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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just finished burning the last of the paperwork from 19 years of marriage.

19 years im 43 so near as makes no difference half my life to one woman.

Makes you think.

Oh well onwards and upwards I have my new life and saucy freinds

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By *ustfortonightMan
over a year ago

Kent

I've been there my friend, 11 years (I was 30) not as long, nor as much of my life.

Mixed emotions is an accurate description. But it is good to draw a line under it so the next chapter can begin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just finished burning the last of the paperwork from 19 years of marriage.

19 years im 43 so near as makes no difference half my life to one woman.

Makes you think.

Oh well onwards and upwards I have my new life and saucy freinds "

hope you find fun and happiness.. love the last B&W pic btw..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you say fella, onwards!

I can understand the mixed emotions but we can't change the past so go forth and have a great time! Good luck my friend

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just finished burning the last of the paperwork from 19 years of marriage.

19 years im 43 so near as makes no difference half my life to one woman.

Makes you think.

Oh well onwards and upwards I have my new life and saucy freinds

hope you find fun and happiness.. love the last B&W pic btw.."

Thank you

Why did you have to be so far away lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just finished burning the last of the paperwork from 19 years of marriage.

19 years im 43 so near as makes no difference half my life to one woman.

Makes you think.

Oh well onwards and upwards I have my new life and saucy freinds "

Good luck in your new life babe. I'm one year post break up after 10 years and my life is getting better every day.

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haha sheer bad luck!!!

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By *uddlybear2015Man
over a year ago

BEDFORD

Hope you didn't burn divorce papers? I had to get copies later on,its just another pain in the arse in the journey of life. Good Luck for your new future.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No I havent burned the divorce papers even though I wanted to.

Made me laugb as I need to keep them in a dafe place as I will need them if I remarry.

Hahahaha my solicitor is a bloody comedian. Like I will ever remarry (unless it was her. There is something extremely horny about my solicitor

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By *rMrs-Luv-ItCouple
over a year ago

cwmbranish

I have no idea where mine are or if i still have them

Talking of divorce does any of you know if i can just go back to my maiden name or am i stuck with married name with a ms in front

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I have no idea where mine are or if i still have them

Talking of divorce does any of you know if i can just go back to my maiden name or am i stuck with married name with a ms in front "

your legal surname is acquired in much the same way a new born acquires theirs. So use the surname you want to be known by and over time you acquire the legal right to it without spending lots of money and effort in court...

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Been divorced over 15 years now and as much as it killed me at the time I can honestly say it was the best thing to ever happen to me and I'm sure you will say the same in time

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By *rMrs-Luv-ItCouple
over a year ago

cwmbranish

Will i always have to use ms instead of miss ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I have no idea where mine are or if i still have them

Talking of divorce does any of you know if i can just go back to my maiden name or am i stuck with married name with a ms in front "

You can change your name to princess consuela if you want to. Just fill out a deed poll and you're done.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

To the OP... I could say, be thankful you both 'chose' this way to end your time together, rather than the shocker of your other half dying suddenly. That, my friend, is a real headfuck.

To the lady asking about name change after divorce, yes, of course you can change your name for the vast majority of people you deal with, and thats that (some gov departments will accept your decree absolut, if they have your maiden name on record.).

However, for banking purposes, they will not accept your decree absolut as proof of your desire to change your name,, you will need to change your name by deed poll - you can do that yourself for just under 40 quid. And it is entirely up to you whether you wish to be known as Ms or Miss.

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By *rMrs-Luv-ItCouple
over a year ago

cwmbranish

I thought there must have been some sort of paper work to do otherwise no matter what surname i used neither my birth certificate or divorce papers would be correct

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By *rMrs-Luv-ItCouple
over a year ago

cwmbranish


"To the OP... I could say, be thankful you both 'chose' this way to end your time together, rather than the shocker of your other half dying suddenly. That, my friend, is a real headfuck.

To the lady asking about name change after divorce, yes, of course you can change your name for the vast majority of people you deal with, and thats that (some gov departments will accept your decree absolut, if they have your maiden name on record.).

However, for banking purposes, they will not accept your decree absolut as proof of your desire to change your name,, you will need to change your name by deed poll - you can do that yourself for just under 40 quid. And it is entirely up to you whether you wish to be known as Ms or Miss."

Great thank you x

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

You can, as of tonight if you wish, decide to be known as Miss Joanna Fartpants.

Only the banks require proof... via deed poll.

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By *rMrs-Luv-ItCouple
over a year ago

cwmbranish

OP sorry for jumping on your thread

I wish you good luck with your new chapter in life x x

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By *rMrs-Luv-ItCouple
over a year ago

cwmbranish


"You can, as of tonight if you wish, decide to be known as Miss Joanna Fartpants.

Only the banks require proof... via deed poll. "

WOW hahaha we both blew up laughing when we saw Joanna fartpants my name is joanne i am also a bit of a farter at times

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton


"You can, as of tonight if you wish, decide to be known as Miss Joanna Fartpants.

Only the banks require proof... via deed poll.

WOW hahaha we both blew up laughing when we saw Joanna fartpants my name is joanne i am also a bit of a farter at times "

*polishes and puts away crystal ball....*

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Mixed Emotions - The Rolling Stones

www.youtube.com/watch?v=loNey3n6uuE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can, as of tonight if you wish, decide to be known as Miss Joanna Fartpants.

Only the banks require proof... via deed poll. "

And any government agency. DVLA, passport, DWP

That said it is still very straightforward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you didn't want to go as far as deed poll if you change your name back to your maiden name with dvla or passport etc then just use one of these as proof of id and open a new bank account in your new name...only thing you not supposed to change by deed poll is your forename if you have been christened. Some old archaic law involved I think...

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By *rMrs-Luv-ItCouple
over a year ago

cwmbranish


"You can, as of tonight if you wish, decide to be known as Miss Joanna Fartpants.

Only the banks require proof... via deed poll.

WOW hahaha we both blew up laughing when we saw Joanna fartpants my name is joanne i am also a bit of a farter at times

*polishes and puts away crystal ball....*

"

any chance of the lottery numbers ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 years from my marriage break up. Not divorced just yet but when I am there will be a party.

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