closeness afterwards.

Yeah. That about covers it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A meeting of eyes, a meeting of minds, a meeting of desire before two bodies meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. The connection. The ease of it all. The fit. The eye contact. The joy of knowing what each other wants intuitively. The giggles that don't spoil the moment. That closeness afterwards.

Yeah. That about covers it. "

Put so much more eloquently than me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact that anyone would ever want to get nekkid with me. I mean I'm not complaining or owt but really, what WERE they thinking!?

Oh and on a serious note - the intimacy of sharing yourself totally with another person, it's one of the greatest gifts to both give and receive I think

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By *atford69Man
over a year ago

Westbourne park

Mental stimulation

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Tenderness, that feeling that you're really connected with someone else, you're both high on the sexual energies flowing. Tenderness and absolute blunt force slamming works well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When simply putting it in and pulling out isn't good enough lol. What does it for you? "

Somebody else involved. You know what, sometimes they don't even have to be here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me. I make sex good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When simply putting it in and pulling out isn't good enough lol. What does it for you? "

Lights out trousers still round ankles, missionary position.

No talking or eye contact.

Bang away for 30 seconds and shoot my load.

Best sex ever.

Hello ladies anyone fancy a shag?

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By *oachman 9CoolMan
over a year ago

derby

You can dwell alot on this in your mind over time one thing never takes precedent its always a mixture of things something which is called fantasy, to have someone who loves you as much as you love them then thats a different ball game, but I,m sure fantasy will play its part often given the chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When simply putting it in and pulling out isn't good enough lol. What does it for you? "

you both need to have a connection..

with each other, preferably..

I'd say that was a good start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good connection with each other

Good kisser

Good build up to it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making sure you don't leave your socks on...Nothing worse than a guy just in socks.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Making sure you don't leave your socks on...Nothing worse than a guy just in socks. "

Oh I dunno, the page one of hot picks yesterday said otherwise!!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Yes. The connection. The ease of it all. The fit. The eye contact. The joy of knowing what each other wants intuitively. The giggles that don't spoil the moment. That closeness afterwards.

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Yes, I love passion and intensity but I love that kind of deeply connected sex best. And because I am primal, losing myself emotionally in the moment is what trips my trigger most.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

The connection and the passion, mix that with hot kisses and the fact you can't keep your hands off each other make for a heady mix of intense sexual experiences, throw a little trust in so you can push a few boundaries and you are there

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

Well since it's different for everyone, spend time finding out what turns that particular woman on. It's not 'one size fits all'. Some women may have very sensitive nipples, some may have little feeling there, for example. For me, I like a slow build up, kissing, caressing, my whole body is one erogenous zone. My neck, my tummy, my inner thighs, stroke me gently and I will literally get tingles all the way to my toes!

IME men tend to be too quick and forget that women need time to get aroused. If you take the time, the sex will be so much better for both of you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be a certain degree of dominance and filth for me.....not for the faint hearted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being in each others heads...bodies in synch.

The ability to react to the others bodies and adapt quickly. There is no 'one size fits all' method for being intimate with someone.

Desire. I want to want you, and I want you to want me in return.

Humour. It should be fun.

Exactly "

Absolutely this.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

All kinds of things - contradictions, possibilities, pushing boundaries, comfort, fast or lingering, furious or tender, dressing up, undressing, the excitement of a new person, the ability of an older lover being able to push your buttons with delicious ease...

Take your pick

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"All kinds of things - contradictions, possibilities, pushing boundaries, comfort, fast or lingering, furious or tender, dressing up, undressing, the excitement of a new person, the ability of an older lover being able to push your buttons with delicious ease...

Take your pick"

And always with a little humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kink

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

To be connected and feel the touch and rhythm as you have sex. Being tactile and in tune with your partner is a massive part of play for me and that means sharing all emotions even humour hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one thing. Everyone is different and finding that special touch or kiss is a big part of good sex. There's much more to good sex than a shag. The whole experience of being flirtatious and building trust to be able to push boundaries is a great feeling.

Anyone for a quickie??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Passion, chemistry and lots of kissing and touching "

100% this for me, or what's the point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes,I just really need sex. The desire for it makes it better.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I find the build-up to sex very erotic and exciting. Just setting the mood is an amazing feeling. Cuddling up and soft gentle touching in a cosy atmosphere. I love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about the 'fit'.

If you fit together it works & the sex is amazing, simple as that really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's all about the 'fit'.

If you fit together it works & the sex is amazing, simple as that really."

What Roxi said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry!

This is why i insist on socials first. You can see if there Is chemistry and you can usually tell instantly after one kiss. If I'm not worked up from a kiss we won't get to the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being able to have a laugh and not take things too seriously. Ultimately, sex is ridiculous and I can't let go with anyone who I can't feel relaxed enough to open myself up at my most ridiculous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chemistry!

This is why i insist on socials first. You can see if there Is chemistry and you can usually tell instantly after one kiss. If I'm not worked up from a kiss we won't get to the bedroom "

Disagree to that.

I've had the best sex with someone who socially i couldn't stand don't get on with and ended up hating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chemistry!

This is why i insist on socials first. You can see if there Is chemistry and you can usually tell instantly after one kiss. If I'm not worked up from a kiss we won't get to the bedroom

Disagree to that.

I've had the best sex with someone who socially i couldn't stand don't get on with and ended up hating"

Each to their own but I need chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing. Kissing everywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Mind

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"When simply putting it in and pulling out isn't good enough lol. What does it for you? "

Remembering the time her husband beat me at snooker.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Orgasms.. and lots of them.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Humour.

Sex is ridiculous. If you can't laugh about it, stay out of my pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must admit touching a little bit of teasing also does it for me gets me into the mood straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Humour.

Sex is ridiculous. If you can't laugh about it, stay out of my pants "

Touche

I love going into a state of histerics whilst having sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Humour.

Sex is ridiculous. If you can't laugh about it, stay out of my pants "

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

ha 10 pints of cider a curry.a dirty female that cooks a full english breakie in morn .and gets back in bed to let you fuck propley sober now therse a great love song eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Humour.

Sex is ridiculous. If you can't laugh about it, stay out of my pants "

Whats ridiculous about it? I would agree that certain people look ridiculous having sex but then some people just look ridiculous anyway.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"Humour.

Sex is ridiculous. If you can't laugh about it, stay out of my pants

Whats ridiculous about it? I would agree that certain people look ridiculous having sex but then some people just look ridiculous anyway.

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The whole thing is hilarious! Two (or more) people slurping, sucking, rubbing, licking, fingering, penetrating each other. Imagine aliens watching what we do in the pursuit of pleasure. It's a very funny game where hopefully everyone is a winner.

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By *eshzMan
over a year ago

0151


"Passion, chemistry and lots of kissing and touching "

This is completely what I was thinking as well!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Humour.

Sex is ridiculous. If you can't laugh about it, stay out of my pants

Whats ridiculous about it? I would agree that certain people look ridiculous having sex but then some people just look ridiculous anyway.

The whole thing is hilarious! Two (or more) people slurping, sucking, rubbing, licking, fingering, penetrating each other. Imagine aliens watching what we do in the pursuit of pleasure. It's a very funny game where hopefully everyone is a winner. "

Aliens are into watching ? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Voyeurisming aliens that think wtf these humans into haha

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By *ohnyorkMan
over a year ago

york

Some times more the work up the flirting the talk the look in the others persons eye the first touch the first kiss then the rest

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

An erection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's all about the 'fit'.

If you fit together it works & the sex is amazing, simple as that really."

Yes. And the 'fit' can be both physical, emotional, intellectual...so many levels.

The perfect connection cannot really be simply quantified. It will resist being scrutinised too closely. You could have an amazing time with someone, but if you had met them an hour or day later it could be a damp squib.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anticipation. The exploring. The unknown of what's to come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing her respond to what I'm doing...from the moaning..to the quivering of the legs to the squirting to the screaming more...I'm all bout response try and do things differently each time to see the response

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

My first meet off here was the best fuck I've had, started talking to him in the morning and met him that night wasn't much to look at but there was something that made me want to meet him so glad I did, couldn't even tell you what he did that made it so good as he didn't do anything out of the ordinary but it was amazing and it just got better every time we it.

God I miss him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chemistry.. that feeling you just want to fuck with that person with wild abandonment."

Fuck yes!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sobbing and feeling of utter disgust and ruefulness from your partner afterwards.

Or does that only happen to me?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Something I really like is when a man can read your body and instinctively knows what you want/need. One of the reasons I prefer repeat meets

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