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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it that it's ok for a women to be on here looking for fun, behind their partners back, but it's not ok for a man to be on here looking for fun behind their partners back?

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Who says it's OK for one gender and not the other?

IMO a cheater is a cheater, I don't care what they do as long as I'm not involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not....they are both cunts x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not OK either ways. It's down to preference.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A few ladies I have tried chatting to, who on their profile say they are on here without their partners permission, say that they are not interested because I have a girlfriend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know, why is it ok for women to play away behind their partners back, but not ok for men?

Oh, you're not setting up a punchline for a joke!?

Um, in that case I guess it's the same for both but I find the ladies make far less of a song and dance about it and don't keep dwelling on it.

And double standards of course. Some peoples moral compasses and righteousness slips when it's a married bisexual lady that is happy to play with a couple for example than a fella

My advice : don't worry about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people want to cheat it's their life, let them live it as they please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say just block those who say they're not interested and move onto chatting to those who don't mind that you're playing away. There's someone on here for everyone. Patience, perseverance and you'll find someone to play with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say just block those who say they're not interested and move onto chatting to those who don't mind that you're playing away. There's someone on here for everyone. Patience, perseverance and you'll find someone to play with. "
thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't know, why is it ok for women to play away behind their partners back, but not ok for men?

Oh, you're not setting up a punchline for a joke!?

Um, in that case I guess it's the same for both but I find the ladies make far less of a song and dance about it and don't keep dwelling on it.

And double standards of course. Some peoples moral compasses and righteousness slips when it's a married bisexual lady that is happy to play with a couple for example than a fella

My advice : don't worry about it! "

Thanks and il try not too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few ladies I have tried chatting to, who on their profile say they are on here without their partners permission, say that they are not interested because I have a girlfriend "

Oh that's just double standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not....they are both cunts x"

Love this answer!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks people, and yeah there are more fish in the sea, and hopefully il find someone that doesn't mind

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Why is it that it's ok for a women to be on here looking for fun, behind their partners back, but it's not ok for a man to be on here looking for fun behind their partners back? "
because most blokes dont give a shit and most guys morals go out the Window when they realize the amount of guys there are compared to girls so just no longer care if the girl is attached or not. as long as they can get a meet from the elusive "single" female on here.woman on here can easily get a meet on here while olso keeping there preferences and morals intact .

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Thanks people, and yeah there are more fish in the sea, and hopefully il find someone that doesn't mind "
noticed on your profile you say u seen that your gf is on hear cheating.you should have a lil chat with her about the possibility of making a couples profile.makes much more sense than u both cheating and i can pretty much gurantee with her help u will be much more successful with meets as couples get a better hit rate. .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well it says that she has had her profile for 6 months and we have only been going out for 10 months so I thought I'd have a little fun myself before confronting her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it says that she has had her profile for 6 months and we have only been going out for 10 months so I thought I'd have a little fun myself before confronting her "

Life's too short for stupid game playing,

You sound like a pair of kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because of the laws of supply and demand.

Because men will sacrifice their morals for a shag more than women will?

How the fuck should I know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer married or attached women,its far more simple and no mithering,and the sex is great

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Who says it's OK for one gender and not the other?

IMO a cheater is a cheater, I don't care what they do as long as I'm not involved."

exactly, same rules apply no matter the sex in my eyes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relationships come with varying boundaries - playing in secret/behind partners back isn'the swinging ? My opinion but surely it's cheating/infidelity if the partner knows nothing ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not....they are both cunts x"

For the person who just messaged and blocked me.....I still think they are cunts x

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Why is it that it's ok for a women to be on here looking for fun, behind their partners back, but it's not ok for a man to be on here looking for fun

behind their partners back? "

In my eyes, it's not acceptable for anyone to cheat, but there are always people who will meet cheaters, so good luck OP

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

It's okay for both to be on here

But having a vagina does minimise the shit thrown at you.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"It's okay for both to be on here

But having a vagina does minimise the shit thrown at you.

"

I dunno, have you seen some of the shit messages some of us vagina owners receive?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"It's okay for both to be on here

But having a vagina does minimise the shit thrown at you.

I dunno, have you seen some of the shit messages some of us vagina owners receive? "

nope but read 15463544 threads about it

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Well it says that she has had her profile for 6 months and we have only been going out for 10 months so I thought I'd have a little fun myself before confronting her "
yes but the problem is she could easily have 100 meets before you have one.all because she has a vagina and u dont .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women are special,don't you know that?

Cheating men are cunts,cheating women are married to a cunt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few ladies I have tried chatting to, who on their profile say they are on here without their partners permission, say that they are not interested because I have a girlfriend "

That's just hypocritical though!

Women who play away get slated too. Those that don't like it will pass you by, those that aren't bothered won't care and will message if attracted. A few sanctimonious busybodies will try to put you down.

It's really nobody's business but your own, so why does anyone else's opinion matter?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Why is it that it's ok for a women to be on here looking for fun, behind their partners back, but it's not ok for a man to be on here looking for fun behind their partners back? "

think that's a misconception..

of course some will think that way and vice versa but that certainly doesn't mean its 'ok'..

pretty sure that those who are not in favour of such things are consistent, regardless of gender..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few ladies I have tried chatting to, who on their profile say they are on here without their partners permission, say that they are not interested because I have a girlfriend

That's just hypocritical though!

Women who play away get slated too. Those that don't like it will pass you by, those that aren't bothered won't care and will message if attracted. A few sanctimonious busybodies will try to put you down.

It's really nobody's business but your own, so why does anyone else's opinion matter? "

or they'll call you a cunt!!

But their opinion is stupid and not worth bothering about!

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"Well it says that she has had her profile for 6 months and we have only been going out for 10 months so I thought I'd have a little fun myself before confronting her

Life's too short for stupid game playing,

You sound like a pair of kids "

Indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women or man.. either of them cheating is a cheater and 100% not for me sorry.. just a option I have each to their own x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both are as bad and need to borrow a pair and communicate with their partner maybe if they put as much effort into their relationship as they did into getting laid they would get it at home as well

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