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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When members have naked or explicit pics on their profile?

I've seen a few profiles mentioning it and how they dismiss people who do.

Which I don't understand as this is a swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to know the person I'm meeting. Nor just what they look like fucking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I want to know the person I'm meeting. Nor just what they look like fucking. "

You can send pics privately. I mean on their public photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want more naked pics on profiles, especially of men's bums, torsos, thighs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When members have naked or explicit pics on their profile?

I've seen a few profiles mentioning it and how they dismiss people who do.

Which I don't understand as this is a swingers site "

We honestly never see the point of more than one cock photo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regardless of fab being a swingers site it puts me off big time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to know the person I'm meeting. Nor just what they look like fucking. "

Fuck that!! More naked pics, please!!!!

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Don't mind the naked body shots,

Your profile pic could be a life image, so is perfectly Ok...

The ones that look like the centrefold of gynecologists weekly or spot the disease quiz in lancet are the ones I dislike..

A fanny at full gape is not a sight to behold, jeez, I've seen prettier gunshot wounds.

And as for the bell end close up winking at you with its one good eye.. I'll pass thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When members have naked or explicit pics on their profile?

I've seen a few profiles mentioning it and how they dismiss people who do.

Which I don't understand as this is a swingers site

We honestly never see the point of more than one cock photo."

Could say the same about women posting the same lingerie shots but it doesn't put me off speaking to someone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A fanny at full gape is not a sight to behold, jeez, I've seen prettier gunshot wounds.

And as for the bell end close up winking at you with its one good eye.. I'll pass thanks"

Haha, I can't disagree with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When members have naked or explicit pics on their profile?

I've seen a few profiles mentioning it and how they dismiss people who do.

Which I don't understand as this is a swingers site

We honestly never see the point of more than one cock photo.

Could say the same about women posting the same lingerie shots but it doesn't put me off speaking to someone."

You asked for an opinion and we simply gave ours.

Everyone has a different _iew.

We guess the proof of whether they are any good or not is whether you have any success with them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I never disagreed with your opinion, I just said what I thought from a mans prospective when it comes to repetitive photos.

No need to be so hostile, stuck up or what.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of things put me off. It just means I'm not compatible with them.

Disrespectful people is a major turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How was I rude? I didn't even give any attitude wtf?

I've had enough meets thank you very much

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cranky old lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How was I rude? I didn't even give any attitude wtf?

I've had enough meets thank you very much"

Yet not one verification.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cranky old lady "

Funny enough we were just thinking another sad single guy with a poor profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe I don't show my verification's?

I didn't think a woman of your age would make such assumptions

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You keep saying 'we' but it's only you talking, ha.

Your clique must be sleeping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's getting hot in here

So take off all your clothes!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe I don't show my verification's?

I didn't think a woman of your age would make such assumptions "

Maybe no one is attracted to your fabulous profile.

Polite you call yourself.

Really??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry miss fitty, I didn't notice your array of attractive photos.

Phwoar

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I never have a clock pic on show!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Time for me to sleep.

*Puts down Readers Digest and knocks back a sherry*

Goodnight

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Woahh 145 _iews on a swingers site that's such an accomplishment. Well done.

As if you even felt the need to mention that, how pathetic

Night

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By *imky69Woman
over a year ago

heath hays

I think it's good to leave some things as as a suprise but I must like that face first then the body and anything after then is a bonus but dick pics do nothing for me as I have rarely seen a nice lol X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't put me off per say... As long as there were other pics too. I do go more for what a profile has to say, than pics though

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Anyway, back to the original point some people like to apply their imagination and not see everything up front. Which is fine. I personally like a mix, don't mind explicit shots and also think that naked/explicit can be attractive depending on the photo and/or subject and doesn't have to demonstrate a lack of imagination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like looking at cocks and fannys not listening to them!

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"When members have naked or explicit pics on their profile?

I've seen a few profiles mentioning it and how they dismiss people who do.

Which I don't understand as this is a swingers site "
Just because it is a swingers sute , it does not mean that the normal rules of behaviour ahould not apply.

Members are perfectly entitled to state on their profiles that they find expliciit photos off putting . It is their profile .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some like to use their imagination and some like to see the goods before they buy but post what pics you personally like; it's your profile. Just like it's theirs to state their preference.

You'll attract those more suited to and compatible with you.

Granted pics, whatever they may be of, can open the door but your personality can quickly close it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some peoples faces are offensive, some people's genitals are nicer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

Spoils the surprise...I want something to unwrap!

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

No it doesnt put me off. If youve got it flaunt it and even if you havnt got it you can still flaunt it if you wish on fabulous fab swingers.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I assume everyone here can shag, so I want photos that reveal how they look - so I form enough of an impression to feel whether I fancy them.

Some single users make the fatal mistake of having partners in pics taking more prominence.

Clear body shots, faces and optional extras. No blurred foggy mists or just the single guy's cock over or in an unknown female.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"some peoples faces are offensive, some people's genitals are nicer "

Best to show your best bits

I get messages from people who like my pictures but everyone likes different things, its a way of attracting your type of person and i wouldnt want to attract people who are easily offended thats for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like we are on the wrong site!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some photos or the quantity of the same kind of photos can put me off. Any photos of semen turn my stomach,even though I'm fine with it in person.

On a single male profile all photos showing mostly women's bodies or faces sucking a cock. I like seeing two people in photos,if both are fully visible; not a woman's back _iew and a cock disappearing up her arse/pussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all subjective, my idea of explicit could be somebody else's idea of tame.

I can tell a lot about a person from the photos they upload which is why I think you should just upload that you like, regardless of what you think the common consensus is.

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By *eon SaintsCouple
over a year ago

Citywest

Couldn't agree more

I would like to see more pics of the male half of a couple thou (not just his cock)! There's so many couple profiles that have lots of pics of the female partner and none of the male!! What's with that??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't agree more

I would like to see more pics of the male half of a couple thou (not just his cock)! There's so many couple profiles that have lots of pics of the female partner and none of the male!! What's with that?? "

This annoys C a lot.

She wants to see what is on offer for her too!.

The excuse is usually " he's camera shy ".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't agree more

I would like to see more pics of the male half of a couple thou (not just his cock)! There's so many couple profiles that have lots of pics of the female partner and none of the male!! What's with that?? "

Tits n minge 'sells' the profile better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends. As part of a profile with a mixture of well taken attractive photos? No problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm getting naked now to start painting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When members have naked or explicit pics on their profile?

I've seen a few profiles mentioning it and how they dismiss people who do.

Which I don't understand as this is a swingers site "

I'm not a fan of vulgarity and sone pictures to me are vulgar rather than erotic. It works both ways though and is just a filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"When members have naked or explicit pics on their profile?

I've seen a few profiles mentioning it and how they dismiss people who do.

Which I don't understand as this is a swingers site "

Not at all.

But I always get to know the people I meet - there are some people who look great but who I don't like as people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When members have naked or explicit pics on their profile?

I've seen a few profiles mentioning it and how they dismiss people who do.

Which I don't understand as this is a swingers site "

I think there is a difference between sexy pictures and sexually explicit pictures. Demonstrating sex appeal is a good way of finding finding playmates on the swing scene. I like men whose photos show them to be sexy. But IMO pictures of close up genetalia don't really portray that individual's sex appeal, and certainly doesn't tempt me sexually. And there are rather a lot of men who get kicks out of posting cock pics, as opposed to actually meeting. So the classic cock pic collection can be a good filter as to whether the individual is serious about this lifestyle. Yes it's a swingers site, so all in all I'd rather be out there swinging, not looking at pictures of willies that look like they've come out of an anatomy and physiology text book.

Mrs

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"When members have naked or explicit pics on their profile?

I've seen a few profiles mentioning it and how they dismiss people who do.

Which I don't understand as this is a swingers site

Not at all.

But I always get to know the people I meet - there are some people who look great but who I don't like as people. "

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Yikes..think I best keep my opinion to myself

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I dont look at many profiles but I prefer artistic

stylish pics. I don't like explicit pics but it's the profile owners choice and I don't think less of that individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to know the person I'm meeting. Nor just what they look like fucking.

Fuck that!! More naked pics, please!!!! "

I'm with these to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When members have naked or explicit pics on their profile?

I've seen a few profiles mentioning it and how they dismiss people who do.

Which I don't understand as this is a swingers site "

So what?

I don't want to see hundreds of pics of various women playing hide the sausage with a mans cock on his profile.., puts me right off

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By *eon SaintsCouple
over a year ago

Citywest

But isn't it fair to say that generally women are more picky than men? So it would stand to reason that their should be as many pics, if not more, of the male partner in a couples profile.

It would just make things so much easier if you knew what the full package was from the get go rather than having to constantly request photos of the other half

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the profile appeals it's nice to see the bodies accompanying the words - never enough pics of the male tho' ?

Anyone who _iews our profile and pics will see plenty of the f and a few of the m.

Explicit ? Personally I lurve when both are picced together - there'should only so many variations of cocktails pushy mouth !

We're hoping for a private photo shoot with sexy nix!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not overly fussed what pictures people care to display. Im meeting them not their photo album

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

But I do favour the sexy erotic and imaginative over the explicit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they're not composting a marrow up their vag I'm happy.

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