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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

in contrast to the thread on big cocks...I argue that a big cock is nice... but the man's brain and imagaination as to what to do with his cock, fingers, tongue, toys... are the key ingredients to good sex...

I have seen lots... been with a few... and arrived at the conclusion that a big cock alone is not worth anything unless accompagnied by skill in other areas... including brains...

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By *resh freddieMan
over a year ago

Penistone

Stimulate your body can be fun but to stimulate the body mind and soul is for more rewarding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well thats me done for then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely "

I didnt mean absolutely as in agreement with u mr arclight

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Absolutely "

Dont get me wrong, not expecting a guy to cite e = mc2 while fucking me... but if humping is all he can do without any imagination... its BORING... isnt it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely

Dont get me wrong, not expecting a guy to cite e = mc2 while fucking me... but if humping is all he can do without any imagination... its BORING... isnt it? "

Oh yes..stimulation begins with the mind

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By *resh freddieMan
over a year ago

Penistone


"Absolutely

Dont get me wrong, not expecting a guy to cite e = mc2 while fucking me... but if humping is all he can do without any imagination... its BORING... isnt it? "

Its all about building up the level of stimulation to a crescendo. If you can stimulate someone’s mind then the body follows. We weren’t given an imagination for nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow very well put sweetcheeks though in woman also I find really that sense of humour intellect charm a right turn on in opposite sex good stimulating conversation as a whole I like a package I couldn't get along with someone without those qualitys hehe .Well said though

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Wow very well put sweetcheeks though in woman also I find really that sense of humour intellect charm a right turn on in opposite sex good stimulating conversation as a whole I like a package I couldn't get along with someone without those qualitys hehe .Well said though "

Again, you prob dont want the girl to quote Shakespeare but it is nice if she uses tteasing... and taunting and imagination ... role play... fantasies... ???

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By *resh freddieMan
over a year ago

Penistone


"Wow very well put sweetcheeks though in woman also I find really that sense of humour intellect charm a right turn on in opposite sex good stimulating conversation as a whole I like a package I couldn't get along with someone without those qualitys hehe .Well said though

Again, you prob dont want the girl to quote Shakespeare but it is nice if she uses tteasing... and taunting and imagination ... role play... fantasies... ???"

Its not what you say but what you don't but still leave an implication. Some can do it and others struggle.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ok, the size of a mans willy really has nothing to do with it (within reason) its all about the connection. You either connect or you dont. Sometimes a man can just look at you and you go wow. The mind is the biggest sex organ and if two people are on the same wavelength it can be mindblowing

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

That connection you can get with eye contact means much more than the size of a cock

I love a twinkle that makes me tingle

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Ok, the size of a mans willy really has nothing to do with it (within reason) its all about the connection. You either connect or you dont. Sometimes a man can just look at you and you go wow. The mind is the biggest sex organ and if two people are on the same wavelength it can be mindblowing"

Thanks diamond.... precisely my point... and the best looking hunk (chippendale style) .. when he opens his moouth and grunts... well.. it does nothing for me... x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, the size of a mans willy really has nothing to do with it (within reason) its all about the connection. You either connect or you dont. Sometimes a man can just look at you and you go wow. The mind is the biggest sex organ and if two people are on the same wavelength it can be mindblowing"

In total agreement, couldnt of put it better myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, the size of a mans willy really has nothing to do with it (within reason) its all about the connection. You either connect or you dont. Sometimes a man can just look at you and you go wow. The mind is the biggest sex organ and if two people are on the same wavelength it can be mindblowing

Thanks diamond.... precisely my point... and the best looking hunk (chippendale style) .. when he opens his moouth and grunts... well.. it does nothing for me... x"

Yes i agree with that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

like new pic honypotcple LOL good balance

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"That connection you can get with eye contact means much more than the size of a cock

I love a twinkle that makes me tingle "

Totally sums it up, guys... totally...

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By *resh freddieMan
over a year ago

Penistone


"That connection you can get with eye contact means much more than the size of a cock

I love a twinkle that makes me tingle

Totally sums it up, guys... totally..."

Well i like to play with the mind at times i have to say. Stimulation in many forms can be bliss but the mind is so rewarding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree. the biggest sexual organ in the body is the brain

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"That connection you can get with eye contact means much more than the size of a cock

I love a twinkle that makes me tingle

Totally sums it up, guys... totally...

Well i like to play with the mind at times i have to say. Stimulation in many forms can be bliss but the mind is so rewarding "

yes for example, blindfolding... putting ideas in somebody's head... somebody said to me a whiel ago... now imagine a tribe of fit warriors... surrounding you.... and it set something off in me... it infiltrated my mind... and what followed... was amazing...

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

One of my best experiences ever was with a blindfold,I adore them......sensory deprivation can be mmmmmmmmmm

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire


"One of my best experiences ever was with a blindfold,I adore them......sensory deprivation can be mmmmmmmmmm"

i can you tell the muss blindfolds afre great lol

see says no

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"One of my best experiences ever was with a blindfold,I adore them......sensory deprivation can be mmmmmmmmmm

i can you tell the muss blindfolds afre great lol

see says no

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Powerful stuff if somebody puts suggestions in your mind... inmid another orgasm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of my best experiences ever was with a blindfold,I adore them......sensory deprivation can be mmmmmmmmmm"

add a cattle prod to that and you can have them bouncing all over the bed!

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By *edhot4blkCouple
over a year ago

York/London/Crantock

i wont meet a guy just coz he has a massive penis, he has to have brains and also know how to use both, but if a guy thinks he will get away with just using the former ie: big cock he can think again, a night with me is as it says a night meaning all night till the sun comes up in the morning so just depending on the size of his cock wont do..fingers, tongue etc has to come into play also

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

So glad I don't compete in the 'big cock' contests

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By *edhot4blkCouple
over a year ago

York/London/Crantock

nor i...i will have a small one now and then as they say a change is as good as a rest so down sizing to a 8" er is sometimes nice..

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

ive met some big cocks in my time but i dont think that's quite what you meant

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